Do you blame someone for your gambling losses?

[Blitzboy]

Really funny act. How will you accuse someone of such when you never had them in mind if you win the money? If you make a mistake, take responsibility for what you did and own up for your actions. Don’t try to make anyone suffer or pay wrongly when they are entirely innocent. If I had the power as the judge, I’ll make them pay even more time in jail because it could have been an innocent person.

Ignorance of some gamblers is the main reason for making such complaints. But as far as I know those who make such complaints know themselves that there is no use in making complaints against the person. But digging into the reasons why he would make that complaint, it turns out that there are some gamblers who can't squeak past their losses. They refuse to accept that they have lost. They feel that if the blame can be placed on others, they can give themselves some relief. These are some emotional steps for that person but as a gambler one should never act like this. Moreover, it is a fact that since the gambler himself is responsible for the gains and losses, there is nothing but damaged his own dignity by blaming others.

The amount of stupidity displayed by some gamblers is astounding. People, they are losers; they lose and are unable to accept it. Sadness! They believe that by placing the blame elsewhere, they are absolved of accountability for their own deeds. Is it really true? They dare to whine as though doing so will make a difference in the outcome. Like, "Hello? You took the chance and placed the wager." In its most basic form, that is the art of the deal. A blamer gets no regard. You fail; you grow; you improve. But assigning blame to others? Thats just not strong enough. More than their pocketbook, it affects their dignity. And that is saying something, believe me. Own your losses as much as your wins if you plan to play the game. Thats the winning mentality. And I know winers, trust me.

[nara1892]

Really funny act. How will you accuse someone of such when you never had them in mind if you win the money? If you make a mistake, take responsibility for what you did and own up for your actions. Don’t try to make anyone suffer or pay wrongly when they are entirely innocent. If I had the power as the judge, I’ll make them pay even more time in jail because it could have been an innocent person.

However gambling is always about whatever decision you make, or that means you are the one who owns and makes decisions about the gambling you do, and for the problem of the results at the end of the session of course as you said here that those who make decisions are those who must be responsible for whatever will happen at the end of the session. And if indeed the situation of blaming others only for losing in my opinion this can happen if you get recommendations from other people regarding the decision to bet, especially if the person forces you to do it or for example the person tells you that at the end of the session you will win, if indeed the scenario is like that then in my opinion it is quite natural if you blame others for your defeat. This is also a lesson for all of us that never suggest or recommend anything to others regarding gambling because however in gambling there is absolutely no certainty for the results at the end of the session, meaning that you will remain in two possibilities, namely between winning or losing which is a definite possibility.

[Fredomago]

Really funny act. How will you accuse someone of such when you never had them in mind if you win the money? If you make a mistake, take responsibility for what you did and own up for your actions. Don’t try to make anyone suffer or pay wrongly when they are entirely innocent. If I had the power as the judge, I’ll make them pay even more time in jail because it could have been an innocent person.

If you read carefully this old news. The mother and son is just using the victim card to recover their gambling losses by pretending that someone hacked their bank account and do the transfer on sports betting site.

The title of this thread is kinda misleading to the real issue that attached on the content because they are not really blaming someone but pretending to become a victim of hack which is not just to get away with the messed they created after losing so much.

They pretend as they don't want to be blamed from the mistakes that they've made, something that a addicted gambler can do to escaped from a failure that messed up with their finances,  both the mother and the sons should take and accepts the responsibility instead of pointing their fingers to someone,  giving an alibis instead of accepting the truth,  though they've still need to serve their mistakes since the government did not just by the things that they've mentioning and the truth still comes up.

[nullama]

Really funny act. How will you accuse someone of such when you never had them in mind if you win the money? If you make a mistake, take responsibility for what you did and own up for your actions. Don’t try to make anyone suffer or pay wrongly when they are entirely innocent. If I had the power as the judge, I’ll make them pay even more time in jail because it could have been an innocent person.

I think it's a very common thing. I've observed this in many areas in life, not just gambling.

Many people like to blame anyone else except themselves.

I don't think it's a great way to live, because in the end there's no way to change other people, so by blaming them you are removing your power to change and become better.

In my view it is best to assume everything is your own fault. At least that way you have a way to change yourself for the better in the future.

[borovichok]

Ignorance of some gamblers is the main reason for making such complaints. But as far as I know those who make such complaints know themselves that there is no use in making complaints against the person. But digging into the reasons why he would make that complaint, it turns out that there are some gamblers who can't squeak past their losses. They refuse to accept that they have lost. They feel that if the blame can be placed on others, they can give themselves some relief. These are some emotional steps for that person but as a gambler one should never act like this. Moreover, it is a fact that since the gambler himself is responsible for the gains and losses, there is nothing but damaged his own dignity by blaming others.

Sometimes it is not out of ignorance. I remember 10 years ago when I gave a bet attendant some football games to help me play since I hadn't started gambling online. After she played the game I didn’t cross-check the game to confirm the matches and the options if that was really what I gave her. Sadly, what I gave her to play entered but she made a mistake in the game and that cost me the win. In this kind of situation who will you blame? I blamed myself though for not confirming the game but then if not for her mistake I would have won so she could be blamed to an extent.

I advocate that gamblers should recognize that they are solely responsible for their wins and losses in gambling so apportioning blame is not ideal. A gambler must be accountable for the risk he has taken and the outcome of the risk.

[Pi-network314159]

If you check this story Verry well I think this said amount used is not an amount is not the money of the mother and son. It might just be an inherited money from the husband of the woman in question. Because there is no possibility for a woman to work very hard and make that amount of money and spend all in gambling. Women are very strict when it comes to spending money, that is to say that the money is an inheritedoney . But even as that, it should be used wisely.

[Mahanton]

Really funny act. How will you accuse someone of such when you never had them in mind if you win the money? If you make a mistake, take responsibility for what you did and own up for your actions. Don’t try to make anyone suffer or pay wrongly when they are entirely innocent. If I had the power as the judge, I’ll make them pay even more time in jail because it could have been an innocent person.

I think it's a very common thing. I've observed this in many areas in life, not just gambling.

Many people like to blame anyone else except themselves.

I don't think it's a great way to live, because in the end there's no way to change other people, so by blaming them you are removing your power to change and become better.

In my view it is best to assume everything is your own fault. At least that way you have a way to change yourself for the better in the future.

Yes, this is really that a real to life situation on which this isnt really just that limited to gambling space but also in other aspects in life as well on which people would really be tending to give out those kind of blaming time
even if its just because with your actions and thats why you have that taken then you would really be blaming unto others just some sort of defense mechanisms because you dont really like to accept
on whatever wrong decisions or actions that you've been done on which it would really be just that a common real day to day happenings on which we can see not only on gambling.

Speaking about blaming someone with your loses then you are really just that making yourself that laughable. Why? You are trying out to blame someone with your actions that you had made out
without even trying out to realize that you are the ones responsible on the acts you are making.

[l3pox]

The first step in actually coming back from an addiction is to realize that the gambler is to blame for their own actions. Not anyone else.

People are quick to blame others, but they rarely take responsibility of their actions when they lose.

By blaming yourself for wrong steps due to your careless actions in carrying out gambling activities and often experiencing losses, that is normal and natural, but if we gamblers blame other people for the losses we experience, that is a big mistake. . . because defeat in gambling is determined by the dealer or system, not other gamblers.
Therefore, it is a good idea for us to introspect ourselves on what we have done and immediately improve it.

I agree that gambling is a game of luck and depends on your own personal judgment and experience no one should be blamed here at all. If we ourselves do not gamble no one can force us to gamble. Rightly said it is the result of our actions but there are many who don't want to accept it. If you can put the blame on others you feel better. Gamblers initially denied it. But when it becomes a real problem they stop trying to deny it. So acknowledging the problem is very important.

I think that taking responsibility for what we do should be the standard but its not really what we see around the world
most people want to blame things that are outside them for the situations
not once, or twice
but every time.

[bettercrypto]

Really funny act. How will you accuse someone of such when you never had them in mind if you win the money? If you make a mistake, take responsibility for what you did and own up for your actions. Don’t try to make anyone suffer or pay wrongly when they are entirely innocent. If I had the power as the judge, I’ll make them pay even more time in jail because it could have been an innocent person.

You are very selfish and a very bad person when you blame others for your losses in gambling. There is no reason for such situations, to be honest. What is it that just because you don't want to admit to yourself or to us that we are really the ones who make mistakes, we will actually pass it on to others?

From the beginning, we should not think that every time we play gambling, we will double the money we entered in a casino. We don't trample on other people or feel bad just because of our mistake.

[Z_MBFM]

Really funny act. How will you accuse someone of such when you never had them in mind if you win the money? If you make a mistake, take responsibility for what you did and own up for your actions. Don’t try to make anyone suffer or pay wrongly when they are entirely innocent. If I had the power as the judge, I’ll make them pay even more time in jail because it could have been an innocent person.

You are very selfish and a very bad person when you blame others for your losses in gambling. There is no reason for such situations, to be honest. What is it that just because you don't want to admit to yourself or to us that we are really the ones who make mistakes, we will actually pass it on to others?

From the beginning, we should not think that every time we play gambling, we will double the money we entered in a casino. We don't trample on other people or feel bad just because of our mistake.

Gambling requires responsibility. Because no one will take that responsibility after gambling. the one who deposits the money has to accept the loss of that money and even if there is a profit, he will enjoy it and he can give it to others if he wants. that would be his absolute will. but if there is a profit, as he can share the profit money with someone else as he wishes, everyone will laugh at it. but if you lose it, no one will share it and take any kind of responsibility. so you should think twice before deposit your money on gambling platform to gamble

[Ojima-ojo]

Really funny act. How will you accuse someone of such when you never had them in mind if you win the money? If you make a mistake, take responsibility for what you did and own up for your actions. Don’t try to make anyone suffer or pay wrongly when they are entirely innocent. If I had the power as the judge, I’ll make them pay even more time in jail because it could have been an innocent person.

Sometimes it depends on the role of the person in the whole scenario because for the gambler to transfer the blame, he may have been put into a position to compromise his own will and take on the advice of another person and if he lost at the end he may blame the person for the outcome.


However, if you have to follow your instinct and also not to easily get carried away into believing any form of advice to choose a bet in a particular direction, it is better to always follow your instinct.

[oktana]

Really funny act. How will you accuse someone of such when you never had them in mind if you win the money? If you make a mistake, take responsibility for what you did and own up for your actions. Don’t try to make anyone suffer or pay wrongly when they are entirely innocent. If I had the power as the judge, I’ll make them pay even more time in jail because it could have been an innocent person.

You are very selfish and a very bad person when you blame others for your losses in gambling. There is no reason for such situations, to be honest. What is it that just because you don't want to admit to yourself or to us that we are really the ones who make mistakes, we will actually pass it on to others?

From the beginning, we should not think that every time we play gambling, we will double the money we entered in a casino. We don't trample on other people or feel bad just because of our mistake.

This sounds like I am the one who blamed another person for my gambling loss. Easy please, haha. However, you are right.

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Sometimes it depends on the role of the person in the whole scenario because for the gambler to transfer the blame, he may have been put into a position to compromise his own will and take on the advice of another person and if he lost at the end he may blame the person for the outcome.


However, if you have to follow your instinct and also not to easily get carried away into believing any form of advice to choose a bet in a particular direction, it is better to always follow your instinct.

But if someone advices you to do gamble a particular game, it’s just an advice and you have the last call/decision to make. It is speculation that ends in probability, if they don’t know this, then why do they even gamble? Because that’s what gambling is all about.

[Onyeeze]

I think they're just trying to save themselves from huge losses but what they did have brought them into a worse situation. The truth will always prevail no matter how we cover up our mistakes. Blaming someone else isn't a good idea and it couldn't even save us from our huge losses. We are only dragging ourselves to bad situations more. It will be better to control ourselves or just accept losses in case we lose our funds since that's a part of gambling. We can't blame others if we are the ones who are making wrong decisions.

in gambling we supposed to know that the statistics of people who lose in gambling is higher than the statistics of people who profited in gambling so when you look at the analysis or these two things you have to compare and understand that anyone who does not have a job or who does not take good care of their family is not supposed to involve itself into gambling knowing that a gambling have to deal with opportunity and the risk, neither you are opportune to Merit gambling or you fall into victim of losing whatever you stake and gambling so that is the advantages and  disadvantages of gambling.

[Dewi Aries]

It's you who place the bet and no one should be blame in each actions that we take while betting and playing whatever gambling games that we are involve with, having that kind of mindsets might also help to be more extra careful, though it's  a different scenario if we are referring to a gambling addicted person, as they will have all the excuses that they can get to point their fingers and put blame to other people.

What you say is very true, other people should not be blamed when we lose because it could be other people and we definitely have different tricks or ways of playing gambling, if you look at it, it's almost the same, but the intelligence and skills of each gambler. very different. if we see other people betting small and large amounts and they seem to really enjoy the game then of course this will encourage us to imitate their behavior therefore it would be good for us to have the right awareness so that we remain consistent with ourselves, namely controlling ourselves. we alone. we are good. good and right.

After all, there is absolutely no guarantee that anyone who depends on others to always be able to win in gambling, and maybe the people you follow are actually following the methods of others without your knowledge and obviously with this then the situation is the same, or the intention is better for you to do it yourself. On the other hand, everyone has their own instincts and choices about everything they want to do, and the worry is that when the predictions of the people you follow turn out to make you lose then the situation will only make you feel more disappointed or you can even have problems with the people you follow.

If you follow others then it's the same as you don't believe in yourself, we must understand that gambling is not something that can be learned and the point is that it means that anyone only acts and makes decisions according to their own beliefs and does not mean they have a winning recipe or formula, so with this of course it is better to gamble in our own way and instinct, we must remember that everyone has different luck which means that maybe your luck is much better than the person you follow the prediction.

[Orpichukwu]

I noticed one thing, when a player loses a large amount of money, he can resort to any deception. Yes, he can make up stories that he didn't even think he was capable of. And also his environment does not expect such fabulous stories from him. These fraudulent stories may be related to the illness of the player’s children or mother, as long as they give him money at that particular point in time. I am well aware of this and never, under any circumstances, lend money to friends, even if they call me bad words, but my action will preserve our friendship, no matter how ridiculous it may sound from the outside.

There are a lot of stories like you told about the losing mother and son, this is just one of them, showing everyone what can happen if you don’t stop in time in the game.

I have read about a lot of such stories on the internet, and most of the people who claim and tell these stories don't show their true identity. Let's investigate if what they said is truly as accurate as they claim it is. There is no doubt that some of the stories might be true, but on the other hand, when something looks so common among them, it should be questioned.
 
There is also another set of gamblers who lose everything to gambling, and when they are busy gambling, they feel like they are on top of the world and can't fake advice from anyone, but when the game turns sideways and they lose everything, you keep hearing stories about why they really did gamble.
 
This leads to that, and the rest of them are just people who are close to them or the casino to show sympathy to them; maybe at least they could be able to get some money back from anyone who buys their story, and they can use that to sponsor their gambling life again.

[Accardo]

Really funny act. How will you accuse someone of such when you never had them in mind if you win the money? If you make a mistake, take responsibility for what you did and own up for your actions. Don’t try to make anyone suffer or pay wrongly when they are entirely innocent. If I had the power as the judge, I’ll make them pay even more time in jail because it could have been an innocent person.

You are very selfish and a very bad person when you blame others for your losses in gambling. There is no reason for such situations, to be honest. What is it that just because you don't want to admit to yourself or to us that we are really the ones who make mistakes, we will actually pass it on to others?

From the beginning, we should not think that every time we play gambling, we will double the money we entered in a casino. We don't trample on other people or feel bad just because of our mistake.

I'm getting to understand that some people can't do the thinking, instead rely on the thoughts of close friends, before taking serious actions. Why would an adult get sidetracked easily to accept within himself, that his friend is responsible for his problem. It means the gambler wasn't thinking fine, about when all that happened. He wagered the funds with nobody's help. It's all a mistake, on his friend's end, because he discussed gambling in a non-gambler's presence, whose intention was to get rich via gambling. The addict is not a responsible gambler. As he doesn't care on fixing his life but focuses on blaming a friend for introducing him to gambling. Although, it's common to have people get moved away from their initial thoughts on the foundation that gambling has made some friends money. The player who accused his friend, may have never come across the instinct of becoming a gambler, till he met his friend. While the trouble is based on him, being observant of the type of conversation we give out to friends who don't gamble.

[zuzie]

It's you who place the bet and no one should be blame in each actions that we take while betting and playing whatever gambling games that we are involve with, having that kind of mindsets might also help to be more extra careful, though it's  a different scenario if we are referring to a gambling addicted person, as they will have all the excuses that they can get to point their fingers and put blame to other people.

What you say is very true, other people should not be blamed when we lose because it could be other people and we definitely have different tricks or ways of playing gambling, if you look at it, it's almost the same, but the intelligence and skills of each gambler. very different. if we see other people betting small and large amounts and they seem to really enjoy the game then of course this will encourage us to imitate their behavior therefore it would be good for us to have the right awareness so that we remain consistent with ourselves, namely controlling ourselves. we alone. we are good. good and right.

After all, there is absolutely no guarantee that anyone who depends on others to always be able to win in gambling, and maybe the people you follow are actually following the methods of others without your knowledge and obviously with this then the situation is the same, or the intention is better for you to do it yourself. On the other hand, everyone has their own instincts and choices about everything they want to do, and the worry is that when the predictions of the people you follow turn out to make you lose then the situation will only make you feel more disappointed or you can even have problems with the people you follow.

If you follow others then it's the same as you don't believe in yourself, we must understand that gambling is not something that can be learned and the point is that it means that anyone only acts and makes decisions according to their own beliefs and does not mean they have a winning recipe or formula, so with this of course it is better to gamble in our own way and instinct, we must remember that everyone has different luck which means that maybe your luck is much better than the person you follow the prediction.

Yes, it could also be true what you say, we don't know what method the gambler uses, from our knowledge behind it, to be safe it is better for us to use our own method and from that method we can learn how. to play real gambling. By facing many defeats and seeing other people's victories, we will slowly learn to explore this wisdom and experience so that we can use it as a guide in the future to improve our own situation.
Yes, it's true that we must always remember that our luck is definitely different from other gamblers and we must not be jealous of what other gamblers get.

[kotajikikox]

That is what stupid gamblers usually do , they tend to look for someone to be blame because of their own mistakes ,imagine how much risk they use to gamble but when faces losses they will end up making big issues so their act will not look like fool, gamble at your own risk , and also when we gamble always remember that it is our decision unless they are being forced to bet .

[nullama]

That is what stupid gamblers usually do , they tend to look for someone to be blame because of their own mistakes ,imagine how much risk they use to gamble but when faces losses they will end up making big issues so their act will not look like fool, gamble at your own risk , and also when we gamble always remember that it is our decision unless they are being forced to bet .

Yeah, that's something that is very common.

Most people like to blame everyone else except themselves when something bad happens to them.

When something good happens to them though, they are quick to forget everyone that helped them and they take all the credit.

It's simply how most people behave.

[Mia Chloe]

Why blame others when you make a loss? These people who irresponsible gamblers blame most of the time don't even contribute to their gambling loss but they still however end up blaming them just as a way to transfer the aggression the feel because they lost. One of the most crucial and important quality and behavior of a responsible gambler is his ability to manage losses. This is because most unnecessary transfer or wrong accusations and blames arise from the fact that the gambler in question lost some money in his previous stake and probably a huge amount.
The truth is , as a. gambler if you continue to blame people around you anytime you lose In gambling activities, it. Would be difficult for you to figure out your flaws or mistakes as well as possible ways to fix them.