Do you blame someone for your gambling losses?

[TimeTeller]

Since you made the decision to gamble even if someone encouraged you to do so it is ultimately your responsibility because you had the choice to reject the offer from the beginning. Therefore, there is no need to blame anyone for something you did willingly without being forced. Personally, I never blame anyone for my gambling losses and I will never do so because it feels really bad and embarrassing to shift that responsibility onto others. If you're experiencing losses it's important to accept them as they are and not project your negative experience onto others, whether they are friends, family, or anyone else.

And it's better for us to refuse than later we will regret that we wasted money on gambling. This often happens because of an invitation from someone our friend, but if we can refuse it smoothly, we won't experience anything bad and just let them experience it. But if we can accept the risks in playing gambling, we can try it but only use the money we can afford so that we won't regret or be disappointed because we gambled. And the most important thing is that we don't blame the people who asked us to gamble because it is our responsibility if we accept their invitation to gamble.

If we contemplate on this activity, it is only ourself who is to blame on whatever it will bring to ourself.
We can't blame our friend for dragging into this, because at the end of the day, it is ourself who can decide what we do in life.
You can politely decline from your friend, if that's what you really want. They will understand if you decline their offer.
Remember, when you badly need money, it is yourself that will carry the burden of it.

[Rabata]

-snip-
Our friend should already know the risks that playing gambling can cause the loss of money, so he must be aware of it by not using a lot of money to gamble. It is the responsibility of each of us to take care of ourselves and not play gambling if we don't want to lose money. We also don't need to follow them to the casino if we know they will be there, so we don't lose money. That's what's better for us and they also don't have to feel guilty for asking us to gamble. Our relationship will also be fine and there will be no problems because we understand each other among friends.

That's right. Most gamblers who lose often blame their friends who invite them to play because of their losses. Even though we know that for any loss we experience, we should be responsible ourselves, don't pass it on to other people. It's true that we are invited to play by friends or whoever it is, but it's us who want it, we can just refuse and there's nothing wrong with that. That's why every loss in the game is our loss, no need to blame other people.

Exactly. Since you made the decision to gamble even if someone encouraged you to do so it is ultimately your responsibility because you had the choice to reject the offer from the beginning. Therefore, there is no need to blame anyone for something you did willingly without being forced. Personally, I never blame anyone for my gambling losses and I will never do so because it feels really bad and embarrassing to shift that responsibility onto others. If you're experiencing losses it's important to accept them as they are and not project your negative experience onto others, whether they are friends, family, or anyone else.

Someone can give me an invitation but as it is my responsibility to accept or reject it, I cannot in any way blame others for giving this invitation. Moreover, if someone wins at the gambling invitation, will anyone blame the inviter? Of course not. Since no one is responsible for gambling gains and losses, blaming others is nothing but ignorance. I myself take advice from others and review it and never blame them when I lose. Gambling involves luck, so blaming others can only lead to the weakening of the relationship.

[rendravolt]

All decisions are ours to make, so blaming others for our own gambling losses is strange. I often meet people who don't gamble, when I tell them to try gambling, they refuse and there is no right for me to force them. What I want to say from my experience is that everything is our decision, we deposit, we play and the risk of losing must be borne by ourselves of course.
If there is someone who blames others for their losses, I assume that they are out of control which indicates they may have become addicts.

So far I have never encountered a problem like this and indeed blaming other people when I lose at gambling seems like a loser. I very often make soccer bets with my friends and sometimes even though we have our own views on which team will win and when the results don't match our respective predictions. So my friend and I could only laugh and make jokes to each other because one of us guessed the wrong bet.

So I mean from the story that I have experienced with my friend, even though we have different opinions, we never blame each other. Especially when we blame other people it doesn't make much sense.

[Crypt0Gore]

You carry your cash to invest into gambling and you lose everything how possible it is for you to find someone to blame? This makes no sense, you are the problem of yourself, if you are not ready to lose a certain amount of money do not use them to gamble, if you want a good life for yourself stay away from gambling because gambling will ruin you if you plan to have a good life using gambling, plan your future off gambling and only gamble if you have spare money.

If you lose your money to gambling it's your fault and if you blame someone else it shows how the son of a loser you are, not only in gambling, you have a greater problem because where ever you fail in life you won't be able to face your problem and learn, you will always find someone to.blame and you will always be a loser.

[maydna]

~snip~

If we contemplate on this activity, it is only ourself who is to blame on whatever it will bring to ourself.
We can't blame our friend for dragging into this, because at the end of the day, it is ourself who can decide what we do in life.
You can politely decline from your friend, if that's what you really want. They will understand if you decline their offer.
Remember, when you badly need money, it is yourself that will carry the burden of it.

But the problem is not many can contemplate this because they don't see themselves as wrong, but other people are wrong because they have made us lose money, especially in gambling. And if we keep blaming our friends for inviting us to gamble, we won't have any friends because they don't want to be blamed if things don't go how we expect. They are better off with another friend who won't blame them because the other friend is aware of the risks and consequences. While we, who already know the risks and consequences, still follow them to play gambling, in the end, we blame them. I agree that we can politely decline and say we need the money for something else, and I'm sure as good friends, they will understand why.

[slapper]

You carry your cash to invest into gambling and you lose everything how possible it is for you to find someone to blame? This makes no sense, you are the problem of yourself, if you are not ready to lose a certain amount of money do not use them to gamble, if you want a good life for yourself stay away from gambling because gambling will ruin you if you plan to have a good life using gambling, plan your future off gambling and only gamble if you have spare money.

If you lose your money to gambling it's your fault and if you blame someone else it shows how the son of a loser you are, not only in gambling, you have a greater problem because where ever you fail in life you won't be able to face your problem and learn, you will always find someone to.blame and you will always be a loser.

The idea that the outcome of gambling, and life at large, solely rests on an individual's shoulders. This viewpoint might be a bit too...self-centered? Sure, personal responsibility is crucial. But let's not forget the systemic factors that often tilt the scales. Economic hardship, societal pressure, misleading advertising... All these factors, invisible yet omnipresent, can push individuals towards the slippery slope of gambling.

Calling someone a "son of a loser"... isn't that a bit too harsh? Everyone falters at times; it's human nature. Learning from our mistakes is, indeed, important, but let's not trivialize the complexity of the issues at hand with such derogatory labels.

[nullama]

You carry your cash to invest into gambling and you lose everything how possible it is for you to find someone to blame? This makes no sense, you are the problem of yourself, if you are not ready to lose a certain amount of money do not use them to gamble, if you want a good life for yourself stay away from gambling because gambling will ruin you if you plan to have a good life using gambling, plan your future off gambling and only gamble if you have spare money.

If you lose your money to gambling it's your fault and if you blame someone else it shows how the son of a loser you are, not only in gambling, you have a greater problem because where ever you fail in life you won't be able to face your problem and learn, you will always find someone to.blame and you will always be a loser.

Yeah, basically you need to assume that any money you gamble will be gone. That's because that's the most probable outcome, by far.

There is such a tiny probability that a gambler will win large against a casino that people tend to cling to that somehow, but mathematically it makes no sense. It's virtually zero.

[freedomgo]

You carry your cash to invest into gambling and you lose everything how possible it is for you to find someone to blame? This makes no sense, you are the problem of yourself, if you are not ready to lose a certain amount of money do not use them to gamble, if you want a good life for yourself stay away from gambling because gambling will ruin you if you plan to have a good life using gambling, plan your future off gambling and only gamble if you have spare money.

If you lose your money to gambling it's your fault and if you blame someone else it shows how the son of a loser you are, not only in gambling, you have a greater problem because where ever you fail in life you won't be able to face your problem and learn, you will always find someone to.blame and you will always be a loser.

Yeah, basically you need to assume that any money you gamble will be gone. That's because that's the most probable outcome, by far.

There is such a tiny probability that a gambler will win large against a casino that people tend to cling to that somehow, but mathematically it makes no sense. It's virtually zero.

In simple words, whatever game or sports you will bet into, your probability will still remain the same and that you have more chances to lose rather than winning. It's already a common knowledge to al gamblers that casino always has the upper hand against us as the bettors, and that will not change because if it will, gambling industry will start to collapse, no doubt. These advantages that are possessed by the casinos are also the main reasons why they keep on popping up in almost all places.

[Plaguedeath]

Calling someone a "son of a loser"... isn't that a bit too harsh? Everyone falters at times; it's human nature. Learning from our mistakes is, indeed, important, but let's not trivialize the complexity of the issues at hand with such derogatory labels.

Well everyone ever make fault, but blaming someone for our mistake is really not tolerable mistake since they're a manipulator. If they can admit they was wrong and learn to responsible with anything that they were done, this mistake can be forgiven and they will learn to become a better person.

Sometime you need to be harsh, you can't always accept every bad thing and think they will learn, you need to shut their mouth and intimidate them.

[Maslate]

Calling someone a "son of a loser"... isn't that a bit too harsh? Everyone falters at times; it's human nature. Learning from our mistakes is, indeed, important, but let's not trivialize the complexity of the issues at hand with such derogatory labels.

Well everyone ever make fault, but blaming someone for our mistake is really not tolerable mistake since they're a manipulator. If they can admit they was wrong and learn to responsible with anything that they were done, this mistake can be forgiven and they will learn to become a better person.

Sometime you need to be harsh, you can't always accept every bad thing and think they will learn, you need to shut their mouth and intimidate them.

In the same manner, rectifying your mistake by committing another mistake will never get you to the right path.

Because in that way, you will still find yourself in a cycle where you cannot get out unless if you had an eye opener to see things clearly and that what you did is actually not okay. You are just thinking that it is okay because you're too accustomed with that habit but there's still some room to improve and learn from those mistakes, and while we're still breathing, we do have the chance make things better.

[kamvreto]

Calling someone a "son of a loser"... isn't that a bit too harsh? Everyone falters at times; it's human nature. Learning from our mistakes is, indeed, important, but let's not trivialize the complexity of the issues at hand with such derogatory labels.

Well everyone ever make fault, but blaming someone for our mistake is really not tolerable mistake since they're a manipulator. If they can admit they was wrong and learn to responsible with anything that they were done, this mistake can be forgiven and they will learn to become a better person.

Sometime you need to be harsh, you can't always accept every bad thing and think they will learn, you need to shut their mouth and intimidate them.

In the same manner, rectifying your mistake by committing another mistake will never get you to the right path.

Because in that way, you will still find yourself in a cycle where you cannot get out unless if you had an eye opener to see things clearly and that what you did is actually not okay. You are just thinking that it is okay because you're too accustomed with that habit but there's still some room to improve and learn from those mistakes, and while we're still breathing, we do have the chance make things better.

so as not to make another mistake it is necessary to be careful to step. The more you are alert and aware that mistakes are always made because you are careless enough, then there will be no other mistakes. Improving the situation so that it doesn't get worse would certainly be a good opportunity. Don't always blame others for the mistakes we make ourselves. Defeat in gambling is of course because we are unlucky or even too greedy with the bets that are made. no self-control and good financial management. Do gambling in a reasonable and controlled manner, then defeat will also be controlled.

[klidex]

Calling someone a "son of a loser"... isn't that a bit too harsh? Everyone falters at times; it's human nature. Learning from our mistakes is, indeed, important, but let's not trivialize the complexity of the issues at hand with such derogatory labels.

Well everyone ever make fault, but blaming someone for our mistake is really not tolerable mistake since they're a manipulator. If they can admit they was wrong and learn to responsible with anything that they were done, this mistake can be forgiven and they will learn to become a better person.

Sometime you need to be harsh, you can't always accept every bad thing and think they will learn, you need to shut their mouth and intimidate them.

Actually, I understand this problem and it usually occurs when you are emotional, losing at gambling and speaking harshly to other people to vent your emotions.
But a trait like that is like a child who can't control his emotions for some reason and I think mature thinking is needed by a gambler.
Blaming others and saying harsh words is a deviant act.

[carlisle1]

Calling someone a "son of a loser"... isn't that a bit too harsh? Everyone falters at times; it's human nature. Learning from our mistakes is, indeed, important, but let's not trivialize the complexity of the issues at hand with such derogatory labels.

Well everyone ever make fault, but blaming someone for our mistake is really not tolerable mistake since they're a manipulator. If they can admit they was wrong and learn to responsible with anything that they were done, this mistake can be forgiven and they will learn to become a better person.

Sometime you need to be harsh, you can't always accept every bad thing and think they will learn, you need to shut their mouth and intimidate them.

In the same manner, rectifying your mistake by committing another mistake will never get you to the right path.

Because in that way, you will still find yourself in a cycle where you cannot get out unless if you had an eye opener to see things clearly and that what you did is actually not okay. You are just thinking that it is okay because you're too accustomed with that habit but there's still some room to improve and learn from those mistakes, and while we're still breathing, we do have the chance make things better.

It's on you and how you take the responsibility. You are right in terms of pointing fingers and when the truth came out, you won't
be able to deny the things that you've done.

Better to accept and face your mistake instead of blaming someone else to escape from the messed you have done, it will not add more
burden to you when you are ready to accept and face the consequences.

You need time to assess and reflect everything to find that willingness to change up and not to make that same mistake again.

[Weawant]

Actually, I understand this problem and it usually occurs when you are emotional, losing at gambling and speaking harshly to other people to vent your emotions.
But a trait like that is like a child who can't control his emotions for some reason and I think mature thinking is needed by a gambler.
Blaming others and saying harsh words is a deviant act.

As an adult you should be able to control your angry and not be behaving like someone who isn't wise or educated. You won't find educated people fighting on the street no matter what the issue is, they will take it indoor and behavior responsible by sorting out what the issue was.

Gambling is a personal decision and if you aren't making progress you don't have to blame others for it Instead you should ask yourself why you're losing and you'll see the mistakes that you're making then correct them and you might have a turnaround of luck and win your bets.

If you can't control your emotions then don't go to traditional casinos or sports bookers instead make use of the online ones. Atleast you won't have to interact with people to make you pour your frustrations on them meanwhile they didn't do anything wrong to you.

[elevates]

As an adult you should be able to control your angry and not be behaving like someone who isn't wise or educated. You won't find educated people fighting on the street no matter what the issue is, they will take it indoor and behavior responsible by sorting out what the issue was.

Gambling is a personal decision and if you aren't making progress you don't have to blame others for it Instead you should ask yourself why you're losing and you'll see the mistakes that you're making then correct them and you might have a turnaround of luck and win your bets.

If you can't control your emotions then don't go to traditional casinos or sports bookers instead make use of the online ones. Atleast you won't have to interact with people to make you pour your frustrations on them meanwhile they didn't do anything wrong to you.

As an adult, we also need to know money management. Most gamblers tend to not acknowledge that due to their addiction, they face money management issues. That leads to arguments within the family and then it leads to a blame game. Who is to be blamed for the problem? It is the gambler but they generally take out their frustration on someone near to them. It is easy to say that you need to control emotion but money and the urge of winning makes it hard to control.

[Jody.Drummer]

All decisions are ours to make, so blaming others for our own gambling losses is strange. I often meet people who don't gamble, when I tell them to try gambling, they refuse and there is no right for me to force them. What I want to say from my experience is that everything is our decision, we deposit, we play and the risk of losing must be borne by ourselves of course.
If there is someone who blames others for their losses, I assume that they are out of control which indicates they may have become addicts.

So far I have never encountered a problem like this and indeed blaming other people when I lose at gambling seems like a loser. I very often make soccer bets with my friends and sometimes even though we have our own views on which team will win and when the results don't match our respective predictions. So my friend and I could only laugh and make jokes to each other because one of us guessed the wrong bet.

So I mean from the story that I have experienced with my friend, even though we have different opinions, we never blame each other. Especially when we blame other people it doesn't make much sense.

Ah I have experience of this, about the soccer bet that my friend did. I forgot which teams were playing at the time but I remember he would bet on several teams playing at the same time. It wasn't just me at the time but the three of us, and he asked me and my other friend. When we were asked about one match and which team would win, at that time we had different views, I chose team A and my friend chose team B. My friend who made the bet became confused about which team he should bet on, in short he chose the team I chose, and lost. Lol
He didn't blame me for my recommendation, but it became a joke that eventually made the atmosphere full of laughter.

[Wiwo]

All decisions are ours to make, so blaming others for our own gambling losses is strange. I often meet people who don't gamble, when I tell them to try gambling, they refuse and there is no right for me to force them. What I want to say from my experience is that everything is our decision, we deposit, we play and the risk of losing must be borne by ourselves of course.
If there is someone who blames others for their losses, I assume that they are out of control which indicates they may have become addicts.

So far I have never encountered a problem like this and indeed blaming other people when I lose at gambling seems like a loser. I very often make soccer bets with my friends and sometimes even though we have our own views on which team will win and when the results don't match our respective predictions. So my friend and I could only laugh and make jokes to each other because one of us guessed the wrong bet.

So I mean from the story that I have experienced with my friend, even though we have different opinions, we never blame each other. Especially when we blame other people it doesn't make much sense.

Ah I have experience of this, about the soccer bet that my friend did. I forgot which teams were playing at the time but I remember he would bet on several teams playing at the same time. It wasn't just me at the time but the three of us, and he asked me and my other friend. When we were asked about one match and which team would win, at that time we had different views, I chose team A and my friend chose team B. My friend who made the bet became confused about which team he should bet on, in short he chose the team I chose, and lost. Lol
He didn't blame me for my recommendation, but it became a joke that eventually made the atmosphere full of laughter.

The thing is that,  no body has the right to blame anyone for the gambling loses this is because predictions are different from the outcome and for that,  no one can make an accurate prediction of the results of a match not even the referees or players on the field have that ability because football result are mostly unpredictable and that is why a gambler will have to rely on luck to make a win at whatever point.

So even though you made the selection of the teams and their scores for your friend and he bet on them and lost,  it doesn't have anything to do with you in whatever ways,  since for the sake of gambling all risks are to be checked personally,  it means you have to bear in mind that you can either lose or win it all depending on the luck of the individual.

[Dunamisx]

Gambling is a personal decision and if you aren't making progress you don't have to blame others for it Instead you should ask yourself why you're losing and you'll see the mistakes that you're making then correct them and you might have a turnaround of luck and win your bets.

If you're truly using your money to gamble then the final conclusion and decision should come from you and not from what other people say or influenced about gambling in you, but some gamblers lack that motivation that could give them direct confidence in theirselves and they will have to always depends on others for their gambling decisions especially when among their friends while gambling together.

If you can't control your emotions then don't go to traditional casinos or sports bookers instead make use of the online ones. Atleast you won't have to interact with people to make you pour your frustrations on them meanwhile they didn't do anything wrong to you.

We need to development an individual discipline to help us have a better gambling experience which will be also a take on our own personal self in having fun while gambling, we must not be too involved in things we have no idea or experience about and we must learn to gamble responsibly and with adequate moderacy without any supervision on us.

[ethereumhunter]

As an adult you should be able to control your angry and not be behaving like someone who isn't wise or educated. You won't find educated people fighting on the street no matter what the issue is, they will take it indoor and behavior responsible by sorting out what the issue was.

Gambling is a personal decision and if you aren't making progress you don't have to blame others for it Instead you should ask yourself why you're losing and you'll see the mistakes that you're making then correct them and you might have a turnaround of luck and win your bets.

If you can't control your emotions then don't go to traditional casinos or sports bookers instead make use of the online ones. Atleast you won't have to interact with people to make you pour your frustrations on them meanwhile they didn't do anything wrong to you.

As an adult, we also need to know money management. Most gamblers tend to not acknowledge that due to their addiction, they face money management issues. That leads to arguments within the family and then it leads to a blame game. Who is to be blamed for the problem? It is the gambler but they generally take out their frustration on someone near to them. It is easy to say that you need to control emotion but money and the urge of winning makes it hard to control.

But when faced with a problem, most people can make their emotions rise and will solve the problem with violence or a fight. It is a common thing and happens everywhere. Indeed, it is easiest to blame others when what we do is in trouble or is wrong, but other people also don't want to be blamed, especially if it is called the cause of our defeat. They will reason that they are only giving advice and whatever decision we make, it is our responsibility. And it's true, in this case, we are wrong because we follow their advice when we can reject their advice and follow our hearts. But we don't and end up getting into trouble and blaming them instead.

[Dr.Bitcoin_Strange]

If you're truly using your money to gamble then the final conclusion and decision should come from you and not from what other people say or influenced about gambling in you, but some gamblers lack that motivation that could give them direct confidence in theirselves and they will have to always depends on others for their gambling decisions especially when among their friends while gambling together.

I have not found that to be a common problem among a few or most gamblers, unless for most newbies who are really not familiar with how the system works. because gamblers that I even know normally show some immediate eagerness to gamble and see what the final results could be. There's really no way one can gamble for an interval of eight months or more without being able to handle their own staking decision. I am not saying you are lying, @Dunamisx, just that I have not really seen more of those cases, if they really exist, then they are probably just from beginners who are still looking to get how the game really works.
   I really remember when I started, how Ieven usede to ask friends if they were sure that I could win the game, but they would tell me that it's uncertain.  They did assist me in making some decisions, but not now that I have been in the system for a long time and have really known how things work.