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December 31, 2014, 03:59:32 PM |
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1)Thanks for explaining!!! but I still don't get it lol. My activity says full member 126. What does 126 mean? Did I make 126 posts? What is a hero member? 2)How do I donate my signature? Who do I donate it to? Is it like charities? How Is it useful to them? 3)I'm already registered with Slush's and Bitstamp so I don't really need to register to another exhange right? That's a NZ exchange anyway, are you a Kiwi? 4) I don't know much about mining altcoins you're right, mining btc has been a disaster this year though and I lost thousands, hopefully it'll improve but maybe it's not a good idea to recommend mining to your friend just yet? to 1.: i found something which will explain more... check out this thread: https://bitcointalk.org/index.php?topic=178608.0Otherwise you have to ask a admin carefully, if you need more information to 2.: you must answer these questions by yourself, i think. i can only provide the link of the campaign that i has joined in. https://bitcointalk.org/index.php?topic=877550.0;topicseenmaybe there are some other and better. with different conditions. i recommend, use the search feature to get more information about available opportunities. to 3. & 4.: also i really can't decide about if Slush's and Bitstamp are enough. for me personally it is one way more, to use more markets and do trades like arbitrage, for example. Also there are some other nice features on CRYPTOPIA. That exchange have a MARKETPLACE intergrated! You can sell and buy goods there, like you know it from ebay maybe. But with cryptocurrencies! That is really unique and i did not have seen this on any other exchange before. And by the way, the chat there is funny and unique too. I meet a guy there (i think he is from UK also) and he is mining Coins at CRYPTOPIA. I guess he knows a lot about, especially altcoins. PS: later i going to increase the value of DOT coins, so my giveaway would be more attraktiv, i think and no, i am not a kiwi, you island child Thanks again Coinfriend, I sort of get it now but what happens if I don't want to join a sig campaign? I feel like the sig would sort of take over my posts' content, you know, having a sign with flashing letters at the bottom is sort of distracting and I don't want anyone to be distracted from what I'm saying, they are after all very *important* contributions to this forum i understand what you mean. it is the the same that happened to me when i'm reading your posts. there is this cute smiling smiley in your signature. and all the time i'm totally distracted by this smiley, because i'm thinking "is this smiley meaningful enough to represent Fabiola!s smile in any way?" but in my case, i have thinking a lot about it, to join in a signature campaign. all the blinking and shiny letters are to much and only most unimportant information for any important and contentful conversation. you say that already completely correct. also it is against my personal attitude to sell anything from me for someone others profit. but nevertheless, i jumped over my own shadow and joined in. because i had also another thought. so i say to me, english is not my main language and it is mostly strenuous and time-consuming for me to write. already in school i was not good in languages. so now, to learn a little bit more and improve my skills. why should i not get payed for my effort? it's like a little incentive for me... however, i wanted not to urge you into a signatur campaign. i have only invited you (and all the other folks also) to join into that kiwi exchange called CRYPTOPIA . And i have created a give away action to make it a bit more interesting for everybody to start with. At this moment there're still many spots left. all people who are interested should check this link to get more information: https://bitcointalk.org/index.php?topic=884520.msg9944685#msg9944685Congrats on your English it's perfect, what's your main language then? I was half-joking about my posts being super important lol, and yes my sig is accurate, I smile *most of the time* Ps. How did you manage to jump over your own shadow? Parkour? Are you like a ninja? thanks for the compliment. but without google my english would be very poor, i think. have forgotten my main language ... I understand your half half-joking about your highly important posts. But i let you know, i am absolutely not a funny guy. By the way Fabiola!, i like your smile. It is so beautiful yellow and reminds me on the sun The sun is my friend, she helps me to jump over my own shadow. We cooperate sometimes And if you want, than i am a ninja too. Happy New Year for you
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January 03, 2015, 12:58:06 AM |
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Happy new year to everyone who's been on this thread, trolls included all the best for 2015! Xxx
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January 03, 2015, 03:24:43 AM |
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Can you give us a picture of you? :3
man makes a point Will fabiola be releasing a 2015 calender of your forum pictures, please send me personal message of retail detail. So thirsty right now :p
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January 03, 2015, 06:44:07 PM |
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Can you give us a picture of you? :3
man makes a point Will fabiola be releasing a 2015 calender of your forum pictures, please send me personal message of retail detail. So thirsty right now :p Lolz, why would anyone pay for pics of me when you can google lots of them for free? : )
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January 03, 2015, 08:57:03 PM |
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January 03, 2015, 10:06:23 PM |
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Not going to lie, being surrounded by all dudes on this forum, without even meeting you, I find you attractive since you are into bitcoin and you're a woman. Thats a first.
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Get sick. Get well.
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fabiola! (OP)
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January 03, 2015, 10:30:43 PM |
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Haha, I knew you were gonna do that! x
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fabiola! (OP)
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January 03, 2015, 10:32:42 PM |
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Not going to lie, being surrounded by all dudes on this forum, without even meeting you, I find you attractive since you are into bitcoin and you're a woman. Thats a first.
Thanks that's really nice, yey someone finds me attractive just for being into Bitcoin now that's a first!
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January 04, 2015, 03:59:43 AM |
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Intelligence can definitely be an attractive quality, I dont think thats a myth. It makes less sense that some guys would prefer women who 'know their place'/dont speak or have nothing interesting to say and share nothing in common, isnt this setting up a really boring relationship. Sadly its surprising but its more common then that, intelligent women is very sexy There is such a thing as geek chic :p http://www.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/english/geek-chic
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January 04, 2015, 04:34:58 AM |
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Intelligence can definitely be an attractive quality, I dont think thats a myth. It makes less sense that some guys would prefer women who 'know their place'/dont speak or have nothing interesting to say and share nothing in common, isnt this setting up a really boring relationship. Sadly its surprising but its more common then that, intelligent women is very sexy There is such a thing as geek chic :p http://www.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/english/geek-chicI know, but, Unfortunately guys always seem to prefer dumber girls, geek chics never seem to get as much attention, like, ever. I'm somewhere in the middle which is lucky for me, I can dumb down if necessary and look like a total bimbo if need be, haha. I think the whole geeky look suits guys way better than girls and I don't think that's gonna change anytime soon.
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January 04, 2015, 04:48:24 AM |
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Happy new year to everyone who's been on this thread, trolls included all the best for 2015! Xxx Thanks And about the deleted posts: I don't think we went off topic! When than only i did it, only for for a short time. Sometimes it is necessary, it helps to clarify the real topic. And also i think, a non finished conversation can't be completely off topic, because nobody knows the end. Now the deleting activity by the admin has speed up the conversation and pulled it to the next level. So lets remember how it starts. In the beginning we came to the knowledge that is something not fair. And that is maybe a reason why here are less girls in the forum. And new user lose the the interest also. Now i think what the admin did was not fair again. He has deleted also my post with the giveaway. Now i have written something about what was happen in the thread where it was posted. I give you a link where you can find more. Maybe you have a look at it. Would be nice https://bitcointalk.org/index.php?topic=884520.msg10030295#msg10030295
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January 04, 2015, 05:51:55 AM |
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Intelligence can definitely be an attractive quality, I dont think thats a myth. It makes less sense that some guys would prefer women who 'know their place'/dont speak or have nothing interesting to say and share nothing in common, isnt this setting up a really boring relationship. Sadly its surprising but its more common then that, intelligent women is very sexy There is such a thing as geek chic :p http://www.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/english/geek-chicI know, but, Unfortunately guys always seem to prefer dumber girls, geek chics never seem to get as much attention, like, ever. I'm somewhere in the middle which is lucky for me, I can dumb down if necessary and look like a total bimbo if need be, haha. I think the whole geeky look suits guys way better than girls and I don't think that's gonna change anytime soon. How the hell is this thread still alive. Seriously, 44 pages of this stuff? Geeky girls are amazing; I don't know where you got that stigma. The people that only go for bimbos are happy until the physical attraction starts fading away. With someone that's intelligent and geeky, I'm the happiest. Why would I want someone I can't hold a conversation with? I definitely prefer geeky girls, both in the short and long run. Geek chics DEFINITELY get attention.
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January 04, 2015, 03:31:43 PM |
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Intelligence can definitely be an attractive quality, I dont think thats a myth. It makes less sense that some guys would prefer women who 'know their place'/dont speak or have nothing interesting to say and share nothing in common, isnt this setting up a really boring relationship. Sadly its surprising but its more common then that, intelligent women is very sexy There is such a thing as geek chic :p http://www.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/english/geek-chicI know, but, Unfortunately guys always seem to prefer dumber girls, geek chics never seem to get as much attention, like, ever. I'm somewhere in the middle which is lucky for me, I can dumb down if necessary and look like a total bimbo if need be, haha. I think the whole geeky look suits guys way better than girls and I don't think that's gonna change anytime soon. How the hell is this thread still alive. Seriously, 44 pages of this stuff? Geeky girls are amazing; I don't know where you got that stigma. The people that only go for bimbos are happy until the physical attraction starts fading away. With someone that's intelligent and geeky, I'm the happiest. Why would I want someone I can't hold a conversation with? I definitely prefer geeky girls, both in the short and long run. Geek chics DEFINITELY get attention. I think the thread is a nice welcome to new girls so they can grasp what the vibe is like for girls here About geeky girls, well. Non geeky boys don't generally like geeky girls, they go for the hot babe look. So that only leaves geeky guys to be interested in geeky girls, and you would think that's perfectly fine. However, judging by this forum and the huge amount of geeky guys starting hot babe NSFW threads, I get a feeling geeky guys also want hot babes. So, apparently, everyone wants hot babes. Am I wrong?
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January 04, 2015, 04:06:06 PM |
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Intelligence can definitely be an attractive quality, I dont think thats a myth. It makes less sense that some guys would prefer women who 'know their place'/dont speak or have nothing interesting to say and share nothing in common, isnt this setting up a really boring relationship. Sadly its surprising but its more common then that, intelligent women is very sexy There is such a thing as geek chic :p http://www.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/english/geek-chicI know, but, Unfortunately guys always seem to prefer dumber girls, geek chics never seem to get as much attention, like, ever. I'm somewhere in the middle which is lucky for me, I can dumb down if necessary and look like a total bimbo if need be, haha. I think the whole geeky look suits guys way better than girls and I don't think that's gonna change anytime soon. How the hell is this thread still alive. Seriously, 44 pages of this stuff? Geeky girls are amazing; I don't know where you got that stigma. The people that only go for bimbos are happy until the physical attraction starts fading away. With someone that's intelligent and geeky, I'm the happiest. Why would I want someone I can't hold a conversation with? I definitely prefer geeky girls, both in the short and long run. Geek chics DEFINITELY get attention. I think the thread is a nice welcome to new girls so they can grasp what the vibe is like for girls here About geeky girls, well. Non geeky boys don't generally like geeky girls, they go for the hot babe look. So that only leaves geeky guys to be interested in geeky girls, and you would think that's perfectly fine. However, judging by this forum and the huge amount of geeky guys starting hot babe NSFW threads, I get a feeling geeky guys also want hot babes. So, apparently, everyone wants hot babes. Am I wrong? I think it's safe to assume that everyone appreciates beauty for what it is, but when it comes down to having a relationship with someone I believe personality and intelligence plays a much bigger role. Looks only gets you so far and physical beauty fades over time, yet someone with whom you have a strong connection is very likely to become even more beautiful in your eyes as the years go by. Stupid people irritate me no matter how good looking they are. So, while looks may get you in the door per say, you'll soon find your ass on the street if that's all you have to contribute, as far as I'm concerned.
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January 04, 2015, 07:23:03 PM |
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I know, but, Unfortunately guys always seem to prefer dumber girls, geek chics never seem to get as much attention, like, ever. I'm somewhere in the middle which is lucky for me, I can dumb down if necessary and look like a total bimbo if need be, haha. I think the whole geeky look suits guys way better than girls and I don't think that's gonna change anytime soon.
How the hell is this thread still alive. Seriously, 44 pages of this stuff? Geeky girls are amazing; I don't know where you got that stigma. The people that only go for bimbos are happy until the physical attraction starts fading away. With someone that's intelligent and geeky, I'm the happiest. Why would I want someone I can't hold a conversation with? I definitely prefer geeky girls, both in the short and long run. Geek chics DEFINITELY get attention. I think the thread is a nice welcome to new girls so they can grasp what the vibe is like for girls here About geeky girls, well. Non geeky boys don't generally like geeky girls, they go for the hot babe look. So that only leaves geeky guys to be interested in geeky girls, and you would think that's perfectly fine. However, judging by this forum and the huge amount of geeky guys starting hot babe NSFW threads, I get a feeling geeky guys also want hot babes. So, apparently, everyone wants hot babes. Am I wrong? I think it's safe to assume that everyone appreciates beauty for what it is, but when it comes down to having a relationship with someone I believe personality and intelligence plays a much bigger role. Looks only gets you so far and physical beauty fades over time, yet someone with whom you have a strong connection is very likely to become even more beautiful in your eyes as the years go by. Stupid people irritate me no matter how good looking they are. So, while looks may get you in the door per say, you'll soon find your ass on the street if that's all you have to contribute, as far as I'm concerned. Sounds good on paper but harder to do in real life. We don't need to go to the extremes -of gorgeous but stupid VS ugly but smart. Say, if you met a gorgeous babe like those in the NsFW threads and you guys started a relationship, you realised she wasn't the smartest girl in the world but she's not stupid either, just average..would you be thinking "she's so hot and sexy but hey I value intelligence so I need to leave her for someone smarter right now!" I don't think so. Those NSFW threads prove guys are always infatuated with beauty (even super smart guys) and of course ideally you want beauty AND brains, but I'm thinking guys are happier to compromise a lot more on brains than beauty.
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January 04, 2015, 09:01:49 PM |
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I know, but, Unfortunately guys always seem to prefer dumber girls, geek chics never seem to get as much attention, like, ever. I'm somewhere in the middle which is lucky for me, I can dumb down if necessary and look like a total bimbo if need be, haha. I think the whole geeky look suits guys way better than girls and I don't think that's gonna change anytime soon.
How the hell is this thread still alive. Seriously, 44 pages of this stuff? Geeky girls are amazing; I don't know where you got that stigma. The people that only go for bimbos are happy until the physical attraction starts fading away. With someone that's intelligent and geeky, I'm the happiest. Why would I want someone I can't hold a conversation with? I definitely prefer geeky girls, both in the short and long run. Geek chics DEFINITELY get attention. I think the thread is a nice welcome to new girls so they can grasp what the vibe is like for girls here About geeky girls, well. Non geeky boys don't generally like geeky girls, they go for the hot babe look. So that only leaves geeky guys to be interested in geeky girls, and you would think that's perfectly fine. However, judging by this forum and the huge amount of geeky guys starting hot babe NSFW threads, I get a feeling geeky guys also want hot babes. So, apparently, everyone wants hot babes. Am I wrong? I think it's safe to assume that everyone appreciates beauty for what it is, but when it comes down to having a relationship with someone I believe personality and intelligence plays a much bigger role. Looks only gets you so far and physical beauty fades over time, yet someone with whom you have a strong connection is very likely to become even more beautiful in your eyes as the years go by. Stupid people irritate me no matter how good looking they are. So, while looks may get you in the door per say, you'll soon find your ass on the street if that's all you have to contribute, as far as I'm concerned. Sounds good on paper but harder to do in real life. We don't need to go to the extremes -of gorgeous but stupid VS ugly but smart. Say, if you met a gorgeous babe like those in the NsFW threads and you guys started a relationship, you realised she wasn't the smartest girl in the world but she's not stupid either, just average..would you be thinking "she's so hot and sexy but hey I value intelligence so I need to leave her for someone smarter right now!" I don't think so. Those NSFW threads prove guys are always infatuated with beauty (even super smart guys) and of course ideally you want beauty AND brains, but I'm thinking guys are happier to compromise a lot more on brains than beauty. The NSFW threads only prove that guys like to fap to good looking girls not ugly ones. Nothing more. Real life is full of compromises. The more realistic you are the happier you'll be. I have a wife now, but before we met there was a certain level of attractiveness, intelligence and personality necessary for someone to have before I would pursue a romantic relationship with them. If you rated too low in any of these categories you were simply undesirable to me. Attractiveness doesn't factor in whatsoever in a regular (non romantic) relationship, but intelligence and personality still do. I can't speak for anyone else, but personality is definitely most important when it comes to having any kind of relationship with me. Attractiveness is least important. I honestly don't get how some men only desire trophy wives or the women who cater to them by "playing the dumb bimbo". It's really quite sad. Anyways, that's the whole reason I jumped in on this conversation. I just wanted to say it's not true that, guys always seem to prefer dumber girls I'm also curious as to how you determine when to, dumb down if necessary and look like a total bimbo if need be It seems as though "dumbed-down" is your default and you only try to smarten up if and when the need arises. Unfortunately, this tactic is used by many women, not only you. I have my own theory as to why this is, but I'm not going to get into that.
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January 05, 2015, 02:43:51 AM |
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Most women are smarter then they'll say, where as most guys who boast alot can be complete fools. I think its not dumbing down but submissiveness is still a thing in 21st century very much, any guy with any brains knows it never works out that way whether a women pretends to let you have your way or not. Its better to always get on with someone 50/50 not start a relationship dominating the conversation etc
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fabiola! (OP)
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January 05, 2015, 02:49:53 AM |
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I know, but, Unfortunately guys always seem to prefer dumber girls, geek chics never seem to get as much attention, like, ever. I'm somewhere in the middle which is lucky for me, I can dumb down if necessary and look like a total bimbo if need be, haha. I think the whole geeky look suits guys way better than girls and I don't think that's gonna change anytime soon.
How the hell is this thread still alive. Seriously, 44 pages of this stuff? Geeky girls are amazing; I don't know where you got that stigma. The people that only go for bimbos are happy until the physical attraction starts fading away. With someone that's intelligent and geeky, I'm the happiest. Why would I want someone I can't hold a conversation with? I definitely prefer geeky girls, both in the short and long run. Geek chics DEFINITELY get attention. I think the thread is a nice welcome to new girls so they can grasp what the vibe is like for girls here About geeky girls, well. Non geeky boys don't generally like geeky girls, they go for the hot babe look. So that only leaves geeky guys to be interested in geeky girls, and you would think that's perfectly fine. However, judging by this forum and the huge amount of geeky guys starting hot babe NSFW threads, I get a feeling geeky guys also want hot babes. So, apparently, everyone wants hot babes. Am I wrong? I think it's safe to assume that everyone appreciates beauty for what it is, but when it comes down to having a relationship with someone I believe personality and intelligence plays a much bigger role. Looks only gets you so far and physical beauty fades over time, yet someone with whom you have a strong connection is very likely to become even more beautiful in your eyes as the years go by. Stupid people irritate me no matter how good looking they are. So, while looks may get you in the door per say, you'll soon find your ass on the street if that's all you have to contribute, as far as I'm concerned. Sounds good on paper but harder to do in real life. We don't need to go to the extremes -of gorgeous but stupid VS ugly but smart. Say, if you met a gorgeous babe like those in the NsFW threads and you guys started a relationship, you realised she wasn't the smartest girl in the world but she's not stupid either, just average..would you be thinking "she's so hot and sexy but hey I value intelligence so I need to leave her for someone smarter right now!" I don't think so. Those NSFW threads prove guys are always infatuated with beauty (even super smart guys) and of course ideally you want beauty AND brains, but I'm thinking guys are happier to compromise a lot more on brains than beauty. The NSFW threads only prove that guys like to fap to good looking girls not ugly ones. Nothing more. Real life is full of compromises. The more realistic you are the happier you'll be. I have a wife now, but before we met there was a certain level of attractiveness, intelligence and personality necessary for someone to have before I would pursue a romantic relationship with them. If you rated too low in any of these categories you were simply undesirable to me. Attractiveness doesn't factor in whatsoever in a regular (non romantic) relationship, but intelligence and personality still do. I can't speak for anyone else, but personality is definitely most important when it comes to having any kind of relationship with me. Attractiveness is least important. I honestly don't get how some men only desire trophy wives or the women who cater to them by "playing the dumb bimbo". It's really quite sad. Anyways, that's the whole reason I jumped in on this conversation. I just wanted to say it's not true that, guys always seem to prefer dumber girls I'm also curious as to how you determine when to, dumb down if necessary and look like a total bimbo if need be It seems as though "dumbed-down" is your default and you only try to smarten up if and when the need arises. Unfortunately, this tactic is used by many women, not only you. I have my own theory as to why this is, but I'm not going to get into that. Seems like you're a smart confident guy with high standars who didn't get intimidated by pretty/intelligent girls, hence you married one Sadly a lot of guys out there do get intimidated. Rating to low is not the main problem, rating too high is. That's why we gotta dumb down sometimes. What is your theory?
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fabiola! (OP)
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January 05, 2015, 02:56:52 AM |
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Most women are smarter then they'll say, where as most guys who boast alot can be complete fools. I think its not dumbing down but submissiveness is still a thing in 21st century very much, any guy with any brains knows it never works out that way whether a women pretends to let you have your way or not. Its better to always get on with someone 50/50 not start a relationship dominating the conversation etc
Yep, but a lot of guys out there with self esteem issues often don't feel like they're good enough for the girl they're pursuing and they just walk away without any explanation. Sometimes dumbing down works, the guys feel more relaxed, less intimidated, especially at the beginning.
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January 06, 2015, 01:01:20 AM |
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Most women are smarter then they'll say, where as most guys who boast alot can be complete fools. I think its not dumbing down but submissiveness is still a thing in 21st century very much, any guy with any brains knows it never works out that way whether a women pretends to let you have your way or not. Its better to always get on with someone 50/50 not start a relationship dominating the conversation etc
Yep, but a lot of guys out there with self esteem issues often don't feel like they're good enough for the girl they're pursuing and they just walk away without any explanation. Sometimes dumbing down works, the guys feel more relaxed, less intimidated, especially at the beginning. Just be yourself! What happens when the guy discovers that you have been putting on a show?
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