Does it looks responsible as woman telling husband you gamble?

[len01]

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But don't expect it will go well, most people don't want to reveal their secrets because they scared if their spouse might not agree with their habit/choice/activity. The problem is when you reveal your secret in the beginning, he/she will underestimate and don't want to have a relationship with you. However if you reveal it when you both already in relationship, usually your spouse will try to accept that.

There's no clear answer because you will never know what the real personality of your spouse when you've married for long period.

Indeed, there will be no guarantee that everything will be fine, but there is no harm in telling the truth to our partner. after all, we have a relationship with our partner of course on the basis of mutual acceptance and if we tell each other honestly about something we didn't know before, of course we have to accept each other's honesty even though your partner will not agree if you gamble, of course you also have to respect your partner not to gamble anymore because he as a partner has respected you while hiding your gambling activities and after you tell the truth don't let your partner be disappointed.

maybe we have different lives and have different partners but I believe as long as I have a partner it means he accepts everything I do and I also have to always be honest with my partner.
and for me, this honesty is a form of mutual respect and a way to protect us from the bad effects of gambling because there is always someone who reminds us not to gamble recklessly.

[EarnOnVictor]

As a wife, opening up and informing your partner that you have involved in gambling does not seem appropriate. Most men would perceive it as a sign of desperation and risky behavior caused by their expectations of the best from their spouses, rather than random women who gamble as another source of money. Facts: Most men consider women who gamble to be idle and lazy; perhaps they have no right to evaluate any activity because the women in issue are grown enough to know what they want; anything that makes you happy, do it.

It's okay if the wife tells her husband that she also gambles. But a wife should be able to see when her husband is not busy and relaxing so they can chat about many things. It will also increase the closeness between the two of them so that there will be an interesting discussion between them. Maybe initially, the husband could not accept his wife's explanation, which was normal because if the husband gambled and told his wife about it, his wife would definitely do the same. So that's only natural. The wife can explain more about why she gambles to her husband, and the wife should be honest with her so that her husband does not get too angry. The wife can also say that as long as she gambles, she can be responsible well, and maybe later, her husband will ask her just to stop gambling because there are serious impacts behind gambling. And if the husband asks the wife to stop gambling, the wife must obey him and not indulge her ego because it is their household.

Spouses can have different views about something and if she had kept it from the husband deliberately from the first day of their relationship, it might mean that the guy is not such that associate in such or even liked gambling at all, so she might have had her reasons for doing that. But this will break the heart of the guy if he eventually finds out, and living with a woman that you didn't know completely could be so dangerous and the guy could term this to so many things if found out by himself. This is why I will advise her to tell him regardless of what the response of the husband would be, after all, they are family, and they can talk it through and come to a reasonable conclusion one way or naother.

And unless she is not working, I think that she still can prove to the husband that she is not depending on it or addicted to it for any reason, it might just be her hobby and that doesn't mean anything. Also, judging by the way she explained herself in the OP shows that she is a responsible gambler which is a plus in this regard even as the husband would know the kind of wife she marries, so I do not think this is a serious issue. But peradventure the husband didn't agree to it, I think that gambling is not a must, she can go for another hubby than that. Her marriage is so important because if she doesn't yield this time and the guy retaliates with another thing, it might be too painful for her just in the name of gambling.

[Crypt0Gore]

I don't know if he will feel comfortable seeing his woman as a gambler, you know him better, if he is capable of handling this then tell him, he can also be your way out if you somehow get addicted some day, you guys are one already, the reason why you feel like telling him is because you knew its wrong to keep something like this away from him, what if one day he find out on his own? That won't be so good isn't it?

Tell him how you are gambling, to make him feel at ease that his woman isn't a addicted gambler, show him that you are indeed a responsible gambler, and he won't need to be worried about the state of your mindset health.

I hope you have a job? If yes then there won't be any reason for him to think that you will be wasting his money on gambling, as afar as you are a responsible married woman there is no cause for alarm.

[maydna]

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Spouses can have different views about something and if she had kept it from the husband deliberately from the first day of their relationship, it might mean that the guy is not such that associate in such or even liked gambling at all, so she might have had her reasons for doing that. But this will break the heart of the guy if he eventually finds out, and living with a woman that you didn't know completely could be so dangerous and the guy could term this to so many things if found out by himself. This is why I will advise her to tell him regardless of what the response of the husband would be, after all, they are family, and they can talk it through and come to a reasonable conclusion one way or naother.

And unless she is not working, I think that she still can prove to the husband that she is not depending on it or addicted to it for any reason, it might just be her hobby and that doesn't mean anything. Also, judging by the way she explained herself in the OP shows that she is a responsible gambler which is a plus in this regard even as the husband would know the kind of wife she marries, so I do not think this is a serious issue. But peradventure the husband didn't agree to it, I think that gambling is not a must, she can go for another hubby than that. Her marriage is so important because if she doesn't yield this time and the guy retaliates with another thing, it might be too painful for her just in the name of gambling.

They should be able to discuss it carefully so that it doesn't cause many problems later because after all, they already live together and manage their money for the common good. There must be a reason why her husband doesn't like gambling, and this can only be found if his wife wants to talk to him carefully to explain that he gambles responsibly and doesn't use a lot of money. If her husband could understand and know that his wife was speaking the truth, he could still accept her and even accompany her to gamble. What is important in domestic life is openness between husband and wife about what they want to do. If something makes them uncomfortable, they can discuss it well without causing misunderstandings.

If after her husband finds out that his wife is gambling and her husband forbids his wife from gambling again, his wife does not need to continue her gambling activities because she must understand that the money she is holding is money to meet her husband's daily needs. He must be able to suppress his ego to want to give in for the sake of his family, and even though he is a responsible gambler, no one can guarantee that his wife can remain a responsible gambler because there are so many temptations from gambling that can make someone forget themselves. A marriage is an important thing, and it's not worth it if it's ruined because of a gambling problem, so it's best for them to talk about it well.

[LUCKMCFLY]

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I think that in every couple there should always be communication, there should not be any coverts or anything like that, things should always be that way , personally I am a person who also has his wife, has children , a nice family , but when she likes something that I don't, then I try to see something that doesn't negatively affect her life or mine or my children's , and if I see that they don't have any type of impact then I support her, I don't porbelma, things can be like that, now, if the rbelma is from a casino, and his way of playing, the first thing you do or what I would do would be to ask him the main thing, how much are you spending? because I see that if you are Spending a lot and without control, it will give you a couple of warnings , and that with money you have to be Careful , because it is very easy for you to fall into addiction if you do not have the Required control , it is something that Sometimes people cannot control , but they must.

  In this case things must always be shown in the correct way, inventions cannot be made with money, expenses in a casino must always be minimized so that the chances of winning can be increased, if we do not have the total understanding of how You should behave in a casino, it is better not to do it, it is better to lose help, as I have always said, if there is no money willing to lose in a casino, it is very easy to lose control, waste all the money you have at a time, and look for more to be spent again, and that is in accordance with the emotions, the impulses and with everything that has to do with good play, so every time we play or our partner plays, it would be good to tell him to play in our presence and see how he behaves with money, and if he puts money willing to lose or not, and how he reacts to basic decisions, based on this, it is the easiest way to determine his style and where the mistakes.

Yes, there must be communication between husband and wife so that they do not misunderstand. Most problems in the family arise because of misunderstandings and a lack of honesty about what has happened, which makes them feel suspicious of their partner. This must be resolved immediately so that it doesn't become a problem that could cause them to experience even more complicated problems. By discussing the problem well, husband and wife will clear the air so that misunderstandings will disappear and they can live their lives well. When a problem is hidden, one partner can feel it so that he will ask his partner about it. If his partner is not honest with him, he will know, which usually triggers the problem. And if the problem can hurt their family, the husband and wife can immediately find a solution so the problem doesn't get bigger.

If one of them gambles, it would be better for his partner to know about his gambling activities so that he can control the use of his money, especially if he sets aside a small portion of his income to allocate funds for gambling. After all, gambling requires money, and if they are husband and wife, there is a possibility that they will use the money for their family, so if they don't really monitor their use, it could be more than they imagined. His partner can always remind him to stay within his limits and not exceed what he can afford so that there is no unnecessary use of money just for gambling. However, if their partner has started crossing his limits and still thinks he is fine, the husband or wife must act immediately to save him from crossing his limits. After that incident, he and his partner can discuss how to proceed with their gambling activities, and if they feel that gambling will only hurt both of them, maybe they need to stop their gambling activities and leave gambling forever.

 It is very true that things should always be focused on good communication, there is no other way, things are always like that, for us to be okay with everything we have to do things well, and every time we are in a possible argument with our partner try not to raise your voice or anything, because things should be settled in the best way without getting upset, rather a debate, because one's partner is who one is always with and that is the only thing that matters, so if one If both of you are in danger with the game, what the other should do is help you, if necessary you should go with your partner to the casinos and see how you play, how you can play, win, lose, all this, then because These things must be done well, therefore it is something that will always be generated, the best thing of all is that they can help each other, there is no other way.

Now, for this, your partner must understand, that sometimes things are like that in casinos, which should help prevent them from falling into an addiction where both are affected, because if in the couple one of the two is wrong Well, the other must be there to give you their support, that's the most common, and the most normal thing, so in that way you can help, as we here have a little more knowledge about this casino, because it's easier to give advice about the game, the first thing I would tell you is that you have money, only use the money that you are willing to lose, there is no other option, because you can't do anything if things go to another level, we as good players and people with experience we must do everything possible so that things go well and thus protect our partner, because there is nothing stronger than falling into an addiction, that is the worst, I could say that things like this are more difficult easy to treat, which is why Support is something that Should be given immediately and without much thought.

[Fatunad]

As a wife, opening up and informing your partner that you have involved in gambling does not seem appropriate. Most men would perceive it as a sign of desperation and risky behavior caused by their expectations of the best from their spouses, rather than random women who gamble as another source of money. Facts: Most men consider women who gamble to be idle and lazy; perhaps they have no right to evaluate any activity because the women in issue are grown enough to know what they want; anything that makes you happy, do it.

It's okay if the wife tells her husband that she also gambles. But a wife should be able to see when her husband is not busy and relaxing so they can chat about many things. It will also increase the closeness between the two of them so that there will be an interesting discussion between them. Maybe initially, the husband could not accept his wife's explanation, which was normal because if the husband gambled and told his wife about it, his wife would definitely do the same. So that's only natural. The wife can explain more about why she gambles to her husband, and the wife should be honest with her so that her husband does not get too angry. The wife can also say that as long as she gambles, she can be responsible well, and maybe later, her husband will ask her just to stop gambling because there are serious impacts behind gambling. And if the husband asks the wife to stop gambling, the wife must obey him and not indulge her ego because it is their household.

Spouses can have different views about something and if she had kept it from the husband deliberately from the first day of their relationship, it might mean that the guy is not such that associate in such or even liked gambling at all, so she might have had her reasons for doing that. But this will break the heart of the guy if he eventually finds out, and living with a woman that you didn't know completely could be so dangerous and the guy could term this to so many things if found out by himself. This is why I will advise her to tell him regardless of what the response of the husband would be, after all, they are family, and they can talk it through and come to a reasonable conclusion one way or naother.

And unless she is not working, I think that she still can prove to the husband that she is not depending on it or addicted to it for any reason, it might just be her hobby and that doesn't mean anything. Also, judging by the way she explained herself in the OP shows that she is a responsible gambler which is a plus in this regard even as the husband would know the kind of wife she marries, so I do not think this is a serious issue. But peradventure the husband didn't agree to it, I think that gambling is not a must, she can go for another hubby than that. Her marriage is so important because if she doesn't yield this time and the guy retaliates with another thing, it might be too painful for her just in the name of gambling.

Totally depends on what kind of woman you are on which there are ones who are really that have fears into their husband on trying out to hide something but there are ones who doesnt really care as long
they are really that dealing into their own interest without bothering on telling  their husbands on what they've been doing. Its up to their own personal choice whether they would really be that honest and
really that having the respect into their partners on which it would really be something that would really be just that depending. Just like the rest been saying that it would really be best that you should
really be that honest and be that having no hidden thing from your husband or your wife specially on dealing with gambling which we know that it could affect finances that on such severe manner
if ever you dont able to control yourself towards it.

There are ones who are really that just fine as long they arent compromising their life savings but in overall it would really be that best that you should really be telling
even if it isnt really that something too big or much of a concern. It would be that best on having a relationship on which you do know that it is really something
that nothing is hidden.

[klidex]

you are one lucky person if you find a partner who can understand such balance concept. so long you know your boundaries when it comes to gambling, i guess, there's nothing to worry about. sometimes we need this facet of life to see the fun side of things. after all, we are all not work and stress in life. we can have our entertainment on the side as well. there's nothing wrong to experience the gambling side together. if you both know the consequences of what you are doing, i guess, you will be more careful when you are into this activity.

However, you need to know that if your financial condition is still stable then your partner will not have a problem with your activities in gambling, the balance of the relationship is still fine, but you must anticipate that our finances will not always be stable, so gambling will be the main factor that will be blamed if you experiencing financial problems even though you have gambled with strict rules does not result in financial losses.

The right solution is for you to be honest with your partner about the funds you use for gambling, so that your partner will not blame you if your financial condition worsens, because he already knows the history of the account you use for gambling deposits and he does not blame you for gambling. .

Of course, it is very important that we have to be able to manage financial stability if we don't want to experience problems that will be faced related to gambling and relationship balance. Set aside money that is really loose so that we don't need to worry because we have already managed the expenses that will be used for gambling so that it doesn't exceed this limit if you don't want to lose economic stability. Increasing the bet amount will affect the initial rules so never use money that exceeds the initial limit.

It is true that we must be honest and open with each other about the expenses we want to use for gambling because to maintain the financial stability of our family and partners we can remind them if we exceed a certain limit in terms of gambling and if it is regular then we can enjoy gambling happily without worrying about it causing significant financial losses.

[borovichok]

I don't know if he will feel comfortable seeing his woman as a gambler, you know him better, if he is capable of handling this then tell him

No matter how he feels, the right thing should be done. Here, the right thing to be done is that she tells her husband that she is into gambling. I don't think there is a need for such privacy in marriage. No husband will pick offense especially when there is no trace of recklessness in the activities of his wife.

Tell him how you are gambling, to make him feel at ease that his woman isn't an addicted gambler, show him that you are indeed a responsible gambler, and he won't need to be worried about the state of your mindset health.

Knowing an addicted gambler is not through word of mouth. A gambler might deny being an addictive gambler whereas his antecedents show otherwise. If the woman is an addictive gambler, her husband will know because she might not have been showing prudence in her finances.

I hope you have a job? If yes then there won't be any reason for him to think that you will be wasting his money on gambling, as afar as you are a responsible married woman there is no cause for alarm.

This will be imperative because it will control any panic from her husband. It will hit differently if she is a dependant and still gambles. Having her finances is a must if she must gamble but then, it should be done responsibly.

[junder]

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But don't expect it will go well, most people don't want to reveal their secrets because they scared if their spouse might not agree with their habit/choice/activity. The problem is when you reveal your secret in the beginning, he/she will underestimate and don't want to have a relationship with you. However if you reveal it when you both already in relationship, usually your spouse will try to accept that.

There's no clear answer because you will never know what the real personality of your spouse when you've married for long period.

Indeed, there will be no guarantee that everything will be fine, but there is no harm in telling the truth to our partner. after all, we have a relationship with our partner of course on the basis of mutual acceptance and if we tell each other honestly about something we didn't know before, of course we have to accept each other's honesty even though your partner will not agree if you gamble, of course you also have to respect your partner not to gamble anymore because he as a partner has respected you while hiding your gambling activities and after you tell the truth don't let your partner be disappointed.

maybe we have different lives and have different partners but I believe as long as I have a partner it means he accepts everything I do and I also have to always be honest with my partner.
and for me, this honesty is a form of mutual respect and a way to protect us from the bad effects of gambling because there is always someone who reminds us not to gamble recklessly.

In my opinion, the main perpetrator should be honest with his partner, because if their partner can accept it, that's not a bad thing, also if they get angry and give advice, that's good, because he himself doesn't want anything bad to happen to the main perpetrator, which means he loves the perpetrator. mainly. When we are in a relationship, especially when we are married, it indicates that we have to be open with each other, because it is natural for couples to be open to each other without keeping any secrets, because that could cause problems.

I'm not married myself, but I agree with you, if it is true,  couples must accept each other, and honesty is an important thing in a relationship,  because I myself hope to have a partner who is not reluctant to talk openly,  because that is one of the keys to the survival of a relationship so that it remains well, rather than keeping it a secret but in the end he will find out for himself,  especially if he finds out from other people's words then that will is a big problem in my opinion.

[Rabata]

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But don't expect it will go well, most people don't want to reveal their secrets because they scared if their spouse might not agree with their habit/choice/activity. The problem is when you reveal your secret in the beginning, he/she will underestimate and don't want to have a relationship with you. However if you reveal it when you both already in relationship, usually your spouse will try to accept that.

There's no clear answer because you will never know what the real personality of your spouse when you've married for long period.

Indeed, there will be no guarantee that everything will be fine, but there is no harm in telling the truth to our partner. after all, we have a relationship with our partner of course on the basis of mutual acceptance and if we tell each other honestly about something we didn't know before, of course we have to accept each other's honesty even though your partner will not agree if you gamble, of course you also have to respect your partner not to gamble anymore because he as a partner has respected you while hiding your gambling activities and after you tell the truth don't let your partner be disappointed.

maybe we have different lives and have different partners but I believe as long as I have a partner it means he accepts everything I do and I also have to always be honest with my partner.
and for me, this honesty is a form of mutual respect and a way to protect us from the bad effects of gambling because there is always someone who reminds us not to gamble recklessly.

I believe the main thing in the family existence is trust. That is, when husband and wife trust each other, the bond of love is formed between them. If there is no trust, discord, frustration and distrust will take their place. And when the negative aspects are excessive then that family will be destroyed and there will be no more family. Divorce has become a common thing nowadays and one of the reasons is that one cannot trust the other.

Gambling may be a simple thing but when this simple thing comes to her husband's knowledge indirectly, their romance can take a big shape. Of course, I also think that the woman should tell her husband about her gambling condition in order to have a good relationship. By doing this she can surely get better advice from her husband. There will be no hindrance in the relationship.

[rodskee]

Quite sometimes now i have been active in the gambling section and have pick interest to start gambling i have gone through lots of material in both the forum, i have seen that I can control my emotion as well as controlling my finance this includes;

There is nothing wrong in this , Only if you know how to limit and not to become a stupid gambler.

• Not involving myself in a revenge gambling
• Not chasing profit after lost
• Not involving oneself into compulsive gambling
• Not solely replying on every game to be 100 percent correct
• Not hoping that gamble is guaranteed
• Not gambling with all my income or salaries
• Among all, gambling for fun and not to enrich oneself

This is more than enough to prove that you know what you are entering so  just go and enjoy

The point is my husband doesn't know that i have been secretly gambling and involving myself with gambling discussions and the rest, So, this morning when i woke something in me keeps telling me i should let him know to understand my involvement  to practice gambling.

Does this worth telling him or not please i need you collective ideas.

How long have you been married? do you think there will be an issue once you tell Him about your gambling activities?
because if he trusted you and  you trusted Him then better talk closely and with heart.

[Judith87403]

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Spouses can have different views about something and if she had kept it from the husband deliberately from the first day of their relationship, it might mean that the guy is not such that associate in such or even liked gambling at all, so she might have had her reasons for doing that. But this will break the heart of the guy if he eventually finds out, and living with a woman that you didn't know completely could be so dangerous and the guy could term this to so many things if found out by himself. This is why I will advise her to tell him regardless of what the response of the husband would be, after all, they are family, and they can talk it through and come to a reasonable conclusion one way or naother.

And unless she is not working, I think that she still can prove to the husband that she is not depending on it or addicted to it for any reason, it might just be her hobby and that doesn't mean anything. Also, judging by the way she explained herself in the OP shows that she is a responsible gambler which is a plus in this regard even as the husband would know the kind of wife she marries, so I do not think this is a serious issue. But peradventure the husband didn't agree to it, I think that gambling is not a must, she can go for another hubby than that. Her marriage is so important because if she doesn't yield this time and the guy retaliates with another thing, it might be too painful for her just in the name of gambling.

They should be able to discuss it carefully so that it doesn't cause many problems later because after all, they already live together and manage their money for the common good. There must be a reason why her husband doesn't like gambling, and this can only be found if his wife wants to talk to him carefully to explain that he gambles responsibly and doesn't use a lot of money. If her husband could understand and know that his wife was speaking the truth, he could still accept her and even accompany her to gamble. What is important in domestic life is openness between husband and wife about what they want to do. If something makes them uncomfortable, they can discuss it well without causing misunderstandings.

If after her husband finds out that his wife is gambling and her husband forbids his wife from gambling again, his wife does not need to continue her gambling activities because she must understand that the money she is holding is money to meet her husband's daily needs. He must be able to suppress his ego to want to give in for the sake of his family, and even though he is a responsible gambler, no one can guarantee that his wife can remain a responsible gambler because there are so many temptations from gambling that can make someone forget themselves. A marriage is an important thing, and it's not worth it if it's ruined because of a gambling problem, so it's best for them to talk about it well.

Well for a woman to plainly tell her  husband that she's into gambling I think that will be very thoughtful of her, because if she  keep hidden it from him probably he finds out that this is what she have been doing behind his back he's not going to take it likely with her as the wife.

Even if you're a working class lady at least you're suppose to get him involve if he's going to stick with it, even if he's not the one providing the money you use to gamble that doesn't change any thing, the facts remains that he's your husband he's supposed to be aware of it

Then after telling him probably he sticks to it I will advice you play responsibly and you shouldn't allow it to hinder you from doing your duties as a wife.
 

[Hirose UK]

If you are still able to control yourself as you say, there is no need to tell him, but if you feel you have done more or even violated what you said, it is better to tell your husband immediately before it is too late because the effects of gambling are very big, without us realizing it, we can destroy it. Our life is only in 1 minute so stay careful

Whatever is considered perhaps not normal activity to do, it is still wife obligation to tell her husband honestly about what she has been doing.
This is not only responsibility to be open with each other but also an attitude of wife who must be obedient to husband.
If, after saying everything, her husband forbids her from repeating gambling activities, then she as wife must obey him, she must obey what her husband says.
I sure that husbands will always have good mindset for the long term and husbands will be able to decide what is good and what is bad for the future of their family. Moreover, wife must also still have control over anything related to money because wife becomes place in money management in the family.

What is quite worrying is that when it is publicly known that woman or wife likes gambling, we know that the sentiment in some places towards women who gamble is not positive sentiment.
There will be negative thoughts and conversations and this must be avoided.

[Ever-young]

I don't know if he will feel comfortable seeing his woman as a gambler, you know him better, if he is capable of handling this then tell him, he can also be your way out if you somehow get addicted some day, you guys are one already, the reason why you feel like telling him is because you knew its wrong to keep something like this away from him, what if one day he find out on his own? That won't be so good isn't it?

Even if he is going to get angry because of what you will tell him about gambling it won’t change the fact that you still need to tell him, at least he is your husband even if the money that is going to be used for gambling is not going to come from his pocket it’s important to at least let him know of what the wife do with her free time. The feelings no matter how bad it will look it won’t be as bad as when he will have to discover it by him self so better off telling him on time and get it off your mind.

[Blitzboy]

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I think that in every couple there should always be communication, there should not be any coverts or anything like that, things should always be that way , personally I am a person who also has his wife, has children , a nice family , but when she likes something that I don't, then I try to see something that doesn't negatively affect her life or mine or my children's , and if I see that they don't have any type of impact then I support her, I don't porbelma, things can be like that, now, if the rbelma is from a casino, and his way of playing, the first thing you do or what I would do would be to ask him the main thing, how much are you spending? because I see that if you are Spending a lot and without control, it will give you a couple of warnings , and that with money you have to be Careful , because it is very easy for you to fall into addiction if you do not have the Required control , it is something that Sometimes people cannot control , but they must.

  In this case things must always be shown in the correct way, inventions cannot be made with money, expenses in a casino must always be minimized so that the chances of winning can be increased, if we do not have the total understanding of how You should behave in a casino, it is better not to do it, it is better to lose help, as I have always said, if there is no money willing to lose in a casino, it is very easy to lose control, waste all the money you have at a time, and look for more to be spent again, and that is in accordance with the emotions, the impulses and with everything that has to do with good play, so every time we play or our partner plays, it would be good to tell him to play in our presence and see how he behaves with money, and if he puts money willing to lose or not, and how he reacts to basic decisions, based on this, it is the easiest way to determine his style and where the mistakes.

Yes, there must be communication between husband and wife so that they do not misunderstand. Most problems in the family arise because of misunderstandings and a lack of honesty about what has happened, which makes them feel suspicious of their partner. This must be resolved immediately so that it doesn't become a problem that could cause them to experience even more complicated problems. By discussing the problem well, husband and wife will clear the air so that misunderstandings will disappear and they can live their lives well. When a problem is hidden, one partner can feel it so that he will ask his partner about it. If his partner is not honest with him, he will know, which usually triggers the problem. And if the problem can hurt their family, the husband and wife can immediately find a solution so the problem doesn't get bigger.

If one of them gambles, it would be better for his partner to know about his gambling activities so that he can control the use of his money, especially if he sets aside a small portion of his income to allocate funds for gambling. After all, gambling requires money, and if they are husband and wife, there is a possibility that they will use the money for their family, so if they don't really monitor their use, it could be more than they imagined. His partner can always remind him to stay within his limits and not exceed what he can afford so that there is no unnecessary use of money just for gambling. However, if their partner has started crossing his limits and still thinks he is fine, the husband or wife must act immediately to save him from crossing his limits. After that incident, he and his partner can discuss how to proceed with their gambling activities, and if they feel that gambling will only hurt both of them, maybe they need to stop their gambling activities and leave gambling forever.

 It is very true that things should always be focused on good communication, there is no other way, things are always like that, for us to be okay with everything we have to do things well, and every time we are in a possible argument with our partner try not to raise your voice or anything, because things should be settled in the best way without getting upset, rather a debate, because one's partner is who one is always with and that is the only thing that matters, so if one If both of you are in danger with the game, what the other should do is help you, if necessary you should go with your partner to the casinos and see how you play, how you can play, win, lose, all this, then because These things must be done well, therefore it is something that will always be generated, the best thing of all is that they can help each other, there is no other way.

Now, for this, your partner must understand, that sometimes things are like that in casinos, which should help prevent them from falling into an addiction where both are affected, because if in the couple one of the two is wrong Well, the other must be there to give you their support, that's the most common, and the most normal thing, so in that way you can help, as we here have a little more knowledge about this casino, because it's easier to give advice about the game, the first thing I would tell you is that you have money, only use the money that you are willing to lose, there is no other option, because you can't do anything if things go to another level, we as good players and people with experience we must do everything possible so that things go well and thus protect our partner, because there is nothing stronger than falling into an addiction, that is the worst, I could say that things like this are more difficult easy to treat, which is why Support is something that Should be given immediately and without much thought.

Its important to stay calm in emotional circumstances like gambling. I think a supporting partner is crucial in a casino. The important thing is supporting each other, regardless of the outcome.

I recommend making a budget before entering the casino because I value financial advice and emotional support. One basic yet successful method is to only gamble what you can lose. This strategy protects your finances and promotes a healthy gaming relationship. Take pleasure in the game without allowing it dictate your relationship.

Finally, helping a gambling partner is admirable. Equally crucial is recognizing addiction symptoms. Taking preventative measures can avoid many problems. Be transparent about gambling and ready to get help if things go wrong. Gambling should be fun while being responsible.

[maydna]

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It is very true that things should always be focused on good communication, there is no other way, things are always like that, for us to be okay with everything we have to do things well, and every time we are in a possible argument with our partner try not to raise your voice or anything, because things should be settled in the best way without getting upset, rather a debate, because one's partner is who one is always with and that is the only thing that matters, so if one If both of you are in danger with the game, what the other should do is help you, if necessary you should go with your partner to the casinos and see how you play, how you can play, win, lose, all this, then because These things must be done well, therefore it is something that will always be generated, the best thing of all is that they can help each other, there is no other way.

Now, for this, your partner must understand, that sometimes things are like that in casinos, which should help prevent them from falling into an addiction where both are affected, because if in the couple one of the two is wrong Well, the other must be there to give you their support, that's the most common, and the most normal thing, so in that way you can help, as we here have a little more knowledge about this casino, because it's easier to give advice about the game, the first thing I would tell you is that you have money, only use the money that you are willing to lose, there is no other option, because you can't do anything if things go to another level, we as good players and people with experience we must do everything possible so that things go well and thus protect our partner, because there is nothing stronger than falling into an addiction, that is the worst, I could say that things like this are more difficult easy to treat, which is why Support is something that Should be given immediately and without much thought.

By communicating well, husband and wife couples will not experience misunderstandings that can cause them to get involved in unfinished arguments. When husband and wife are involved in endless arguments, they may experience a divorce, which would not have happened if they could communicate well. By communicating, the couple can resolve the problem amicably, and there is no need for arguments to occur. Maybe his wife being honest about her gambling activities can make her husband understand and will encourage him to end his gambling activities so that his wife doesn't have to experience bad things.

By asking him to leave his gambling activities, he can give his wife the opportunity to do other things that can benefit his wife and husband too. Before the situation gets worse, especially if we are talking about gambling, where there will be impacts that we will feel apart from losing money, it is better just to end it and decide not to gamble. With support from her husband, his wife can choose what to do so that even though she feels she can be responsible for her gambling activities, she will prefer to stop her gambling activities. Moreover, he has experienced losses and wins from gambling, so he will think it is better just to stop his gambling activities rather than later he will get into bigger problems. Meanwhile, no one knows when someone will experience a gambling addiction, so before someone experiences a gambling addiction, it is better for him to stop gambling and do other activities that are more useful.

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Well for a woman to plainly tell her  husband that she's into gambling I think that will be very thoughtful of her, because if she  keep hidden it from him probably he finds out that this is what she have been doing behind his back he's not going to take it likely with her as the wife.

Even if you're a working class lady at least you're suppose to get him involve if he's going to stick with it, even if he's not the one providing the money you use to gamble that doesn't change any thing, the facts remains that he's your husband he's supposed to be aware of it

Then after telling him probably he sticks to it I will advice you play responsibly and you shouldn't allow it to hinder you from doing your duties as a wife.

Yes, it takes courage for a wife to say that she likes to gamble and must accept the consequences because maybe her husband will not like it. But if the wife prefers to hide it from her husband, there is a possibility that there will be misunderstandings and arguments when her husband finds out. A husband or wife doesn't like being lied to or dishonest about what they do, so it's best to tell the truth to her husband immediately.

Yes, he is her husband, and as a wife, she should be honest about her gambling activities rather than causing something uncomfortable in her household. With honesty, a wife and husband can get through this together.

Maybe after his wife is honest about her gambling activities, her husband will accompany her when gambling so that she doesn't gamble excessively. And her husband might stop his gambling activities and replace them with other, more useful activities.

[LUCKMCFLY]

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Yes, at this point things should be done that way, we are people who must use intelligence at all times, it is well known that emotions are difficult to manage in many situations , so we must help ourselves to minimize them. That responsibility and having good results , in this order of ideas it is good to budget before playing, and to have that money willing to lose, because basically when you have money willing to lose you can do many things, the first thing is taken away from On top of that, the responsibility of Self-monitoring of the emotions , a person knowing what they can spend and not going overboard in making deeper partners because it's simple, things don't get bigger, so only in this way is it easy to determine things well , if not, we have We have to take stock of things we Should control and it turns out to be more Complicated.

So the player who has already pre-Established what he is going to win, can take it for granted that there is a lot to go, that even things can be taken with the perspective that is, one should not do anything other than deposit what we are willing to lose, then in view of that it is when we do anything to not remove our own rules, in this case things can look different, a person can eventually go crazy if they want to play, but always respecting the outcome that they can lose, otherwise You can see if the person loses control of the money or something, but if the person sees that they have a good performance and they have profits, another thing is whether they can withdraw , if they withdraw it is a good time to have to be able to Establish any something so that he leaves with full pockets , something that I see as excellent, but in the case that not, the acceptable thing is that after certain wins a player has to withdraw , otherwise he will never see the good in this, and the good thing about this is earning money , taking advantage every time that you are lucky enough to win.

[danadc]

When I am doing an activity as important as this, what I do is Focus on mine , if I have Someone then let them know, and it will not cause any type of change in anyone, I could say that when there are people who are The Avant-garde of Doing anything in a casino should do it , regardless of Whether you have a husband or not, if you are Married, then obviously the husband has to know that he is a person who likes the game and that he Cannot deny that, I am not going to stop doing something I like only because my husband doesn't like it, that's why you earn money yourself by Working.

When I have a partner, I don't tell him what I'm going to do, but he already knows what to do and he doesn't like it because it's bad, but I'm not Going to stop Doing my thing s, in this case things can be different if they are done Secretly, but otherwise there is nothing to hide, Well that's my way of Thinking.

[Hewlet]

Does this worth telling him or not please i need you collective ideas.

personally, I don't like the idea of a lady going into gambling nit because it is totally bad but I feel that it doesn't fit their gender that much. Their was a certain time my female freeing for reasons best known to her decided that she was interested in soccer gambling and came to me for advice on how to go about it. I just told her to forget about it that I wouldn't tell her shit because it doesn't go down well with me that I am gambling and my woman would also gamble with me.

This is just a personal something and I know their are others that might find it cool that their wife is into gambling but I think before taking this decision of going into gambling as a leader you must have seen that it would go down well with your husband if he finds out and if that's the case then you are good to go.

But regarding the rules you've set out as bench mark you wouldn't cross as you start up your gambling journey, I feel they aren't necessary I you're going into a gambling niche that you enjoy playing with friends. Just don't for fun as a lady and don't allow yourself to become addicted or become used to it.

[Mahanton]

Does this worth telling him or not please i need you collective ideas.

personally, I don't like the idea of a lady going into gambling nit because it is totally bad but I feel that it doesn't fit their gender that much. Their was a certain time my female freeing for reasons best known to her decided that she was interested in soccer gambling and came to me for advice on how to go about it. I just told her to forget about it that I wouldn't tell her shit because it doesn't go down well with me that I am gambling and my woman would also gamble with me.

This is just a personal something and I know their are others that might find it cool that their wife is into gambling but I think before taking this decision of going into gambling as a leader you must have seen that it would go down well with your husband if he finds out and if that's the case then you are good to go.

But regarding the rules you've set out as bench mark you wouldn't cross as you start up your gambling journey, I feel they aren't necessary I you're going into a gambling niche that you enjoy playing with friends. Just don't for fun as a lady and don't allow yourself to become addicted or become used to it.

Its never been cool looking if you do see your wife on doing gambling, even if i do say that im a gambler but seeing my wife on doing gambling things is never been appealing and never
been that good looking. It is really just that there are people who are really that too lenient when it comes to their wives doings. Well, its not really that bad on dealing up something like this but
as a men or male then we do know on what are the risks involved with gambling.Even if we do say that they are really that responsible on their spending but as the time that you are really that
playing or getting engaged with it then you are really that prone to addiction which might lead into possible messed up gambling activity later on.

As wife or even husband, whatever the things that you've been dealing or making, then it would really be always better that you should really be honest
and be transparent towards your partner so that you wont really be that having those potential problems later on.