Do you blame someone for your gambling losses?

[Fivestar4everMVP]

That's the point. No one can really predict correctly in this case so regardless of whatever predictions we make at the end of the day gambling is still gambling because it only goes back to predictions not one hundred per cent will win.
My friend knows that so in this case he is also aware that every choice he makes in the end is based on his own decision not coercion from others (in this case me and my friend).
Even if it was me and my friend who did some predictions but still the final decision is of course on my friend who made a bet so that we lose then it will only be a joke for the three of us because this is really funny.

I also have a friend with whom we can discuss some events, this applies not only to gambling, we share opinions and forecasts, but each of us understands well that the final decision remains with each of us, because in the end each of us will risk their money. I will say that it is good when you can discuss something with a person you completely trust, this can lead to the right decisions.

You are very right, it is commonly said that no man is an island of knowledge, so even as much as we think we know on our own, we still get to learn a thing or more when we open ourselves up and engage in discussing with other people, whether they be friends, relative, neighbors or even enemies.
And yeah, the purpose of engaging in discussions with other people not to allow them decide for us what to do, but to get to learn what their perspective is to what ever the discussion is all about, from what they think, we could learn or get to know about something we never even thought of, the final decision is always ours to make, even if our final decision turn out to be someone else's idea, it becomes our decision the moment we decide to go with it.

[nullama]

~snip~
You are very right, it is commonly said that no man is an island of knowledge, so even as much as we think we know on our own, we still get to learn a thing or more when we open ourselves up and engage in discussing with other people, whether they be friends, relative, neighbors or even enemies.
And yeah, the purpose of engaging in discussions with other people not to allow them decide for us what to do, but to get to learn what their perspective is to what ever the discussion is all about, from what they think, we could learn or get to know about something we never even thought of, the final decision is always ours to make, even if our final decision turn out to be someone else's idea, it becomes our decision the moment we decide to go with it.

Yeah, spot on.

The moment someone acts on an idea it becomes their own idea basically. They will get all the pros and cons of that. The original person that shared the idea is no longer relevant to the outcome.

Some people will always like to blame others when they fail, and take all the credit when they win.

In reality, you should be responsible for all your actions, good and bad.

[joyacasino]

I have seen several people who gamble on the advice of others and are very happy when they win. If suddenly they lose, they blame the person whose advice they gambled on. Never get hot while gambling if you lose your head.  If you make a rash decision then you will lose all your money. If you can gamble with your thoughts then it will be very good for you. But I think those who are totally involved with Joya have no peace in their life and are always depressed.
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[Kelward]

I think that what degenerated the mother and son to squander such huge amount of money on gambling is where they're most probably chasing loses, because when you bet a huge amount of money and lose, if you have the mentally that it's because of a miscalculation on your side that made you to lose, then you'll perfect plans to correct the perceived mistake and bet huge amount again. With time the gambler will unintentionally become addicted to recovering loses, until when his or her account is empty, that's when reality will down on the person. I want to believe that is what happened in the case of the woman and son in discussion, the next step for the failed gamblers to do would be to find another person to blame for their mistake and hopefully recover the lost money from them

[nullama]

I think that what degenerated the mother and son to squander such huge amount of money on gambling is where they're most probably chasing loses, because when you bet a huge amount of money and lose, if you have the mentally that it's because of a miscalculation on your side that made you to lose, then you'll perfect plans to correct the perceived mistake and bet huge amount again. With time the gambler will unintentionally become addicted to recovering loses, until when his or her account is empty, that's when reality will down on the person. I want to believe that is what happened in the case of the woman and son in discussion, the next step for the failed gamblers to do would be to find another person to blame for their mistake and hopefully recover the lost money from them

Yes, most probably that was the case.

When you start losing, and still have some money left, some people start freaking out and see gambling more as the only way out of the huge debt.

But in reality they will most probably end up losing way more money that they expected.

[maydna]

I think that what degenerated the mother and son to squander such huge amount of money on gambling is where they're most probably chasing loses, because when you bet a huge amount of money and lose, if you have the mentally that it's because of a miscalculation on your side that made you to lose, then you'll perfect plans to correct the perceived mistake and bet huge amount again. With time the gambler will unintentionally become addicted to recovering loses, until when his or her account is empty, that's when reality will down on the person. I want to believe that is what happened in the case of the woman and son in discussion, the next step for the failed gamblers to do would be to find another person to blame for their mistake and hopefully recover the lost money from them

Chasing losses will not guarantee that someone can recover and get their money back, especially if it is a large amount of money. They will still find it difficult to recover from their losses, but they may have luck another day so they can recover a little of their losses. That is why when gambling, a person must use the money he can afford and must not exceed his limits so that he does not regret the money he has lost at the gambling table. He also wouldn't think about recovering his losses because he could see that he didn't see much chance of getting the money back. And if there are people who blame us for the losses they experience from gambling, we should just leave them, especially if we don't do anything about them. He gambles based on his own decisions and has nothing to do with us or anyone else, so he doesn't deserve to blame us or anyone else. That is his responsibility when playing gambling.

[0t3p0t]

Court sentences mother, son to 7 years imprisonment and what did they do? Court sentences mother, son to 7 years imprisonment

The mother and the son after gambling away 5.6 million naira, that is about $8,000. When the reality dawned on them, they gave false information in petition, accusing someone of fraudulently transferring the fund from their Opay account to the sport betting account without their authorization.

Could this be a case of making someone pay for what they didn't eat or a case of double standard.

Bet as you can sustain and not allow your emotions have a better part of you.

This for me unethical and should not be tolerated. I think they deserve to be in jail for that libelous crime they just did. They were too desperate to get their funds back in unethical way. Their emotions eat them. 😅

[Aanuoluwatofunmi]

The moment someone acts on an idea it becomes their own idea basically. They will get all the pros and cons of that. The original person that shared the idea is no longer relevant to the outcome.

That's true, these same idea can either come from our fellow gamblers or from what we see online, but we are the one taking their ideas to make it effective on our gambling bet we made, if we loose, it's up to us and if we win, it's still the same thing as being responsible to our own actions, no one forces or stops us from gambling and also shouldn't be responsible for any outcome that we see from it.

[Gheka]

The moment someone acts on an idea it becomes their own idea basically. They will get all the pros and cons of that. The original person that shared the idea is no longer relevant to the outcome.

That's true, these same idea can either come from our fellow gamblers or from what we see online, but we are the one taking their ideas to make it effective on our gambling bet we made, if we loose, it's up to us and if we win, it's still the same thing as being responsible to our own actions, no one forces or stops us from gambling and also shouldn't be responsible for any outcome that we see from it.

In the decline of emotions and living in despair without any warmth by human love and support, we are always looking for someone's light, a person is closely related to the process of gambling to blame or more is the people who interrupt our party. The closest is probably the casino and farther, probably family, almost when all arrows are directed to the loser, they have the reaction to push that arrow to others with the expectation of ignoring and forgiving to reduce repentance, sometimes we do the same as a way to forgive ourselves

[Youngkhngdiddy]

Chasing losses will not guarantee that someone can recover and get their money back, especially if it is a large amount of money. They will still find it difficult to recover from their losses, but they may have luck another day so they can recover a little of their losses. That is why when gambling, a person must use the money he can afford and must not exceed his limits so that he does not regret the money he has lost at the gambling table. He also wouldn't think about recovering his losses because he could see that he didn't see much chance of getting the money back. And if there are people who blame us for the losses they experience from gambling, we should just leave them, especially if we don't do anything about them. He gambles based on his own decisions and has nothing to do with us or anyone else, so he doesn't deserve to blame us or anyone else. That is his responsibility when playing gambling.

    Chasing losses, or attempting to recover previous losses with bigger bets, is a dangerous practice. It often results in further financial setbacks. One of the biggest things that separates professional gamblers from recreational gamblers is that professionals can control their emotions. Unfortunately, this is not something that too many recreational bettors understand. Like some other things on our traits of successful sports bettors, emotional control is something that is easier said than done. Emotional control is a tough habit to master. However, it will be impossible to become a successful sports bettor if you can’t set your emotions aside. Emotions all too often get in the way of making sound betting decisions based solely on data. If you’d like to become more of a successful bettor, you’ll have to learn emotional control so that you begin to make decisions based on data as opposed to your emotions.
    People will always find a reason to blame others when they are experiencing loss, it is human nature to find faulty when things are not going their way. Instead of taking up responsibility and finding possible ways to improve their performance. No one forced you to  gamble it’s you sole responsibility to take up what’s coming whether good or bad. I don’t think if the game was going in your favor you will have any reason to point fingers. No matter what result it might result to take up responsibility and work on yourself.

[klidex]

I think that what degenerated the mother and son to squander such huge amount of money on gambling is where they're most probably chasing loses, because when you bet a huge amount of money and lose, if you have the mentally that it's because of a miscalculation on your side that made you to lose, then you'll perfect plans to correct the perceived mistake and bet huge amount again. With time the gambler will unintentionally become addicted to recovering loses, until when his or her account is empty, that's when reality will down on the person. I want to believe that is what happened in the case of the woman and son in discussion, the next step for the failed gamblers to do would be to find another person to blame for their mistake and hopefully recover the lost money from them

Chasing losses will not guarantee that someone can recover and get their money back, especially if it is a large amount of money. They will still find it difficult to recover from their losses, but they may have luck another day so they can recover a little of their losses. That is why when gambling, a person must use the money he can afford and must not exceed his limits so that he does not regret the money he has lost at the gambling table. He also wouldn't think about recovering his losses because he could see that he didn't see much chance of getting the money back. And if there are people who blame us for the losses they experience from gambling, we should just leave them, especially if we don't do anything about them. He gambles based on his own decisions and has nothing to do with us or anyone else, so he doesn't deserve to blame us or anyone else. That is his responsibility when playing gambling.

Of course there is no guarantee that your money will be returned if you gamble because it is a risky thats gamblers must bear if they experience a loss, therefore we must use as little money as possible and set limit and always adhere to your principles, if you gamble it means what you have in mind is to be ready if you lose so that you don't experience things that will disappoint you and cause you to gamble more because usually gambler who can't accept their losses will increase the amount of their bet so that their losses can come back quickly, you needs to remember that This is very dangerous, especially for those who don't really understand the high risky involved in gambling.

A gambler who experiences a big loss should not blame other people for his own mistakes if there is no element of coercion, after all gambling is a game of chances, so those who cannot afford to lose money in gambling should avoid it from the start.

[reagansimms]

The moment someone acts on an idea it becomes their own idea basically. They will get all the pros and cons of that. The original person that shared the idea is no longer relevant to the outcome.

That's true, these same idea can either come from our fellow gamblers or from what we see online, but we are the one taking their ideas to make it effective on our gambling bet we made, if we loose, it's up to us and if we win, it's still the same thing as being responsible to our own actions, no one forces or stops us from gambling and also shouldn't be responsible for any outcome that we see from it.

Most gamblers always forget the result of being too carried away by the atmosphere in the casino, no matter if they are winning or losing, what is in their mind is to continue playing and take home the winnings. They always forget that the situation is losing, the emotions produced in the brain will make them want to win. They also forget that when they are winning, the desire to continue playing always arises as a result of being pulled by winning in the hope of winning and continuing to win.

Emotional control is still difficult for most gamblers to control, they forget that in gambling games it is more dominant to lose than to win. As a gambler, you must be prepared to take responsibility for any outcome after leaving the casino without having to blame anyone.

[boty]

Most gamblers always forget the result of being too carried away by the atmosphere in the casino, no matter if they are winning or losing, what is in their mind is to continue playing and take home the winnings. They always forget that the situation is losing, the emotions produced in the brain will make them want to win. They also forget that when they are winning, the desire to continue playing always arises as a result of being pulled by winning in the hope of winning and continuing to win.

Emotional control is still difficult for most gamblers to control, they forget that in gambling games it is more dominant to lose than to win. As a gambler, you must be prepared to take responsibility for any outcome after leaving the casino without having to blame anyone.

When someone is gambling and cannot control themselves of course in the game they are only chasing the win they want so they never care about how much money they have spent in the game and they only realize it when the money they have is gone and they don't left to gamble, there are some of them who regret this and there are even some who look for loans to be able to continue the game and if they look for loans to gamble again of course they have done the wrong thing because this will get them in trouble when they still experience losses and cannot pay the loans they make.

Maybe only some people can control themselves when gambling and for those who can control themselves and limit the amount of their bets, of course this doesn't put them in financial trouble and also they have to be responsible for what they do, when they experience defeat they have to accept it. and also when they experience victory they enjoy the victory they have obtained.

[Rabata]

I want to believe that is what happened in the case of the woman and son in discussion, the next step for the failed gamblers to do would be to find another person to blame for their mistake and hopefully recover the lost money from them

There are some gamblers who try to blame others to console themselves for losing money. But in reality there is no use in such blame. The gambler may not recognize his own mistakes in what he is doing, but it is perfectly abnormal to others. The gambler knows that there is no advantage he can gain by blaming others but he tries to place such blame in order to elevate himself. I don't know of any cases in my life where the gambler has taken advantage to blame others.

If a gambler does not pay dividends of profits then why should he share losses in case of losses. This is ridiculous. I myself have seen such gamblers who blame others but that is not serious occurrence.

[carlfebz2]

I think that what degenerated the mother and son to squander such huge amount of money on gambling is where they're most probably chasing loses, because when you bet a huge amount of money and lose, if you have the mentally that it's because of a miscalculation on your side that made you to lose, then you'll perfect plans to correct the perceived mistake and bet huge amount again. With time the gambler will unintentionally become addicted to recovering loses, until when his or her account is empty, that's when reality will down on the person. I want to believe that is what happened in the case of the woman and son in discussion, the next step for the failed gamblers to do would be to find another person to blame for their mistake and hopefully recover the lost money from them

Chasing losses will not guarantee that someone can recover and get their money back, especially if it is a large amount of money. They will still find it difficult to recover from their losses, but they may have luck another day so they can recover a little of their losses. That is why when gambling, a person must use the money he can afford and must not exceed his limits so that he does not regret the money he has lost at the gambling table. He also wouldn't think about recovering his losses because he could see that he didn't see much chance of getting the money back. And if there are people who blame us for the losses they experience from gambling, we should just leave them, especially if we don't do anything about them. He gambles based on his own decisions and has nothing to do with us or anyone else, so he doesn't deserve to blame us or anyone else. That is his responsibility when playing gambling.

Of course there is no guarantee that your money will be returned if you gamble because it is a risky thats gamblers must bear if they experience a loss, therefore we must use as little money as possible and set limit and always adhere to your principles, if you gamble it means what you have in mind is to be ready if you lose so that you don't experience things that will disappoint you and cause you to gamble more because usually gambler who can't accept their losses will increase the amount of their bet so that their losses can come back quickly, you needs to remember that This is very dangerous, especially for those who don't really understand the high risky involved in gambling.

A gambler who experiences a big loss should not blame other people for his own mistakes if there is no element of coercion, after all gambling is a game of chances, so those who cannot afford to lose money in gambling should avoid it from the start.

It is really just that too absurd for someone who do really blame out someone just because they have lost big in gambling on which we know that we are the ones who do make out decisions to play and even if they would be giving out those kind of advises or tips or hints but still not that right that you would be blaming them just because you have lost that big. It is really that into your own will and you havent been forced
so its really just that too laughable that you would really be whining and crying and tending to blame out someone just because you have lost in gambling. You are really just that putting yourself into a situation on which people would really be just laughing at you basing on what you are behaving.

When you do lose on gambling then it would really be that your full responsibility on what you had lost. Pointing fingers would be useless because you cant really that make yourself that able to
take back those losses no matter how many people you would really be pointing your fingers into. This is why it would be important that you should really just
accept your fate whether win or lose when it comes to gambling.

[Dewi Aries]

I really don't understand why there are people who blame others for losing in their gambling involvement, if there are people like that then obviously I'm sure they come not because of their own will but it could be at the encouragement of others, especially some of their friends who have already gambled, to be honest on the other hand maybe I wouldn't fully blame you for blaming others for your defeat if indeed from the beginning the person who invited you did not say everything about gambling, especially in terms of risks that always cannot be completely avoided.

But maybe in this situation I would blame you and your friend who invited you to engage in gambling, because most likely he did not explain in detail about all the possible risks that you could experience there, and it seems that he offered by explaining some tantalizing winnings so that when you lost it was natural to blame your friend. On the other hand that is why we are better off not introducing gambling to anyone, but if you do want to invite some of your friends I suggest emphasizing more on explaining the risks because winning always depends on how lucky they are in the session they are doing, so that way you have a strong reason to argue when they blame you when you lose.

[TopTort777]

Story if my past. I used to play a lot multiplayer games where skill matters, but devices you use also play a tiny percent of your success. That time when I lost, I used to blame mouse that does bad clicking, lagging internet, opponents that cheat. With time I have learned, that only skill matter and there is no one to blame. So with time I have moved that rule to gambling. I have nobody to blame for my loss except myself and my luck.

[Mr. Magkaisa]

       -   It is not right to pile up or pass on our gambling losses to other people. You should know from the beginning how much the amount you will lose here should be, so that at least in this matter we can teach ourselves how to gamble responsibly.

Otherwise, it will really lead to such an event when we become irresponsible in our gambling. And then, literally speaking, it seems like a difficult situation, to be honest. Then I was sentenced to 7 years of imprisonment or my fine of 150,000 naira. I hope this will be a lesson to other gamblers, to be honest.

[Hirose UK]

~snip~

Chasing losses will not guarantee that someone can recover and get their money back, especially if it is a large amount of money. They will still find it difficult to recover from their losses, but they may have luck another day so they can recover a little of their losses. That is why when gambling, a person must use the money he can afford and must not exceed his limits so that he does not regret the money he has lost at the gambling table. He also wouldn't think about recovering his losses because he could see that he didn't see much chance of getting the money back. And if there are people who blame us for the losses they experience from gambling, we should just leave them, especially if we don't do anything about them. He gambles based on his own decisions and has nothing to do with us or anyone else, so he doesn't deserve to blame us or anyone else. That is his responsibility when playing gambling.

Hahaha, chasing losses or recovering them can never guarantee that you will actually get back what you have lost.
Winning is based on luck and this will be more difficult because when you try to recover losses, you might win once or twice but everything else remains the same, namely losing.
From this it is clear that trying to recover losses will only have an impact on increasing the amount of money that will be lost because of course gambling only has one result that is more certain and obvious, namely losing, we must be able to realize this and must be able to continue to accept all the losses that have been lost happen.
Whatever the outcome of gambling, only we ourselves will feel it and gambling is decision we choose ourselves so we cannot blame anyone for loss we experience.
This is about sense of responsibility and we have to be able to take responsibility for everything that will happen when we decide to start gambling, every mistake we make ourselves, so it would be better to learn to introspect and not blame anyone for our losses.

[junder]

I myself don't blame other people, let alone my friends who introduced me to gambling, because it's not natural for us to blame friends or other people for the losses that occur in our gambling because basically the losses that occur in gambling are because we do it ourselves, even though Friends or other people who introduce us to gambling, in my opinion, if they don't force us to gamble then it's not natural to blame them, unless they have an element of coercion, that's normal.
also with gambling which makes us addicted or addicted, it is because we ourselves cannot resist the temptation to gamble. If we can restrain ourselves well maybe we will not become addicted to gambling or addicted Even though losses occur which are certainly detrimental,  if we respond to gambling appropriately it will not create problems that can bring or trigger conflict or conflict Therefore, in my opinion, it is not reasonable to blame other people for the losses that occur from gambling that we do, because the magnitude of it is an act of one's own volition.