Does it looks responsible as woman telling husband you gamble?

[LUCKMCFLY]

In a relationship, its never been good when you are really that hiding something yet this would really be questioning out about your honesty and loyalty on which we know that this is really that
an important trait to have in relatioships.

Yes, and a fact, things when it comes to couples and something as important as fidelity, loyalty, and above all trust fail is already a problem, because in part if one lives as a couple, you have your husband or wife, it is logical that the person with whom one is is the person that one has all the confidence in the world and if one fails or the other person fails it is clearly a disappointment, and it makes you think about many things, and if one does not have confidence for matters with money, I believe that the thing is worse, because with money things with people are very, very delicate, now, if we consider that people, not all, change with money, then even more so.

[Forsyth Jones]

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After creating this topic, any updates? Did you end up telling your husband about your gaming activity?

It's important that, before telling him something, you ask him what he thinks about a certain subject, ask subtle questions, this will help you with how to direct the subject about gambling.

[Rabata]

The point is my husband doesn't know that i have been secretly gambling and involving myself with gambling discussions and the rest, So, this morning when i woke something in me keeps telling me i should let him know to understand my involvement  to practice gambling.

Does this worth telling him or not please i need you collective ideas.

You are less likely to become addicted to the important aspects of gambling that you have become aware of if you can stick to them. I believe that if one follows the mentioned points and even if he makes gambling loss, it will not have any negative impact on his normal life. A gambler is not doomed when he loses but when he becomes addicted it can be fatally disastrous. But still you should inform your husband about your gambling. Because if he suddenly finds out about your gambling, the relationship may deteriorate. He may even mistrust you. And if he has permission or support, then even if you are gambling, there will not be any kind of harm. But it is better if you know how your husband feels about gambling. There are many people who do not consider gambling as positively.

[DaNNy001]

Quite sometimes now i have been active in the gambling section and have pick interest to start gambling i have gone through lots of material in both the forum, i have seen that I can control my emotion as well as controlling my finance this includes;

• Not involving myself in a revenge gambling
• Not chasing profit after lost
• Not involving oneself into compulsive gambling
• Not solely replying on every game to be 100 percent correct
• Not hoping that gamble is guaranteed
• Not gambling with all my income or salaries
• Among all, gambling for fun and not to enrich oneself

The point is my husband doesn't know that i have been secretly gambling and involving myself with gambling discussions and the rest, So, this morning when i woke something in me keeps telling me i should let him know to understand my involvement  to practice gambling.

Does this worth telling him or not please i need you collective ideas.

I'm not trying to say that gambling should be for men only, but it isn't ideal for a woman to gamble especially if you are married and have kids, men are more rational and in control of their emotions by nature women on the other hand don't have the capability to handle that chaos that comes with the frustration and depression of gambling, cause at the end of the day you have to hold the family together and you need to be in the right state of mind to do that, I agree that some women play for fun but my advice is to flee from it totally

[Webetcoins]

I am just trying to process the possible reasons that will make a wife to gamble and hide it from her husband. Wives are expected to know their husbands, what they like and what they dislike before making any decision. A wive who hides her gambling lifestyle from her husband already knows the husband is against gambling but she still chose to disrespect him. Respect is very important in every marriage either from the man or the woman, any party who chose to hide things from the other is already cheating and it is wrong in marriage.

Whether the husband likes gambling or not, no wife should hide gambling or any other activity from the husband, little secrets like this ruins trust in marriage.

Yeah some wives are like that. It was like they are very knowledgeable and wise. They can even figured out if their husband had some dirty little secrets. There are still wives that are not like that unfortunately.

I think that even though the wife already knows that their husband is in to gambling, they can still choose to hide from them because they might be really greedy and wants to solo their winnings just in case they got lucky. If lose, it can still help them reduce the stress because a gambling husband can still get angry about their partner if they figured out that they use their money to play gambling especially if that money is already intended for the house expenses. When it comes to the word cheating, I think it only refers if a partner looks for another partner while they are still in a relationship.

[Jaycoinz]

Quite sometimes now i have been active in the gambling section and have pick interest to start gambling i have gone through lots of material in both the forum, i have seen that I can control my emotion as well as controlling my finance this includes;

• Not involving myself in a revenge gambling
• Not chasing profit after lost
• Not involving oneself into compulsive gambling
• Not solely replying on every game to be 100 percent correct
• Not hoping that gamble is guaranteed
• Not gambling with all my income or salaries
• Among all, gambling for fun and not to enrich oneself

The point is my husband doesn't know that i have been secretly gambling and involving myself with gambling discussions and the rest, So, this morning when i woke something in me keeps telling me i should let him know to understand my involvement  to practice gambling.

Does this worth telling him or not please i need you collective ideas.

I don't know about other continents but in Africa there are somethings that aren't just normalized and one of them is a woman that gambles, I'm not saying there are women that don't gamble but saying it publicly or in front of your spouse might not be really wise because they might get a wrong impression of you. A lot of things are expected from women, they are responsible for holding a family together and many other expectations, so saying that you gamble might make people categorize you as an irresponsible woman of which you are not, somethings are better left unsaid

[mirakal]

I also did not want, as a husband, for my wife to hide anything from me, especially gambling stories. I would be furious if I woke up one morning and discovered that our family was in debt to creditors or family friends. I think it was unpleasant for absolutely everyone, it was like a very serious deception.

What you are saying is true because in every marriage sincerity is one of the most important thing, though we know that sometimes people have reasons they choose not to tell there husband but I realized that is not the right way to go about it because one of the things that hurts so much is when they learn about things from people about there spouse and sometimes it possibly lead to marriage separation because when there is know trust the marriage is bound to fail, though I know that the reason why most women decides not to tell there husband about there gambling habits is because of the hatred the husband would have had on gambling but still that shouldn't be a reason someone will decide not tell him.

Sure, let’s say the wife’s actions are understandable, but the real question is whether the husband finds it acceptable. If he’s okay with it, then all is well; but if he’s not, we know where that could lead. It might seem like discrimination, but personally, I don’t think it’s a good look for a woman to be caught up in gambling. Well, at least she’s being honest with her husband—things would be much worse if she were hiding it.

Anyway, many families have fallen apart due to secrets, so as a couple, we need to be open with each other. Trust is the foundation of a healthy marriage, and once it’s broken, it can lead to more than just disagreements—it might even end in separation.

[Lanatsa]

I also did not want, as a husband, for my wife to hide anything from me, especially gambling stories. I would be furious if I woke up one morning and discovered that our family was in debt to creditors or family friends. I think it was unpleasant for absolutely everyone, it was like a very serious deception.

What you are saying is true because in every marriage sincerity is one of the most important thing, though we know that sometimes people have reasons they choose not to tell there husband but I realized that is not the right way to go about it because one of the things that hurts so much is when they learn about things from people about there spouse and sometimes it possibly lead to marriage separation because when there is know trust the marriage is bound to fail, though I know that the reason why most women decides not to tell there husband about there gambling habits is because of the hatred the husband would have had on gambling but still that shouldn't be a reason someone will decide not tell him.

Sure, let’s say the wife’s actions are understandable, but the real question is whether the husband finds it acceptable. If he’s okay with it, then all is well; but if he’s not, we know where that could lead. It might seem like discrimination, but personally, I don’t think it’s a good look for a woman to be caught up in gambling. Well, at least she’s being honest with her husband—things would be much worse if she were hiding it.

Anyway, many families have fallen apart due to secrets, so as a couple, we need to be open with each other. Trust is the foundation of a healthy marriage, and once it’s broken, it can lead to more than just disagreements—it might even end in separation.

We do know that husbands could really be that different to each other on which there are ones who do really accept out their wifes wrong doing or secrets but there are ones who would really be that normally reacting just because its really that something a very negative thing to have when dealing up with gambling on a secret manner. In marriage life which trust is really that something that you will really be needing up to consider. If you do have some gambling activity issues or simply being addicted into it then it will really be better or worth that  you should be telling it into your husband. We should really be putting up into our minds that there's no secret that will not come out, neither it would be told by other people who sees you or he would really be able to find out neither you've been caught in act or have done something which is obvious.

If you do really want to have that peace of mind, then it will really be that recommended that telling everything on what you are doing or get involved with into your partner whether your husband or wife.
Gambling could naturally be having that kind of bad or negative impression on which we know that it will really be compromises out your budget or life savings on which we know that it will
really be getting on having that negative impression which might cause up for some possible argument or quarrels just because of this one.

[Sim_card]

Quite sometimes now i have been active in the gambling section and have pick interest to start gambling i have gone through lots of material in both the forum, i have seen that I can control my emotion as well as controlling my finance this includes;

• Not involving myself in a revenge gambling
• Not chasing profit after lost
• Not involving oneself into compulsive gambling
• Not solely replying on every game to be 100 percent correct
• Not hoping that gamble is guaranteed
• Not gambling with all my income or salaries
• Among all, gambling for fun and not to enrich oneself

The point is my husband doesn't know that i have been secretly gambling and involving myself with gambling discussions and the rest, So, this morning when i woke something in me keeps telling me i should let him know to understand my involvement  to practice gambling.

Does this worth telling him or not please i need you collective ideas.

I'm not trying to say that gambling should be for men only, but it isn't ideal for a woman to gamble especially if you are married and have kids, men are more rational and in control of their emotions by nature women on the other hand don't have the capability to handle that chaos that comes with the frustration and depression of gambling, cause at the end of the day you have to hold the family together and you need to be in the right state of mind to do that, I agree that some women play for fun but my advice is to flee from it totally

It is not a bad idea if women gamble because we have seen it several times on those who play slot. However, it is when the husband does not like gambling that it will be something bad to him for his wife to gamble. If she her husband is not bothered about his wife gambling, she can gamble occasionally with very little amount of money just for her to enjoy the fun in it. It is when she starts or see gambling as a means to make profit that it becomes bad, because she might one day use the family money in her custody and gamble it all which will affect her marriage.