Also we do not accept cash as a deposit method so i could not have possibly kidnap your "money"
Ok. Now you are just being an obtuse asshole arguing semantics.
Did you ever stop to consider that someone could have very well spent real world fiat, to purchase the cryptocurrency required to "invest" with you ?
Do we have to spell everything out for you, for crying out loud ?
If I might ask, which service did you use to find your mail-order bride ? Did they accept Bitcoins ?