Do you blame someone for your gambling losses?

[Westinhome]

I agree with you. Even a reputable casino will have wins and losses but there is no chance of scamming. Anyone can gambling with any hesitation. A few days ago one of my a friend got into trouble on a scam site. After winning a big reward he requested a withdrawal but suddenly he find his account is blocked. He was very disappointed because he also had various plans to spend his gambling money but his situation left him devastated. Then I just gave him a suggestion that even if your reward amount is low you should stay on a reliable platform.

The gambling had both win and loss,because it’s the game.As like other real games,the gambling had win and loss.The main difference for us to understand is gambling based on real money.But the rest of the game was played to entertain us.Gambling also considered to be game with fun,once you not bother about the invested money to the game.When the gambling site is scam one,they will block your account from their site.The second way to find gambling sites are scam,the site will ask to verify the kyc after your big rewards.By this two,are done to find the scam website and stay away from the scam.

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[Fredomago]

Be responsible for your own actions. Blaming others will not solve your losses. Even though you are influenced by others to gamble, never blame your losses on someone because you know you are risking something for your own benefit. If your mind and heart can't take the pressure of gambling, never try it. 

At first, people are being denial about those things, they keep on saying that it is not their fault when in fact they are the one who plays the game and loses it. We should be accountable at all times and in everything because blaming other people will not make us relieve to our loses. It will teach us to be disciplined and make us bets and assets organized to avoid loses and blaming it to other.

Everyone thinks carefully before gambling and then decides whether to gamble and those who gamble must know that there are high stakes involved and if they lose by gambling there is no one to blame. for when one gains by gambling, he alone enjoys the entire dividend, so likewise when he loses, he must take responsibility for it himself. no one can be blamed in this case.

Yes, it is not right to blame others for your loss gambling is more likely to result in losses, so it is necessary to proceed with the right decision. While some casinos have streaks of bad luck that cause their players to lose, it's important to remember that reputable casinos rely on luck just as gamblers do. There is always a chance for both the casino and the player to win. To some extent, it is easy to say with certainty that larger bets mean more losses.

No assurance at all, you should not blame anyone with your mistake, gambling always carry a risk behind all those bets that you are taking, if you are lucky you may win some but if you are not then face the consequence of losing and never to point your finger or to blame anyone just becuase you lose the game.

Though it's not the same with OP as they are trying to cover up the messed that they've done, unfortuantely court did not by that
pointing fingers and they've being sentece.

[Alucard1]

I think they're just trying to save themselves from huge losses but what they did have brought them into a worse situation. The truth will always prevail no matter how we cover up our mistakes. Blaming someone else isn't a good idea and it couldn't even save us from our huge losses. We are only dragging ourselves to bad situations more. It will be better to control ourselves or just accept losses in case we lose our funds since that's a part of gambling. We can't blame others if we are the ones who are making wrong decisions.

Well this blaming is really common for those people who can't accept their losses, they will just blame someone from nowhere just to cover up their mistakes. These people are also about to be addicted in gambling, after they blame someone they will still play the other day and will try to win the game again and once they lose they will try to blame it again on others, it will be a repeated cycle.

[yazher]

Gamblers don't need to blame anybody but themselves because it's not a random thing that you find yourself at the gambling place except that you get there wanting to win more money than you currently have. We know that often will not be the case because most of the people going there are just donating their money for some entertainment if more people win the place will be closed sooner or later but the reality is the contrary and if the man can't handle the heat in the kitchen, he better get out. But most of them choose to stay and will not gonna leave until they no longer have anything in them which will gonna turn into a disaster later. If they cannot get out of it, it will turn into an addiction and eventually lead to more serious matters such as the OP's post.

[qwertyup23]

I agree with you. Even a reputable casino will have wins and losses but there is no chance of scamming. Anyone can gambling with any hesitation. A few days ago one of my a friend got into trouble on a scam site. After winning a big reward he requested a withdrawal but suddenly he find his account is blocked. He was very disappointed because he also had various plans to spend his gambling money but his situation left him devastated. Then I just gave him a suggestion that even if your reward amount is low you should stay on a reliable platform.

As a rule of thumb, if you are risking a relatively huge amount of money in gambling, always aim for reputable casinos in order to have some security for your payments. With hundreds of new online casinos nowadays, it is very easy to create an online casino that seemingly looks genuine but is actually a scam.

Have you asked your friend about the name of such gambling website that refused to accept his withdrawals? If yes, kindly share it in this forum for everyone's awareness so that they can avoid it at all costs.

The gambling had both win and loss,because it’s the game.As like other real games,the gambling had win and loss.The main difference for us to understand is gambling based on real money.But the rest of the game was played to entertain us.Gambling also considered to be game with fun,once you not bother about the invested money to the game.When the gambling site is scam one,they will block your account from their site.The second way to find gambling sites are scam,the site will ask to verify the kyc after your big rewards.By this two,are done to find the scam website and stay away from the scam.

Generally, gambling websites are created in order to simulate the real face-to-face casinos at the convenience of your home. With the pandemic happening, almost every business model had to shift and create an online atmosphere in order to cater to their clients.

Unfortunately, creating an online casino and offering dubious bonuses are easy to do. That is why, lots of people are getting scammed from this kind of scheme. In conclusion, if you are planning to gamble, always aim for reputable casinos for your security.

[ethereumhunter]

Gamblers don't need to blame anybody but themselves because it's not a random thing that you find yourself at the gambling place except that you get there wanting to win more money than you currently have. We know that often will not be the case because most of the people going there are just donating their money for some entertainment if more people win the place will be closed sooner or later but the reality is the contrary and if the man can't handle the heat in the kitchen, he better get out. But most of them choose to stay and will not gonna leave until they no longer have anything in them which will gonna turn into a disaster later. If they cannot get out of it, it will turn into an addiction and eventually lead to more serious matters such as the OP's post.

It should be so but some blame others instead of themselves. They think that they are gambling because they asked them to. And when they lose playing gambling, they don't stop but keep playing gambling and in the end, they still lose. And slowly, without realizing it, they become addicted to gambling without anyone knowing it, even they don't know about it. It will be difficult for people like that to win gambling games because when they win, they don't stop but keep playing gambling until they finally lose.

[slapper]

Gamblers don't need to blame anybody but themselves because it's not a random thing that you find yourself at the gambling place except that you get there wanting to win more money than you currently have. We know that often will not be the case because most of the people going there are just donating their money for some entertainment if more people win the place will be closed sooner or later but the reality is the contrary and if the man can't handle the heat in the kitchen, he better get out. But most of them choose to stay and will not gonna leave until they no longer have anything in them which will gonna turn into a disaster later. If they cannot get out of it, it will turn into an addiction and eventually lead to more serious matters such as the OP's post.

I get it, gamblers should own their actions. But I think it's too cut-and-dry, overlooking the tricky terrain. Sure, folks willingly walk into a casino, dreaming of a jackpot. But let's face it, casinos play mind games. The promise of riches and the cunning setup can turn even the steeliest heads.

Dumping all blame on gamblers ignores the casino's shark-like nature. These places are built to lure and hook. It's not just about personal will; it's about crafty industry tactics exploiting weak spots. Instead of just burdening the gambler, let's push for a fairer gambling space. Steps like protecting the susceptible, teaching responsible gambling, and holding the industry to account can dial down gambling's potential harm.

[Fatunad]

Gamblers don't need to blame anybody but themselves because it's not a random thing that you find yourself at the gambling place except that you get there wanting to win more money than you currently have. We know that often will not be the case because most of the people going there are just donating their money for some entertainment if more people win the place will be closed sooner or later but the reality is the contrary and if the man can't handle the heat in the kitchen, he better get out. But most of them choose to stay and will not gonna leave until they no longer have anything in them which will gonna turn into a disaster later. If they cannot get out of it, it will turn into an addiction and eventually lead to more serious matters such as the OP's post.

I get it, gamblers should own their actions. But I think it's too cut-and-dry, overlooking the tricky terrain. Sure, folks willingly walk into a casino, dreaming of a jackpot. But let's face it, casinos play mind games. The promise of riches and the cunning setup can turn even the steeliest heads.

Dumping all blame on gamblers ignores the casino's shark-like nature. These places are built to lure and hook. It's not just about personal will; it's about crafty industry tactics exploiting weak spots. Instead of just burdening the gambler, let's push for a fairer gambling space. Steps like protecting the susceptible, teaching responsible gambling, and holding the industry to account can dial down gambling's potential harm.

When you are just first time or simple just a noob then you would really be having this kind of thinking but on the time that you had experience several moments or conditions like this on which losing whether on an online casino or a physical one, then it would be impossible that you wont really be that able to realize on whats the reality of this thing specially on gambling.You cant really just point out your finger into someone
just because you've been losing a lot in gambling. There's no other should really be blamed on with your actions but only you.It is really just that there are people who do really love to point out fingers
and blaming out someone on the time that they do really commit out some mistakes or devastated condition of their lives. This is why on the time that you would be able to suffer those consequences then it would
really be having that kind of emotional things been kicking in but once you do have those past experiences then for sure you would really be acting different and you would really be accepting your mistake
but if you are addicted then denial would be always there.

[nullama]

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I get it, gamblers should own their actions. But I think it's too cut-and-dry, overlooking the tricky terrain. Sure, folks willingly walk into a casino, dreaming of a jackpot. But let's face it, casinos play mind games. The promise of riches and the cunning setup can turn even the steeliest heads.

Dumping all blame on gamblers ignores the casino's shark-like nature. These places are built to lure and hook. It's not just about personal will; it's about crafty industry tactics exploiting weak spots. Instead of just burdening the gambler, let's push for a fairer gambling space. Steps like protecting the susceptible, teaching responsible gambling, and holding the industry to account can dial down gambling's potential harm.

It is always 100% the responsibility of the gambler.

Sure, the world is full of sharks wanting your attention, your money, etc. It's up to you to decide what to do with your attention and your money.

The gambler chooses to focus on gambling, and going into casinos. No one else is there to blame.

The good thing about this is that the gambler can in theory "recover" instantaneously because there's no one else to blame. If the gambler changes his or her mind about their priorities in life, and creates a different goal in which to put their attention, they can stop gambling right now if they want to. No need for external help, because it's all in their mind.

[Reatim]

why need to gamble with friends if we are talking online betting ? not unless you are talking about local gambling or casino houses then that is another stories to tell.

I am stating arguments that can be applied to both land-based and online gambling. have you ever had online gambling experience with your friends or even used joint money to gamble?

nope and will never will mate , because that is the reason why I played online as I wanted to be alone and play with my own (because if not then I would go in land base casino or local gambling houses)

or the experience of going to a land-based gambling establishment with friends after losing which evokes emotion when friends give misleading persuasion after which you get emotional and blame. have you experienced this?

Yeah I got to go with them but we are playing individually , we are caring about our own bets and money and how would they Mislead me when I only care about mine.

then you are stupid to listen , who can be a person like that to gamble and listen when a friend tell him that he will win>?
is he holding a mirror ball? lol.

this is not about stupidity but more about the emotional situation when a loss at gambling is caused by a friend. on the other hand, it's not because your friend is holding a mirror ball, but have you ever had fun at gambling, whether online or in a land casino, with your friends and at that time your friends wanted to prank you, but you took the lose you got seriously?

actually that is my argument , why need to listen when you are holding and have own rights in doing bets , unless your friend has no money at all and this is why he tries to manipulate you by telling you where to bet and what to bet.

lol, your money is your responsibilities , you must decide your own and even if friends told you still you have to decide .

I appreciate your argument but experience says otherwise

I have experience this is why I am quoting you about , But I am also a gambler that knows what I am doing .

[carlisle1]

Gamblers don't need to blame anybody but themselves because it's not a random thing that you find yourself at the gambling place except that you get there wanting to win more money than you currently have. We know that often will not be the case because most of the people going there are just donating their money for some entertainment if more people win the place will be closed sooner or later but the reality is the contrary and if the man can't handle the heat in the kitchen, he better get out. But most of them choose to stay and will not gonna leave until they no longer have anything in them which will gonna turn into a disaster later. If they cannot get out of it, it will turn into an addiction and eventually lead to more serious matters such as the OP's post.

It should be so but some blame others instead of themselves. They think that they are gambling because they asked them to. And when they lose playing gambling, they don't stop but keep playing gambling and in the end, they still lose. And slowly, without realizing it, they become addicted to gambling without anyone knowing it, even they don't know about it. It will be difficult for people like that to win gambling games because when they win, they don't stop but keep playing gambling until they finally lose.

Even someone encourages you to play. It's still your decision to make, not getting that point of blaming someone for your mistake and trying
to hide that addictions inside you and divert the attention to other people.

The point here is the money you use when you still have it. All the control is in your hands even someone asks you to play gambling you can easily say no if you wanted to as it is your hard-earned money.

But most of those who love pointing things to other people are the one who can't accept that they are already addicted or possibly to get addicted.

[Cryptmuster]

If they cannot get out of it, it will turn into an addiction and eventually lead to more serious matters such as the OP's post.

It depends on the responsibility of the player, if he understands all the risks, he will allocate amount for the game day, which cannot be exceeded. And if for some period he only loses money and cannot win anything, or loses more than he wins, then this is a clear sign that gambling should be just entertainment for him. Of course, if risk management is not followed, then there will be problems.

[Alisha-k]

How can two persons be so addicted to gambling that they'll go to such an extent? Apparently the mother is definitely not a good role model to the son. The son definitely needs a strong father figure which is what he lacks. I don't like the punishment or fine give  to them. It is not going to be in anyway effective. Their punishment could have been rehabilitation and community service.

I think dragging their father in here's wrong, we never can tell the role he has played in ensuring that the desist from such lifestyle to no avail.

Obviously, the mother is the boy's role model yes, and she's a very bad influence. But, come to think of it, what if the son influenced his mom??

[Distinctin]

If they cannot get out of it, it will turn into an addiction and eventually lead to more serious matters such as the OP's post.

It depends on the responsibility of the player, if he understands all the risks, he will allocate amount for the game day, which cannot be exceeded. And if for some period he only loses money and cannot win anything, or loses more than he wins, then this is a clear sign that gambling should be just entertainment for him. Of course, if risk management is not followed, then there will be problems.

It's a perfect reason why discipline should be learned by everybody especially when it comes to gambling where a lot of people already have become addicted in chasing their losses, and knowing the risks that are involved will not be enough to keep them in some safe distance because without discipline, it is almost inevitable that a gambler will have a few bad days including nights if in turn that their activities will not prosper and produce profits.

We may not observed that it is already eating us slowly because of the thrill and fun but once it fully hits you, it will be too hard for us to get out from the situation. Hence why we should only treat gambling as an entertainment to keep ourselves from being a slave in our own lives.

[jostorres]

At first, people are being denial about those things, they keep on saying that it is not their fault when in fact they are the one who plays the game and loses it. We should be accountable at all times and in everything because blaming other people will not make us relieve to our loses. It will teach us to be disciplined and make us bets and assets organized to avoid loses and blaming it to other.

Everyone thinks carefully before gambling and then decides whether to gamble and those who gamble must know that there are high stakes involved and if they lose by gambling there is no one to blame. for when one gains by gambling, he alone enjoys the entire dividend, so likewise when he loses, he must take responsibility for it himself. no one can be blamed in this case.

And who would make people with such mindsets and natures understand this? They don't care about others, all they care about themselves and what they own and that is the reason why they don't blame themselves and accept their losses because they think that they can't lose but they have been made lose which is basically a quality of a loser.

Such people would never let anyone know that they have had won something and they will always stay away from the happiness that increases when shared with others because happiness doesn't get less when shared, sorrows do.

[Ryu_Ar1]

If they cannot get out of it, it will turn into an addiction and eventually lead to more serious matters such as the OP's post.

It depends on the responsibility of the player, if he understands all the risks, he will allocate amount for the game day, which cannot be exceeded. And if for some period he only loses money and cannot win anything, or loses more than he wins, then this is a clear sign that gambling should be just entertainment for him. Of course, if risk management is not followed, then there will be problems.

I still think that someone who has gambled using money means he is an adult and not childish to make statements as if there were other things that made him lose at gambling.

On the other hand, I quite agree with what you said in this matter, everyone who is in a scope like this must be aware that all actions have a responsibility, especially this is gambling, where everything has a high risk because the ratio of losses is clearly bigger than wins, so like it or not they have to make strong management, especially for their finances.
This is not a suitable place to seek profit and we are aware of that so don't make it difficult for yourself by not wanting to accept a reality that doesn't match your wishes.

[danherbias07]

If they cannot get out of it, it will turn into an addiction and eventually lead to more serious matters such as the OP's post.

It depends on the responsibility of the player, if he understands all the risks, he will allocate amount for the game day, which cannot be exceeded. And if for some period he only loses money and cannot win anything, or loses more than he wins, then this is a clear sign that gambling should be just entertainment for him. Of course, if risk management is not followed, then there will be problems.

I very much agree with that. I think this is why people should stick with sports gambling, time management is easy because you will just have to bet before the game then enjoy watching it cheering for your favorite team, and finally reap the rewards if you made the right bet for the winning team or player.
While when we are doing casino games, it tends to make us play longer trying to win back what we lost or being too greedy thinking we are having a lucky day upon hitting a winning streak. I mean, I know it because I play casino games before but today I stick with sports gambling or if not, poker will be my next option which is a game that takes a lot of time with less money on the line.

[Silberman]

Gamblers don't need to blame anybody but themselves because it's not a random thing that you find yourself at the gambling place except that you get there wanting to win more money than you currently have. We know that often will not be the case because most of the people going there are just donating their money for some entertainment if more people win the place will be closed sooner or later but the reality is the contrary and if the man can't handle the heat in the kitchen, he better get out. But most of them choose to stay and will not gonna leave until they no longer have anything in them which will gonna turn into a disaster later. If they cannot get out of it, it will turn into an addiction and eventually lead to more serious matters such as the OP's post.

A great deal of our problems are caused by our mentality and this is a clear case of this, we must assume that any money which we deposit at any casino is money that we have lost already, and if we take this posture then it is going to be almost impossible for us to fall into a state of desperation and begin to chase our losses, however if we think that somehow we can make money while we gamble then once we begin to inevitably lose then desperation will start to overtake us and that is when we could begin to do some crazy stuff which we may regret later.

[usekevin]

It depends on the responsibility of the player, if he understands all the risks, he will allocate amount for the game day, which cannot be exceeded. And if for some period he only loses money and cannot win anything, or loses more than he wins, then this is a clear sign that gambling should be just entertainment for him. Of course, if risk management is not followed, then there will be problems.

When the gamblers had start a game,he is fully responsible for the profit or loss.He should agree this point before starting the gambling.The gambling was involved of real money and had some risk to lose the capital,So it’s essential to the gamblers do or die on gambling.It’s good for the gamblers to keep some target of using certain dollars in gambling on a particular day.Even if they loss on one day,he can still able to recover the money on upcoming day.The gamblers should use the ten percentage of the holding dollars to avoid losing the capital.The average of a month should end with the minimum of thirty percent profit from your investment.Then you have expect in that game.If you are not gained not loss means, the next stage of gambling will gives you profit.At this stage,you can use this gambling as entertainment.

[ethereumhunter]

Gamblers don't need to blame anybody but themselves because it's not a random thing that you find yourself at the gambling place except that you get there wanting to win more money than you currently have. We know that often will not be the case because most of the people going there are just donating their money for some entertainment if more people win the place will be closed sooner or later but the reality is the contrary and if the man can't handle the heat in the kitchen, he better get out. But most of them choose to stay and will not gonna leave until they no longer have anything in them which will gonna turn into a disaster later. If they cannot get out of it, it will turn into an addiction and eventually lead to more serious matters such as the OP's post.

It should be so but some blame others instead of themselves. They think that they are gambling because they asked them to. And when they lose playing gambling, they don't stop but keep playing gambling and in the end, they still lose. And slowly, without realizing it, they become addicted to gambling without anyone knowing it, even they don't know about it. It will be difficult for people like that to win gambling games because when they win, they don't stop but keep playing gambling until they finally lose.

Even someone encourages you to play. It's still your decision to make, not getting that point of blaming someone for your mistake and trying
to hide that addictions inside you and divert the attention to other people.

The point here is the money you use when you still have it. All the control is in your hands even someone asks you to play gambling you can easily say no if you wanted to as it is your hard-earned money.

But most of those who love pointing things to other people are the one who can't accept that they are already addicted or possibly to get addicted.

Indeed, all control is in our hands but when the urge to gamble gets stronger, we can be powerless to say no to our friends. At first, we decide to only gamble with a little money but after a while, we don't realize that we have used a lot of money. And that condition will be exacerbated by the defeats we experience, which will make us even more eager to recover from those losses and say this is the last time I gamble. But that doesn't really make us stop gambling because we can come back to the casino another time and gamble again. We will not blame our friends for inviting us to gamble at that time because we have gambled alone and not with our friends.