question is it just me or does the android wallet take forever to sync been going 3 days and still not synced?
The android wallet is not performing very well at the moment (especially on some devices) - this is due to number of blocks on the network and the fact that KGW implementation is not very optimal.
We are working on a fix - it will include extra checkpoints for faster sync.
In the meantime, you can monitor the progress of sync by going to 'Network Monitor' -> 'Blocks' (just swipe to the right). If the sync gets stuck for some reason, please try restarting the wallet or using 'Reset Blockchain option' (it should be used as a last resort as it forces wallet to redownload everything).
Alternatively, you can 'evacuate' coins from the Android wallet by using 'Back up keys' option, decrypting the output (openssl enc -d -aes-256-cbc -a -in <filename>) and importing private keys to Windows/Linux/OSX wallet (importprivkey <key>).
Thanks for your patience.