Do you blame someone for your gambling losses?

[retreat]

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Our friend should already know the risks that playing gambling can cause the loss of money, so he must be aware of it by not using a lot of money to gamble. It is the responsibility of each of us to take care of ourselves and not play gambling if we don't want to lose money. We also don't need to follow them to the casino if we know they will be there, so we don't lose money. That's what's better for us and they also don't have to feel guilty for asking us to gamble. Our relationship will also be fine and there will be no problems because we understand each other among friends.

That's right. Most gamblers who lose often blame their friends who invite them to play because of their losses. Even though we know that for any loss we experience, we should be responsible ourselves, don't pass it on to other people. It's true that we are invited to play by friends or whoever it is, but it's us who want it, we can just refuse and there's nothing wrong with that. That's why every loss in the game is our loss, no need to blame other people.

[slapper]

Blaming others is not usually the right attitude to have in gambling or anything else really. Sure, some things might actually be other people’s fault, but by blaming them instead of figuring out how YOU could have had a different outcome will keep you from learning and bettering yourself. Always look at what you could have changed.

Some people are still with baby mindset that they would always wanna find a way to blame people surrounding them for their misfortune as a way to feel alright, as that has been their own way of getting things out of their mind. But that's isn't the  right way to do things as such could create a feeling of guilt among your clique. For the fact that I invited you to tag along with me to the gambling house and you got there with me and decides to gamble and loss doesn't mean I should chest the blame, your indiscipline cost you your loss. I only said escort me bro.

Our friend should already know the risks that playing gambling can cause the loss of money, so he must be aware of it by not using a lot of money to gamble. It is the responsibility of each of us to take care of ourselves and not play gambling if we don't want to lose money. We also don't need to follow them to the casino if we know they will be there, so we don't lose money. That's what's better for us and they also don't have to feel guilty for asking us to gamble. Our relationship will also be fine and there will be no problems because we understand each other among friends.

Your stance sketches an idyllic portrait of personal accountability, implying that everyone should comprehend the perils of high-risk activities. However, it downplays the impact of societal and peer pressures, which can wield significant power among friends. Differences in self-awareness and emotional maturity make some more vulnerable to troubles like gambling. Moreover, the idea that sidestepping gambling hotspots can avert losses fails to acknowledge that gambling is no longer a physical space issue. Online casinos have made gambling a constant possibility, accessible anywhere, through our smartphones. To promote a balanced mindset, we should shift our efforts towards risk awareness and bolstering emotional resilience and discernment to withstand harmful influences.

[milewilda]

Blaming others is not usually the right attitude to have in gambling or anything else really. Sure, some things might actually be other people’s fault, but by blaming them instead of figuring out how YOU could have had a different outcome will keep you from learning and bettering yourself. Always look at what you could have changed.

Some people are still with baby mindset that they would always wanna find a way to blame people surrounding them for their misfortune as a way to feel alright, as that has been their own way of getting things out of their mind. But that's isn't the  right way to do things as such could create a feeling of guilt among your clique. For the fact that I invited you to tag along with me to the gambling house and you got there with me and decides to gamble and loss doesn't mean I should chest the blame, your indiscipline cost you your loss. I only said escort me bro.

Our friend should already know the risks that playing gambling can cause the loss of money, so he must be aware of it by not using a lot of money to gamble. It is the responsibility of each of us to take care of ourselves and not play gambling if we don't want to lose money. We also don't need to follow them to the casino if we know they will be there, so we don't lose money. That's what's better for us and they also don't have to feel guilty for asking us to gamble. Our relationship will also be fine and there will be no problems because we understand each other among friends.

As it should be on which it is really just that right that they should really be knowing about the risks on the time that they would really be stepping themselves on the time that they do gamble so that they would really be
that aware that this kind of activity would really be pertaining about losing money in most cases. They shouldnt really be having that kind of confidence that they could make money out of it because this isnt how this
field works because if you do have that kind of perception and assuming that you cant really lose money and instead winning then on the time that reality would slap into your face then you would really be most likely
be blaming out someone on what you have done or on the time that you do lose money which is something that you shouldnt really do in the first place. We know that gambling is for fun and winning is really just
that a bonus on the entertainment that you had get which supposedly your main thing that you should mind on rather than on having an income.

[JoyMarsha]

This is very terrible for a mother and son to be into gambling to the extent of losing a good sum of money, only to find whom to blame for their losses. This is like eating with the devil and finding the righteous to blame for your downfall. 

The mother and son must be mentally derailed and a joker for them to think of accusing someone with false accusations without thinking that the court won't trace what occurred.

This kind of case should have been treated as a criminal act not by telling them to pay a fine of 150,000. If they have succeeded in their plans, the accused person would have  paid them the said amount they claimed they lost in their Opay account($8k)

[macson]

As it should be on which it is really just that right that they should really be knowing about the risks on the time that they would really be stepping themselves on the time that they do gamble so that they would really be
that aware that this kind of activity would really be pertaining about losing money in most cases. They shouldnt really be having that kind of confidence that they could make money out of it because this isnt how this
field works because if you do have that kind of perception and assuming that you cant really lose money and instead winning then on the time that reality would slap into your face then you would really be most likely
be blaming out someone on what you have done or on the time that you do lose money which is something that you shouldnt really do in the first place. We know that gambling is for fun and winning is really just
that a bonus on the entertainment that you had get which supposedly your main thing that you should mind on rather than on having an income.

blaming other people for your bad losses at gambling is clear evidence that have low emotional intelligence, if i meet people like this then i will continue to mock them by calling them "stupid people"

the first rule that must be considered the first time when going to gamble is that gambling is a game full of risks and whatever it is, make gambling only as a medium for your entertainment, so you can accept defeat when it happens, don't ever feel like you are being cheated when you lose gambling because everything happens for the decision you made at the beginning.

[GiftedMAN]

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Our friend should already know the risks that playing gambling can cause the loss of money, so he must be aware of it by not using a lot of money to gamble. It is the responsibility of each of us to take care of ourselves and not play gambling if we don't want to lose money. We also don't need to follow them to the casino if we know they will be there, so we don't lose money. That's what's better for us and they also don't have to feel guilty for asking us to gamble. Our relationship will also be fine and there will be no problems because we understand each other among friends.

That's right. Most gamblers who lose often blame their friends who invite them to play because of their losses. Even though we know that for any loss we experience, we should be responsible ourselves, don't pass it on to other people. It's true that we are invited to play by friends or whoever it is, but it's us who want it, we can just refuse and there's nothing wrong with that. That's why every loss in the game is our loss, no need to blame other people.

IMO, I think it is unwise for someone not to accept responsibility for doing something wrong, yes you can be introduced to gamble by a friend but it is your right to decide to play or not and when you have decided to pla, since your in for the money the outcome of the encounter should be handled by the player and not the person who introduced them. It is a norm for people to be frustrated when they lose in a bet but it is foolishness for someone to blame another person who didn't waste the money with them of being the reason they lost in gambling because if they have won, the glory will go the the winner and not the person who introduced him or her to gambling.

[ethereumhunter]

That's right. Most gamblers who lose often blame their friends who invite them to play because of their losses. Even though we know that for any loss we experience, we should be responsible ourselves, don't pass it on to other people. It's true that we are invited to play by friends or whoever it is, but it's us who want it, we can just refuse and there's nothing wrong with that. That's why every loss in the game is our loss, no need to blame other people.

We can refuse an invitation to gamble from our friends, but most of us feel bad about rejecting it, so we decide to play along. And from there, the problem arises where when we play to have fun instead, we want to get a win which we already know is not easy. And it is our losses that we will bear, while our friends may also bear the same or even greater losses than us. But if we can control ourselves, I don't think we will experience too big a loss because we are just taking the time to gamble.

Your stance sketches an idyllic portrait of personal accountability, implying that everyone should comprehend the perils of high-risk activities. However, it downplays the impact of societal and peer pressures, which can wield significant power among friends. Differences in self-awareness and emotional maturity make some more vulnerable to troubles like gambling. Moreover, the idea that sidestepping gambling hotspots can avert losses fails to acknowledge that gambling is no longer a physical space issue. Online casinos have made gambling a constant possibility, accessible anywhere, through our smartphones. To promote a balanced mindset, we should shift our efforts towards risk awareness and bolstering emotional resilience and discernment to withstand harmful influences.

Indeed, everyone must understand the risks of our friendships over the years because there are bound to be friends who can have a bad influence on us. But surely some friends can give us a good influence. This is where we have to be able to choose who to be friends with and it is our own choice to determine who can be our friend. And if our friends are a bad influence by always inviting us to gamble, we can refuse them for various reasons so they won't invite us again. We determine when we gamble and not because of other people's invitations. Otherwise, we can fall deeper into gambling; when that happens, we will have difficulty recovering.

As it should be on which it is really just that right that they should really be knowing about the risks on the time that they would really be stepping themselves on the time that they do gamble so that they would really be
that aware that this kind of activity would really be pertaining about losing money in most cases. They shouldnt really be having that kind of confidence that they could make money out of it because this isnt how this
field works because if you do have that kind of perception and assuming that you cant really lose money and instead winning then on the time that reality would slap into your face then you would really be most likely
be blaming out someone on what you have done or on the time that you do lose money which is something that you shouldnt really do in the first place. We know that gambling is for fun and winning is really just
that a bonus on the entertainment that you had get which supposedly your main thing that you should mind on rather than on having an income.

When we decide to gamble, we already know that we can lose money, even a large amount, especially if we can't control ourselves while gambling. And if we gamble because friends invite us, we shouldn't blame them because they only invite us and we can decide to refuse if we don't want to lose money. It is everyone's choice and others cannot force what they say. But that's what happens when we often blame others even though it's our fault because we chose it. We don't want to understand that they are only inviting and the decision to participate in gambling remains in our hands.

[Rabata]

When we decide to gamble, we already know that we can lose money, even a large amount, especially if we can't control ourselves while gambling. And if we gamble because friends invite us, we shouldn't blame them because they only invite us and we can decide to refuse if we don't want to lose money. It is everyone's choice and others cannot force what they say. But that's what happens when we often blame others even though it's our fault because we chose it. We don't want to understand that they are only inviting and the decision to participate in gambling remains in our hands.

It is our own responsibility to control our self in gambling as well as to make good and bad decisions. It is not exceptional for a gambler friend to invite in gambling. But we should analyze that gambling issue carefully. Moreover, since our friend is not the owner of my assets, there is no obligation to rely on that policy. In gambling, some times it is said that it is better to lose with our own strategy. So we definitely consider the advice of others but should give priority to our own decision. Decisions given by others can be accepted but there is no place to blame if we lose.

[len01]

We can refuse an invitation to gamble from our friends, but most of us feel bad about rejecting it, so we decide to play along. And from there, the problem arises where when we play to have fun instead, we want to get a win which we already know is not easy. And it is our losses that we will bear, while our friends may also bear the same or even greater losses than us. But if we can control ourselves, I don't think we will experience too big a loss because we are just taking the time to gamble.

why should it be uncomfortable when rejecting an invitation from a friend? if that happens to me, of course I will subtly refuse not to gamble because for me when gambling with friends let alone bringing more money of course the money will lose and on the one hand other problems will arise when gambling with friends we can't refuse it and after that your friend's money will run out first and borrow from you but you also feel bad that you finally lend your money and after that you and your friend lose all the money you have.
after that I'm sure you will feel sorry for having accepted your friend's invitation to gamble together but it's okay it will only be a valuable experience and again my advice is to refuse an invitation to gamble it's a bad thing but if you feel bad go gamble with friends you bring money that you have determined can afford to lose with a small amount. don't let us be enemies with friends just because we borrow money to gamble.

[ethereumhunter]

It is our own responsibility to control our self in gambling as well as to make good and bad decisions. It is not exceptional for a gambler friend to invite in gambling. But we should analyze that gambling issue carefully. Moreover, since our friend is not the owner of my assets, there is no obligation to rely on that policy. In gambling, some times it is said that it is better to lose with our own strategy. So we definitely consider the advice of others but should give priority to our own decision. Decisions given by others can be accepted but there is no place to blame if we lose.

In gambling, we really have to be responsible for ourselves and not use a lot of money to gamble so that we don't lose too much. And when we want to analyze one or several matches, we have to do it ourselves and not depend on others so that if we lose, we don't blame other people. And I agree with you in using our own strategy instead of someone else's because we don't know how good their strategy is. And everything will be our decision in gambling so that we will be wiser.

why should it be uncomfortable when rejecting an invitation from a friend? if that happens to me, of course I will subtly refuse not to gamble because for me when gambling with friends let alone bringing more money of course the money will lose and on the one hand other problems will arise when gambling with friends we can't refuse it and after that your friend's money will run out first and borrow from you but you also feel bad that you finally lend your money and after that you and your friend lose all the money you have.
after that I'm sure you will feel sorry for having accepted your friend's invitation to gamble together but it's okay it will only be a valuable experience and again my advice is to refuse an invitation to gamble it's a bad thing but if you feel bad go gamble with friends you bring money that you have determined can afford to lose with a small amount. don't let us be enemies with friends just because we borrow money to gamble.

Because that's what happens to many people. Sometimes I feel it too but other times, I'll turn it down especially if I have other things I'm working on. And for now, I'm trying to spend less time hanging out with friends who often gamble because I don't want to gamble too often. I'm also in the process of reducing my gambling time so I can start saving more money.

Yes, I already feel remorse for losing money at gambling because of a friend's invitation. And I didn't want that to happen again, so I set boundaries with friends. I also don't want to be hostile to my friends just because of an invitation to gamble. I prefer to stay at home doing other things for now.

[coinerer]

When we decide to gamble, we already know that we can lose money, even a large amount, especially if we can't control ourselves while gambling. And if we gamble because friends invite us, we shouldn't blame them because they only invite us and we can decide to refuse if we don't want to lose money. It is everyone's choice and others cannot force what they say. But that's what happens when we often blame others even though it's our fault because we chose it. We don't want to understand that they are only inviting and the decision to participate in gambling remains in our hands.

It is our own responsibility to control our self in gambling as well as to make good and bad decisions. It is not exceptional for a gambler friend to invite in gambling. But we should analyze that gambling issue carefully. Moreover, since our friend is not the owner of my assets, there is no obligation to rely on that policy. In gambling, some times it is said that it is better to lose with our own strategy. So we definitely consider the advice of others but should give priority to our own decision. Decisions given by others can be accepted but there is no place to blame if we lose.

If you develop financially like don't give your share to anyone it seems you can't blame anyone for your financial loss be it due to gambling or from any other sector. you have to take full responsibility for it yourself. So it is your responsibility to control yourself.  If you jump into a sector on the advice of others or see other people's development without any personal research and if you panic after seeing someone else's profit in gambling and start gambling without any personal research, then you will definitely face big losses and the responsibility is your own. you can't blame anyone for having to take it. this is only truth

[LUCKMCFLY]

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There is a state of mind of a person when they play, first they become very positive and think that they will win all the time, the second state is that as long as they have a lot of money they will always think they are going to win big, and yes, they can at the same time become very sensitive Your senses can be sharpened and you can listen and do many things, including letting yourself be carried away by some advice from friends or something like that, but the bad thing is that when something goes wrong and if it was someone's advice, the player will remain in his head that If you had not listened to your friend, what would have happened? would i lose anyway? or would he have won? maybe he would have won, but it is a scenario that we don't know, maybe he would have lost, those things change with respect to our decisions, that's how gambling is.

The person making the wager is the one who ultimately bears the responsibility. Every decision in gambling carries its own repercussion. The influence of others on our decisions emphasizes the multifaceted nature of gambling psychology. Our choices are often a fusion of personal discernment and societal pulls. The mental states you discussed, like overconfidence or optimism, are typical among gamblers, often leading to a higher susceptibility to external forces. But, in the grand scheme, the gambler is the one who should own up to the consequences, regardless of the hand they're dealt.

It is like that, that is why I have always thought that when a person sits down to play in a casino, they are responsible for their actions, firstly because things are not as they are painted, a person who has their money and decides to risk is only responsible for that person no one else, I could receive advice or not, but he is in that person if he does what others tell him, because if they tell me to jump into a ravine, obviously I will not do it, something like that is with this, we cannot let ourselves be carried away by what what others say and also it is not very good to blame someone for a particular piece of advice, in the game we are Responsible for our Actions.

Personally, as we are here in the forum, we have a good advantage, because obviously what we do is give us feedback on this type of case in order to have more experience when playing, or at least more information, if we could have more knowledge it is Better, there are many who enter looking for strategies and ways to make money, it's understandable, but the psychological part is very important, it's the one I give the most importance to because it's from there in our minds that ideas come out to be better as players.

[dunfida]

When we decide to gamble, we already know that we can lose money, even a large amount, especially if we can't control ourselves while gambling. And if we gamble because friends invite us, we shouldn't blame them because they only invite us and we can decide to refuse if we don't want to lose money. It is everyone's choice and others cannot force what they say. But that's what happens when we often blame others even though it's our fault because we chose it. We don't want to understand that they are only inviting and the decision to participate in gambling remains in our hands.

It is our own responsibility to control our self in gambling as well as to make good and bad decisions. It is not exceptional for a gambler friend to invite in gambling. But we should analyze that gambling issue carefully. Moreover, since our friend is not the owner of my assets, there is no obligation to rely on that policy. In gambling, some times it is said that it is better to lose with our own strategy. So we definitely consider the advice of others but should give priority to our own decision. Decisions given by others can be accepted but there is no place to blame if we lose.

If you develop financially like don't give your share to anyone it seems you can't blame anyone for your financial loss be it due to gambling or from any other sector. you have to take full responsibility for it yourself. So it is your responsibility to control yourself.  If you jump into a sector on the advice of others or see other people's development without any personal research and if you panic after seeing someone else's profit in gambling and start gambling without any personal research, then you will definitely face big losses and the responsibility is your own. you can't blame anyone for having to take it. this is only truth

Gambling should really be for fun and not something on making it as an income source or on making yourself that rich because if these are the things that you do really have in mind, then you would really be definitely be finding yourself into trouble later on on the time that you would be spending like a mad man or ending up on having that huge loss due to bad decisions that you are making. There's no sense on pointing out your fingers into other people and blaming into your losses because they have done nothing in the first place.It is really on your own self will on why you have make out such gambling decision and its your money then your rules to make and on the time that you do lose then there's no other one to be blame but yourself.

This is why its important that you should really gonna make use of the amount which you can afford to lose or something that you do allocate for gambling.

[Jody.Drummer]

Gambling should really be for fun and not something on making it as an income source or on making yourself that rich because if these are the things that you do really have in mind, then you would really be definitely be finding yourself into trouble later on on the time that you would be spending like a mad man or ending up on having that huge loss due to bad decisions that you are making. There's no sense on pointing out your fingers into other people and blaming into your losses because they have done nothing in the first place.It is really on your own self will on why you have make out such gambling decision and its your money then your rules to make and on the time that you do lose then there's no other one to be blame but yourself.

This is why its important that you should really gonna make use of the amount which you can afford to lose or something that you do allocate for gambling.

All decisions are ours to make, so blaming others for our own gambling losses is strange. I often meet people who don't gamble, when I tell them to try gambling, they refuse and there is no right for me to force them. What I want to say from my experience is that everything is our decision, we deposit, we play and the risk of losing must be borne by ourselves of course.
If there is someone who blames others for their losses, I assume that they are out of control which indicates they may have become addicts.

[slapper]

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Gambling should really be for fun and not something on making it as an income source or on making yourself that rich because if these are the things that you do really have in mind, then you would really be definitely be finding yourself into trouble later on on the time that you would be spending like a mad man or ending up on having that huge loss due to bad decisions that you are making. There's no sense on pointing out your fingers into other people and blaming into your losses because they have done nothing in the first place.It is really on your own self will on why you have make out such gambling decision and its your money then your rules to make and on the time that you do lose then there's no other one to be blame but yourself.

This is why its important that you should really gonna make use of the amount which you can afford to lose or something that you do allocate for gambling.

You say gambling should be for fun, not money. This seems smart and safe. Isn't it narrow-minded? Like the stock market, gambling is complicated by risk-return. Overspending can be disastrous. If risk management, odds, and discipline are applied, might it be a legitimate revenue source? It's okay to blame others for mistakes. One gets what one sows - good and bad. Players must accept this to gamble responsibly. Creating a gambling fund is smart. It keeps one grounded and limits harm. Let us not discount its financial benefits to those who approach it with the right mindset and effort.

[Aikidoka]

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Our friend should already know the risks that playing gambling can cause the loss of money, so he must be aware of it by not using a lot of money to gamble. It is the responsibility of each of us to take care of ourselves and not play gambling if we don't want to lose money. We also don't need to follow them to the casino if we know they will be there, so we don't lose money. That's what's better for us and they also don't have to feel guilty for asking us to gamble. Our relationship will also be fine and there will be no problems because we understand each other among friends.

That's right. Most gamblers who lose often blame their friends who invite them to play because of their losses. Even though we know that for any loss we experience, we should be responsible ourselves, don't pass it on to other people. It's true that we are invited to play by friends or whoever it is, but it's us who want it, we can just refuse and there's nothing wrong with that. That's why every loss in the game is our loss, no need to blame other people.

Exactly. Since you made the decision to gamble even if someone encouraged you to do so it is ultimately your responsibility because you had the choice to reject the offer from the beginning. Therefore, there is no need to blame anyone for something you did willingly without being forced. Personally, I never blame anyone for my gambling losses and I will never do so because it feels really bad and embarrassing to shift that responsibility onto others. If you're experiencing losses it's important to accept them as they are and not project your negative experience onto others, whether they are friends, family, or anyone else.

[Josefjix]

All decisions are ours to make, so blaming others for our own gambling losses is strange. I often meet people who don't gamble, when I tell them to try gambling, they refuse and there is no right for me to force them. What I want to say from my experience is that everything is our decision, we deposit, we play and the risk of losing must be borne by ourselves of course.
If there is someone who blames others for their losses, I assume that they are out of control which indicates they may have become addicts.

Taking risks is part of gambling activities; we confront numerous problems in this space, but as we expand their experience, we become more accustomed to them as if they were nothing; these are genuine truths ruling the system. We must accept responsibility for our actions, not the other way around. Every time we blame someone else for our gambling losses, we're one step closer to incurring more losses. We notice the mistakes, but we don't want to be blamed, so we continue to do the same mistake, which inevitably results in our losses.

[Jody.Drummer]

All decisions are ours to make, so blaming others for our own gambling losses is strange. I often meet people who don't gamble, when I tell them to try gambling, they refuse and there is no right for me to force them. What I want to say from my experience is that everything is our decision, we deposit, we play and the risk of losing must be borne by ourselves of course.
If there is someone who blames others for their losses, I assume that they are out of control which indicates they may have become addicts.

Taking risks is part of gambling activities; we confront numerous problems in this space, but as we expand their experience, we become more accustomed to them as if they were nothing; these are genuine truths ruling the system. We must accept responsibility for our actions, not the other way around. Every time we blame someone else for our gambling losses, we're one step closer to incurring more losses. We notice the mistakes, but we don't want to be blamed, so we continue to do the same mistake, which inevitably results in our losses.

That is the point, every what we do is our responsibility, whether it is detrimental or profitable we must accept because it is part of the risk that from the beginning should have been a commitment when going to do gambling. We can see from other people's experiences, what happened to them and what they felt that we will definitely experience if we are in the same space (when we are both gamblers). Other people win, we will definitely feel the victory even though the chances are small, other people lose in gambling and we will also be the same because something that is certain in gambling is defeat.

[nullama]

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Taking risks is part of gambling activities; we confront numerous problems in this space, but as we expand their experience, we become more accustomed to them as if they were nothing; these are genuine truths ruling the system. We must accept responsibility for our actions, not the other way around. Every time we blame someone else for our gambling losses, we're one step closer to incurring more losses. We notice the mistakes, but we don't want to be blamed, so we continue to do the same mistake, which inevitably results in our losses.

Yeah, that's fair enough.

You're right, whenever people blame others for their "bad luck", or whatever bad happened to them, there's really no way forward because they don't have anything to change. "It was someone else's fault", so they cannot change themselves to fix the situation.

It's a bad mindset to be honest, and it doesn't provide the people the ability to change and become better.

[maydna]

Since you made the decision to gamble even if someone encouraged you to do so it is ultimately your responsibility because you had the choice to reject the offer from the beginning. Therefore, there is no need to blame anyone for something you did willingly without being forced. Personally, I never blame anyone for my gambling losses and I will never do so because it feels really bad and embarrassing to shift that responsibility onto others. If you're experiencing losses it's important to accept them as they are and not project your negative experience onto others, whether they are friends, family, or anyone else.

And it's better for us to refuse than later we will regret that we wasted money on gambling. This often happens because of an invitation from someone our friend, but if we can refuse it smoothly, we won't experience anything bad and just let them experience it. But if we can accept the risks in playing gambling, we can try it but only use the money we can afford so that we won't regret or be disappointed because we gambled. And the most important thing is that we don't blame the people who asked us to gamble because it is our responsibility if we accept their invitation to gamble.