Does it looks responsible as woman telling husband you gamble?

[tbterryboy]

All the OP's points mentioned are correct, and if all the points are actually done well there is no problem.
However, the problem with the points mentioned by the OP is that there are no points of important obligations that the wife must carry out in taking care of the household, husband, children and other important needs. And if these points are implemented along with the points mentioned by OP, then overall it will be safe. And I'm just afraid that everything won't go well, or maybe there are some wifely obligations that have been neglected.
And I personally would forbid my wife from gambling, and I have no problem with her gambling responsibly, having fun and so on. And I'm worried that my wife will neglect some of her work or obligations and also be a bad example for the children.

It's not just about obligations or responsibilities not being fulfilled or taken care of, but it's about the trust that is being broken. When you are in a relationship, especially if it's a marriage, you would expect your partner to share everything with you, and by everything I mean every single thing that they do or happens or whatever else that one can think of, and if one day, all of a sudden, you come to know that she has been secretly doing something without telling you, how would that feel? Ask yourself.

Most of the time, we hide things from others because we think those things are not for them to know as they will either get angry, not allow us, or because what we are doing isn't ethical. But if there is something so casual, like gambling for fun, as OP said she doesn't have intentions to get richness from it, so I don't see any point why she had to hide it from him in the first place.

[South Park]

All the OP's points mentioned are correct, and if all the points are actually done well there is no problem.
However, the problem with the points mentioned by the OP is that there are no points of important obligations that the wife must carry out in taking care of the household, husband, children and other important needs. And if these points are implemented along with the points mentioned by OP, then overall it will be safe. And I'm just afraid that everything won't go well, or maybe there are some wifely obligations that have been neglected.
And I personally would forbid my wife from gambling, and I have no problem with her gambling responsibly, having fun and so on. And I'm worried that my wife will neglect some of her work or obligations and also be a bad example for the children.

It's not just about obligations or responsibilities not being fulfilled or taken care of, but it's about the trust that is being broken. When you are in a relationship, especially if it's a marriage, you would expect your partner to share everything with you, and by everything I mean every single thing that they do or happens or whatever else that one can think of, and if one day, all of a sudden, you come to know that she has been secretly doing something without telling you, how would that feel? Ask yourself.

Most of the time, we hide things from others because we think those things are not for them to know as they will either get angry, not allow us, or because what we are doing isn't ethical. But if there is something so casual, like gambling for fun, as OP said she doesn't have intentions to get richness from it, so I don't see any point why she had to hide it from him in the first place.

I think differently, this call for full transparency has always seemed to me to be uncalled for, telling the important things to your partner is a must, I agree on that, but telling them even the most minute and insignificant things is not necessary, as an example if I bought a TV this is something I would tell to my partner at the time, but if I bought a bottle of water, why should I go through the trouble of telling them about an insignificant purchase?

[Oilacris]

All the OP's points mentioned are correct, and if all the points are actually done well there is no problem.
However, the problem with the points mentioned by the OP is that there are no points of important obligations that the wife must carry out in taking care of the household, husband, children and other important needs. And if these points are implemented along with the points mentioned by OP, then overall it will be safe. And I'm just afraid that everything won't go well, or maybe there are some wifely obligations that have been neglected.
And I personally would forbid my wife from gambling, and I have no problem with her gambling responsibly, having fun and so on. And I'm worried that my wife will neglect some of her work or obligations and also be a bad example for the children.

It's not just about obligations or responsibilities not being fulfilled or taken care of, but it's about the trust that is being broken. When you are in a relationship, especially if it's a marriage, you would expect your partner to share everything with you, and by everything I mean every single thing that they do or happens or whatever else that one can think of, and if one day, all of a sudden, you come to know that she has been secretly doing something without telling you, how would that feel? Ask yourself.

Most of the time, we hide things from others because we think those things are not for them to know as they will either get angry, not allow us, or because what we are doing isn't ethical. But if there is something so casual, like gambling for fun, as OP said she doesn't have intentions to get richness from it, so I don't see any point why she had to hide it from him in the first place.

I think differently, this call for full transparency has always seemed to me to be uncalled for, telling the important things to your partner is a must, I agree on that, but telling them even the most minute and insignificant things is not necessary, as an example if I bought a TV this is something I would tell to my partner at the time, but if I bought a bottle of water, why should I go through the trouble of telling them about an insignificant purchase?

Its a must thing if you do really want a life on which there's no hiding nor secrets because if you do put up yourself into your husbands conditions on which you are really that getting blind on something which you dont really like, then you would really be that happy? Then it would really be just that better that you should really be telling those things directly into your husband
and would really be that admitting into the things that you are dealing with and dont wait for him to be the ones to bust you up on the things that you are dealing with.

When it comes to marriage life then having secrets is never been that good, it wouldnt really be giving out that kind of result once you do get caught.
Trust would really be that mainly be that affected on which it might be lasting up for a lifetime.

[bitvalak]

Opening up to your husband is a good thing, who knows, he might also be gambling without your knowledge. If yes, you are very lucky to have a life partner who has the same hobbies.
Regarding the points you want to convey to your husband, it won't have any effect as long as it doesn't disrupt your household's cash flow.
Because gambling does not require gender A or B, everyone has the same right to pleasure as long as it does not harm other people.

Unless you damage your household's cash flow and then you tell your husband, that will be a complicated problem.
Because the main problem in a husband and wife relationship is an economic problem, right?

[Heartilly]

The point is my husband doesn't know that i have been secretly gambling and involving myself with gambling discussions and the rest, So, this morning when i woke something in me keeps telling me i should let him know to understand my involvement  to practice gambling.

Does this worth telling him or not please i need you collective ideas.

It's not a questioned if it's worth it or not. It's good that your partner knows your involvement in gambling.

Since you are responsible gambler at the end, expect that you won't end up in an argument with your partner. You can start the discussion by taking things as funny as it should be like you will mentioned gambling in a fun way and considered it just a normal activity the same way you are doing your other hobby. Your partner will surely get along with that discussion also in a fun way. It's good that we don't keep secrets to our partner especially gambling.

[Wiwo]

Opening up to your husband is a good thing, who knows, he might also be gambling without your knowledge. If yes, you are very lucky to have a life partner who has the same hobbies.
Regarding the points you want to convey to your husband, it won't have any effect as long as it doesn't disrupt your household's cash flow.
Because gambling does not require gender A or B, everyone has the same right to pleasure as long as it does not harm other people.

Unless you damage your household's cash flow and then you tell your husband, that will be a complicated problem.
Because the main problem in a husband and wife relationship is an economic problem, right?

As long as it doesn't affects the family cashflow and personal responsibility of the women it has nothing to be feared with having a woman gambling but best done with the knowledge of the husband as you said,who knows maybe the husband also is gambling secretly, and lookinyflr ways and opportunities to let the wife know also.

And if the wife open up to him, it then means alot for both paterners since the both of them will be collaborating and having the fun together at all time since both now have same hubby.

[Fivestar4everMVP]

Does this worth telling him or not please i need you collective ideas.

My advice will be inline with that which I already share with you on altcoinstalk, and that is that, telling your husband you are into gambling is completely up to you, as to me, gambling is a prerequisite or should I say, something you must do as a promoter of a gambling casino.
Promoting casinos on this forum requires us all to engage in gambling discussions on daily basis, how will you effectively blend into a gambling discussion is you yourself is not a gambler, or have no single knowledge of what gamble is or feels like?

So, for me, if I was you, I either will tell him or not tell him, it's completely up to me, it's not an obligation or whatsoever, it's what I am required to do based on what I do online to make money.

For example, I've been gambling for years now, and my wife does not know about it, and the truth is that, I should have stopped gambling a long time ago, but because I am required to engage in gambling discussions as often as possible, I have to keep gambling from time to time, to stay updated with the latest stuff, and have what and what to share with the gambling community.

[Oilacris]

Opening up to your husband is a good thing, who knows, he might also be gambling without your knowledge. If yes, you are very lucky to have a life partner who has the same hobbies.
Regarding the points you want to convey to your husband, it won't have any effect as long as it doesn't disrupt your household's cash flow.
Because gambling does not require gender A or B, everyone has the same right to pleasure as long as it does not harm other people.

Unless you damage your household's cash flow and then you tell your husband, that will be a complicated problem.
Because the main problem in a husband and wife relationship is an economic problem, right?

As long as it doesn't affects the family cashflow and personal responsibility of the women it has nothing to be feared with having a woman gambling but best done with the knowledge of the husband as you said,who knows maybe the husband also is gambling secretly, and lookinyflr ways and opportunities to let the wife know also.

And if the wife open up to him, it then means alot for both paterners since the both of them will be collaborating and having the fun together at all time since both now have same hubby.

Husband might not really be that much in concern if he do sees out that it isnt really that affecting or compromising their budget which it is really that unlike into the condition that they do have
 that struggle way of earning and then suddenly you have caught your wife or you've known that shes really that doing gambling on which we do know that when it comes
to gambling then spending up money would really be that standard or default. This is why it would really be that best that you should really that know on what are your priorities
and dont let your partner would be caughting up on what you are  doing specially if its really that against on him/her because it would really be a huge quarrel
but if there's no big money that involved and only just peanuts then it wont really be that something that severe.

[rhomelmabini]

Quite sometimes now i have been active in the gambling section and have pick interest to start gambling i have gone through lots of material in both the forum, i have seen that I can control my emotion as well as controlling my finance this includes;

• Not involving myself in a revenge gambling
• Not chasing profit after lost
• Not involving oneself into compulsive gambling
• Not solely replying on every game to be 100 percent correct
• Not hoping that gamble is guaranteed
• Not gambling with all my income or salaries
• Among all, gambling for fun and not to enrich oneself

The point is my husband doesn't know that i have been secretly gambling and involving myself with gambling discussions and the rest, So, this morning when i woke something in me keeps telling me i should let him know to understand my involvement  to practice gambling.

Does this worth telling him or not please i need you collective ideas.

I think that would be worth it, surely a guy can understand as long as you don't gambling what is meant to be for future use. You're in marriage and for sure you'll understand that everything you do is surely involve the other half, that's what my parents doesn't tired to tell me. Gambling or not, opening something will mean respect and honesty.

[PX-Z]

The point is my husband doesn't know that i have been secretly gambling and involving myself with gambling discussions and the rest, So, this morning when i woke something in me keeps telling me i should let him know to understand my involvement  to practice gambling.

Does this worth telling him or not please i need you collective ideas.

As someone's husband, i always tell her that i do this and i do that, currently doing this and previously did that. There's nothing wrong about telling it, as long as you didn't make loans for gambling and never sold things that came from your savings. Especially the things you mentioned since you're the kind of person who knows how to control and manage things (based on what you have said), I think he deserves to know those things as your husband.

[Wakate]

Quite sometimes now i have been active in the gambling section and have pick interest to start gambling i have gone through lots of material in both the forum, i have seen that I can control my emotion as well as controlling my finance this includes;

• Not involving myself in a revenge gambling
• Not chasing profit after lost
• Not involving oneself into compulsive gambling
• Not solely replying on every game to be 100 percent correct
• Not hoping that gamble is guaranteed
• Not gambling with all my income or salaries
• Among all, gambling for fun and not to enrich oneself

The point is my husband doesn't know that i have been secretly gambling and involving myself with gambling discussions and the rest, So, this morning when i woke something in me keeps telling me i should let him know to understand my involvement  to practice gambling.

Does this worth telling him or not please i need you collective ideas.

I think that would be worth it, surely a guy can understand as long as you don't gambling what is meant to be for future use. You're in marriage and for sure you'll understand that everything you do is surely involve the other half, that's what my parents doesn't tired to tell me. Gambling or not, opening something will mean respect and honesty.

The question why is that, why would a woman that is already married decided to gamble? What would have triggered her interest to indulge in gambling? This not a bad ethics and I would never support that. If it is in a case of a single mother, I could concluded that she needed money to take care of her child. In a case when she has an husband, it looks absurd and not a good lifestyle. Society sees women gambling as irresponsible especially in a region where their is no much of internet influence. Anyone can decide to do whatever they like but not in a case where they wife would be gambling and the husband does not know about it.

[rhomelmabini]

Quite sometimes now i have been active in the gambling section and have pick interest to start gambling i have gone through lots of material in both the forum, i have seen that I can control my emotion as well as controlling my finance this includes;

• Not involving myself in a revenge gambling
• Not chasing profit after lost
• Not involving oneself into compulsive gambling
• Not solely replying on every game to be 100 percent correct
• Not hoping that gamble is guaranteed
• Not gambling with all my income or salaries
• Among all, gambling for fun and not to enrich oneself

The point is my husband doesn't know that i have been secretly gambling and involving myself with gambling discussions and the rest, So, this morning when i woke something in me keeps telling me i should let him know to understand my involvement  to practice gambling.

Does this worth telling him or not please i need you collective ideas.

I think that would be worth it, surely a guy can understand as long as you don't gambling what is meant to be for future use. You're in marriage and for sure you'll understand that everything you do is surely involve the other half, that's what my parents doesn't tired to tell me. Gambling or not, opening something will mean respect and honesty.

The question why is that, why would a woman that is already married decided to gamble? What would have triggered her interest to indulge in gambling? This not a bad ethics and I would never support that. If it is in a case of a single mother, I could concluded that she needed money to take care of her child. In a case when she has an husband, it looks absurd and not a good lifestyle. Society sees women gambling as irresponsible especially in a region where their is no much of internet influence. Anyone can decide to do whatever they like but not in a case where they wife would be gambling and the husband does not know about it.

There are instances that it has been with her when she was single then decided to quit when got married but that wouldn't be erased instantly and that urge her to gamble again. Or, just for leisure purposes considering her (the OP) seems to be in control of what she does. If it's online gambling I can attest that even my close relatives do it and they're just plain housewives, nothing much to do in free time seems to be their way to pass the time or to try their luck.

[Quidat]

Quite sometimes now i have been active in the gambling section and have pick interest to start gambling i have gone through lots of material in both the forum, i have seen that I can control my emotion as well as controlling my finance this includes;

• Not involving myself in a revenge gambling
• Not chasing profit after lost
• Not involving oneself into compulsive gambling
• Not solely replying on every game to be 100 percent correct
• Not hoping that gamble is guaranteed
• Not gambling with all my income or salaries
• Among all, gambling for fun and not to enrich oneself

The point is my husband doesn't know that i have been secretly gambling and involving myself with gambling discussions and the rest, So, this morning when i woke something in me keeps telling me i should let him know to understand my involvement  to practice gambling.

Does this worth telling him or not please i need you collective ideas.

I think that would be worth it, surely a guy can understand as long as you don't gambling what is meant to be for future use. You're in marriage and for sure you'll understand that everything you do is surely involve the other half, that's what my parents doesn't tired to tell me. Gambling or not, opening something will mean respect and honesty.

The question why is that, why would a woman that is already married decided to gamble? What would have triggered her interest to indulge in gambling? This not a bad ethics and I would never support that. If it is in a case of a single mother, I could concluded that she needed money to take care of her child. In a case when she has an husband, it looks absurd and not a good lifestyle. Society sees women gambling as irresponsible especially in a region where their is no much of internet influence. Anyone can decide to do whatever they like but not in a case where they wife would be gambling and the husband does not know about it.

There are instances that it has been with her when she was single then decided to quit when got married but that wouldn't be erased instantly and that urge her to gamble again. Or, just for leisure purposes considering her (the OP) seems to be in control of what she does. If it's online gambling I can attest that even my close relatives do it and they're just plain housewives, nothing much to do in free time seems to be their way to pass the time or to try their luck.

Totally depends on what kind of person are  you or simply being wife. Lets say that they are housewives but we do know that gambling isnt something that to be that ideal for you to deal with
into those vacant time.Although no one does have the rights on what we should gonna do into our lives but dealing up with something which you would really be needing to make some
deposits or spending then it isnt something ideal nor really that preferred because it might really cause up that financial devastation if things turns out to be not be able to control well.
We do know that women arent really that someone whose really that good when it comes on handling situations specially into those who could cause that emotion impulsiveness
and on the time that they are on stress then this is where real different story would really be beginning.

[electronicash]

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she is in a situation because his side job involves gambling just as what she said in the OP. whether to tell her husband that she gambles sometimes or not, its up to her since she knows her husband more than we do.

but i would suggest not to tell after all it's just her job. tell him about it, maybe just spark interest in the husband and may ask more about it and probably gamble as well.

[Dewi Aries]

I think that would be worth it, surely a guy can understand as long as you don't gambling what is meant to be for future use. You're in marriage and for sure you'll understand that everything you do is surely involve the other half, that's what my parents doesn't tired to tell me. Gambling or not, opening something will mean respect and honesty.

The question why is that, why would a woman that is already married decided to gamble? What would have triggered her interest to indulge in gambling? This not a bad ethics and I would never support that. If it is in a case of a single mother, I could concluded that she needed money to take care of her child. In a case when she has an husband, it looks absurd and not a good lifestyle. Society sees women gambling as irresponsible especially in a region where their is no much of internet influence. Anyone can decide to do whatever they like but not in a case where they wife would be gambling and the husband does not know about it.

There are instances that it has been with her when she was single then decided to quit when got married but that wouldn't be erased instantly and that urge her to gamble again. Or, just for leisure purposes considering her (the OP) seems to be in control of what she does. If it's online gambling I can attest that even my close relatives do it and they're just plain housewives, nothing much to do in free time seems to be their way to pass the time or to try their luck.

Yes, as many people say, it is not easy to stop gambling activities, even if for example you have stopped and managed not to touch gambling for some time, there are still memories and feelings of curiosity that can be an encouragement for you to try your luck again. and finally everything returns to the initial situation where you will start to have difficulty again stopping or ignoring the activity even though your goal is only for recreation.

Online gambling gives all gamblers the freedom and convenience to get involved whenever and wherever they are and of course I can confirm the statement you made that housewives usually have more time at home because their work is not too heavy and does not require a lot of time to complete. homework, therefore it is possible that when they are already in a boring situation without any activities they have the possibility to try their luck, I think this is a possibility that has quite big potential.

[borovichok]

Gambling is never a bad thing and telling your husband that you gamble is the ideal thing to do. It will be bad if he finds out by himself.  By implication, he will feel that there are other things you might be hiding from him.

What matters in gambling is your ability to control the situation and manage your loss. However, since your involvement in gambling has not affected your relationship, lifestyle, or finances then, your husband will not pick any offense.

Don't be surprised that your husband might also be gambling. Hence, tell him. Men are overthinkers. Don't let him figure it out on his own. His reaction might be pathetic.

[entertheabyss]

As a wife, opening up and informing your partner that you have involved in gambling does not seem appropriate. Most men would perceive it as a sign of desperation and risky behavior caused by their expectations of the best from their spouses, rather than random women who gamble as another source of money. Facts: Most men consider women who gamble to be idle and lazy; perhaps they have no right to evaluate any activity because the women in issue are grown enough to know what they want; anything that makes you happy, do it.

[Promocodeudo]

Quite sometimes now i have been active in the gambling section and have pick interest to start gambling i have gone through lots of material in both the forum, i have seen that I can control my emotion as well as controlling my finance this includes;

• Not involving myself in a revenge gambling
• Not chasing profit after lost
• Not involving oneself into compulsive gambling
• Not solely replying on every game to be 100 percent correct
• Not hoping that gamble is guaranteed
• Not gambling with all my income or salaries
• Among all, gambling for fun and not to enrich oneself

The point is my husband doesn't know that i have been secretly gambling and involving myself with gambling discussions and the rest, So, this morning when i woke something in me keeps telling me i should let him know to understand my involvement  to practice gambling.

Does this worth telling him or not please i need you collective ideas.

It will depend on his response towards this, but if both of you do share everything together I think telling him about it wouldn't be a bad idea, note if your husband is someone that condemns gambling, he won't find it funny, but still telling him is a good decision in the right direction, your husband may feel bad because he might feel that you are too anxious to make money by all means and again their are some part of the world that doesn't encourage women involvement in gambling, they see it as not being traditional for women, I didn't say that women are prohibited to gamble in that part of the world but it is been seen as irresponsibility if a woman indulge in such act, I will also advice you that if you are doing such, you should thread with caution.

[Odusko]

As a married woman, is not wise for you to keep anything from your husband and something as risky as gambling that needs all the advice that you can get to help you maintain a stable and mindset that will help make the best of decision at all time.
This is why as a woman, you will be needing the help of the husband to stay at best position while gambling,  because majority of men have good k knowledge of gambling and even if gour husband happened not to a gambler, he will still ha e o e or two experience about gambling that can help you as a man and if you also need to retain the trust between the both of you, yoh must have to share what os going on with you with your husband

[Quidat]

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she is in a situation because his side job involves gambling just as what she said in the OP. whether to tell her husband that she gambles sometimes or not, its up to her since she knows her husband more than we do.

but i would suggest not to tell after all it's just her job. tell him about it, maybe just spark interest in the husband and may ask more about it and probably gamble as well.

The keypoint on here is about having that no secrets into each other, no matter what on the things that you are getting involved into as long you are really that open or really that letting
the other side on the things that you are dealing. You are already married and it is really just that right that you should really be that honest just like i said earlier.
There would really be no problems if two of you would really be that open to each other, no matter how small it is because nothing beats out on having a relationship
which is really that open to each other and there's no secrets.

In speaking about gambling then its not bad to gamble, telling it wont really be an issue.Issue comes when you are already
spending tons of money just for you to gamble.