Do you blame someone for your gambling losses?

[Quidat]

When we get a loss, the easiest thing is to blame others, blame the people who have invited him to play gambling and the people who have taught him how to play gambling.

But it would be better if when we are unable to achieve what we want, including winning in gambling, then never blame others or people who have taught you. But introspect yourself, because maybe the tricks and lessons given are not wrong, but it is your understanding that is still lacking, so that what is taught is different from what is practiced. And if what is taught is wrong, if you are smart enough then it will never be easy for you to immediately practice it. and if you are wise enough then, the first thing you do is to find the truth, whether the tricks and strategies he provides are indeed proven to be good at increasing the chances of victory in every gambling that we do.

It is really he easiest way to ease out the pain eh? You would really be blaming out someone on the mistakes that you have done on which you are really just that making yourself that look laughable.
It would really be just that normal for people to have that kind of behavior. There are ones who do really love to blame and there are ones who just simply walk out and move on and call it a day
on which i could say that this is much more prefer rather than on blaming someone on the actions you had made just because they did make out some recommendations.
You are that responsible on the actions that you had made, it is really just not that right that you would really be making yourself that look like a food on blaming out someone with your losses. lol

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[Doan9269]

Story if my past. I used to play a lot multiplayer games where skill matters, but devices you use also play a tiny percent of your success. That time when I lost, I used to blame mouse that does bad clicking, lagging internet, opponents that cheat. With time I have learned, that only skill matter and there is no one to blame. So with time I have moved that rule to gambling. I have nobody to blame for my loss except myself and my luck.

It may not even have to be on wether we are playing a multiplier kind of game or not this time, when we gamble, we are hundred percent responsible for how we go about it as long as it belongs to us, we cannot share the right on winning with anyone as well as not blame anyone for our own consequences received from every decisions we made while gambling, we are gambling for our own self and not for other people to take glory or control of what we have risk our money on, even when thry contributed to it.

[junder]

Maybe gamblers sometimes feel the feeling of blaming their friends. especially those who gamble or bet from friends' suggestions. and the results are not as expected.

If a friend make suggestion, they didn’t force you to follow their suggestion, you have the right not to gamble, so if you follow your friends suggestion and things didn’t go well as planed, then you should be responsible for your lose, and not to blame other’s, even if they force you to follow their prediction, if you don’t really want to follow it,  then you won’t. So whatever the outcome of your bet, always blame yourself and always learn from your mistake. If you don’t blame yourself and you always blame others, then you won’t be able to learn and correct yourself.

In my opinion, we should do self-introspection or correct ourselves about what has happened, if we lose a lot of money in gambling, it is on our own control, even if we follow the advice of friends, I think it is based on our own control as well. following the advice of our friend as you said. and those of us who gamble do it because of ourselves, not because of other people's coercion, because other people or even the casino does not have the element of coercion.
We are the ones who do it ourselves, all the losses that occur are because we do it ourselves, not other people, don't try to throw stones and hide your hands, it's better to admit and correct yourself, if you really want to gamble, please be able to accept the risks that will occur in gambling. including the loss of money which is called a loss, even though we are gambling with real money it is unethical to blame other people as compensation for the losses we get.

[EarnOnVictor]

Story if my past. I used to play a lot multiplayer games where skill matters, but devices you use also play a tiny percent of your success. That time when I lost, I used to blame mouse that does bad clicking, lagging internet, opponents that cheat. With time I have learned, that only skill matter and there is no one to blame. So with time I have moved that rule to gambling. I have nobody to blame for my loss except myself and my luck.

It may not even have to be on wether we are playing a multiplier kind of game or not this time, when we gamble, we are hundred percent responsible for how we go about it as long as it belongs to us, we cannot share the right on winning with anyone as well as not blame anyone for our own consequences received from every decisions we made while gambling, we are gambling for our own self and not for other people to take glory or control of what we have risk our money on, even when thry contributed to it.

We are 100% responsible for our actions as an adult as long as we are not forced to do it, so it baffles me when some people do not take responsibility. Even if they do something and realise that it is bad, the next thing is to retrace their steps and stop complaining as complaints will never solve anything, only a change can. Come to think of it, you were introduced to a thing, but were you forced to agree to it? That is the way I see this and for anyone to have agreed to it means that they need to take responsibility.

Gambling is never such that should be agreed to without proper deliberation, after all, this is not what is free, it can take money from you, so agreeing to it means that you already know the risk and you are willing to take it. Even if you are being tricked into doing it, let's not say force now, on getting to know that this thing is not good for you whether for the fact that it is taking your time or wasting your money. The best thing for any reasonable and responsible person to do is to retrace their steps and end it there, not shifting the blame on what you were never forced or tricked to accept.

[death69]

Maybe gamblers sometimes feel the feeling of blaming their friends. especially those who gamble or bet from friends' suggestions. and the results are not as expected.

If a friend make suggestion, they didn’t force you to follow their suggestion, you have the right not to gamble, so if you follow your friends suggestion and things didn’t go well as planed, then you should be responsible for your lose, and not to blame other’s, even if they force you to follow their prediction, if you don’t really want to follow it,  then you won’t. So whatever the outcome of your bet, always blame yourself and always learn from your mistake. If you don’t blame yourself and you always blame others, then you won’t be able to learn and correct yourself.

In my opinion, we should do self-introspection or correct ourselves about what has happened, if we lose a lot of money in gambling, it is on our own control, even if we follow the advice of friends, I think it is based on our own control as well. following the advice of our friend as you said. and those of us who gamble do it because of ourselves, not because of other people's coercion, because other people or even the casino does not have the element of coercion.
We are the ones who do it ourselves, all the losses that occur are because we do it ourselves, not other people, don't try to throw stones and hide your hands, it's better to admit and correct yourself, if you really want to gamble, please be able to accept the risks that will occur in gambling. including the loss of money which is called a loss, even though we are gambling with real money it is unethical to blame other people as compensation for the losses we get.

We enter this arena by choice, not coercion. It's our choice. The blame game? There's no point in doing it. We gamble, pay the price. Just that simple. Thinking about it, gambling is a combination of excitement and danger. This is a personal choice. Losses are common, therefore blaming others is unethical and misguided. We gamble and own results.

One must be self-aware in order to succeed in the gambling business. I believe we must acknowledge our actions and choices. This goes beyond money to understanding our motives and constraints. Let's gamble without risking reality. The stakes? Personal as well as financial. Keep it in mind.

[maydna]

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well, this is what I mean by a negative mindset like this which causes people to often lose and often lose large amounts of money which encourages their emotions to increase and cannot be controlled after which they often blame other people.
what's worse is that there is an emotional and almost depressed gambler who often loses because he always wants revenge for gambling, wants to get his money back, this person comes to the casino center and gets angry with the casino staff and says give him his money back. then he was kicked out of there after that he went home with regret and went to a friend who had asked him to gamble and blamed his friend and almost got into a fight but luckily another friend intervened.
after he got home he was angry with his wife and his wife was beaten until she had wounds on several parts of her face then his wife left him and now he is depressed and almost crazy.
this story is true because I know this person but not too close, just that he lives not too far from where I live.

and in conclusion, it is not recommended to consider gambling as a place to place hope, even though we gamble using money, it does not mean that the casino has to give the money back to the gambler because the gambling business will benefit the casino owner and this mindset can prevent us from the bad effects of blaming other people.

Experiencing losing money in gambling will make people emotional and want to recover their losses by continuing to gamble. Unfortunately, they don't think that this method can give them the opportunity to recover their losses because it will only increase the number of losses even more. Many gamblers have become emotional and depressed because they have lost so much that they have even gone bankrupt, so they can't do anything anymore. And that should be a lesson for other gamblers to start managing their gambling activities and try to reduce their money and time in gambling. They also don't need to blame other people around them because it is their own fault for thinking that gambling is a means of making money. If this is not immediately suppressed, they will only cause other problems that could become bigger than they thought and even disrupt their family relationships.

That is why we should not use gambling to make money and have too high hopes for winning. We can learn from other people's experiences to make us wiser in gambling so that we can enjoy gambling as entertainment only. Perhaps we have to change this wrong mindset by reflecting on our original goal in gambling to return the goal to its original goal.

[Stable090]

We enter this arena by choice, not coercion. It's our choice. The blame game? There's no point in doing it. We gamble, pay the price. Just that simple. Thinking about it, gambling is a combination of excitement and danger. This is a personal choice. Losses are common, therefore blaming others is unethical and misguided. We gamble and own results.

Some people make it look like they were forced to gamble, but I know that you can’t be forced to do what you don’t want to do, we all have the right to choose and reject any offer, so if you decide to start gambling, then don’t blame anyone for that, you should blame yourself for that, because when you were introduced to gambling, you should have just said no and stayed away from it. If a friend asks you to place a particular bet, you have the right to say no, or you can just do your analysis first before placing the bet. If there is any correction that you will be making, then make it before placing the bet. In this life, don’t blame anyone for your mistake, you have to hold yourself responsible.

[Juse14]

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It is really he easiest way to ease out the pain eh? You would really be blaming out someone on the mistakes that you have done on which you are really just that making yourself that look laughable.
It would really be just that normal for people to have that kind of behavior. There are ones who do really love to blame and there are ones who just simply walk out and move on and call it a day
on which i could say that this is much more prefer rather than on blaming someone on the actions you had made just because they did make out some recommendations.
You are that responsible on the actions that you had made, it is really just not that right that you would really be making yourself that look like a food on blaming out someone with your losses. lol

Often blaming other people every time you lose, this is what causes frequent feuds between gamblers. Someone who is not patient enough and is unable to accept the defeat they have experienced, they always look for an outlet so that their emotions can be vented, such as scolding and blaming other people. Isn't that stupid... when he gets a big win he immediately walks away from the people around him, while when he loses he blames other people...

So before we gamble, we must have a strong mentality, because losing in gambling is a certainty, while winning is only a possibility.

[slapper]

When we get a loss, the easiest thing is to blame others, blame the people who have invited him to play gambling and the people who have taught him how to play gambling.

But it would be better if when we are unable to achieve what we want, including winning in gambling, then never blame others or people who have taught you. But introspect yourself, because maybe the tricks and lessons given are not wrong, but it is your understanding that is still lacking, so that what is taught is different from what is practiced. And if what is taught is wrong, if you are smart enough then it will never be easy for you to immediately practice it. and if you are wise enough then, the first thing you do is to find the truth, whether the tricks and strategies he provides are indeed proven to be good at increasing the chances of victory in every gambling that we do.

It is really he easiest way to ease out the pain eh? You would really be blaming out someone on the mistakes that you have done on which you are really just that making yourself that look laughable.
It would really be just that normal for people to have that kind of behavior. There are ones who do really love to blame and there are ones who just simply walk out and move on and call it a day
on which i could say that this is much more prefer rather than on blaming someone on the actions you had made just because they did make out some recommendations.
You are that responsible on the actions that you had made, it is really just not that right that you would really be making yourself that look like a food on blaming out someone with your losses. lol

They place their bets, guided by a cocktail of hope and recommendations, and when the ball doesn't land where expected, who's to blame? Who muttered "Bet on red"? A strange accountability dance. The most successful in entertainment and gambling know that every choice is theirs. They celebrate wins and accept losses gracefully

Self-control in taking responsibility is like a seasoned actor with perfect timing. Not just moving on, but changing. Blaming others for actions misses a critical growth opportunity. It's like skipping the next chapter of a captivating novel. We write our own story by accepting our acts and their consequences, becoming heroes rather than victims. In life's vast theater, isn't it better to be the protagonist, warts and all, than a supporting character

[Fredomago]

We enter this arena by choice, not coercion. It's our choice. The blame game? There's no point in doing it. We gamble, pay the price. Just that simple. Thinking about it, gambling is a combination of excitement and danger. This is a personal choice. Losses are common, therefore blaming others is unethical and misguided. We gamble and own results.

Some people make it look like they were forced to gamble, but I know that you can’t be forced to do what you don’t want to do, we all have the right to choose and reject any offer, so if you decide to start gambling, then don’t blame anyone for that, you should blame yourself for that, because when you were introduced to gambling, you should have just said no and stayed away from it. If a friend asks you to place a particular bet, you have the right to say no, or you can just do your analysis first before placing the bet. If there is any correction that you will be making, then make it before placing the bet. In this life, don’t blame anyone for your mistake, you have to hold yourself responsible.

It's you to decide even there are someone who are trying to push you, but if you don't want to do things then they can't do anything about it, like what you just said, there's no one to be blame when you involve yourself into gambling, it's your money that you use and it's your decision to pick or to play the game that you love playing with, if you lose just take that experienced and never to point finger to someone to mkae excuses with the amount that you lose from your gambling. No one can bring you to gambling and manipulate you, it's your own decision to make so take full ownership of the responsibilities.

[EluguHcman]

It happens because I have sometimes at the first year of my tertiary education, i spent and lost my school fees on the gambling and I came back home and falsefully explained to my parents that some anonymous criminals blocked us on the way to school and robbed all the passengers in the bus but though their intentions was to kidnap us all but due to the fact that they had already realized an appreciatable amount of valuables from everyone, they were able to let us go.

This thread reminded me of the past but I must admit that I was so irresponsible to myself and uncontrolable to my emotions at a depression period of time.
Sometimes you just have to formulate some sorts of lies if alternative could come in other to recover your losts or with the sense that you just want set yourself free from what people may say of you pertaining an intentional incidents that maybe laughable or bringing you a shame after you must have taunted yourself by your deeds .

[DabsPoorVersion]

We enter this arena by choice, not coercion. It's our choice. The blame game? There's no point in doing it. We gamble, pay the price. Just that simple. Thinking about it, gambling is a combination of excitement and danger. This is a personal choice. Losses are common, therefore blaming others is unethical and misguided. We gamble and own results.

Some people make it look like they were forced to gamble, but I know that you can’t be forced to do what you don’t want to do, we all have the right to choose and reject any offer, so if you decide to start gambling, then don’t blame anyone for that, you should blame yourself for that, because when you were introduced to gambling, you should have just said no and stayed away from it. If a friend asks you to place a particular bet, you have the right to say no, or you can just do your analysis first before placing the bet. If there is any correction that you will be making, then make it before placing the bet. In this life, don’t blame anyone for your mistake, you have to hold yourself responsible.

It's you to decide even there are someone who are trying to push you, but if you don't want to do things then they can't do anything about it, like what you just said, there's no one to be blame when you involve yourself into gambling, it's your money that you use and it's your decision to pick or to play the game that you love playing with, if you lose just take that experienced and never to point finger to someone to mkae excuses with the amount that you lose from your gambling. No one can bring you to gambling and manipulate you, it's your own decision to make so take full ownership of the responsibilities.

There are really some people who will point fingers just to avoid being responsible for what they have done. Those people always try to avoid taking responsibility for their actions by blaming other people. However, it's important to recognize that every action we take is ultimately our own choice. Our decisions are not determined by the people or circumstances around us.

[Zanab247]

I will not blame someone for my gambling loss but I will never forget someone that introduced me to gambling without having the knowledge of gambling but he will be telling me some games that will enter for me to win but he will not use his own money to gamble that particular game and the games he ask me to bet will cut at the end. But since I know how to gamble sports betting in the gambling center, I don't allow anybody to tell me what to do with my money in the gambling center because, if I win I will celebrate myself but if I lose I will blame myself.

If you look at that story very well, you will know that the woman and her son are addicted to gambling because, for such people to used that kind of money to gamble without recovery from their losses show that they are addicted and they will go for prison for such stealing habit.

[asyakashi]

I tend to remain silent and regret my actions when I experience a big loss, because sometimes when gambling I get carried away by emotions and continue to make deposits, I never blame other people, it only tells about my own stupidity.

[topbitcoin]

As long as there is no element of coercion to enter the world of gambling or to start gambling, I will never blame someone who introduced and taught me about gambling. And in fact I would like to thank this person, because he taught me that getting a profit in gambling is not as easy as what we previously imagined, so we are required to have sufficient knowledge, skills and strategies to increase the chances of winning in gambling. . And even if I suffer a loss, it is just carelessness. Because up to now, there is no single strategy that can guarantee that we will always win in every gambling session.

I tend to remain silent and regret my actions when I experience a big loss, because sometimes when gambling I get carried away by emotions and continue to make deposits, I never blame other people, it only tells about my own stupidity.

This is quite a good step, because blaming other people will never solve anything and will not restore the losses we have experienced before. However, regret alone is not enough, we have to decide whether we will stop gambling and leave it, or continue with the condition that we must further improve our ability and knowledge in gambling, so that we can always increase the possibility of winning and minimize the occurrence of significant losses significant.

[klidex]

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It is really he easiest way to ease out the pain eh? You would really be blaming out someone on the mistakes that you have done on which you are really just that making yourself that look laughable.
It would really be just that normal for people to have that kind of behavior. There are ones who do really love to blame and there are ones who just simply walk out and move on and call it a day
on which i could say that this is much more prefer rather than on blaming someone on the actions you had made just because they did make out some recommendations.
You are that responsible on the actions that you had made, it is really just not that right that you would really be making yourself that look like a food on blaming out someone with your losses. lol

Often blaming other people every time you lose, this is what causes frequent feuds between gamblers. Someone who is not patient enough and is unable to accept the defeat they have experienced, they always look for an outlet so that their emotions can be vented, such as scolding and blaming other people. Isn't that stupid... when he gets a big win he immediately walks away from the people around him, while when he loses he blames other people...

So before we gamble, we must have a strong mentality, because losing in gambling is a certainty, while winning is only a possibility.

This is what makes gambling sometimes very naive if played by people who don't really understand the risks of gambling, blaming other people for their own mistakes is a stupid act, this is like you don't accept if you lose even though gambling is the game that causes them to lose. .
Yes, sometimes people who don't have a responsible attitude definitely can't control themselves so that when they lose they will take it out on other people and blame other people, just like when someone plays poker with an opponent they know from an offline casino, maybe if they lose they will blame a friend. played and thought it was cheating.

People who are not ready to accept defeat means that they do not have the mental strength to accept it, and as a gambler you should really understand the risks of gambling, where defeat is always possible. If you are not ready to lose, you should not be reckless in gambling.

[Assface16678]

I tend to remain silent and regret my actions when I experience a big loss, because sometimes when gambling I get carried away by emotions and continue to make deposits, I never blame other people, it only tells about my own stupidity.

Well, it's good because no one's to blame; it's ourselves or the gambler itself. No one should be involved. If you are blaming others for your gambling losses, then the problem is with the one who blames, because why would he involve others in his losses? In the first place, he is the one who made the situation, the one that made the losses, but it can't be avoided because sometimes gamblers or us gamblers tend to divert our frustrations to other people to ease our pain or frustration, but still, it is not good and healthy for the people around us, so we should always avoid blaming others or involving others in our own doings because of our own losses.

I once experienced something like this, but I regret it right away. Instead,  I divert my frustrations to other things, things that are not alive, or I ease my frustration by playing games or reading. In that way, I can control my emotions and will not involve others in my frustrations.

[len01]

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Experiencing losing money in gambling will make people emotional and want to recover their losses by continuing to gamble. Unfortunately, they don't think that this method can give them the opportunity to recover their losses because it will only increase the number of losses even more. Many gamblers have become emotional and depressed because they have lost so much that they have even gone bankrupt, so they can't do anything anymore.
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that's the bad thing about gamblers who can't understand how gambling works and how to use gambling appropriately without overdoing it which causes themselves to become uncontrollably emotional and only blame other people when they lose while other people have given the best advice and some friends usually also give advice for dont really chase losses in gambling but they just ignore any advice from other people without realizing that they themselves are bad gamblers who dont have good control but only think selfishly.

sometimes I just think what they think in their brains who gamble recklessly are given advice ignored but when they lose they blame whoever is nearby and this is a very stupid thing that irresponsible gamblers do and I also sometimes find people like this blaming his friend when he lost but I said to myself that he was a very stupid gambler who gambled with his own choice but involved other people in his loss.

[Docnaster]

I tend to remain silent and regret my actions when I experience a big loss, because sometimes when gambling I get carried away by emotions and continue to make deposits, I never blame other people, it only tells about my own stupidity.

While your way of handling your losses in gambling is absolutely  fine and ideal, other people tend to have contrary measures of handling their gambling engagements. I've been opportuned to see gamblers who will always want to transfer the aggression that was brought upon them by their losses  in gambling to other people around them and that's absolutely childish if you ask me.  Gambling is one engagement that is solely meant for adults that have a mind of their own and that's why it's advisable for people not to engage in gambling if they can't  control the effects of losing in it

There are platforms who gives out gambling codes to the public to use and gamble and a lot of people are good in using those codes to gamble and immediately blames these platforms when they're their money which I think is not expected from a gambler because those codes are purely people's predictions about games and there's no guarantee that it'll play our the way it was predicted.

[Accardo]

We enter this arena by choice, not coercion. It's our choice. The blame game? There's no point in doing it. We gamble, pay the price. Just that simple. Thinking about it, gambling is a combination of excitement and danger. This is a personal choice. Losses are common, therefore blaming others is unethical and misguided. We gamble and own results.

Some people make it look like they were forced to gamble, but I know that you can’t be forced to do what you don’t want to do, we all have the right to choose and reject any offer, so if you decide to start gambling, then don’t blame anyone for that, you should blame yourself for that, because when you were introduced to gambling, you should have just said no and stayed away from it. If a friend asks you to place a particular bet, you have the right to say no, or you can just do your analysis first before placing the bet. If there is any correction that you will be making, then make it before placing the bet. In this life, don’t blame anyone for your mistake, you have to hold yourself responsible.

Humans have a similar behavior, blaming people for their mistakes. Few humans can take responsibility of what happened to them, these days nobody is forced to execute any action. But it seems like the blame doubled since the human race began to comply emotions to their flaws and would always find a way to shift the blame to somebody else. However, in gambling, many cases has been reported about gamblers blaming their friends for engineering the idea of gambling to them, and for that it wasn't their fault in the first instance. Such a gambler wouldn't be able to escape his addiction because he doesn't acknowledge that he's at fault. In all, I've never came across a saddening issue as the one Op just mentioned. This behavior of a mother and child, is not condoning and how long would the family recover from their actions.

Somehow, they are not aware of what has become over them, and the person whom they lied against is innocent. I think we shouldn't call it blame. They're laying false accusation on the next person. In a country where the law enforcement agencies are strong the both gamblers would suffer long term in jail. As gamblers it's good to refresh our memory with the type of actions addicted gamblers now display around the society. Learning not to repeat such a thing would help most gamblers to avoid addiction and be responsible in any gambling related activity they find themselves into. It's been made public that gambling is for adults, hence the actions we take is ours and doesn't belong to anybody else. The losses are quite common, to them that they now see it as normal and don't bother about limiting it. Their senses came back after losing out almost all the money they've got. If they're awarded another amount of money both the mother and son would still engage in gambling. Remorse has been removed in their mind.