Do you blame someone for your gambling losses?

[boyptc]

Reading the excuse of that mother after a year still sounds crazy. When you're addicted, you don't find excuses when you're busted by your own addiction.

If I lose, I'll keep quiet and won't brag about it because that's the most shy thing to brag with.

We don't brag losses and that's why it's just best to be silent and do nothing and try again on the next day. No need to find fault from others, accept losses.

[Hirose UK]

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We should not blame other people for what we experience in gambling games because in deciding to gamble, we think about it first before deciding. Other people will not force us to gamble, especially if they know we cannot control ourselves well. They might just say that gambling can give them pleasure so we have to think that we might not be able to have as much fun as they do. Apart from that, we also have to think about the risks of gambling so that we don't risk losing our money. We gamble and experience defeat as a result of our decisions in gambling and it has nothing to do with other people. We can only act wisely in responding to gambling and don't need to follow other people's invitations to gamble so that we will be fine and won't lose money like them.

It is true that gambling is an activity that is full of risks and the risk is losing money, every gambler must be able to accept the risks they take and every gambler must be willing to lose money if they decide to start gambling.
Blaming other people for losses or losses that get is very inappropriate and we gamble without any coercion from anyone, so when we lose, the best step is to learn and try to accept it.
Every bad experience will have positive impact if we can take the positive side, this will be related to much better results in the future and of course we will not feel regret or blame other people when we experience defeat.
A gambler who cannot accept defeat and blames other people or even blames the gambling site for the defeat he suffers can clearly be said to be an amateur gambler, he still needs to learn lot and gather experience before he really dares to take betting risks.

Decision making is the tool that most often makes gamblers make mistakes, they don't think long and consider what will happen with the steps they will take.
This is mistake that is quite fatal and often occurs among gamblers, but it is very funny when you see gambler who bravely and enthusiastically gambles suddenly feels angry and blames anyone, including the gambling site, when he gets detrimental result.

[len01]

And when he loses, that is the risk of gambling, and if he doesn't want to lose, he should not gamble and leave gambling forever so that he can be free from that loss. Unfortunately, it won't be as easy as it says because when someone has started gambling, there will be a feeling of wanting to gamble again, and this can get worse depending on one's self-control. And when they get too deep into gambling, they will find it difficult to stop themselves from gambling. So they actually can't blame other people for gambling because it was their own choice to want to gamble and feel the sensation of gambling. People like that have to experience loss before realizing that what they did was wrong and trying to fix it, even though it is difficult.

a common problem that gamblers often do is when they don't want to lose but they still gamble but when they lose they brag and blame other parties and this is a very ridiculous incident that gamblers often do.
I understand that there are gamblers like this, in fact almost all the gamblers I know still have this kind of character when they don't want to lose or lose, they keep betting because in their brain they have the assumption that they want to try to get a big win even though logically their mind already says it's impossible to win big while being unlucky and gamblers like this are like going against their own minds who don't want to gamble and are forced to do so.

the feeling of wanting to continue gambling actually only depends on your mindset and for me, if a gambler has a good mindset, of course when he wants to gamble again he will firmly adhere to the guidelines in his own mind not to gamble anymore and secure his budget so he can gamble responsibly.

[Shamm]

Reading the excuse of that mother after a year still sounds crazy. When you're addicted, you don't find excuses when you're busted by your own addiction.

If I lose, I'll keep quiet and won't brag about it because that's the most shy thing to brag with.

We don't brag losses and that's why it's just best to be silent and do nothing and try again on the next day. No need to find fault from others, accept losses.

Those gambler how actually blame others when they are in losses then that's not normal. cause why you involve in gambling and then once you are in rouble or in losses you start blaming other person which pretty bad idea. Cause when you are lucky then you will win but if you are too unlucky then you will loss a lot of money.  And you are the one who are driven yourself so there no one to blame if you got mistakes.

[Fredomago]

Reading the excuse of that mother after a year still sounds crazy. When you're addicted, you don't find excuses when you're busted by your own addiction.

If I lose, I'll keep quiet and won't brag about it because that's the most shy thing to brag with.

We don't brag losses and that's why it's just best to be silent and do nothing and try again on the next day. No need to find fault from others, accept losses.

Those gambler how actually blame others when they are in losses then that's not normal. cause why you involve in gambling and then once you are in rouble or in losses you start blaming other person which pretty bad idea. Cause when you are lucky then you will win but if you are too unlucky then you will loss a lot of money.  And you are the one who are driven yourself so there no one to blame if you got mistakes.

When they are in the winning side they don't find anyone to point their fingers and enjoy everything,  but once they start suffering from a losing streaks that's the time they will start putting that blame to other people, a common reaction with people who can't accept the fact that they already suffering from addiction,  they wanted to look for a good excuse and unable to accept everything happened is because of their uncontrolled behavior towards gambling.

This story shows how a person can't accept the reality,  that you can lose everything when you overspend your money in this venue of entertainment,  once addiction conquered everything inside your mind and you are unwilling to accept it, you'll do everything to find that escape goat and try to put the blame to other people.

[Quidat]

Reading the excuse of that mother after a year still sounds crazy. When you're addicted, you don't find excuses when you're busted by your own addiction.

If I lose, I'll keep quiet and won't brag about it because that's the most shy thing to brag with.

We don't brag losses and that's why it's just best to be silent and do nothing and try again on the next day. No need to find fault from others, accept losses.

Those gambler how actually blame others when they are in losses then that's not normal. cause why you involve in gambling and then once you are in rouble or in losses you start blaming other person which pretty bad idea. Cause when you are lucky then you will win but if you are too unlucky then you will loss a lot of money.  And you are the one who are driven yourself so there no one to blame if you got mistakes.

When they are in the winning side they don't find anyone to point their fingers and enjoy everything,  but once they start suffering from a losing streaks that's the time they will start putting that blame to other people, a common reaction with people who can't accept the fact that they already suffering from addiction,  they wanted to look for a good excuse and unable to accept everything happened is because of their uncontrolled behavior towards gambling.

This story shows how a person can't accept the reality,  that you can lose everything when you overspend your money in this venue of entertainment,  once addiction conquered everything inside your mind and you are unwilling to accept it, you'll do everything to find that escape goat and try to put the blame to other people.

A very common human being behavior on which you would really be that loving on pointing out your fingers into those people whom you do believe that they are the ones who are the reason
for you to lose without even trying to look into yourself on what you have done on which you are actually the ones who are really that not having that kind of easy acceptance of their own mistakes but rather they would really be loving in trying out to blame others on the things that they are currently experiencing on which its never been that appealing to look at but rather
its laughable.

This is why it would really be that always best that you should really be that realizing on what gambling is and what are the things that you could be able to encounter
and experience on which it would really be just that normal that you should really be acting out accordingly and not just simply blaming out
someone because you've been that unfortunate on your gambling activity.

[1000winss]

Shitty squads lol. How come Stuttgart is one of the top 4 teams in Bundesliga this year, yet they play so shitty against Bochum lol? Managed to single handedly knock down what I dubbed the best XFUN parlay of the year so far

[bbigtart]

Of course not, why do you blame others for your stupidity, it's your fault why your money runs out and you always lose. It's bad to blame others especially if they don't do anything, you have to control your emotions if you behave this way because it's not good.

Yup! your money, your rules. You can't blame others for your actions because first of all, they don't force you to follow their advices. You have to make your own decisions, It's your fault whatever happens to your money because when it comes to this matter, you should be the only one who has the right to handle your finances.  In fact, we are actually getting to the point where even though we know we are wrong, we still look for someone else to blame because we can't accept the fact that we made the mistake and that's the truth.

In my opinion, blaming other people will actually make things worse. Apart from losing money, you will also hate other people. I agree with you, be responsible with what you decide with your money and your rules.

Never blame other people in making gambling decisions, whether winning or losing. Every gambler must have their own strategy, this is what is called an intelligent gambler. Usually people blame other people for gambling because they are not confident in gambling games so that all their gambling decisions are the result of other people's analysis. Actually, there is no problem taking cheat results or other people's analysis, but you also have to have your own analysis so you can make a decision between the two analyses.

[nullama]

Reading the excuse of that mother after a year still sounds crazy. When you're addicted, you don't find excuses when you're busted by your own addiction.

If I lose, I'll keep quiet and won't brag about it because that's the most shy thing to brag with.

We don't brag losses and that's why it's just best to be silent and do nothing and try again on the next day. No need to find fault from others, accept losses.

Yeah, that's how a great life can be achieved, by taking full responsibility of your actions and their outcomes.

No one else is responsible of your life other than yourself.

And that's a great thing because you can change yourself, but you can't change others.

[ethereumhunter]

It is true that gambling is an activity that is full of risks and the risk is losing money, every gambler must be able to accept the risks they take and every gambler must be willing to lose money if they decide to start gambling.
Blaming other people for losses or losses that get is very inappropriate and we gamble without any coercion from anyone, so when we lose, the best step is to learn and try to accept it.
Every bad experience will have positive impact if we can take the positive side, this will be related to much better results in the future and of course we will not feel regret or blame other people when we experience defeat.
A gambler who cannot accept defeat and blames other people or even blames the gambling site for the defeat he suffers can clearly be said to be an amateur gambler, he still needs to learn lot and gather experience before he really dares to take betting risks.

Decision making is the tool that most often makes gamblers make mistakes, they don't think long and consider what will happen with the steps they will take.
This is mistake that is quite fatal and often occurs among gamblers, but it is very funny when you see gambler who bravely and enthusiastically gambles suddenly feels angry and blames anyone, including the gambling site, when he gets detrimental result.

However, if someone has decided to gamble, he must realize that gambling has risks, and he must be able to accept whatever the risk is and only take risks that he can afford. So he only needs to gamble a few times because there is a risk of losing that money and he can only gamble with the money he can afford. This is to avoid the regret that comes when he has finished gambling when he sees the remaining money he has. Many gamblers regret having lost a lot of money while they couldn't win because that's how gambling is. Gambling cannot always give us a win and gambling can even take all our money if we cannot control ourselves. And when we have experienced defeat, we don't need to blame other people because they have invited us to gamble. After all, it is our responsibility when we decide to gamble.

The decision to gamble or not to gamble comes from us. Even if a friend invites us to gamble, the decision is still in our hands. If we cannot accept losing money from gambling, we should not gamble. So it's funny if people still blame others for inviting them to gamble because it is each person's decision.

[Fredomago]

Reading the excuse of that mother after a year still sounds crazy. When you're addicted, you don't find excuses when you're busted by your own addiction.

If I lose, I'll keep quiet and won't brag about it because that's the most shy thing to brag with.

We don't brag losses and that's why it's just best to be silent and do nothing and try again on the next day. No need to find fault from others, accept losses.

Those gambler how actually blame others when they are in losses then that's not normal. cause why you involve in gambling and then once you are in rouble or in losses you start blaming other person which pretty bad idea. Cause when you are lucky then you will win but if you are too unlucky then you will loss a lot of money.  And you are the one who are driven yourself so there no one to blame if you got mistakes.

When they are in the winning side they don't find anyone to point their fingers and enjoy everything,  but once they start suffering from a losing streaks that's the time they will start putting that blame to other people, a common reaction with people who can't accept the fact that they already suffering from addiction,  they wanted to look for a good excuse and unable to accept everything happened is because of their uncontrolled behavior towards gambling.

This story shows how a person can't accept the reality,  that you can lose everything when you overspend your money in this venue of entertainment,  once addiction conquered everything inside your mind and you are unwilling to accept it, you'll do everything to find that escape goat and try to put the blame to other people.

A very common human being behavior on which you would really be that loving on pointing out your fingers into those people whom you do believe that they are the ones who are the reason
for you to lose without even trying to look into yourself on what you have done on which you are actually the ones who are really that not having that kind of easy acceptance of their own mistakes but rather they would really be loving in trying out to blame others on the things that they are currently experiencing on which its never been that appealing to look at but rather
its laughable.

This is why it would really be that always best that you should really be that realizing on what gambling is and what are the things that you could be able to encounter
and experience on which it would really be just that normal that you should really be acting out accordingly and not just simply blaming out
someone because you've been that unfortunate on your gambling activity.

Indeed right, with that perception you would be able to realize what's going to happen and what affects your decision making, having that wrong judgement will put you in the place where you keep denying things that you already knew that you are doing wrong, blaming someone in an action that you freely did is always going to shadows you.

Decision making keeps on relying with how you foreseen the possible outcome and how you will react on your own and not to put fingers to someone who don't have any business in controlling you.

[Accardo]

How will I blame someone for a loss I have, anyone who have started the journey of gambling must be above the age of 16,and he must be solely responsible and accountable to every action he takes when it comes to selection of the game to play.i don't think anyone can ever be responsible for another person's loss in gambling because while playing,you must have already made up your mind that it's either you win or you loose,one thing must happen.The only way you can blame someone is maybe you gave a game to someone to play,and the person went ahead to play what you didn't predict,and the game eventually plays,one can be angry,and can probably blame who you sent to play the game for you.

We don't need to blame other people for the losses we experience from gambling. When we gamble, we already know that it will cause us to lose a certain amount of money and the more often we gamble, we can lose more money. We have to be responsible when playing gambling so we really have to have limits to prevent lots of losses. You can blame other people for forcing you to gamble, but that rarely happens because gambling depends on each person and there is no compulsion to gamble. So we have to be wise in responding to it and don't need to blame other people if we lose.

Gambling is made to be for adults for this same reason, to deduce the rate of complaints, blames and regrets from gamblers. It's not easy to spend hours in gambling, but we weren't forced or pushed to do it out of our will. However, while blaming people is wrong, taking responsibility is the right option as a gambler. Moving ahead with new motives and re arranging our lives is faster in recovering from our mistakes than any other method, such as regret. Some gamblers behave like this, due to the famous believe that one can be forced to do what they don't want to through their brain. In the sense that a friend who reminded or introduced them to gambling is at fault and should be blamed for their gambling addiction. The person has no explanation to make, but it's important to include these things in our discussions with non-gamblers.

Most of them don't have a strong foundation of gambling information before venturing into the niche. The choices remain with the gambler, not his friends. He wagered the money hoping for more money. If he won those games, would he have blamed his friends, or appreciate him for helping him get a win in gambling, no. People take responsibility only when there is a success, and blame others for their failure. I've experienced this, and concluded not to talk about gambling to people who are non-gamblers. Things may get sour along the line, they'll have me in mind, once the trouble begin. Tagging their friends in every complaint wouldn't be hard to them anymore. To stay on a safer side, it's better for the gambler to focus on changing his lifestyle for good and battle his addictive nature.

[Rabata]

And when he loses, that is the risk of gambling, and if he doesn't want to lose, he should not gamble and leave gambling forever so that he can be free from that loss. Unfortunately, it won't be as easy as it says because when someone has started gambling, there will be a feeling of wanting to gamble again, and this can get worse depending on one's self-control. And when they get too deep into gambling, they will find it difficult to stop themselves from gambling. So they actually can't blame other people for gambling because it was their own choice to want to gamble and feel the sensation of gambling. People like that have to experience loss before realizing that what they did was wrong and trying to fix it, even though it is difficult.

a common problem that gamblers often do is when they don't want to lose but they still gamble but when they lose they brag and blame other parties and this is a very ridiculous incident that gamblers often do.
I understand that there are gamblers like this, in fact almost all the gamblers I know still have this kind of character when they don't want to lose or lose, they keep betting because in their brain they have the assumption that they want to try to get a big win even though logically their mind already says it's impossible to win big while being unlucky and gamblers like this are like going against their own minds who don't want to gamble and are forced to do so.

the feeling of wanting to continue gambling actually only depends on your mindset and for me, if a gambler has a good mindset, of course when he wants to gamble again he will firmly adhere to the guidelines in his own mind not to gamble anymore and secure his budget so he can gamble responsibly.

Agreed that there are many gamblers who simply cannot accept their losses. A responsible gambler never tries to blame others. Because the time he spends blaming others, the time he spends on something else will be fruitful. If I lose at gambling, I try to keep myself more motivated. Because I don't want to tell anyone about my loss. If I blame one person for my loss, others may make fun of me instead, which can spread to multiple people. Why would I decrease my reputation? But those who engage in such activities should think about this matter quietly. People who engage in uncontrolled gambling have this tendency. If you lose in this case, you should know how to control yourself.

[maydna]

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a common problem that gamblers often do is when they don't want to lose but they still gamble but when they lose they brag and blame other parties and this is a very ridiculous incident that gamblers often do.
I understand that there are gamblers like this, in fact almost all the gamblers I know still have this kind of character when they don't want to lose or lose, they keep betting because in their brain they have the assumption that they want to try to get a big win even though logically their mind already says it's impossible to win big while being unlucky and gamblers like this are like going against their own minds who don't want to gamble and are forced to do so.

the feeling of wanting to continue gambling actually only depends on your mindset and for me, if a gambler has a good mindset, of course when he wants to gamble again he will firmly adhere to the guidelines in his own mind not to gamble anymore and secure his budget so he can gamble responsibly.

This has often happened in many places, and there are gamblers like that who don't want to lose, but they still gamble. We can try to understand it because they may be a little frustrated with the losses they get, so they act like that. And we also don't need to be too close to them, especially when they have experienced loss because later we might be blamed too. We should stay away from them and do what we want to do, and if we want to gamble, we should gamble alone in our room so that there are no people like that. They can't realize that that's what happens in gambling, and the more they want to win, the more likely they are to experience losses that could be bigger than they imagined. They may not be able to achieve a win yet, so they will start looking for someone nearby to blame.

If gamblers have set their mindset about gambling from the start, they will not try to gamble excessively. They will continue to guard themselves when gambling and will leave the casino when they have had enough gambling. They will not want to use more money to try to catch up on their wins or recover their losses because getting it is difficult for them.

[Lorence.xD]

And when he loses, that is the risk of gambling, and if he doesn't want to lose, he should not gamble and leave gambling forever so that he can be free from that loss. Unfortunately, it won't be as easy as it says because when someone has started gambling, there will be a feeling of wanting to gamble again, and this can get worse depending on one's self-control. And when they get too deep into gambling, they will find it difficult to stop themselves from gambling. So they actually can't blame other people for gambling because it was their own choice to want to gamble and feel the sensation of gambling. People like that have to experience loss before realizing that what they did was wrong and trying to fix it, even though it is difficult.

a common problem that gamblers often do is when they don't want to lose but they still gamble but when they lose they brag and blame other parties and this is a very ridiculous incident that gamblers often do.
I understand that there are gamblers like this, in fact almost all the gamblers I know still have this kind of character when they don't want to lose or lose, they keep betting because in their brain they have the assumption that they want to try to get a big win even though logically their mind already says it's impossible to win big while being unlucky and gamblers like this are like going against their own minds who don't want to gamble and are forced to do so.

the feeling of wanting to continue gambling actually only depends on your mindset and for me, if a gambler has a good mindset, of course when he wants to gamble again he will firmly adhere to the guidelines in his own mind not to gamble anymore and secure his budget so he can gamble responsibly.

Agreed that there are many gamblers who simply cannot accept their losses. A responsible gambler never tries to blame others. Because the time he spends blaming others, the time he spends on something else will be fruitful. If I lose at gambling, I try to keep myself more motivated. Because I don't want to tell anyone about my loss. If I blame one person for my loss, others may make fun of me instead, which can spread to multiple people. Why would I decrease my reputation? But those who engage in such activities should think about this matter quietly. People who engage in uncontrolled gambling have this tendency. If you lose in this case, you should know how to control yourself.

There's a time that gamblers could handle their emotions after losing in the casino, but of course after going home when the wife or family finds out that he lost a lot of money, of course their reactions would be mad and angry to the gambler which is there's a tendency for them to be triggered and lose control of their emotion where they would put the blame to others, worst is they would be violent or verbal abuse. A responsible gambler are ready for this kind of scenarios where you don't only have to control your self when playing gambling but also before and after since you know the risk of engaging in gambling. If there's someone to blame it would be yourself cause your the one who started it in the first place.

[LUCKMCFLY]

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We know very well that in each of the following phases of the caisno we have to be responsible, the first phase for me is before going to the caisno, where I always have my ideal ready to lose, I don't think about what I will win, I just hear what I will lose, for me it is better this way, we will create false illusions, then the second phase is to say how much I am willing to win, if I am on a good streak then I will start to retire when I reach triple the amount that I am willing to lose, That for me is what I always do and I do that because it is the same strategy that I use for trading, whenever I trade those are my basic principles, in this order of ideas I learned that doing things that way is easier Do it to avoid losing the right money, and for me the most important thing in a casino is not to lose money, and if I lose it is only what I am destined to lose, nothing more.

Another thing is that when we are in a game we must do Everything to be able to have control, we are already ready when we must lose , I think we can give free rein to our opinion, play as we want, do as we want, because the things for this are quite Difficult , whenever we are playing we must see how we can win and reduce the moment we could lose, if we have money willing to lose we need to take it to the highest level, in the form of profits, of course when we do not have the luck, the right moves were not made, because there is nothing to do, you have to accept things as they are, but the ideal is always that we as people have that ready to lose, but I have seen or more recently it has happened to me that little I have taken the money to good money, also all the people who play with little money have taken it to very respectable figures and that is only what I Applaud , and that is being Responsible , when you have limits things turn out well.

[GxSTxV]

Simply, it was a dumb move from both of them to create such an unbelievable story and lying to the authorities about a fraudulent transaction while they were the ones who have done it and lost their money to gambling. This is obviously due to gambling addiction since that amount of money could be used in an investment or something better other than wasting them in sport betting at once.
Personally, I have never accused someone else by something I have done myself. Especially, not my gambling losses and to whom? The authorities; people who have the power and the means to find and discover any inconvenient small thing, it was a very impulsive weak idea the mother and son did thinking they could get away of it this easy and of course they got what they deserve.

We are witnessing weird stories and cases lately by gambling addicts, so I hope everyone will take such stories as an example to avoid falling into addiction leading to impulsive decisions just to gamble more or recover losses.

[LUCKMCFLY]

And when he loses, that is the risk of gambling, and if he doesn't want to lose, he should not gamble and leave gambling forever so that he can be free from that loss. Unfortunately, it won't be as easy as it says because when someone has started gambling, there will be a feeling of wanting to gamble again, and this can get worse depending on one's self-control. And when they get too deep into gambling, they will find it difficult to stop themselves from gambling. So they actually can't blame other people for gambling because it was their own choice to want to gamble and feel the sensation of gambling. People like that have to experience loss before realizing that what they did was wrong and trying to fix it, even though it is difficult.

a common problem that gamblers often do is when they don't want to lose but they still gamble but when they lose they brag and blame other parties and this is a very ridiculous incident that gamblers often do.
I understand that there are gamblers like this, in fact almost all the gamblers I know still have this kind of character when they don't want to lose or lose, they keep betting because in their brain they have the assumption that they want to try to get a big win even though logically their mind already says it's impossible to win big while being unlucky and gamblers like this are like going against their own minds who don't want to gamble and are forced to do so.

the feeling of wanting to continue gambling actually only depends on your mindset and for me, if a gambler has a good mindset, of course when he wants to gamble again he will firmly adhere to the guidelines in his own mind not to gamble anymore and secure his budget so he can gamble responsibly.

Agreed that there are many gamblers who simply cannot accept their losses. A responsible gambler never tries to blame others. Because the time he spends blaming others, the time he spends on something else will be fruitful. If I lose at gambling, I try to keep myself more motivated. Because I don't want to tell anyone about my loss. If I blame one person for my loss, others may make fun of me instead, which can spread to multiple people. Why would I decrease my reputation? But those who engage in such activities should think about this matter quietly. People who engage in uncontrolled gambling have this tendency. If you lose in this case, you should know how to control yourself.

There's a time that gamblers could handle their emotions after losing in the casino, but of course after going home when the wife or family finds out that he lost a lot of money, of course their reactions would be mad and angry to the gambler which is there's a tendency for them to be triggered and lose control of their emotion where they would put the blame to others, worst is they would be violent or verbal abuse. A responsible gambler are ready for this kind of scenarios where you don't only have to control your self when playing gambling but also before and after since you know the risk of engaging in gambling. If there's someone to blame it would be yourself cause your the one who started it in the first place.

That is something very common that always happens, you cannot blame others for doing something like that, as far as I am concerned I will Always say something when a person spends the entire family budget on gambling, it is something very irresponsible , no There should be no type of Compassion at all, because a person must always be responsible for their actions, obviously, if a person enters a casino and spends everything , then it is the absolute Responsibility of that person, but obviously , when he or she arrives with the mnso you empty his home, what the woman is going to tell him is absolutely right, so if that's the case, and if he knows that things can't be done the way he did them, why did he do them? It not only puts at risk the well-being of him as a person but also of the entire family in general, especially when there are children, if they are on diapers and milk, then it is the worst thing, there is always evidence that responsibility is the most s important.

In this order of things, things need to be done in the best way ,  We are people who are always going to do the most appropriate thing, If we are the head of the family, we should not enter the casino without first having given a clear example of how to do things, To spend the money, first you must make a collection of obligatory expenses for the home, then if there is some money left over, not allocate it all, but a part, which is not affected, because you do not have to download it so that other things can be done, For example, non-predestined expenses , or surprise expenses, that if someone gets sick, that if they have to go to the emergency room , all these things are the ones that we must take care of and always leave money there so that later we don't have to run and not ask. money or anything, the money runs ou t, that's why we must do all that, then if there are 5 or 10usd left to spend, well that's different, but the fact that the family Budget is spent is absolute Irresponsibility.

[uneng]

There's a time that gamblers could handle their emotions after losing in the casino, but of course after going home when the wife or family finds out that he lost a lot of money, of course their reactions would be mad and angry to the gambler which is there's a tendency for them to be triggered and lose control of their emotion where they would put the blame to others, worst is they would be violent or verbal abuse. A responsible gambler are ready for this kind of scenarios where you don't only have to control your self when playing gambling but also before and after since you know the risk of engaging in gambling. If there's someone to blame it would be yourself cause your the one who started it in the first place.

It's normal the wife of a gambler will get mad on him after he has lost a considerable sum of money betting which was going to be used for family's expenses. The gambler should be humble, apologise with his wife and promise it's not going to happen again. But if he tries to strike back with accusations and blaming someone or something else for his addicted gambling behavior, then I think this person isn't just an addicted individual, but also a bad character one. Nowadays everyone talks about narcissism, as the characteristic of someone who always think to be right on their actions, while blaming another factors for the faced failures, but I prefer to say bad character. Even addicted people can be humble to accept they are commiting mistakes and prejudicing people around, but a narcissism can't.

So I think the best this wife can do is to stay away from the husband, because it's not likely he is going to change, as the first requirement to change is to accept his flaws. Something he is not willing to do...

[erep]

We don't need to blame other people for the losses we experience from gambling. When we gamble, we already know that it will cause us to lose a certain amount of money and the more often we gamble, we can lose more money. We have to be responsible when playing gambling so we really have to have limits to prevent lots of losses. You can blame other people for forcing you to gamble, but that rarely happens because gambling depends on each person and there is no compulsion to gamble. So we have to be wise in responding to it and don't need to blame other people if we lose.

We often hear the words "your attitude, your responsibility" if we don't have principles then other people will control us and never blame them because you don't have an attitude of responsibility, so there is no reason to blame other people when we have lost funds in gambling even if someone urges us to place high bets on gambling, but if you don't follow other people's instructions then you will not lose gambling funds. So don't let other people regulate your bets, but you are the owner of the funds who can control the bets in gambling.