How to be a good speaker?

[cryptoman1ac]

I am really having a problem with my speaking skills especially one-on-one. Can you give me some advice or link about improving speaking skills coz I think it will really be hard to get hired. 

[Ralphson]

Read more to widen your scope of understanding.Interact more with both sexes,and be fluent in your language as well..i think this will keep you moving yh.

[vaegynp_vokoch]

You can read more books about public speaking, I like the books of Dale Carnegie:

The Art of Public Speaking
How to Win Friends and Influence People
How to Develop Self-Confidence And Influence People By Public Speaking
The Leader in You

To name a few...you can search it on the net for more books of Dale Carnegie, if you haven't already.

And also, Developing the Leader Within You by John Maxwell.

These books can help develop your inner confidence about yourself and develop meaningful relationship to others as well.

But in order to speak well, you must first LISTEN well from others, and equip yourself with enough knowledge about the topic or company, in order for you to speak appropriately specially during job interviews.

And lastly, just RELAX, we are all just humans after all. Trying to make sense of our lives.

[haikakanza]

speaking correctly and clearly. Do not hide something or intend to deceive your audience.to be yourself. You are not trying to be someone else or pretending to be a different person. Do what you say. Integrity is obtained when what you say you actually do

[qumeijia]

be confidence and much practice in speaking, speak in front of mirror is recommended to improve speaking skill

[hoshin]

For practice, I would suggest finding and joining a local Toastmasters club. You can attend a few meetings before deciding if it's for you. TM has helped me in my speaking both in front of groups and one on one by building confidence, breaking bad habits, and developing new good ones.

[ali240319]

the first we start our conversation slowly so the listener can easily understand the conversation we are conveying and keep eye contact with the listeners so as not to stare too long into a point.

[mohammadzayadi]

speaking in a low voice and knowing what you are talking about will hurt other people's feelings or not. If you think it will hurt other people's feelings do not say

[tiar4dewie]

It is difficult, not just the practice of speaking but mental also must be considered because it is done in public

[joms07]

Memorize concepts, not content. Chat up audience members before your presentation. Enhance your visuals and audio. Flip your mindset to ease your nerves. Get interactive.

[kris6]

I am really having a problem with my speaking skills especially one-on-one. Can you give me some advice or link about improving speaking skills coz I think it will really be hard to get hired. 

in my opinion the way to be a good speaker is:
Always set clear goals in our conversation, Always know who we are talking to, Understand our strengths and weaknesses, Be yourself and look natural, and Eye contact with people in front of us, with eye contact as if we managed to bring them in. into what we're talking about and get them to focus on what we're talking about.

[billsareno]

Always connect with your audience and communicate ideas that stir up real emotions.

[feonaishere19]

Your question got me curious so I searches the net and here is what I got.

Memorize concepts, not content. ... - I practice this step most of the time. Just memorizing will not help you. If you forgot even just one word, you're doomed!
Chat up audience members before your presentation. ...-Don't know about this one. I usually don't talk to anyone before speaking in front. I tend to forget things.
Enhance your visuals and audio. ...- this is a must. Pictures usually make you remember things. If you are memorizing try to associate it with pictures. The moment you see the picture you will remember the things you memorized.
Flip your mindset to ease your nerves. ...- think only of positive things. Negative things will do no good to your nerves.
Get interactive.-

I think the most important one is practice. You may be nervous but if you're prepared nothing can go wrong.

[btc.fanda]

Practices more and more in front the mirror.

[FZR411]

Memorize concepts, not content
Chat up audience members before your presentation
Enhance your visuals and audio
Flip your mindset to ease your nerves
Get interactive 

[cryptoman1ac]

I am really grateful for all your response I think this is the right time to improve myself, to not be shy and take courage. Thank you I appreciate all your responses I have read it all and was overwhelmed.

[kim_min888]

- Stop trying to be someone else
- Don’t look for approval. Focus on contributing
- Practice a lot
- Watch TED Talks
- Video yourself speaking
- Know your content cold

[Zapto25]

If you have trouble talking to women, then you have a love for him. but not revealed from you, because this is hard for you.
relax and speak with tenderness 

[salinblank]

we must listen carefully, before we become a conversation, or a mediator in a discussion.

[QueenRoyale]

to be a good speaker you should first construct whats your going to say in very encouraging way. And dont forget to make an eye to eye contact to your audience.