Keeping your gambling habit a secret.

[348Judah]

Keeping our gambling habits a secret here could refer to the way we handle the privacy on how we are gambling, some don't really like a public exposure when they are gambling, while some don't mind having that, but its mostly more profitable if from the way we gambles, we remain unpredictable, this is to help maintain our personal integrity to an extent with other people we may relate with outside the scope of gambling, seeing us being a gamblers could print another impression different on them.

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[bitterguy28]

It is difficult to ask for a helping hand when you hide from the closest people that you play gambling. It is not that hard to become a gambling addict. If you ask any gambling addict how he got into such a situation, it is very likely that he will either not admit that he has any problems, or will say that he does not understand how it happened.   

The closest people will know that you gamble no matter how it will be hidden they must know it, now imagine gambling is almost everyone knows even though they never play for example.

but there are people that is great in hiding , sometimes even wife/husband cannot find their way of hiding so better not to confirm everyone has this because it is not.

There will be more people covering up their shame than saying that they are addicted, which is clear that they know how to do it, they just don't explain that they also have the same problem.

this is the main problem about addicted person that they cannot gather enough chance to tells the people around us about our gambling addictions.

[danherbias07]

Keeping our gambling habits a secret here could refer to the way we handle the privacy on how we are gambling, some don't really like a public exposure when they are gambling, while some don't mind having that, but its mostly more profitable if from the way we gambles, we remain unpredictable, this is to help maintain our personal integrity to an extent with other people we may relate with outside the scope of gambling, seeing us being a gamblers could print another impression different on them.

I like that. Being unpredictable. The secrecy is still there and somehow we are protecting those who are near us in a different way. We may be called gamblers but they must not know the extent of how we gamble. We could be betting for a large amount or we are just doing it for fun but the neighbors only hear that occasionally that they won't have any idea what is really happening inside. We keep that at bay in telling our kids or our relatives about what is happening to us.
Why? Simply because there are people who cannot shut their mouths and they will keep on adding more stories to the ones that they heard.
In my family, I would not mind telling my wife because I know she won't be the kind of person that would tell others about it. As a partner in everything she will definitely protect my secret.

[angrybirdy]

Keeping our gambling habits a secret here could refer to the way we handle the privacy on how we are gambling, some don't really like a public exposure when they are gambling, while some don't mind having that, but its mostly more profitable if from the way we gambles, we remain unpredictable, this is to help maintain our personal integrity to an extent with other people we may relate with outside the scope of gambling, seeing us being a gamblers could print another impression different on them.

I like that. Being unpredictable. The secrecy is still there and somehow we are protecting those who are near us in a different way. We may be called gamblers but they must not know the extent of how we gamble. We could be betting for a large amount or we are just doing it for fun but the neighbors only hear that occasionally that they won't have any idea what is really happening inside. We keep that at bay in telling our kids or our relatives about what is happening to us.
Why? Simply because there are people who cannot shut their mouths and they will keep on adding more stories to the ones that they heard.
In my family, I would not mind telling my wife because I know she won't be the kind of person that would tell others about it. As a partner in everything she will definitely protect my secret.

Precisely! It seems that right now, we would rather be a low-key person in our lives, it is better that other people don't know about what we do to avoid judgments and evil eye. We know that people have different thoughts, some will think badly of you when they find out that you gamble, and others will think that you have a lot of money because when it comes to gambling, huge and easy money is very possible when you win. If you want a peaceful life and no one will interfere with the things you do, just continue to keep them a secret, just choose who you trust to tell, the one you know who's supportive and genuinely happy with the things you receive in your life.

[Ever-young]

We live in a society where people have different views about something and these views could be drawn based on different constituent like personal sentiment, religion, ideology and experience. And speaking of gamble there are those that view it as an irresponsible activity to embark on and whoever is into it is tag as irresponsible guy, for some it beyond being irresponsible but a sin something that is evil,  while some others out of an ugly experience of a loved one that got ruined by it due to extreme addiction.

The availability of online gambling platforms allows anyone to maintain privacy in gambling so that other people do not need to know the activities we do, especially in gambling.
Now the issue of gambling is not a taboo activity because there are many people involved in it even long before online gambling platforms started appearing on the internet. The issue of how they are involved in gambling depends on each individual, whether they are responsible or not, only they themselves can control it.

Gambling addiction can have an enormous effect on the gambler's relationships with those closest to them, even if they do not gamble themselves. The confidentiality and lies that frequently accompany gambling addiction can produce a great deal of mistrust and conflict in relationships. Gambling addicts frequently borrow money from family and friends, which can strain relationships even more. It's far preferable to be honest with those closest to you and seek rehabilitation if you're battling with a gambling addiction.

[Jody.Drummer]

We live in a society where people have different views about something and these views could be drawn based on different constituent like personal sentiment, religion, ideology and experience. And speaking of gamble there are those that view it as an irresponsible activity to embark on and whoever is into it is tag as irresponsible guy, for some it beyond being irresponsible but a sin something that is evil,  while some others out of an ugly experience of a loved one that got ruined by it due to extreme addiction.

The availability of online gambling platforms allows anyone to maintain privacy in gambling so that other people do not need to know the activities we do, especially in gambling.
Now the issue of gambling is not a taboo activity because there are many people involved in it even long before online gambling platforms started appearing on the internet. The issue of how they are involved in gambling depends on each individual, whether they are responsible or not, only they themselves can control it.

Gambling addiction can have an enormous effect on the gambler's relationships with those closest to them, even if they do not gamble themselves. The confidentiality and lies that frequently accompany gambling addiction can produce a great deal of mistrust and conflict in relationships. Gambling addicts frequently borrow money from family and friends, which can strain relationships even more. It's far preferable to be honest with those closest to you and seek rehabilitation if you're battling with a gambling addiction.

Basically yes it is true and the impact of gambling will not only cause problems in socialization relationships with other people, especially the closest people but the impact of gambling can also of course destroy a person's life in various aspects, especially from losing balance in terms of finance so it is not uncommon for us to see people who end up with a very poor life situation where they lose all the property they have and also destroy their relationship with their family.

Yes I can confirm that, as you said above that the impact of gambling addiction can also make other people or society have a bad point of view towards us where usually they will put restrictions with us in terms of socialization and also maybe they will claim that we are someone who has a bad personality which of course in the end they will not trust us while on the other hand usually gamblers always make their closest people a place or target to borrow money when they don't have money to gamble. Another thing, keeping gambling habits a secret is indeed good so that we avoid bad claims from people around us but on the other hand we also need other people to help us if for example we want to quit gambling, because at least we definitely need some advice and input from some other people's heads or minds.

[Gheka]

Keeping our gambling habits a secret here could refer to the way we handle the privacy on how we are gambling, some don't really like a public exposure when they are gambling, while some don't mind having that, but its mostly more profitable if from the way we gambles, we remain unpredictable, this is to help maintain our personal integrity to an extent with other people we may relate with outside the scope of gambling, seeing us being a gamblers could print another impression different on them.

I like that. Being unpredictable. The secrecy is still there and somehow we are protecting those who are near us in a different way. We may be called gamblers but they must not know the extent of how we gamble. We could be betting for a large amount or we are just doing it for fun but the neighbors only hear that occasionally that they won't have any idea what is really happening inside. We keep that at bay in telling our kids or our relatives about what is happening to us.
Why? Simply because there are people who cannot shut their mouths and they will keep on adding more stories to the ones that they heard.
In my family, I would not mind telling my wife because I know she won't be the kind of person that would tell others about it. As a partner in everything she will definitely protect my secret.

Precisely! It seems that right now, we would rather be a low-key person in our lives, it is better that other people don't know about what we do to avoid judgments and evil eye. We know that people have different thoughts, some will think badly of you when they find out that you gamble, and others will think that you have a lot of money because when it comes to gambling, huge and easy money is very possible when you win. If you want a peaceful life and no one will interfere with the things you do, just continue to keep them a secret, just choose who you trust to tell, the one you know who's supportive and genuinely happy with the things you receive in your life.

Being discreet is the only way to avoid disrupting our relationships and daily work, people around us love to pry into the private lives of our colleagues or, more accurately, judge outsiders, the story may not be malicious at first, but some people will pay attention and take advantage of it to cause trouble, jealousy is always everywhere. For those we trust, this secret does not necessarily require sympathy or understanding from them, sometimes gambling goes against each other's views, it is difficult to receive sympathy

[carlfebz2]

Keeping our gambling habits a secret here could refer to the way we handle the privacy on how we are gambling, some don't really like a public exposure when they are gambling, while some don't mind having that, but its mostly more profitable if from the way we gambles, we remain unpredictable, this is to help maintain our personal integrity to an extent with other people we may relate with outside the scope of gambling, seeing us being a gamblers could print another impression different on them.

I like that. Being unpredictable. The secrecy is still there and somehow we are protecting those who are near us in a different way. We may be called gamblers but they must not know the extent of how we gamble. We could be betting for a large amount or we are just doing it for fun but the neighbors only hear that occasionally that they won't have any idea what is really happening inside. We keep that at bay in telling our kids or our relatives about what is happening to us.
Why? Simply because there are people who cannot shut their mouths and they will keep on adding more stories to the ones that they heard.
In my family, I would not mind telling my wife because I know she won't be the kind of person that would tell others about it. As a partner in everything she will definitely protect my secret.

Precisely! It seems that right now, we would rather be a low-key person in our lives, it is better that other people don't know about what we do to avoid judgments and evil eye. We know that people have different thoughts, some will think badly of you when they find out that you gamble, and others will think that you have a lot of money because when it comes to gambling, huge and easy money is very possible when you win. If you want a peaceful life and no one will interfere with the things you do, just continue to keep them a secret, just choose who you trust to tell, the one you know who's supportive and genuinely happy with the things you receive in your life.

Being discreet is the only way to avoid disrupting our relationships and daily work, people around us love to pry into the private lives of our colleagues or, more accurately, judge outsiders, the story may not be malicious at first, but some people will pay attention and take advantage of it to cause trouble, jealousy is always everywhere. For those we trust, this secret does not necessarily require sympathy or understanding from them, sometimes gambling goes against each other's views, it is difficult to receive sympathy

Im also that kind of introvert when it comes to things on which i do prefer on having a peaceful living without having any arguments with other people or having some issues or whatever things that they could really be able to say. I do want a peaceful living and just do your work and live with your means then with that then im already contented to that.  This is why it is really just that good when it comes on being silent and
be secretive on the things that you've been dealing because we do live in a world on where tons of people are judgemental or someone whose really that loving on getting involvement or something has to say
into other peoples lives on which it is really that something not really that be avoided. If you are someone whose really that too sensitve when it comes to what other people been saying
then it would be best that you should be keeping for yourself on whatever things that you are dealing with specially with gambling which the community does have that bad impressions or views towards it.

[summonerrk]

Being discreet is the only way to avoid disrupting our relationships and daily work, people around us love to pry into the private lives of our colleagues or, more accurately, judge outsiders, the story may not be malicious at first, but some people will pay attention and take advantage of it to cause trouble, jealousy is always everywhere. For those we trust, this secret does not necessarily require sympathy or understanding from them, sometimes gambling goes against each other's views, it is difficult to receive sympathy

I'm always surprised how much people like to pry into other people's business and discuss other people's income. That's why I think it's important to keep your profits a secret from everyone. After all, when people find out about your income, gossip, envy, and sometimes attempts to use you for their own purposes begin.

It is better to have peace and tranquility than to be the subject of talk and envy. It is always better to keep your financial success a secret and share it only with loved ones and trusted people.

[Awaklara]

Being discreet is the only way to avoid disrupting our relationships and daily work, people around us love to pry into the private lives of our colleagues or, more accurately, judge outsiders, the story may not be malicious at first, but some people will pay attention and take advantage of it to cause trouble, jealousy is always everywhere. For those we trust, this secret does not necessarily require sympathy or understanding from them, sometimes gambling goes against each other's views, it is difficult to receive sympathy

I'm always surprised how much people like to pry into other people's business and discuss other people's income. That's why I think it's important to keep your profits a secret from everyone. After all, when people find out about your income, gossip, envy, and sometimes attempts to use you for their own purposes begin.

It is better to have peace and tranquility than to be the subject of talk and envy. It is always better to keep your financial success a secret and share it only with loved ones and trusted people.

I would prefer not to share it with anyone. although sometimes we do need to tell the people closest to us. but in certain cases such as winnings or other successes in gambling, we don't need to share them with anyone.
We don't know that there are quite a lot of people out there who don't like us. remain calm and silent in all our activities. there is no need to interfere in other people's affairs and other people probably will not interfere in our affairs. especially if we live in an environment where many people care too much about and comment on other people's affairs.

[Quidat]

Being discreet is the only way to avoid disrupting our relationships and daily work, people around us love to pry into the private lives of our colleagues or, more accurately, judge outsiders, the story may not be malicious at first, but some people will pay attention and take advantage of it to cause trouble, jealousy is always everywhere. For those we trust, this secret does not necessarily require sympathy or understanding from them, sometimes gambling goes against each other's views, it is difficult to receive sympathy

I'm always surprised how much people like to pry into other people's business and discuss other people's income. That's why I think it's important to keep your profits a secret from everyone. After all, when people find out about your income, gossip, envy, and sometimes attempts to use you for their own purposes begin.

It is better to have peace and tranquility than to be the subject of talk and envy. It is always better to keep your financial success a secret and share it only with loved ones and trusted people.

Just let them be, no matter what words they would be throwing it out then its none of their business and as long they wont really be crossing up the line then they could tell everything they do want.
People wont really that easily believed on whatever they would really be tending to say because as long we are really just that doing on the things that we do see which is right then i dont see any issues.
Sometimes it cant really be avoided that you wont really be getting pissed on the time that you would be able to hear up something into someone which arent something right.
There are really moments or times that it would really be testing up your patience on which we are really just that indeed humans on which reactions something like this would really be normal.
Keeping gambling as a secret? i dont think its needed as long you arent doing something wrong and everything is really that in control then it should really be just that fine.

[junder]

I'm always surprised how much people like to pry into other people's business and discuss other people's income. That's why I think it's important to keep your profits a secret from everyone. After all, when people find out about your income, gossip, envy, and sometimes attempts to use you for their own purposes begin.

It is better to have peace and tranquility than to be the subject of talk and envy. It is always better to keep your financial success a secret and share it only with loved ones and trusted people.

I think that's a natural thing, because maybe that's one of the formulas that can't be removed from all of our lives, I'm sure we've all interfered in other people's affairs which we shouldn't have, what's more, many people definitely feel jealous when they see other people. who is superior to him. But of course not everyone shows their jealousy brutally, there are people who are jealous but they can hide it or don't show it directly in front of them or don't make direct sarcasm about it, because they think there's no point in showing their jealousy.

including the income we get, it could be a problem for people who don't like us. but even so, we don't need to think about it, because in my opinion, as long as we don't harm other people, then just do it, including gambling, as long as we don't burn anything that can trigger smoke. Keeping the gambling you do a secret is better than publicizing it, because even publicizing it can invite problems when people who don't like us see it. including with our own friends. I'm sure there are some of our friends who don't want to see us happy.

[Hirose UK]

Keeping our gambling habits a secret here could refer to the way we handle the privacy on how we are gambling, some don't really like a public exposure when they are gambling, while some don't mind having that, but its mostly more profitable if from the way we gambles, we remain unpredictable, this is to help maintain our personal integrity to an extent with other people we may relate with outside the scope of gambling, seeing us being a gamblers could print another impression different on them.

Only benefit that can be prioritized in keeping our gambling activities secret is indeed about our own survival because that way privacy regarding whatever we do in gambling can be maintained properly.
Most gamblers still prioritize privacy in the activities they carry out, there are several things that are the main reasons why privacy is truly protected.
Just look, when in the past there were still offline casinos or physical casinos, lots of problems occurred when under certain conditions, such as getting jackpot, there were lots of other people who always knew how much money they brought in and won.
And now with the existence of online casinos and truly maintaining privacy related to gambling activities, no one will be able to find out, clearly this is quite profitable benefit.

After all, everyone perspective on gambling is always different, many people don't really care, but many also think that gamblers are bad people.
By maintaining personal integrity, indirectly we can also avoid various bad points of view that often arise in the minds of some people around us out there.

[michellee]

Gambling addiction can have an enormous effect on the gambler's relationships with those closest to them, even if they do not gamble themselves. The confidentiality and lies that frequently accompany gambling addiction can produce a great deal of mistrust and conflict in relationships. Gambling addicts frequently borrow money from family and friends, which can strain relationships even more. It's far preferable to be honest with those closest to you and seek rehabilitation if you're battling with a gambling addiction.

Indeed, the impact of gambling addiction can indirectly and directly affect the people closest to you. That is why if someone intends to hide their gambling activities, they must be aware that they need many things to avoid gambling addiction.

He must be able to restrain himself by learning to control himself so he doesn't become addicted to gambling. Otherwise, he will lie to those closest to him and that is the beginning of problems that could become big. Gambling addicts will get into trouble because they may borrow money from people around them. He needs money to be able to continue his gambling activities and that will make him increasingly immersed in gambling.

If he can't realize it, he will become a gambling addict who is difficult to cure. He will not realize that he has become a gambling addict unless there are people close to him who can notice changes in him. That is why if someone wants to hide their gambling activities, they must be able to control themselves and be able to limit their gambling activities.

[Asiska02]

Those that keep their gambling habit a secret is it that they're not proud of what they are doing?.

You’ve made it clear in your post earlier that it is done so that the people (family, friends and colleagues) don’t see them as irresponsible people in the society because of their show of love or addiction to gambling. In a family or society where they view gambling as a normal thing, they don’t need to hide it but will proudly show it that they’re into it and many others will want to follow their lead or even make it look like a competition on who can gamble and win more in the society. The family and society you come from will have effect on your gambling addictions and will say a lot on how proud you are engaging in it or not.

[Ever-young]

Gambling may be a highly addicted and habitual behaviour. When someone gets attached to something, they will go to extreme lengths to keep it secret from people. They may be humiliated or frightened by their addiction, and they may refuse to confront the truth of what they are doing. So they continue to bet in secret, thinking no one would notice. And as long as they maintain the secret, the more difficult it is to eradicate the habit.
Which is where the value of assistance comes in. If someone is battling with a gambling addiction, they must be able to discuss it openly and frankly with someone who can offer compassionate guidance and compassion.

[Pi-network314159]

Gambling may be a highly addicted and habitual behaviour. When someone gets attached to something, they will go to extreme lengths to keep it secret from people. They may be humiliated or frightened by their addiction, and they may refuse to confront the truth of what they are doing. So they continue to bet in secret, thinking no one would notice. And as long as they maintain the secret, the more difficult it is to eradicate the habit.
Which is where the value of assistance comes in. If someone is battling with a gambling addiction, they must be able to discuss it openly and frankly with someone who can offer compassionate guidance and compassion.

Where got my attention in all your explanation is the last paragraphs which you stated that, they must be able to frankly open up to someone who will give them guidance. You know how difficult it is to unvail your secret to people in what you do. because your secret is only safe with you, and releasing it may further put you inore problems. just like smoking habits people are afraid to even tell some people because you don't know what to say to them that the information will not get to the person they don't want it to reach. Anybody that want to quit a habit don't need a guidance but to take it serious decisions and makes it effective. Because even if you are advised you still need to make your final decision.

[Volimack]

Gambling is easy but privacy is difficult to maintain as addiction becomes a person's behavior changes and they cannot maintain privacy. After spreading the bad side of gambling everywhere. Sometimes the right direction doesn't work. Goes to extremes and sinks into addiction. I think it's better to quit gambling before it turns into an addiction. Then nothing will be kept secret and no one will be harmed.

[danadc]

Gambling is easy but privacy is difficult to maintain as addiction becomes a person's behavior changes and they cannot maintain privacy. After spreading the bad side of gambling everywhere. Sometimes the right direction doesn't work. Goes to extremes and sinks into addiction. I think it's better to quit gambling before it turns into an addiction. Then nothing will be kept secret and no one will be harmed.

When you play, you have to take many things into consideration, first, peace of mind, how you can manage time to play better and money, the most important thing is money, a person cannot do anything without money in the casino, for example. You always have to do your best to avoid falling into addiction, if a person gambles a lot they have to see how much they are spending, for me the main cause of addiction is that money is lost and the person falls into despair, if there is no desperate everything is fine, but desperate without money is difficult because the person thinks about things like lending, selling, and that is not good.

When I lend money it is to invest, I have put it as my main cause of doing things better, otherwise I would not lend money to play in a casino.

[stomachgrowls]

Gambling is easy but privacy is difficult to maintain as addiction becomes a person's behavior changes and they cannot maintain privacy. After spreading the bad side of gambling everywhere. Sometimes the right direction doesn't work. Goes to extremes and sinks into addiction. I think it's better to quit gambling before it turns into an addiction. Then nothing will be kept secret and no one will be harmed.

When you play, you have to take many things into consideration, first, peace of mind, how you can manage time to play better and money, the most important thing is money, a person cannot do anything without money in the casino, for example. You always have to do your best to avoid falling into addiction, if a person gambles a lot they have to see how much they are spending, for me the main cause of addiction is that money is lost and the person falls into despair, if there is no desperate everything is fine, but desperate without money is difficult because the person thinks about things like lending, selling, and that is not good.

When I lend money it is to invest, I have put it as my main cause of doing things better, otherwise I would not lend money to play in a casino.

Gambling isnt bad if you are really just that responsible on what you are doing. You cant really just that make yourself deal up with it without having that awareness on what are the risks that it do involves.
It is really just that impossible that you cant be able to visualize on what are the probable things that you might be able to encounter if you would really be tolerating out such condition.
This is why you should really be that careful on what you are dealing with, as for gambling habit to be a secret then i dont see anything wrong on playing it as long you are really that doing something
responsible specially on how you would really be that spending up money. You wont really needing to hide because its none of their business on what you are doing.

You cant really just that make yourself that hiding and be afraid on what you are doing just because they have something to say negatively on you? I dont think for it to be that something that could
you should really be afraid of.