Keeping your gambling habit a secret.

[junder]

I think everyone who keeps their gambling a secret must have their own perception and their own reasons. Like me, I hide my gambling because my family and my environment are not happy with gambling because there have been many victims who have ruined their lives because of gambling, but if you think about it, the ruin of life is not even caused by gambling, because in my opinion it is mainly their own fault for not limiting their gambling. So many people think that gambling is entirely a bad thing. I myself hide my gambling because I don't want them to know, because if they know, they might be disappointed, after all, I believe in myself that I can control everything properly.

I agree with you, everyone has their own way of doing what they like. I think if we do gambling and it doesn't harm other people, it's fine, unless the gambling we do affects other people or harms other people, that's what doesn't make sense. As long as gambling activities can be controlled properly, there is nothing wrong with doing it.

Yup, probably it's a choice or option either you would love to share that kind of activities or you want it to be hidden it's your decision to make and there's no one who can force you unless you are already showing some hints of getting addicted and you are losing a lot. Though I think those who chose their gambling to be hidden same as yours they are mostly protecting their reputation as we know that most people around loves to criticize and for sure most of us does'nt like to have that kind of criticism.

Indeed, it is each of us's right to hide it or publish it, it's just that we have to be able to see the risks that will occur with the actions we will take beforehand. because prevention is better than cure. Some gamblers who like to publicize their gambling habits may often get into trouble because if they publish it, of course there will be people who are not happy with the gambling they do, whether it's because gambling is a bad thing or because that person doesn't like us. and with that there can be arguments or conflicts.

It's true what you said, of course we don't like being criticized, because it's a bad thing and it can trigger conflict between each other. Therefore, perhaps it is best to keep your gambling activities a secret. Even though there are people who like to publicize their gambling, please don't copy it,  because that's not a good action either, we have to be able to prevent problems from occurring. do what we like and if it doesn't cause harm too, but try not to cause problems for other people or for ourselves.

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[Z_MBFM]

Gambling is easy but privacy is difficult to maintain as addiction becomes a person's behavior changes and they cannot maintain privacy. After spreading the bad side of gambling everywhere. Sometimes the right direction doesn't work. Goes to extremes and sinks into addiction. I think it's better to quit gambling before it turns into an addiction. Then nothing will be kept secret and no one will be harmed.

When you play, you have to take many things into consideration, first, peace of mind, how you can manage time to play better and money, the most important thing is money, a person cannot do anything without money in the casino, for example. You always have to do your best to avoid falling into addiction, if a person gambles a lot they have to see how much they are spending, for me the main cause of addiction is that money is lost and the person falls into despair, if there is no desperate everything is fine, but desperate without money is difficult because the person thinks about things like lending, selling, and that is not good.

When I lend money it is to invest, I have put it as my main cause of doing things better, otherwise I would not lend money to play in a casino.

Gambling isnt bad if you are really just that responsible on what you are doing. You cant really just that make yourself deal up with it without having that awareness on what are the risks that it do involves.
It is really just that impossible that you cant be able to visualize on what are the probable things that you might be able to encounter if you would really be tolerating out such condition.
This is why you should really be that careful on what you are dealing with, as for gambling habit to be a secret then i dont see anything wrong on playing it as long you are really that doing something
responsible specially on how you would really be that spending up money. You wont really needing to hide because its none of their business on what you are doing.

Everyone gambles with his own money so win/ loss is entirely his personal responsibility. However, one of the reasons for keeping gambling a secret is that when someone goes public about gambling, if he falls into a financial crisis due to other reasons and needs to stay in an emergency but does not have enough money, then he will not get help from others at that time because they will think that he will gamble with the money. And in the eyes of the society he will be considered as a bad person. Gambling is a fun place though.  Yet society is not yet ready to accept gambling as a normal thing

[TopTort777]

Everyone gambles with his own money so win/ loss is entirely his personal responsibility. However, one of the reasons for keeping gambling a secret is that when someone goes public about gambling, if he falls into a financial crisis due to other reasons and needs to stay in an emergency but does not have enough money, then he will not get help from others at that time because they will think that he will gamble with the money. And in the eyes of the society he will be considered as a bad person. Gambling is a fun place though.  Yet society is not yet ready to accept gambling as a normal thing

Sounds like having fun is bad But why should I care about society and their thoughts? If things goes differently and I win, would society consider me as a good person? Probably no. I think we instead should not keep gambling habit as secret, but be more open about it, so it would turn into something "modern, usual, normal". Otherwise we will never break "gambling-losing-addiction-bad" circle.

[target]

Everyone gambles with his own money so win/ loss is entirely his personal responsibility. However, one of the reasons for keeping gambling a secret is that when someone goes public about gambling, if he falls into a financial crisis due to other reasons and needs to stay in an emergency but does not have enough money, then he will not get help from others at that time because they will think that he will gamble with the money. And in the eyes of the society he will be considered as a bad person. Gambling is a fun place though.  Yet society is not yet ready to accept gambling as a normal thing

Sounds like having fun is bad But why should I care about society and their thoughts? If things goes differently and I win, would society consider me as a good person? Probably no. I think we instead should not keep gambling habit as secret, but be more open about it, so it would turn into something "modern, usual, normal". Otherwise we will never break "gambling-losing-addiction-bad" circle.

Some people care what others are thinking about them. Sometimes it's the only way to win, people judge a person without knowing them. People care what others say behind their backs.

Some people will not mind what other people think and it is also their way. But this only happens when a person reaches a certain maturity and has tons of resources that they don't need someone to like them.

[carlfebz2]

Everyone gambles with his own money so win/ loss is entirely his personal responsibility. However, one of the reasons for keeping gambling a secret is that when someone goes public about gambling, if he falls into a financial crisis due to other reasons and needs to stay in an emergency but does not have enough money, then he will not get help from others at that time because they will think that he will gamble with the money. And in the eyes of the society he will be considered as a bad person. Gambling is a fun place though.  Yet society is not yet ready to accept gambling as a normal thing

Sounds like having fun is bad But why should I care about society and their thoughts? If things goes differently and I win, would society consider me as a good person? Probably no. I think we instead should not keep gambling habit as secret, but be more open about it, so it would turn into something "modern, usual, normal". Otherwise we will never break "gambling-losing-addiction-bad" circle.

Some people care what others are thinking about them. Sometimes it's the only way to win, people judge a person without knowing them. People care what others say behind their backs.

Some people will not mind what other people think and it is also their way. But this only happens when a person reaches a certain maturity and has tons of resources that they don't need someone to like them.

There are indeed people who doesnt really like for the reputation to be somehow be tarnished or something that would really be making them look bad and this is why they would really be that tending to hide
on things as much as they could specially they are aware that the community does have that not a good view towards gambling. We do know that its not bad, the only bad thing here is on the time that you do become that irresponsible on the things that you must really be giving out that priority or something that you would really be needing up. This is why it would really be better that you should really know on having that control and moderation on everything.

Its not bad to gamble and letting others see on what you are doing but we know that there are different types of people who have that kind of perceptions and impressions towards thing
and this is why action would really be something that differs to each other too.

[Fredomago]

I think everyone who keeps their gambling a secret must have their own perception and their own reasons. Like me, I hide my gambling because my family and my environment are not happy with gambling because there have been many victims who have ruined their lives because of gambling, but if you think about it, the ruin of life is not even caused by gambling, because in my opinion it is mainly their own fault for not limiting their gambling. So many people think that gambling is entirely a bad thing. I myself hide my gambling because I don't want them to know, because if they know, they might be disappointed, after all, I believe in myself that I can control everything properly.

I agree with you, everyone has their own way of doing what they like. I think if we do gambling and it doesn't harm other people, it's fine, unless the gambling we do affects other people or harms other people, that's what doesn't make sense. As long as gambling activities can be controlled properly, there is nothing wrong with doing it.

Yup, probably it's a choice or option either you would love to share that kind of activities or you want it to be hidden it's your decision to make and there's no one who can force you unless you are already showing some hints of getting addicted and you are losing a lot. Though I think those who chose their gambling to be hidden same as yours they are mostly protecting their reputation as we know that most people around loves to criticize and for sure most of us does'nt like to have that kind of criticism.

Indeed, it is each of us's right to hide it or publish it, it's just that we have to be able to see the risks that will occur with the actions we will take beforehand. because prevention is better than cure. Some gamblers who like to publicize their gambling habits may often get into trouble because if they publish it, of course there will be people who are not happy with the gambling they do, whether it's because gambling is a bad thing or because that person doesn't like us. and with that there can be arguments or conflicts.

It's true what you said, of course we don't like being criticized, because it's a bad thing and it can trigger conflict between each other. Therefore, perhaps it is best to keep your gambling activities a secret. Even though there are people who like to publicize their gambling, please don't copy it,  because that's not a good action either, we have to be able to prevent problems from occurring. do what we like and if it doesn't cause harm too, but try not to cause problems for other people or for ourselves.

We can't deny that there are gambler who loves to publicize there gambling activities and they are not afraid of being criticize while there are also people who don't want to deal with any drama and just keep their gambling as discreet as possible, whatever the position there's always something that will be thrown, you need to take your side and just let it be that way.

It's tough when you are being criticize especially if you are not being use to hear bad words about you, though it won't hurt and nor help as it's your money that you are using and it's you who have that control with both your money and time that you'l going to spend.

[Jody.Drummer]

Gambling isnt bad if you are really just that responsible on what you are doing. You cant really just that make yourself deal up with it without having that awareness on what are the risks that it do involves.
It is really just that impossible that you cant be able to visualize on what are the probable things that you might be able to encounter if you would really be tolerating out such condition.
This is why you should really be that careful on what you are dealing with, as for gambling habit to be a secret then i dont see anything wrong on playing it as long you are really that doing something
responsible specially on how you would really be that spending up money. You wont really needing to hide because its none of their business on what you are doing.

Everyone gambles with his own money so win/ loss is entirely his personal responsibility. However, one of the reasons for keeping gambling a secret is that when someone goes public about gambling, if he falls into a financial crisis due to other reasons and needs to stay in an emergency but does not have enough money, then he will not get help from others at that time because they will think that he will gamble with the money. And in the eyes of the society he will be considered as a bad person. Gambling is a fun place though.  Yet society is not yet ready to accept gambling as a normal thing

Yes, all risks should be their own responsibility, but unfortunately I think it has become a fact that only a few gamblers are able to truly be responsible for their decisions when in the end it doesn't go according to their expectations, where the inability to accept the fact of defeat can be a trigger for the emergence of many new problems in his life. And keeping gambling activities a secret is another thing, depending on whether you are in a country that legalizes gambling or prohibits gambling, if for example your country legalizes gambling then I think it is no problem for you not to keep your gambling habits a secret.

But if on the contrary, in the sense that your country really prohibits gambling, then keeping gambling activities a secret is clearly recommended, because when a country prohibits this activity, the majority of people are likely to tend to have a negative point of view on gambling, which they most likely will not want to do. help you when you need help, such as needing money urgently, regardless of whether the money is for gambling or for something else and this is the reason why we are advised to keep it a secret, especially when you are in a country that prohibits gambling.

[ethereumhunter]

Everyone gambles with his own money so win/ loss is entirely his personal responsibility. However, one of the reasons for keeping gambling a secret is that when someone goes public about gambling, if he falls into a financial crisis due to other reasons and needs to stay in an emergency but does not have enough money, then he will not get help from others at that time because they will think that he will gamble with the money. And in the eyes of the society he will be considered as a bad person. Gambling is a fun place though.  Yet society is not yet ready to accept gambling as a normal thing

Yes, everyone gambles with his own money but the matters is not many people can responsible with their gambling activity and tends to hides their gambling activity from the other people. They hides their gambling activity because of they don't wants to hears any bad comments from the other people about gambling. That's because many people loses money in gambling and they can't handles themselves and becomes addicted to gambling. That's why people will say that gambling gives a bad impacts to people who playing gambling, especially if they playing gambling excessively. People who hides their gambling activity must have good self-control so they can avoids the problems that they can gets by playing gambling excessively. Many people lose their control while playing gambling because gambling can tempts people to continues playing gambling without stops.

[LUCKMCFLY]

Gambling does have its own strong appeal, so many people are interested in doing it, to the point that there are many cases circulating that are because they are interested in gambling but what they do is too excessive so it becomes a problem for themselves. However, this also happened because of their own fault for gambling unreasonably, so whether they like it or not, they have to accept it. Also, if they are like that, it means they are addicted to gambling and with this addiction, there are people who really enjoy showing off their gambling like the winnings they get at gambling.

Even though it's each individual's right, it's true that it's our own right, but at least we have to be able to see whether the things that are being exhibited are really good things or not, because in my opinion gambling is not a good thing, many people do too. who don't like gambling and if we show off our gambling activities there might be people who don't like it, and this could even trigger conflict. I myself keep the gambling I do a secret, including the winnings I get.

I can only say something, if the person has a great reason to hide his gambling habit, whatever the reason, it is up to that person if he hides it, but for example someone like me, does not hide it, first of all, I don't know I am interested in what others think of me, I just have fun and if I have fun and feel good doing an activity and if I don't harm anyone, then I know I'm doing things well, obviously if things are at the point of normality and nothing illegal because even more things are like that.

The most common things that can happen in games and in people are many, I understand that there are people who like these types of activities to be kept anonymous or secret, but it is something that most of the time society demands it, but That same society is the one that does very terrible things, so as I said before, everyone has their own ways of Controlling their activities and whoever wants to keep it secret, well, I think that doesn't affect anyone either.

I think everyone who keeps their gambling a secret must have their own perception and their own reasons. Like me, I hide my gambling because my family and my environment are not happy with gambling because there have been many victims who have ruined their lives because of gambling, but if you think about it, the ruin of life is not even caused by gambling, because in my opinion it is mainly their own fault for not limiting their gambling. So many people think that gambling is entirely a bad thing. I myself hide my gambling because I don't want them to know, because if they know, they might be disappointed, after all, I believe in myself that I can control everything properly.

I agree with you, everyone has their own way of doing what they like. I think if we do gambling and it doesn't harm other people, it's fine, unless the gambling we do affects other people or harms other people, that's what doesn't make sense. As long as gambling activities can be controlled properly, there is nothing wrong with doing it.

Well, family is family, however, before I was like what you say, but there came a time where I no longer gave much importance to the things I did and whether they liked it or not, because there came a time where I had to do things the way they wanted, and that limited me and no, I later revealed myself and began to do the things that I liked, they later complained to me but I told them, that I was an adult, that I wanted nothing more than I had to do what I had to do and those who liked it well and those who didn't, well, what a pity, everything I do they don't get involved, nor give an opinion, because they learned to respect that I am in charge of my things, so given these things I, well If I want, I maintain my gaming habit no matter what, although I'm a little shameless so I don't care if it bothers them or not, or anyone else, because it's true, if an activity is done and it doesn't harm anyone, well, one should do it, because one likes it.

[junder]

Indeed, it is each of us's right to hide it or publish it, it's just that we have to be able to see the risks that will occur with the actions we will take beforehand. because prevention is better than cure. Some gamblers who like to publicize their gambling habits may often get into trouble because if they publish it, of course there will be people who are not happy with the gambling they do, whether it's because gambling is a bad thing or because that person doesn't like us. and with that there can be arguments or conflicts.

It's true what you said, of course we don't like being criticized, because it's a bad thing and it can trigger conflict between each other. Therefore, perhaps it is best to keep your gambling activities a secret. Even though there are people who like to publicize their gambling, please don't copy it,  because that's not a good action either, we have to be able to prevent problems from occurring. do what we like and if it doesn't cause harm too, but try not to cause problems for other people or for ourselves.

We can't deny that there are gambler who loves to publicize there gambling activities and they are not afraid of being criticize while there are also people who don't want to deal with any drama and just keep their gambling as discreet as possible, whatever the position there's always something that will be thrown, you need to take your side and just let it be that way.

It's tough when you are being criticize especially if you are not being use to hear bad words about you, though it won't hurt and nor help as it's your money that you are using and it's you who have that control with both your money and time that you'l going to spend.

with gamblers who like to publicize their gambling activities, in my opinion they are people who are hungry for praise, whereas they don't first see what they are doing, because gambling is something that not everyone likes and there are also people who think that gambling is is a negative thing so it's only natural that they publish it and get criticism from other people because not everyone has a good view of gambling. By publicizing the gambling they do, especially when they win, it shows that they are thirsty for praise from other people, including their friends.

It's good if the perpetrators who like to publicize their gambling activities are not easily carried away by their feelings, maybe they won't hear the criticism they receive, but if the people who publicize their gambling are easily carried away by their feelings or easily offended, there may be conflict,  but the ones who are at fault are those who publish his gambling because as I said before not everyone has a good view of gambling. Therefore, it's best to just keep it a secret even if you win, it's better to just keep quiet and enjoy it.

[noormcs5]

Everyone gambles with his own money so win/ loss is entirely his personal responsibility. However, one of the reasons for keeping gambling a secret is that when someone goes public about gambling, if he falls into a financial crisis due to other reasons and needs to stay in an emergency but does not have enough money, then he will not get help from others at that time because they will think that he will gamble with the money. And in the eyes of the society he will be considered as a bad person. Gambling is a fun place though.  Yet society is not yet ready to accept gambling as a normal thing

Sounds like having fun is bad But why should I care about society and their thoughts? If things goes differently and I win, would society consider me as a good person? Probably no. I think we instead should not keep gambling habit as secret, but be more open about it, so it would turn into something "modern, usual, normal". Otherwise we will never break "gambling-losing-addiction-bad" circle.

Well, first of all, we should not give too much priority to gambling. Do we need to know if society cares about us when we are losing? When we are in trouble does society help us? In most of the cases, the answer is no. So if the society do not care for us, why do we need to take steps to think about what society will think of us  

However, sometimes people in society give good ideas and it may help us to get avoid from any loss, in case we have played excessive gambling or betting. Having fun is the right of everyone but one should not be too much involved in the fun activity (that is gambling in this case), that he or she may forget that in order to have fun, he is losing his hard earned money and that is for sure not desired any anyone.

[zuzie]

Gambling isnt bad if you are really just that responsible on what you are doing. You cant really just that make yourself deal up with it without having that awareness on what are the risks that it do involves.
It is really just that impossible that you cant be able to visualize on what are the probable things that you might be able to encounter if you would really be tolerating out such condition.
This is why you should really be that careful on what you are dealing with, as for gambling habit to be a secret then i dont see anything wrong on playing it as long you are really that doing something
responsible specially on how you would really be that spending up money. You wont really needing to hide because its none of their business on what you are doing.

You cant really just that make yourself that hiding and be afraid on what you are doing just because they have something to say negatively on you? I dont think for it to be that something that could
you should really be afraid of.

I totally agree with you that gambling is not always bad for us. If we do it well and correctly with the right limits and controls, then we will feel safe when gambling. In my opinion, people who say that gambling will make their lives suffer, could be that they lose control and lose discipline in playing, so it is true that gambling will slowly make them suffer because they experience risks in gambling.
Yes, in gambling, caution is needed here and I agree with you that it is better for us not to tell other people about the gambling we do if that is what is best for us.

[HelliumZ]

I totally agree with you that gambling is not always bad for us. If we do it well and correctly with the right limits and controls, then we will feel safe when gambling. In my opinion, people who say that gambling will make their lives suffer, could be that they lose control and lose discipline in playing, so it is true that gambling will slowly make them suffer because they experience risks in gambling.
Yes, in gambling, caution is needed here and I agree with you that it is better for us not to tell other people about the gambling we do if that is what is best for us.

Just as diabetes is good for the human body if it is kept under control, it is definitely good for human life if all harmful habits are kept under control. Nothing is too good but can bring about some dire consequences for the society. Gambling is also a harmful habit, although if it is kept under control, it is definitely a matter of profit for a gambler and if it cannot be kept under control, it can have a negative effect on the people of different levels of society in addition to harming a gambler. So any habit should be mastered under control and care must be taken that those habits do not cause harm to people.

[Swordsoffreedom]

Gambling isnt bad if you are really just that responsible on what you are doing. You cant really just that make yourself deal up with it without having that awareness on what are the risks that it do involves.
It is really just that impossible that you cant be able to visualize on what are the probable things that you might be able to encounter if you would really be tolerating out such condition.
This is why you should really be that careful on what you are dealing with, as for gambling habit to be a secret then i dont see anything wrong on playing it as long you are really that doing something
responsible specially on how you would really be that spending up money. You wont really needing to hide because its none of their business on what you are doing.

You cant really just that make yourself that hiding and be afraid on what you are doing just because they have something to say negatively on you? I dont think for it to be that something that could
you should really be afraid of.

I totally agree with you that gambling is not always bad for us. If we do it well and correctly with the right limits and controls, then we will feel safe when gambling. In my opinion, people who say that gambling will make their lives suffer, could be that they lose control and lose discipline in playing, so it is true that gambling will slowly make them suffer because they experience risks in gambling.
Yes, in gambling, caution is needed here and I agree with you that it is better for us not to tell other people about the gambling we do if that is what is best for us.

I think, if you are greedy and your goal is to make a lot of money from gambling then gambling is definitely not for you. Because you will suffer and lose a lot of money

Gambling is just a game. It should never be expected to make a lot of money. This will increase the risk of losing money. Most of the time winning money in gambling depends on luck. It is not possible to guarantee that luck will always be good. So bet a certain amount of money, don't bet too much money.

If gambling is considered only as a game, and gambling is done only to entertain, it will not cause harm. But treating it as a profession will cause harm. And the gambler will definitely be under mental pressure.

[zuzie]

I totally agree with you that gambling is not always bad for us. If we do it well and correctly with the right limits and controls, then we will feel safe when gambling. In my opinion, people who say that gambling will make their lives suffer, could be that they lose control and lose discipline in playing, so it is true that gambling will slowly make them suffer because they experience risks in gambling.
Yes, in gambling, caution is needed here and I agree with you that it is better for us not to tell other people about the gambling we do if that is what is best for us.

Just as diabetes is good for the human body if it is kept under control, it is definitely good for human life if all harmful habits are kept under control. Nothing is too good but can bring about some dire consequences for the society. Gambling is also a harmful habit, although if it is kept under control, it is definitely a matter of profit for a gambler and if it cannot be kept under control, it can have a negative effect on the people of different levels of society in addition to harming a gambler. So any habit should be mastered under control and care must be taken that those habits do not cause harm to people.

The essence of your opinion can be concluded that gambling must be controlled so that it has a good impact on those of us who carry it out and from good habits we will be kept away from the bad effects of gambling.
Therefore, it is very important that we maintain control if we want to gamble because we know that when control is lost it will cause many new problems in our lives and we must avoid this as much as possible.

[TopTort777]

When will you stop using addiction as an argument? Not everyone who gamble is addicted, not everyone will even get addicted, not everyone gamble for money. But if you continue using word addiction, then is must be opposite, gambling must be done without hiding. Otherwise people wont be able to help if needed or control or monitor gamblers.

I am getting crazy when people suggest to keep it secret. Because there is no real reason to do that. Gambling is no thread.

[Fredomago]

with gamblers who like to publicize their gambling activities, in my opinion they are people who are hungry for praise, whereas they don't first see what they are doing, because gambling is something that not everyone likes and there are also people who think that gambling is is a negative thing so it's only natural that they publish it and get criticism from other people because not everyone has a good view of gambling. By publicizing the gambling they do, especially when they win, it shows that they are thirsty for praise from other people, including their friends.

Yes, there are people who wants to boost whatever they are doing and like what you said, they want praises from people who are monitoring them, especially when they are sharing winning streaks and achivements, though there are negative comments as it's not going to be away but those who loves to share not minding those things they just wants to continue and let those who admired them to be delight with what they are sharing.

It's good if the perpetrators who like to publicize their gambling activities are not easily carried away by their feelings, maybe they won't hear the criticism they receive, but if the people who publicize their gambling are easily carried away by their feelings or easily offended, there may be conflict,  but the ones who are at fault are those who publish his gambling because as I said before not everyone has a good view of gambling. Therefore, it's best to just keep it a secret even if you win, it's better to just keep quiet and enjoy it.

It's best to keep it secret if you are affected by those who criticize you, but if you are not minding anyone and you just mind your own business I guess you'll continue sharing and will continue to be like that.

[Ever-young]

Gambling is easy but privacy is difficult to maintain as addiction becomes a person's behavior changes and they cannot maintain privacy. After spreading the bad side of gambling everywhere. Sometimes the right direction doesn't work. Goes to extremes and sinks into addiction. I think it's better to quit gambling before it turns into an addiction. Then nothing will be kept secret and no one will be harmed.

When you play, you have to take many things into consideration, first, peace of mind, how you can manage time to play better and money, the most important thing is money, a person cannot do anything without money in the casino, for example. You always have to do your best to avoid falling into addiction, if a person gambles a lot they have to see how much they are spending, for me the main cause of addiction is that money is lost and the person falls into despair, if there is no desperate everything is fine, but desperate without money is difficult because the person thinks about things like lending, selling, and that is not good.

When I lend money it is to invest, I have put it as my main cause of doing things better, otherwise I would not lend money to play in a casino.

Gambling isnt bad if you are really just that responsible on what you are doing. You cant really just that make yourself deal up with it without having that awareness on what are the risks that it do involves.
It is really just that impossible that you cant be able to visualize on what are the probable things that you might be able to encounter if you would really be tolerating out such condition.
This is why you should really be that careful on what you are dealing with, as for gambling habit to be a secret then i dont see anything wrong on playing it as long you are really that doing something
responsible specially on how you would really be that spending up money. You wont really needing to hide because its none of their business on what you are doing.

Everyone gambles with his own money so win/ loss is entirely his personal responsibility. However, one of the reasons for keeping gambling a secret is that when someone goes public about gambling, if he falls into a financial crisis due to other reasons and needs to stay in an emergency but does not have enough money, then he will not get help from others at that time because they will think that he will gamble with the money. And in the eyes of the society he will be considered as a bad person. Gambling is a fun place though.  Yet society is not yet ready to accept gambling as a normal thing

There are obviously negative effects to gambling, but there are also numerous helpful benefits. Many individuals consider gambling to be a sort of amusement and enjoyment, similar to other recreational activities such as watching movies, reading books, or participating in sports. On top of that, the gambling industry generates jobs and contributes to the economy. Lastly, several studies have found that responsible gambling can have good psychological effects, such as reducing stress and anxiety.

[Blitzboy]

I totally agree with you that gambling is not always bad for us. If we do it well and correctly with the right limits and controls, then we will feel safe when gambling. In my opinion, people who say that gambling will make their lives suffer, could be that they lose control and lose discipline in playing, so it is true that gambling will slowly make them suffer because they experience risks in gambling.
Yes, in gambling, caution is needed here and I agree with you that it is better for us not to tell other people about the gambling we do if that is what is best for us.

Just as diabetes is good for the human body if it is kept under control, it is definitely good for human life if all harmful habits are kept under control. Nothing is too good but can bring about some dire consequences for the society. Gambling is also a harmful habit, although if it is kept under control, it is definitely a matter of profit for a gambler and if it cannot be kept under control, it can have a negative effect on the people of different levels of society in addition to harming a gambler. So any habit should be mastered under control and care must be taken that those habits do not cause harm to people.

Comparing diabetic management to quitting bad behaviours is attractive. But it boils down to self-mastery.  In a world of temptations, control is power. Gambling properly is wsie and necessary. Too many promising lives have been ruined by a lack of discipline. My entire philosophy? We all want to win, but strategy is needed. Each habit and decision must be yours.  The goal is to improve the world, not just succeed.

Whether you're a high-roller, business owner, or just surviving life, control means power. Getting there isnt easy, though. It requires knowledge, self-discipline, and mental strength most people can only conceive.  I know from experience that controlling what you can assist you greatly. That helps society. Lose that grasp and you'll fal hard. Not only you, but also the repercussions. Ungoverned habits hurt individuals and undermine our foundations. I know: control is your biggest asset. This is the key to creating anything meaningful.

[junder]

with gamblers who like to publicize their gambling activities, in my opinion they are people who are hungry for praise, whereas they don't first see what they are doing, because gambling is something that not everyone likes and there are also people who think that gambling is is a negative thing so it's only natural that they publish it and get criticism from other people because not everyone has a good view of gambling. By publicizing the gambling they do, especially when they win, it shows that they are thirsty for praise from other people, including their friends.

Yes, there are people who wants to boost whatever they are doing and like what you said, they want praises from people who are monitoring them, especially when they are sharing winning streaks and achivements, though there are negative comments as it's not going to be away but those who loves to share not minding those things they just wants to continue and let those who admired them to be delight with what they are sharing.

In my opinion, if we really want other people to know about the gambling we do, including the winnings we get, then we should be able to accept criticism from other people who don't like gambling, because with praise it is clear because the aim of publishing gambling activities is to want praise. If we don't mind criticism from other people who don't like gambling, maybe it will be fine, in the sense that we are really stupid, because as long as the gambling we do doesn't harm other people then it might be fine, but it can't be denied. Indeed, there have been many people and bad cases of those who have experienced the destruction of their lives because of gambling. and maybe this is what makes many people have a bad view of gambling.

Some people who keep their gambling a secret, in my opinion, are people who don't want to take risks, because I myself do it like that, I don't want anything that could trigger conflict with the gambling I do. Therefore, keeping the gambling you do a secret, including the winnings you get, is good.