Does it looks responsible as woman telling husband you gamble?

[Dewi Aries]

Absolutely! Just let your husband know about your interest in gambling and assure him that you're being responsible about it, doing it for fun and not risking too much. Keeping open communication helps in any relationship!

But however I think there is still another much better choice they can take which is to not be involved in gambling at all, because they are married and of course not being involved in gambling will allow them to fully utilize the money they have for something they need in the family, meaning no unnecessary expenses. But on the other hand it is just a suggestion which in common  sense is a much better option, and yes I respect every choice and decision they will/have taken by staying involved in gambling.

The point is to keep control and boundaries and along with being a responsible gambler, you really have to be strict in applying some of these precautions because as we know that in gambling there are so many things that look tempting that can certainly tempt you, On the other hand, it is not uncommon to find some gamblers out there who end up losing their control and  boundaries due to being too careless until they finally get carried away and end up addicted, so the point is that changes in mindset and perspective are very likely to occur when you  are involved in gambling, so my advice is that you really need to be firm in applying self-control and the boundaries you made before.

[the rise]

If you think it will increase your income and try playing gambling to gain experience and stick to your promises, you don't need to tell him because most likely your husband's answer will not support you and will even disappoint you, but if you are aware and you have gone too far Please tell your husband immediately so that you don't fall into deep gambling

[Wiwo]

If you think it will increase your income and try playing gambling to gain experience and stick to your promises, you don't need to tell him because most likely your husband's answer will not support you and will even disappoint you, but if you are aware and you have gone too far Please tell your husband immediately so that you don't fall into deep gambling

I have the feelings that the husband is reading this thread also unless if he is not a member of this forum, but then we have to face the truth as a community that practices just and right, and for that not telling the husband is a big mess waiting to happen, and if the husband later discovered that the wife is gambling secretly, it may not go down well with him also, and of that be the case, then we need to advice with rhe right set of advice and in my own opinion, is very inappropriate for spause to keep things away from each other, most especially things that involve high risk such as gambling.

If you say the woman should keep this away from the husband, it will eventually results into issues along the way most especially, if and when there are cases as regards to addictions and problematic gambling issues that requires the help of a third-party such as the husband.

[panganib999]

Quite sometimes now i have been active in the gambling section and have pick interest to start gambling i have gone through lots of material in both the forum, i have seen that I can control my emotion as well as controlling my finance this includes;

• Not involving myself in a revenge gambling
• Not chasing profit after lost
• Not involving oneself into compulsive gambling
• Not solely replying on every game to be 100 percent correct
• Not hoping that gamble is guaranteed
• Not gambling with all my income or salaries
• Among all, gambling for fun and not to enrich oneself

The point is my husband doesn't know that i have been secretly gambling and involving myself with gambling discussions and the rest, So, this morning when i woke something in me keeps telling me i should let him know to understand my involvement  to practice gambling.

Does this worth telling him or not please i need you collective ideas.

Honestly sad that you didn't tell him about this. Put yourself in his shoes and you'd probably be mad at him for not telling you that he's gambling, while I do commend you for being very smart with gambling so there's that. Anywho, it would be a transgression honestly if you don't teach him the ropes of gambling. Cause one way or another a curious man will find a way to know what they want to know, it's better that it come from someone who's responsibly gambling than perhaps a friend that is belligerently wasting his money. Teach him how to play the games you love playing and it could even become a thing that you both do every now and again, which could further your relationship and bond.

Let him know from here on out of all things that you do especially if it involves money. You guys are married and if you have shared accounts this will be a massive bummer and breach of trust in my opinion, if it wasn't, it's still good enough to tell him about it you know.

[macson]

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The point is my husband doesn't know that i have been secretly gambling and involving myself with gambling discussions and the rest, So, this morning when i woke something in me keeps telling me i should let him know to understand my involvement  to practice gambling.

Does this worth telling him or not please i need you collective ideas.

If you think that your husband needs to know about your gambling activities, then immediately tell him and talk heart to heart that you are a responsible gambler, However, if your husband is someone who cannot control his anger for certain things, then it is better to keep those secrets forever.  Not all couples are able to accept the fact that their partner is a gambler, you alone know what your partner's nature and character are, that can be a consideration whether you want to keep it to yourself or tell him.

[Fredomago]

If you think it will increase your income and try playing gambling to gain experience and stick to your promises, you don't need to tell him because most likely your husband's answer will not support you and will even disappoint you, but if you are aware and you have gone too far Please tell your husband immediately so that you don't fall into deep gambling

Only applicable if you really have that set limitation that you can follow, but most of the time, gambler start getting addicted either they expereinced the decent win or they are losing huge amount of money, both sides have their respective emotions that can lead anyone to engage that much to gambling.

It's better to inform your husband to make sure that there's someone who can look on you, it will help not to lead yourself into addiction, knowing that your husband is monitoring you helps to control and follow that said limitation that you setup.

[n0ne]

Sharing the gambling habit is good, because we don't know how we'll be when we're gambling regularly. Someday we might be good and sometimes we'll be in loss and the same could be affecting our lives. By the time there needs to be someone to accept our mistake and redirect towards the right path. Not everyone does it, and when a Women says husband to gamble he should understand what support she had given him and according to that he needs to be responsible and have his limits. Maybe this can help with some sort of healthy gambling habit.

[o48o]

I am not sure how it would differ from you being a woman or a man, at least not where i live. If you are married, and not telling everything how you spend your money, i guess it goes both ways and your husband doesn't need to tell how he spends his money either. And it's totally ok if you want that kind of relationship and you want to keep your secrets. But if you have a strict budget and money is for both of you, and you want to plan it together, you might want to come clean. And then there's the question of why are you keeping those secrets? Don't you think that your husband would accept (or allow) gambling? Or are there some other reasons for it?

That being said, you seem to have a good grasp on how to avoid getting addicted and you are allowed to keep secrets. But if i can suggest that you might want to spend only your own money.

[Russlenat]

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Does this worth telling him

yes, because being dishonest to your partner is a sin. That's called betrayal in a marriage.
If you have been gambling responsibly, I think there's you should not fear telling him the truth, besides, you are as one when you got married, so for sure he'll understand, if he would say no, then you abide since he is still the man, the head of the family.

or not please i need you collective ideas.

Why are you gambling in the first place?

If you just want to have fun, or doing it since it's part of your job ^{(i see you are promoting a gambling site)}, I'm sure it's not hard for him to understand. Don't be afraid, being honest is being responsible.

[bettercrypto]

Quite sometimes now i have been active in the gambling section and have pick interest to start gambling i have gone through lots of material in both the forum, i have seen that I can control my emotion as well as controlling my finance this includes;

• Not involving myself in a revenge gambling
• Not chasing profit after lost
• Not involving oneself into compulsive gambling
• Not solely replying on every game to be 100 percent correct
• Not hoping that gamble is guaranteed
• Not gambling with all my income or salaries
• Among all, gambling for fun and not to enrich oneself

The point is my husband doesn't know that i have been secretly gambling and involving myself with gambling discussions and the rest, So, this morning when i woke something in me keeps telling me i should let him know to understand my involvement  to practice gambling.

Does this worth telling him or not please i need you collective ideas.

I don't see anything wrong with what you are planning to do to tell your husband. It's better that you say it, especially if you know your husband well enough that he will understand you. Your honesty can even make your wife wonder.

So, I also support the strategies you use in playing gambling and as far as I can see, you are a responsible gambler and you know how to apply self-control and self-discipline as a gambler. So, go ahead with what you are planning.

[CODE200]

Honesty and openness about the things that's happening to you in your relationship should be a priority, if you're hiding something from your partner or loved one then the possibility of that relationship maturing to the point that you're together forever is going to go down, I don't say this as someone that's biased on gender or someone that wants to meddle with your relationship but I do think that you should let your husband know about this habit of yours because this involves finances and I don't think that anyone in a relationship appreciates that their significant other is hiding something from them, who knows, your husband might even support you or even join you gambling, this might be your new bonding time as a couple and it's also a good thing for you to be able to be honest with your husband because it eases up your heart and soul because you're not bottling something inside that when left unchecked would explode on you in the worst possible way.

[lienfaye]

The point is my husband doesn't know that i have been secretly gambling and involving myself with gambling discussions and the rest, So, this morning when i woke something in me keeps telling me i should let him know to understand my involvement  to practice gambling.

Does this worth telling him or not please i need you collective ideas.

It's better to be open with your husband since clearly you have discipline everytime you play. Therefore I don't think it will become an issue if you tell your husband about this because you're not addicted to it and just playing in moderation and as you've said, for fun.

However, there are things that you can keep to yourself especially if this activity doesn't affect your relationship with the family and your finances. But of course, it's still best to have an open communication with your husband so he will be aware of what you are up to.

[Samlucky O]

The point is my husband doesn't know that i have been secretly gambling and involving myself with gambling discussions and the rest, So, this morning when i woke something in me keeps telling me i should let him know to understand my involvement  to practice gambling.

Does this worth telling him or not please i need you collective ideas.

At first gambling is not good for women and no man will be happy seing his wife Gambling. Because men alway see women that gambles as inresponsible women. Because if women takes gambling serious, it might cause a serious problem in the family in the sense that woman are like manager of the family and if they fail to manage the family financial issues, it might cause havoc because the woman might be the fund given to her by her husband for family expenditure to play gamble. and always find excuses that might atract third party interference. So its better not to let him know Because if you do it will generate alot of controversies between you both except maybe you have won a huge some of money before letting him know.

[tbterryboy]

I don't know about the cultural differences of different regions and how things work, but based on the rules of marriage and marital partnership, a partner isn't supposed to hide anything from their partner, whether it's husband or wife. There is a level of trust among two people that are married to each other based on which they are supposed to share everything which creates a general understanding among them and they can discuss and decide what one or both partners need and need not to do.

So, I think you shouldn't have hidden it in the first place. I understand that you are using your own money but he is your partner and you shouldn't hide anything from him. So, I would say you should go ahead and let him know because if he finds out about it, that will shatter the trust he has in you which isn't good for your relationship.

[IvugeoEvolutionCoin]

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The point is my husband doesn't know that i have been secretly gambling and involving myself with gambling discussions and the rest, So, this morning when i woke something in me keeps telling me i should let him know to understand my involvement  to practice gambling.

Does this worth telling him or not please i need you collective ideas.

If you think that your husband needs to know about your gambling activities, then immediately tell him and talk heart to heart that you are a responsible gambler, However, if your husband is someone who cannot control his anger for certain things, then it is better to keep those secrets forever.  Not all couples are able to accept the fact that their partner is a gambler, you alone know what your partner's nature and character are, that can be a consideration whether you want to keep it to yourself or tell him.

A gambler may bring trouble to his family by gambling. But if a husband or wife of a family is addicted to gambling, he should give up gambling for the peace of the family. There are some people who gamble without thinking about the family. Became addicted to gambling. People who get addicted to gambling without thinking about their family have to face many family problems. If a wife is addicted to gambling then her husband should explain his wife and take her away from gambling. And if any  A husband becomes addicted to gambling and his wife's duty is to convince her husband.

[SmartGold01]

The point is my husband doesn't know that i have been secretly gambling and involving myself with gambling discussions and the rest, So, this morning when i woke something in me keeps telling me i should let him know to understand my involvement  to practice gambling.

Does this worth telling him or not please i need you collective ideas.

At first gambling is not good for women and no man will be happy seing his wife Gambling. Because men alway see women that gambles as inresponsible women. Because if women takes gambling serious, it might cause a serious problem in the family in the sense that woman are like manager of the family and if they fail to manage the family financial issues, it might cause havoc because the woman might be the fund given to her by her husband for family expenditure to play gamble. and always find excuses that might atract third party interference. So its better not to let him know Because if you do it will generate alot of controversies between you both except maybe you have won a huge some of money before letting him know.

Okay i have also seen your view towards this but the point is that he knows that i am into this forum as well earning little via sig promotion, so I think it is better to let him know than keep shuts. However, we've both discussed it and he didn't give any negative feedback towards my involvements rather he was saying that "Na so the hustle don carry me reach"?. So indirectly i understand as a woman I shouldn't go above my limits and bands, and i don't even plans to gamble regularly talks less of becoming an addicted gambler. Btw Who told you that women don't gamble is there any law by our Federation that stated women shouldn't gamble in our country or something similar?

[Fredomago]

The point is my husband doesn't know that i have been secretly gambling and involving myself with gambling discussions and the rest, So, this morning when i woke something in me keeps telling me i should let him know to understand my involvement  to practice gambling.

Does this worth telling him or not please i need you collective ideas.

At first gambling is not good for women and no man will be happy seing his wife Gambling. Because men alway see women that gambles as inresponsible women. Because if women takes gambling serious, it might cause a serious problem in the family in the sense that woman are like manager of the family and if they fail to manage the family financial issues, it might cause havoc because the woman might be the fund given to her by her husband for family expenditure to play gamble. and always find excuses that might atract third party interference. So its better not to let him know Because if you do it will generate alot of controversies between you both except maybe you have won a huge some of money before letting him know.

Okay i have also seen your view towards this but the point is that he knows that i am into this forum as well earning little via sig promotion, so I think it is better to let him know than keep shuts. However, we've both discussed it and he didn't give any negative feedback towards my involvements rather he was saying that "Na so the hustle don carry me reach"?. So indirectly i understand as a woman I shouldn't go above my limits and bands, and i don't even plans to gamble regularly talks less of becoming an addicted gambler. Btw Who told you that women don't gamble is there any law by our Federation that stated women shouldn't gamble in our country or something similar?

That's a good sign I guess, by hearing that from your partner means that he understand you and trust you in terms of limiting yourself, as long as there's no problem that will raise I guess that words from your partner is an indication that he's giving you the green light just do your responsibility not to dwell that much to avoid any problem to come out.

Gambling is gambling and the bad after effect is something that can ruin your relationship so better to always put that above in any decision making that you'll going to do while playing/gambling.

[samcrypto]

Sharing the gambling habit is good, because we don't know how we'll be when we're gambling regularly. Someday we might be good and sometimes we'll be in loss and the same could be affecting our lives. By the time there needs to be someone to accept our mistake and redirect towards the right path. Not everyone does it, and when a Women says husband to gamble he should understand what support she had given him and according to that he needs to be responsible and have his limits. Maybe this can help with some sort of healthy gambling habit.

Depends on the people you’re telling, since not all are sincere to help you or to at least hear your side, so make sure you only tell stories to the real people. If your wife opens about gambling to you then that she is asking for an assurance that you wont be mad and you’ll hear her side. Having a partner should always be open to each other and have a good communication so you can have a healthy relationship, this can also be the way to help your partner when the trouble comes.

[Quidat]

Sharing the gambling habit is good, because we don't know how we'll be when we're gambling regularly. Someday we might be good and sometimes we'll be in loss and the same could be affecting our lives. By the time there needs to be someone to accept our mistake and redirect towards the right path. Not everyone does it, and when a Women says husband to gamble he should understand what support she had given him and according to that he needs to be responsible and have his limits. Maybe this can help with some sort of healthy gambling habit.

Depends on the people you’re telling, since not all are sincere to help you or to at least hear your side, so make sure you only tell stories to the real people. If your wife opens about gambling to you then that she is asking for an assurance that you wont be mad and you’ll hear her side. Having a partner should always be open to each other and have a good communication so you can have a healthy relationship, this can also be the way to help your partner when the trouble comes.

Healthy relationship would really be pertaining on having no secrets into each other, it doesnt really need that those personal problems would be able to be reached out into those people
speaking about this and about that. They arent the ones who could help you out but rather it would be better that you should really be that telling honestly into your husband or your wife
that you are really that engaged into something. Having those kind of sincere explaination and asking for some forgiveness when it comes on lying or hiding something from your lived ones
then it cant be avoided sometimes on not to be angry specially if you had been blinded but telling them early as you could then it would might be just accepted and forgiven so easily.

[SmartGold01]

Okay i have also seen your view towards this but the point is that he knows that i am into this forum as well earning little via sig promotion, so I think it is better to let him know than keep shuts. However, we've both discussed it and he didn't give any negative feedback towards my involvements rather he was saying that "Na so the hustle don carry me reach"?. So indirectly i understand as a woman I shouldn't go above my limits and bands, and i don't even plans to gamble regularly talks less of becoming an addicted gambler. Btw Who told you that women don't gamble is there any law by our Federation that stated women shouldn't gamble in our country or something similar?

That's a good sign I guess, by hearing that from your partner means that he understand you and trust you in terms of limiting yourself, as long as there's no problem that will raise I guess that words from your partner is an indication that he's giving you the green light just do your responsibility not to dwell that much to avoid any problem to come out.

Gambling is gambling and the bad after effect is something that can ruin your relationship so better to always put that above in any decision making that you'll going to do while playing/gambling.

Yes I don't take it as a career or as a must and a must do something without undermining my limits I can't even gamble with the mindset of making a living chasing rewards from gambling and secondly people tends to channel their efforts and thinking on becoming very rich through gambling with this mindset they will always get addicted to turns into serious issues among themselves. When people understand the values of a responsible gambling then they will always learn to set a limitation for themselves without looking out whatever profit they will make or that is to come, when they play or bets any game they should look their limits to save their home.