Do you blame someone for your gambling losses?

[Dewi Aries]

Yes simply it all depends on ourselves because the key is always about whether you are able to take responsibility for the decisions you have made or not, if not then think again and consider thoroughly using a rational mindset, lest you always end up with regret and disappointment due to your own actions that are not in accordance with your abilities. We come back to the real fact about gambling which is that it is a probability activity which means it is nothing more than a "possibility" of winning or losing, you or anyone else will never know the outcome at the end of the session because everything is random.

Therefore one of the reasons why we should bet within our means such as by using a budget amount that you can afford to be responsible for is because gambling always runs with the uncertainty of winning or losing while losing can never be tolerated, therefore of course it is best that we focus more on some precautions such as limiting the budget amount, It doesn't matter if you follow other people's ways but what is certain is that you must be able to account for everything at the end of the session, we must think of the long-term good rather than temporary pleasure, because many gamblers at that time also lost all the winnings they managed to get because they did not comply with the things that were suggested for their own good.

Gambling is fun when done well. I've always taught understanding your bounds, playing within your means, and taking full responsibility for your actions. Absolutely - its about potential, not certainty. Life is about that, right? Taking risks, making judgments, and adapting. This is a mindset, not just gambling. You need mental fortitude to manage ups and downs in a casino or boardroom.

These gambling recommendations are life lessons: limit your money, take responsibility for your actions, and prioritize the long term over the short term. Remember, gambling and life success depend on taking calculated risks and never regretting them. Have fun, play intelligently, and win in life and gambling.

Yes simply like that my friend, gambling will be really fun and you will feel the pleasure when you come with the right mindset and understanding that can ultimately make you treat gambling as recommended, In fact, the key is only this, namely having the right understanding along with knowing and realizing that risks will always lurk at any time so that with this then I think that indirectly you will be able to do the recommended things without having to be told by others, or the point is that gamblers who have the right understanding they will know what to do and what to avoid for their own good.

If we look at it from another point of view then I think gambling is like a place to train yourself, it's not always about winning or losing, but how good you are at dealing with problems and also how disciplined you are in following the things that are suggested for your own good as you said in terms of limiting money, time involvement and expectations in mind in the long run, this is the key so that you can remain a responsible gambler.

[LUCKMCFLY]

Often a person tends to blame their failures on anyone or anything but themselves. This is characteristic of many people. Personally, I try to first find a mistake in my own actions, and then look for someone else to blame. If you do not make righteous conclusions, the losses will continue, although they could have been easily prevented

I do not think blaming anyone will solve any problem and it was not as if you were forced it was a choice and you decided anyone who blames me would be surprised by the answer he would get for me. The important thing is that people do not even know that I gambled in the first place. Nobody will even come and meet me for gambling advice because I do not give gambling advice. and I do not see a reason why I should get people involved in my gambling story. I trust myself, whether I win or lose and the finale is that you have to decide whether you want to bet on a particular game or not. Everything about gambling is in your mind. Just make a choice and accept what comes with it. That is what real gamblers do. So if you are still having issues deciding, then you will have a problem winning because you don't even know what is right at that time and that is why some of them are looking for people to blame.

I also think like this, what happened is that as I said before, many people do not assume that they are wrong or maybe they feel like saying that they were Wrong , so they resort to blaming others for what they do, and if a person He listens to another person to make a type of play and loses, the fault is not the other person but the person who Bet , Why ? It's simple if I have money I see how I spend it and how I play because it's my money , so when it comes to these things we are players who must learn to mature Certain things , firstly not looking for Excuses with others , secondly controlling ourselves in the finances that are read to play, because you cannot play and lose all the money.

So we as players must understand that if we start playing we are responsible for our actions , if we do what others tell us it is our Responsibility , then we do not have to blame others for what we lose , because I can play in a certain way Well, they can give me advice on what to do, but it's up to me if I decide to do what others say, or if it doesn't seem like it to me, then I won't do it and that's it But what I assume I must accept the Consequences , that applies in a casino and in life.

[Oilacris]

How can two persons be so addicted to gambling that they'll go to such an extent?

They started slowly with not being able to control themselves with gambling away small amounts till it finished, it is why as they were exposed to such a large amount they became unable to control themselves.

If you can question this people and ask them how they gambled aways that kind of money without realising it or stopping themselves, they will say they did not know when. This is the height of addiction.

As individuals we should be careful entrusting money to people who we know have a gambling problem.

Start slowly or fast it wouldnt matter because if you are a type of person whose really that get easily impulsive when it comes to winning or losing but on the time that you would really be losing big time then this is where you would really be making yourself having those kind of reasoning and things in mind on which you would really be having those blaming into other people.
Actually this is something which is really that a very common gambler behavior but if you are someone whose really that easily make out those kind of recovery and moving on then
its good but if you are someone who doesnt really accept losses then you would really be ending up with this path. This is why its important that you should really be having control.

[Fredomago]

Judging by what author write about this case, their fraud has been exposed. They will most likely have to face charges of perjury. That is, problems were added because of their wickedness. They also violated one of the main rules - not to use money that you cannot afford to lose.
And as for the fact that there are people who want someone else to pay for their food, then such people have always been there and will be, unfortunately, from human nature we will not escape anywhere

I see your point and that's exactly what happened, they pointing the blame to someone thinking that they can manipulate the situation and escape freely from what they've done, but they did not succeed, they need to pay and they need to suffer from the mistake that they both did, there's always a price when you do something that exceed from what you can afford to lose.

They need to take the blame and serve the sentece for both of them, they deserve it and hopefully they learned from that
mistake that they did and not to do it again.

[l3pox]

Judging by what author write about this case, their fraud has been exposed. They will most likely have to face charges of perjury. That is, problems were added because of their wickedness. They also violated one of the main rules - not to use money that you cannot afford to lose.
And as for the fact that there are people who want someone else to pay for their food, then such people have always been there and will be, unfortunately, from human nature we will not escape anywhere

I see your point and that's exactly what happened, they pointing the blame to someone thinking that they can manipulate the situation and escape freely from what they've done, but they did not succeed, they need to pay and they need to suffer from the mistake that they both did, there's always a price when you do something that exceed from what you can afford to lose.

They need to take the blame and serve the sentece for both of them, they deserve it and hopefully they learned from that
mistake that they did and not to do it again.

no matter what happens, blaming other people for our actions and decisions won't change the past
the craziest thing is that even the victims have a parcel of responsibility on the situations because they could take different paths on their decisions
I'm the first one to avoid victim blame but we are in a network, no thing happens by one agent alone, things are connected.

[crwth]

I don't know why this is still on ongoing topic but what I want to read right now is if the Mother and Son are doing right by now or still doing dishonest stuff that would make their lives even worse. I'm hoping they changed so that they would be able to be accountable and understand what they did.

[mamesso]

People who blame others for their gambling losses are basically ignorant of the concept of gambling. Gambling is always a risk, so if anyone thinks that it is a simple and easy way to earn money, then he is definitely wrong.  And always take responsibility for the loss while gambling.  There is no room to blame anyone for this. Where gambling never guarantees profit, why would a person jump into gambling after listening to others. And knowing the risk of gambling, why would a person blame others after losing a gamble?

Actually the concept is very simple, if you are not ready to bear the risk, then never do something that has a risk in it. Every gambler must be prepared to take responsibility for the losses that befall him, the influence of other people cannot be used as an excuse as the cause of the losses he experiences. Logically, if someone blames someone else for their losses, they should also give that person tips if they succeed in winning some money from gambling.

[skarais]

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Actually the concept is very simple, if you are not ready to bear the risk, then never do something that has a risk in it. Every gambler must be prepared to take responsibility for the losses that befall him, the influence of other people cannot be used as an excuse as the cause of the losses he experiences. Logically, if someone blames someone else for their losses, they should also give that person tips if they succeed in winning some money from gambling.

In gambling life, sometimes other people can influence the decisions made by a gambler regarding his choices. For example: the predictions of someone who understands football strategy and understands the potential strength of his opponent can influence the decisions of gamblers who do not fully understand football, this happens in gambling life. Sometimes it is profitable, sometimes it can also be detrimental especially when the predictions do not match reality.

Blaming others for gambling losses is never good, especially because you are the decision maker. If you ask someone to predict something and their prediction is wrong, then blaming them is unreasonable.

[Aanuoluwatofunmi]

Even someone took them to play on the game and they finally loss the game with the amount showcase here, they don't have to nlame anyone but o themselves.

Putting a blame on someone for gambling losses is as if am taking my responsibility as well on such a person to determine what will be my out come on gambling experience, as you already stated, we have the right in making our own decision without anyone's influence, if we receive any, then we are interested in such and that doesn't vested all our right on that person in making decision for except we personally allow for that, we have to take heart upon every result seen with the way we gambles, which is not anyone's responsibility than ours to make decision on what we want, since its our money involved likewise our game which we should take charge and be responsible for.

[Asuspawer09]

I mean surely they get greedy here, not understanding how dangerous gambling can be, now that they lose their money they are going to accuse someone of storing their money, I mean that was really absurd for sure, and someone that is on a normal mind wouldn't really going to think of something like that easily, or thinking that they would get away with that, That would need a lot of evidence in order to be believable in the end if someone is going to investigate there accounts they will clearly see that it is they're doing and not someone else doing.

I just can't imagine this mother agreeing or probably shes the one who is starting all of this, instead of being a mother she influences his son to gamble or vice versa supporting his son's gambling addiction, probably she already get blinded by the money, probably they are getting a lot of wins from the start thinking that they are going to be a huge winner in the end, but their greediness end up backfiring to them ended up losing all of them accounts money. It's not actually a bad thing to do to gamble but it is a very dangerous thing for someone who doesn't understand it, but as long as you don't make it a kind of source of your income you would be fine.

[junder]

Even someone took them to play on the game and they finally loss the game with the amount showcase here, they don't have to nlame anyone but o themselves. Because there were two options for them to select. Either they say no or accept the influence. And they accept the influence and luck gone out from them. And I don't think in the amount would just leave the opay without their permission. That their part of the story is like a blasphemy because Opay is one of the best online banking apps in the country.
And we don't have to blame anyone foe our downfall and mistakes we do in life. Gambling is purely for luck and if you don't have the luck to win and anyhow you try there would be no win. So they should not blame the App.

Even if someone is invited by a friend to gamble and experiences a loss, he cannot blame the friend, because if he didn't want to experience a loss, he should have been able to refuse the friend's invitation to gamble from the start. Moreover, I think the losses that occur with the gambling that we do are purely our own actions, even though when gambling maybe our friends give us advice, but when it all ends in defeat, it feels unethical to blame other people for the losses that have occurred. In my opinion, don't worry too much about losing at gambling because it is something that definitely happens in gambling, whether someone is invited to gamble or with their own desire to gamble, losing is still unavoidable.

What you say is true, no matter how we try, even if it is based on instructions from experienced gamblers, if we don't have luck in gambling then there will be no winnings to be had. because in any gambling game, in my opinion, winning is based on luck, including gambling that is based on skill to be able to play it.

[noormcs5]

Even someone took them to play on the game and they finally loss the game with the amount showcase here, they don't have to nlame anyone but o themselves. Because there were two options for them to select. Either they say no or accept the influence. And they accept the influence and luck gone out from them. And I don't think in the amount would just leave the opay without their permission. That their part of the story is like a blasphemy because Opay is one of the best online banking apps in the country.
And we don't have to blame anyone foe our downfall and mistakes we do in life. Gambling is purely for luck and if you don't have the luck to win and anyhow you try there would be no win. So they should not blame the App.

I think if a person blames someone that he has lost in gambling that he should not be a gambler 
A gambler is not so weak that he starts to cry about losses and blame other people that because of someone else, he faced the loss. He chooses to gamble by his own will, no one forced him to gamble and therefore in case of a loss, he is solely responsible for this.

I have learnt over the passage of time, that you are alone in gambling when it comes to the money in gambling. If you win, the money is yours and if you lose, no one shares or take the responsibility of the loss. The profit from gambling is only for the person gambling and the loss is also for the same person.

[piebeyb]

What you say is true, no matter how we try, even if it is based on instructions from experienced gamblers, if we don't have luck in gambling then there will be no winnings to be had. because in any gambling game, in my opinion, winning is based on luck, including gambling that is based on skill to be able to play it.

In fact, not everyone believes in what luck is because they will definitely think that their winnings are purely due to their own skills and learning from their own experience, even though it is actually luck that gives them victory, many do not understand the concept of Luck and Bad Luck in gamblers, as For example, if a person gambles and wins, it is luck for him and for someone who loses at gambling, it is bad luck for him, but that is just an expression and proverb in my view because we cannot define in detail what true luck is, but we know that all wins cannot be separated from the luck I mentioned earlier.

All gambling requires a lot of experience and skill because it is only a starting point to strengthen the bet and in order to win because basically the result is still luck too, maybe we can just take an example, for example, or say when we bet on sports betting where the team is the strongest. losing to a bottom team can be said to be luck for the winner and betting on an underdog or bottom team, in contrast to when you bet on a top team or favorite team you may experience bad luck and defeat.

[GigaBit]

That's right, the key is in yourself, namely the gambler must be responsible for himself for what he has done, whether the results are profitable or not. Gamblers must be wise in accepting and responding to it.
Agree with you that gambling is irregular or there is no certainty in it, the safest thing is to bet according to our abilities, imitating other people is the wrong decision, especially if the results are often losing and we cannot accept it. the point where we blame others. then it is a stupid action because we should not do something in such a way, you could say we are not wise and responsible gamblers.

Not all gamblers think the same, and the behavior of gamblers varies from person to person. Both addicted and non-addicted gamblers can lose, but blaming someone for it is entirely preposterous. Just as it would not be acceptable if I were to blame someone else for one's crime, blaming another person for a loss due to one's own fault is also an act which is never acceptable. But as far as I know professional gamblers or those who have good idea about gambling never bother about blaming others. Because there is no benefit to oneself by blaming others. Rather, bad relations will be formed with the one who will be imposed. People who do such things definitely do not have proper knowledge about gambling.

[Obari]

It is not right to blame someone for a game that he loses, because losing is not intentional,no one wants to lose,and as such,If one loses it is something that will cause pain and not happiness.
But sometimes,greed can make someone lose too, because if you have played and won,there is no need of you playing again more to get everything in just a day, anything that makes you play more,there is every tendency that you must lose.Therefore,if one has gambled a day,and he wins,he should try as much as hold himself to avoid playing more,else,losing awaits him.

[ZippyPixL]

Even someone took them to play on the game and they finally loss the game with the amount showcase here, they don't have to nlame anyone but o themselves. Because there were two options for them to select. Either they say no or accept the influence. And they accept the influence and luck gone out from them. And I don't think in the amount would just leave the opay without their permission. That their part of the story is like a blasphemy because Opay is one of the best online banking apps in the country.
And we don't have to blame anyone foe our downfall and mistakes we do in life. Gambling is purely for luck and if you don't have the luck to win and anyhow you try there would be no win. So they should not blame the App.

Absolutely! Accepting the outcomes of our choices is part of being responsible. When we gamble we must be ready to handle both wins and losses gracefully. And its so important especially for adults to set a good example of accountability. I hope this story will teach them

I think if a person blames someone that he has lost in gambling that he should not be a gambler 
A gambler is not so weak that he starts to cry about losses and blame other people that because of someone else, he faced the loss. He chooses to gamble by his own will, no one forced him to gamble and therefore in case of a loss, he is solely responsible for this.

I have learnt over the passage of time, that you are alone in gambling when it comes to the money in gambling. If you win, the money is yours and if you lose, no one shares or take the responsibility of the loss. The profit from gambling is only for the person gambling and the loss is also for the same person.

I completely agree with you. Gambling is an individual choice and with it comes individual responsibility for the outcomes. Its all too common for people to seek someone else to blame when things don't go their way. While shifting blame might offer temporary relief it doesn't change the reality of the situation. Recognizing and accepting the results of one's actions is not only part of gambling but a fundamental aspect of mature behavior.

[Antotena]

It is not right to blame someone for a game that he loses, because losing is not intentional,no one wants to lose,and as such,If one loses it is something that will cause pain and not happiness.
But sometimes,greed can make someone lose too, because if you have played and won,there is no need of you playing again more to get everything in just a day, anything that makes you play more,there is every tendency that you must lose.Therefore,if one has gambled a day,and he wins,he should try as much as hold himself to avoid playing more,else,losing awaits him.

Exactly, I don't think there will be any gambler under his normal senses and what to lose his money to casino, even someone who has zero skills to play gambling is aiming to win but outcome is what determine if the person is going to win or his going to lose to the casino. Sometimes, you see people losing games because a team lose their match and out of 20 games, it's the only one that didn't come through but you can't blame the players for that, they all want to win but game is game.

If you can swallow your loss and don't get distracted by anything, didn't blame anyone, didn't blame your choice of selection or skills, sometimes it might be because you didn't cashout, if you ignore this things you will one day win a grand audit from a casino many times.

[danadc]

It is not right to blame someone for a game that he loses, because losing is not intentional,no one wants to lose,and as such,If one loses it is something that will cause pain and not happiness.
But sometimes,greed can make someone lose too, because if you have played and won,there is no need of you playing again more to get everything in just a day, anything that makes you play more,there is every tendency that you must lose.Therefore,if one has gambled a day,and he wins,he should try as much as hold himself to avoid playing more,else,losing awaits him.

If we start because our money is our money and it is not anyone else's, then things are going to change and they are going to be seen from another point of view, therefore if we are playing and taking risks, it is up to us if we listen to someone's advice. , nobody forces us to play like them, others can tell us what they want, but others are others, if I don't Want to follow the advice of others but rather what I think, my intuition then I do it, then that prevents Blame others, you cannot avoid blame if our destiny decision is wrong, that had to happen because it was like that, that is the Way I see this.

[Ram44]

Court sentences mother, son to 7 years imprisonment and what did they do? Court sentences mother, son to 7 years imprisonment

The mother and the son after gambling away 5.6 million naira, that is about $8,000. When the reality dawned on them, they gave false information in petition, accusing someone of fraudulently transferring the fund from their Opay account to the sport betting account without their authorization.

Unfortunately, I have an example of a friend who is addicted to playing poker for money. The last thing that happened to him was that he was specially filmed before the game, where he promised that he would not blame anyone if he lost, and as a result, after he lost everything he had with him, he just started screaming and crying and asked for his money back.

[Lanatsa]

It is not right to blame someone for a game that he loses, because losing is not intentional,no one wants to lose,and as such,If one loses it is something that will cause pain and not happiness.
But sometimes,greed can make someone lose too, because if you have played and won,there is no need of you playing again more to get everything in just a day, anything that makes you play more,there is every tendency that you must lose.Therefore,if one has gambled a day,and he wins,he should try as much as hold himself to avoid playing more,else,losing awaits him.

Exactly, I don't think there will be any gambler under his normal senses and what to lose his money to casino, even someone who has zero skills to play gambling is aiming to win but outcome is what determine if the person is going to win or his going to lose to the casino. Sometimes, you see people losing games because a team lose their match and out of 20 games, it's the only one that didn't come through but you can't blame the players for that, they all want to win but game is game.

If you can swallow your loss and don't get distracted by anything, didn't blame anyone, didn't blame your choice of selection or skills, sometimes it might be because you didn't cashout, if you ignore this things you will one day win a grand audit from a casino many times.

Dealing up with pure luck games whether you are a first time gambler or old timer would really be having the same odds on winning up and it would really be that entirely be depending on how lucky you would be on that particular time. It would really be something that not all would really be able to pull it out not unless if we are talking about strategic based games then it would really be an another story.
Speaking about blaming out someone with your loses then its a common newbie behavior specially into their first tries and someone do make out some advises and recommendation on what to bet and how they should bet and on the time that they would be losing that one then those pointing out fingers would be a normal reaction.

This is why it would really be better that you should play with your own rules and with your own choices. You wont really be having that regret just in case you have lost your bet.