Keeping your gambling habit a secret.

[OceanBit]

It's true that gambling is viewed vary widely by the society, depending on personal beliefs, experiences and cultural factors. Gambler who keep it a secret from their family and friends could have a variety of reasons. Could be because they feel ashamed or embarrassed or maybe they just fear being judged or affects their relationship from other people or their loved ones and etc. Whether or not your proud as a gambler or you just simply want t o keep you personal activities private, it still varies from person to person.

[Dewi Aries]

Not only in terms of finances, because family members or his wife must feel changes from her husband, such as in terms of being someone who looks busier, often leaving the house for reasons that seem reasonable when in reality they go to a physical casino, family members will also definitely suspect and realize that there is a change in behavior from that person. So no matter how good you are at hiding bad habits, you will eventually be found out, because there are many aspects that will look suspicious to the people around you.

That is totally true. There is no way someone can hide their gambling habits for a long period of time. Besides the financial aspect and the fact of always looking busy, the gambler will also be constantly distracted, as his mind were always away from his body, while also displaying lack of focus on the interactions with his family members, because he will be thinking on gambling all the time, and on the short time intervals he is able to get his thoughts away from gambling, he will be thinking on the consequences of his addiction in secret, since he doesn't want to share his habits with the family, possibly for feeling guilty about it.

Maybe the family won't know exactly the reason why the addicted one is behaving that way in the beginning, but it's a sure thing they will know there is something wrong going on with the person. Only when the wife links the financial aspect to the behavioral one, plus the history of the banking account, she and the family will finally conclude what is going on, unless the gambler saves them a lot of time by confessing the harsh situation he has been going through.

Yes actually in any case related to bad habits then eventually it will be found out too, but it may take quite a long time for the addiction to develop and also requires some situations where the addicted person no longer has an excuse to cover up all his lies. Gambling addiction is in a person's mindset where their thoughts are only focused on gambling which means of course as you said that they will only think about gambling most of the time.

This is gambling which requires money as a condition for involvement or to start a gambling session, and obviously when a gambler has entered the addiction phase then most likely they will gamble without any restrictions, one of which is in terms of time and money, they will continue to gamble even to the point of forgetting to rest so that it interferes with their health, and if this is done frequently and excessively then this is where financial problems begin, for someone who is single it may not be too much of a problem because they only pay for their own life, But for someone who is married, this is clearly a problem that can destroy their household relationship, which as we discussed above that over time your family will lose balance and ability in terms of money, your wife will find that expenses are increasing but there is no "reasonable" allocation of money (such as urgent needs) which ultimately raises suspicion which ends in the destruction of the household, not a few I found cases where husband and wife divorced due to gambling and this is the fact of the bad impact of gambling when you are unable to control your gambling.

[Fredomago]

He will not, as he thinks that day will come and luck will permits him to win big, and while waiting for that time he will find himself keep losing money, to the point that it's already bringing regrets as the amount is no longer acceptable and he can no longer allow to let go, something that really exceeds from his limitation.

Yes, a gambler will not engage in excessive activity when he is aware that his behavior is very wrong, so he tends to always be careful in all the actions he takes in the future. However, gamblers who lose control tend to be more aggressive and irregular in controlling their emotions, so they think it is the right move to win, but instead they often lose and lose a lot of money.

Once agrression takeover for sure you won't be able to control and next you know a huge amount of money is already been taken away from your savings, to the point that you can everything without limiting yourself while trying to seek for luck either to recover or to win big time while playing or betting with the game you choose to gamble.

When they do know that you are getting involved with gambling then they would really be automatically making you as a gambling addict directly even if its not.
Is there something that we can do? There's none because this is how this gambling do really been that treated up on which it is really just that sad but there's nothing we can do.
So its up to you whether you do let other people do see you on what you are doing or you would really be just simply making yourself keeping silent.

That's right, because it is easy for someone to guess or say that if someone is involved in the world of gambling, they will definitely think that that person is an addict even though what they say is not necessarily true.
Because people only see from the negative side that gambling is a place that is prohibited, people who visit there will definitely experience many problems in their lives. And I agree with you, if someone says something like that then the right step is for us to keep quiet and let other people have an opinion.

Most of the time, it's the negative side that always been observe and you are being judge by people who knows your gambling participation, even it's not true and you are only playing occasionally they can tag you as addict without knowing the truth behind,
it's your decision though and it's your money that you are using either not mind them or try not to engage with those people to
avoid discrimination.

[zuzie]

Once agrression takeover for sure you won't be able to control and next you know a huge amount of money is already been taken away from your savings, to the point that you can everything without limiting yourself while trying to seek for luck either to recover or to win big time while playing or betting with the game you choose to gamble.

Yes, sometimes taking over aggression drives a gambler to act inappropriately and in fact, many people do it without realizing it. because this really influences a person to act carelessly, especially without strong self-control to prevent or anticipate it.
Just like taking savings to be able to gamble according to our wishes, of course this must also be balanced with a good mindset and control. If there are none of these things then it is very likely that he will experience a lot of losses.

[slapper]

Not only in terms of finances, because family members or his wife must feel changes from her husband, such as in terms of being someone who looks busier, often leaving the house for reasons that seem reasonable when in reality they go to a physical casino, family members will also definitely suspect and realize that there is a change in behavior from that person. So no matter how good you are at hiding bad habits, you will eventually be found out, because there are many aspects that will look suspicious to the people around you.

That is totally true. There is no way someone can hide their gambling habits for a long period of time. Besides the financial aspect and the fact of always looking busy, the gambler will also be constantly distracted, as his mind were always away from his body, while also displaying lack of focus on the interactions with his family members, because he will be thinking on gambling all the time, and on the short time intervals he is able to get his thoughts away from gambling, he will be thinking on the consequences of his addiction in secret, since he doesn't want to share his habits with the family, possibly for feeling guilty about it.

Maybe the family won't know exactly the reason why the addicted one is behaving that way in the beginning, but it's a sure thing they will know there is something wrong going on with the person. Only when the wife links the financial aspect to the behavioral one, plus the history of the banking account, she and the family will finally conclude what is going on, unless the gambler saves them a lot of time by confessing the harsh situation he has been going through.

Yes actually in any case related to bad habits then eventually it will be found out too, but it may take quite a long time for the addiction to develop and also requires some situations where the addicted person no longer has an excuse to cover up all his lies. Gambling addiction is in a person's mindset where their thoughts are only focused on gambling which means of course as you said that they will only think about gambling most of the time.

This is gambling which requires money as a condition for involvement or to start a gambling session, and obviously when a gambler has entered the addiction phase then most likely they will gamble without any restrictions, one of which is in terms of time and money, they will continue to gamble even to the point of forgetting to rest so that it interferes with their health, and if this is done frequently and excessively then this is where financial problems begin, for someone who is single it may not be too much of a problem because they only pay for their own life, But for someone who is married, this is clearly a problem that can destroy their household relationship, which as we discussed above that over time your family will lose balance and ability in terms of money, your wife will find that expenses are increasing but there is no "reasonable" allocation of money (such as urgent needs) which ultimately raises suspicion which ends in the destruction of the household, not a few I found cases where husband and wife divorced due to gambling and this is the fact of the bad impact of gambling when you are unable to control your gambling.

Gambling, like life, demands strategy. You wouldn't swim in the deep end without knowing how. The same with gambling. Lack of control is the issue, not the act. Mindset, guys. Not simply dreaming of successes, but comprehending the risks. Instruct yourself. Understand the odds and stick to your boundaries. While straightforward, many fail to do it. Why? Discipline is hard. But guess what? We need it

Yes, your behaviours affect married people. You're no longer alone. Habits may break hearts as well as banks. What if gambling was a shared venture? Establish boundaries and prioritise transparency. Sharing, not hiding. It might even deepen your bond if done appropriately. Healthy gambling is a choice, not a myth

[Shamm]

Once agrression takeover for sure you won't be able to control and next you know a huge amount of money is already been taken away from your savings, to the point that you can everything without limiting yourself while trying to seek for luck either to recover or to win big time while playing or betting with the game you choose to gamble.

Yes, sometimes taking over aggression drives a gambler to act inappropriately and in fact, many people do it without realizing it. because this really influences a person to act carelessly, especially without strong self-control to prevent or anticipate it.
Just like taking savings to be able to gamble according to our wishes, of course this must also be balanced with a good mindset and control. If there are none of these things then it is very likely that he will experience a lot of losses.

That's the reason why we need to stop that aggression cause once it will happen Then we got a good decision but If we don't have to control our mind then one thing for sure we Will loss a lot of money. Cause even though we will loss but if we are in aggression and greedy then we are still  i'll put our bet even though we loss.. anyways we are all human we have a chance to loss.bavsuse we forgot sometimes.

[LUCKMCFLY]

So gamblers should be more care with whatever they see online most ads are just created to over hype the casino. And after watching them one could feel he has seen an easy gambling casino to lots of win. The earlier you take gambling as a fun activity the better for you not to become addicted or disappointed with whatever you see around. It difficult to keep your gambling activity secret especially if you like using a casino gambling hall to place your bets.

We should always do things that will help us to stay safe while gambling to make money. The aim could be for money making but we should always observe when we are doing the wrong thing. Gambling can be very addictive and with some bad habit if we don't think we and do something that would help us to relinquish from such habit. We can easily get bad habit but it is very hard for us to get good habit because it can be pain for us trying to the right thing so we don't end up a miscreant. We have the responsibility to keep our gambling lifestyle from the public of it going to affect our image in a wrong way.

I think that the bad habits are those that are learned first, that are done immediately and the truth is I don't know, but always among the bad habits is not managing the eidnoer well, because generally the sprosn Those who play a lot in a game are people who cannot control themselves, who all the time think that they can win and who put in hard money and that type of thinking is the one who can lose a lot of money, so these types of Skills are the ones that have to be avoid, on repeated occasions in these forum threads I have said something, the most important thing in a casino is not that we play well, or that we know the rules as they are, the important thing about this is that we take care of the money, in general terms In some cases what matters in aid is money.

If we gave more importance to the value of money in a casino, these types of things like addictions did not happen, then given that we live in a Society Where basically things are very different and some point out only because they do Activities that others do not do, because they Classify that they are wrong, in this order of ideas things can be very different, erpsoans will always have a model to ensure according to society, a job X a university, everything is ideal, what happens is that everyone wants see the world's ideal and the ideal people when those People don't really Practice and are not like they proclaim it, in my case when it comes to casinos or something like that, I am very open I like to see that things are shared as they are , no I have no qualms about saying that if I play in a casino whenever I want, I win and lose , that's normal , and I'm Addicted , that's what People don't like to hear, but since I've always been Well, they don't mess with me, but basically bad habits in some cases what they do is make the player lose money.

[Shamm]

It's true that gambling is viewed vary widely by the society, depending on personal beliefs, experiences and cultural factors. Gambler who keep it a secret from their family and friends could have a variety of reasons. Could be because they feel ashamed or embarrassed or maybe they just fear being judged or affects their relationship from other people or their loved ones and etc. Whether or not your proud as a gambler or you just simply want t o keep you personal activities private, it still varies from person to person.

Everyone of us has a secret and there are a lot reason why we hide it but in gambling it's better to show all we got than hiding some of this problems. Cause it will affect more in our life once we are hiding something in our family and it will make more crucial if they will know late than their expected. Anyways it's up to us if we gonna tell our family or keep it hiding until they found out cause there's no secret that can not be revealed.

[zuzie]

Once agrression takeover for sure you won't be able to control and next you know a huge amount of money is already been taken away from your savings, to the point that you can everything without limiting yourself while trying to seek for luck either to recover or to win big time while playing or betting with the game you choose to gamble.

Yes, sometimes taking over aggression drives a gambler to act inappropriately and in fact, many people do it without realizing it. because this really influences a person to act carelessly, especially without strong self-control to prevent or anticipate it.
Just like taking savings to be able to gamble according to our wishes, of course this must also be balanced with a good mindset and control. If there are none of these things then it is very likely that he will experience a lot of losses.

That's the reason why we need to stop that aggression cause once it will happen Then we got a good decision but If we don't have to control our mind then one thing for sure we Will loss a lot of money. Cause even though we will loss but if we are in aggression and greedy then we are still  i'll put our bet even though we loss.. anyways we are all human we have a chance to loss.bavsuse we forgot sometimes.

Sometimes people forget their limits and mindset to become better, if in gambling when we see other people's wins, it is likely that our minds and hearts want to feel the same thing, but in gambling the results are different.
We must not imitate or even impose desires that are not in accordance with our own abilities because if we want to be reckless then we cannot control it so what happens is a lot of harm and loss.

[Blitzboy]

So gamblers should be more care with whatever they see online most ads are just created to over hype the casino. And after watching them one could feel he has seen an easy gambling casino to lots of win. The earlier you take gambling as a fun activity the better for you not to become addicted or disappointed with whatever you see around. It difficult to keep your gambling activity secret especially if you like using a casino gambling hall to place your bets.

We should always do things that will help us to stay safe while gambling to make money. The aim could be for money making but we should always observe when we are doing the wrong thing. Gambling can be very addictive and with some bad habit if we don't think we and do something that would help us to relinquish from such habit. We can easily get bad habit but it is very hard for us to get good habit because it can be pain for us trying to the right thing so we don't end up a miscreant. We have the responsibility to keep our gambling lifestyle from the public of it going to affect our image in a wrong way.

I think that the bad habits are those that are learned first, that are done immediately and the truth is I don't know, but always among the bad habits is not managing the eidnoer well, because generally the sprosn Those who play a lot in a game are people who cannot control themselves, who all the time think that they can win and who put in hard money and that type of thinking is the one who can lose a lot of money, so these types of Skills are the ones that have to be avoid, on repeated occasions in these forum threads I have said something, the most important thing in a casino is not that we play well, or that we know the rules as they are, the important thing about this is that we take care of the money, in general terms In some cases what matters in aid is money.

If we gave more importance to the value of money in a casino, these types of things like addictions did not happen, then given that we live in a Society Where basically things are very different and some point out only because they do Activities that others do not do, because they Classify that they are wrong, in this order of ideas things can be very different, erpsoans will always have a model to ensure according to society, a job X a university, everything is ideal, what happens is that everyone wants see the world's ideal and the ideal people when those People don't really Practice and are not like they proclaim it, in my case when it comes to casinos or something like that, I am very open I like to see that things are shared as they are , no I have no qualms about saying that if I play in a casino whenever I want, I win and lose , that's normal , and I'm Addicted , that's what People don't like to hear, but since I've always been Well, they don't mess with me, but basically bad habits in some cases what they do is make the player lose money.

Everyone's quick to demonize the casino life without appreciating the finesse it takes to navigate it. Money management? Its practically a high art form

I've always maintained, the essence of casino gaming isnt just about winning or losing. Its about the game, the dance with fate, and yes, I dance like nobody's watching. I win, I lose, and I laugh all the way through. Addiction? Please, I prefer "enthusiastically committed".

The world's full of critics, quick to judge from their ivory towers. But a bit of gambling is the zest of life, a taste of the unpredictable. And to those who wrinkle their noses? Bet they've never felt the pulse-quickening thrill of going all in.

[Rufsilf]

It's true that gambling is viewed vary widely by the society, depending on personal beliefs, experiences and cultural factors. Gambler who keep it a secret from their family and friends could have a variety of reasons. Could be because they feel ashamed or embarrassed or maybe they just fear being judged or affects their relationship from other people or their loved ones and etc. Whether or not your proud as a gambler or you just simply want t o keep you personal activities private, it still varies from person to person.

Everyone of us has a secret and there are a lot reason why we hide it but in gambling it's better to show all we got than hiding some of this problems. Cause it will affect more in our life once we are hiding something in our family and it will make more crucial if they will know late than their expected. Anyways it's up to us if we gonna tell our family or keep it hiding until they found out cause there's no secret that can not be revealed.

It is crucial that we speak with them at the beginning so that they are aware of our activities and the kinds of vices or hobbies we indulge in. After all, there are no secrets that should remain hidden. We shall know what will happen at the end, which is why there are always regrets. What will happen when we cross our boundaries and engage in undesirable behavior, such as getting debt from gambling, because we will become used to it? Even when we bring problems to ourselves, our family and loved ones are the ones who support us and help us find solutions. Sometimes, they even become involved as a result of our careless and dumb behavior.

[Amphenomenon]

It is crucial that we speak with them at the beginning so that they are aware of our activities and the kinds of vices or hobbies we indulge in. After all, there are no secrets that should remain hidden. We shall know what will happen at the end, which is why there are always regrets. What will happen when we cross our boundaries and engage in undesirable behavior, such as getting debt from gambling, because we will become used to it? Even when we bring problems to ourselves, our family and loved ones are the ones who support us and help us find solutions. Sometimes, they even become involved as a result of our careless and dumb behavior.

This is the main reason I would never advise anyone to be ever ashamed, scared or for any other reasons keep any habits a secret especially gambling because when the state of addiction, desperation or any gambling bad habits is popping in, we can't see it earlier but others do.
Also I can't hide anything I love just because of Fear or being scared of speaking about it to those around me

[Quidat]

Once agrression takeover for sure you won't be able to control and next you know a huge amount of money is already been taken away from your savings, to the point that you can everything without limiting yourself while trying to seek for luck either to recover or to win big time while playing or betting with the game you choose to gamble.

Yes, sometimes taking over aggression drives a gambler to act inappropriately and in fact, many people do it without realizing it. because this really influences a person to act carelessly, especially without strong self-control to prevent or anticipate it.
Just like taking savings to be able to gamble according to our wishes, of course this must also be balanced with a good mindset and control. If there are none of these things then it is very likely that he will experience a lot of losses.

That's the reason why we need to stop that aggression cause once it will happen Then we got a good decision but If we don't have to control our mind then one thing for sure we Will loss a lot of money. Cause even though we will loss but if we are in aggression and greedy then we are still  i'll put our bet even though we loss.. anyways we are all human we have a chance to loss.bavsuse we forgot sometimes.

Sometimes people forget their limits and mindset to become better, if in gambling when we see other people's wins, it is likely that our minds and hearts want to feel the same thing, but in gambling the results are different.
We must not imitate or even impose desires that are not in accordance with our own abilities because if we want to be reckless then we cannot control it so what happens is a lot of harm and loss.

If you are someone who do get easily be influenced by other peoples gambling win then you should really be that tending to avoid to look for those wins so that you wont really be that making yourself that impulsive on which you would really be trying out to do the same thing on which we know that winning of others or really that speaking about being lucky is really that different into each person on which if you are trying out to copy or mimic out those people then you would be finding yourself that desperate. It would really be just that common sense to understand that we cant really be able to
know on when we would really be lucky on the time that we would be playing on which we know that it would really be that totally different into each person.

Now on the time that you do tend to make it as a secret with your gambling activity then it is really just that normal since community and other people are really that too
conclusive about gambling activity to be a bad thing or negative on which it would be directly be pertaining that you are already addicted to gambling once they have
seen you on playing on which they dont know that you are just playing to have some leisure or enjoyment that you are seeking.

[Zigabel]

Sometimes people forget their limits and mindset to become better, if in gambling when we see other people's wins, it is likely that our minds and hearts want to feel the same thing, but in gambling the results are different.
We must not imitate or even impose desires that are not in accordance with our own abilities because if we want to be reckless then we cannot control it so what happens is a lot of harm and loss.

This has been the problem of most gamblers, been able to know and maintain their limits while gambling, if they are all able to do this than I'm most sure that the issues with gambling Will to a good extent reduce., Knowing the effects of gambling too much alone should be a reason why we most likely should avoid over gambling and always know when to stop and not continue. Looking at other people's gambling pattern and wanting to use their strategy is a pitfall that will be detrimental to us but sometimes we pay deaf ears to it until we are hurt by these practice.

Tailoring our gambling habits to our abilities will actually go a long way to helping us be better gamblers because it helps us gamble within our means and not to go beyond what we can afford to lose as everyone's financial capabilities are not on equal level so they definitely can't be doing exactly what we are doing.

[Fredomago]

Once agrression takeover for sure you won't be able to control and next you know a huge amount of money is already been taken away from your savings, to the point that you can everything without limiting yourself while trying to seek for luck either to recover or to win big time while playing or betting with the game you choose to gamble.

Yes, sometimes taking over aggression drives a gambler to act inappropriately and in fact, many people do it without realizing it. because this really influences a person to act carelessly, especially without strong self-control to prevent or anticipate it.
Just like taking savings to be able to gamble according to our wishes, of course this must also be balanced with a good mindset and control. If there are none of these things then it is very likely that he will experience a lot of losses.

That's the reason why we need to stop that aggression cause once it will happen Then we got a good decision but If we don't have to control our mind then one thing for sure we Will loss a lot of money. Cause even though we will loss but if we are in aggression and greedy then we are still  i'll put our bet even though we loss.. anyways we are all human we have a chance to loss.bavsuse we forgot sometimes.

We can't removed that fact that greed and aggression are built in inside us but we do have the capabilities to prevent it as long as we have a good control with our emotions, something that we can practice along the way, there are many possibilities that drive us away from following both greed and aggression though it's not an easy task but if we don't want to lose a lot of money better to wrok on it and try to demolished that kind of emotions while you are still involve in gambling, it helps a lot to prevent making huge mistake and have that regrets when you lose your money.

Sometimes people forget their limits and mindset to become better, if in gambling when we see other people's wins, it is likely that our minds and hearts want to feel the same thing, but in gambling the results are different.
We must not imitate or even impose desires that are not in accordance with our own abilities because if we want to be reckless then we cannot control it so what happens is a lot of harm and loss.

This has been the problem of most gamblers, been able to know and maintain their limits while gambling, if they are all able to do this than I'm most sure that the issues with gambling Will to a good extent reduce., Knowing the effects of gambling too much alone should be a reason why we most likely should avoid over gambling and always know when to stop and not continue. Looking at other people's gambling pattern and wanting to use their strategy is a pitfall that will be detrimental to us but sometimes we pay deaf ears to it until we are hurt by these practice.

Tailoring our gambling habits to our abilities will actually go a long way to helping us be better gamblers because it helps us gamble within our means and not to go beyond what we can afford to lose as everyone's financial capabilities are not on equal level so they definitely can't be doing exactly what we are doing.

It helps if you continue to learn about your mistakes and use that as patterns to make a better decision making, but if we keep doing it over and over then we just risking our finances because after a certain lose your apettite might grow and maybe you'll add more money to your bankroll and lose it still.

[carlfebz2]

Sometimes people forget their limits and mindset to become better, if in gambling when we see other people's wins, it is likely that our minds and hearts want to feel the same thing, but in gambling the results are different.
We must not imitate or even impose desires that are not in accordance with our own abilities because if we want to be reckless then we cannot control it so what happens is a lot of harm and loss.

This has been the problem of most gamblers, been able to know and maintain their limits while gambling, if they are all able to do this than I'm most sure that the issues with gambling Will to a good extent reduce., Knowing the effects of gambling too much alone should be a reason why we most likely should avoid over gambling and always know when to stop and not continue. Looking at other people's gambling pattern and wanting to use their strategy is a pitfall that will be detrimental to us but sometimes we pay deaf ears to it until we are hurt by these practice.

Tailoring our gambling habits to our abilities will actually go a long way to helping us be better gamblers because it helps us gamble within our means and not to go beyond what we can afford to lose as everyone's financial capabilities are not on equal level so they definitely can't be doing exactly what we are doing.

You would really be putting up yourself to be the main talk in town or with your relatives on the time that you do mess up your life because of gambling on which we do know that people around or eyes
would really be loving to see on what are the things that you've been doing specially with the wrong things that it is happening into your life.This is why  you would really be tending to hide yourself
into those people eyes and this is why most people would really be that doing gambling in private but since in todays era and technology then it wont really be that much hard on doing so.
You could be able to play without being detected or would be known and this is why it would really be that best that you should really not minding about others views towards on the things that
you are doing. Its your money that being used not theirs.

[bbigtart]

It is crucial that we speak with them at the beginning so that they are aware of our activities and the kinds of vices or hobbies we indulge in. After all, there are no secrets that should remain hidden. We shall know what will happen at the end, which is why there are always regrets. What will happen when we cross our boundaries and engage in undesirable behavior, such as getting debt from gambling, because we will become used to it? Even when we bring problems to ourselves, our family and loved ones are the ones who support us and help us find solutions. Sometimes, they even become involved as a result of our careless and dumb behavior.

This is the main reason I would never advise anyone to be ever ashamed, scared or for any other reasons keep any habits a secret especially gambling because when the state of addiction, desperation or any gambling bad habits is popping in, we can't see it earlier but others do.
Also I can't hide anything I love just because of Fear or being scared of speaking about it to those around me

This is true. The point is that it all depends on you because not everyone dares to talk about gambling to friends, let alone family, because in some countries being caught gambling is a disgrace and very embarrassing. So it's better to just keep it a secret, if you're afraid you won't be able to control your gambling, therefore it's important for you to gamble responsibly so you can be independent and don't need to ask for advice from other people. the people around you, especially family.

The point is to return to the core of the problem, this all depends on each individual and we cannot apply all of people's advice to ourselves. Until now my gambling activities have been very secretive, no one knows except online friends who gamble together.

[Rufsilf]

It is crucial that we speak with them at the beginning so that they are aware of our activities and the kinds of vices or hobbies we indulge in. After all, there are no secrets that should remain hidden. We shall know what will happen at the end, which is why there are always regrets. What will happen when we cross our boundaries and engage in undesirable behavior, such as getting debt from gambling, because we will become used to it? Even when we bring problems to ourselves, our family and loved ones are the ones who support us and help us find solutions. Sometimes, they even become involved as a result of our careless and dumb behavior.

This is the main reason I would never advise anyone to be ever ashamed, scared or for any other reasons keep any habits a secret especially gambling because when the state of addiction, desperation or any gambling bad habits is popping in, we can't see it earlier but others do.
Also I can't hide anything I love just because of Fear or being scared of speaking about it to those around me

So it's better to just keep it a secret, if you're afraid you won't be able to control your gambling, therefore it's important for you to gamble responsibly so you can be independent and don't need to ask for advice from other people. the people around you, especially family.

The point is to return to the core of the problem, this all depends on each individual and we cannot apply all of people's advice to ourselves. Until now my gambling activities have been very secretive, no one knows except online friends who gamble together.

I kind of disagree with you on this one, though, because it seems unbearable that you are unable to listen to the advice of others—after all, you can never tell when you are developing a gambling addiction. Because you occasionally lose consciousness when playing because you are enjoying the game, it might be challenging to determine whether you are a responsible gambler. It is completely fine to be open and honest with your family about your gambling habits, so they can help you avoid becoming addicted to gambling. If you hide your gambling activities, you hinder and prevent other people from offering you advice and support, which could be beneficial to you personally. If you hide your gambling, you can miss out on important support systems and chances for help if your behavior gets out of control.

[Accardo]

Sometimes people forget their limits and mindset to become better, if in gambling when we see other people's wins, it is likely that our minds and hearts want to feel the same thing, but in gambling the results are different.
We must not imitate or even impose desires that are not in accordance with our own abilities because if we want to be reckless then we cannot control it so what happens is a lot of harm and loss.

This has been the problem of most gamblers, been able to know and maintain their limits while gambling, if they are all able to do this than I'm most sure that the issues with gambling Will to a good extent reduce., Knowing the effects of gambling too much alone should be a reason why we most likely should avoid over gambling and always know when to stop and not continue. Looking at other people's gambling pattern and wanting to use their strategy is a pitfall that will be detrimental to us but sometimes we pay deaf ears to it until we are hurt by these practice.

Tailoring our gambling habits to our abilities will actually go a long way to helping us be better gamblers because it helps us gamble within our means and not to go beyond what we can afford to lose as everyone's financial capabilities are not on equal level so they definitely can't be doing exactly what we are doing.

Gambling is a game with personal experience, gamblers have their definitions of gambling. And it's different from one gambler to another. Hence, it's important that every gambler hold their strategy, and stick to the plans they've got initially. However, whenever we gamble people around us could be thinking of us as irresponsible. One reason, gamblers should prove them wrong and stay responsible. Doing the wrong method as a gambler will only validate the thoughts of those people who didn't trust our gambling habit. Regardless, not being real in gambling has its disadvantages, and it's quite focused on losses than winning.

Additionally, we are not meant to gamble with the fear of people around us or tear ourselves up over what they think about us, what is at stake remains proving everyone wrong. No need keeping it a secret. Gamblers who are not strong enough to respect the normal gambling habit, may need help of those people around him. Despite the stigma they've placed on him, he can still be saved through them, not all of them will be completely against the gambler.

[zuzie]

If you are someone who do get easily be influenced by other peoples gambling win then you should really be that tending to avoid to look for those wins so that you wont really be that making yourself that impulsive on which you would really be trying out to do the same thing on which we know that winning of others or really that speaking about being lucky is really that different into each person on which if you are trying out to copy or mimic out those people then you would be finding yourself that desperate. It would really be just that common sense to understand that we cant really be able to
know on when we would really be lucky on the time that we would be playing on which we know that it would really be that totally different into each person.

Now on the time that you do tend to make it as a secret with your gambling activity then it is really just that normal since community and other people are really that too
conclusive about gambling activity to be a bad thing or negative on which it would be directly be pertaining that you are already addicted to gambling once they have
seen you on playing on which they dont know that you are just playing to have some leisure or enjoyment that you are seeking.

Yes, that's good advice, friend, if we have the same feeling as other gamblers experience when we see their winnings, then it's a good idea for us to avoid that person or it's better to just go home so we don't force something we don't want. sure we will get it, then from there we will avoid impulsive attitudes which result in feelings of excessive aggression within ourselves.

This has been the problem of most gamblers, been able to know and maintain their limits while gambling, if they are all able to do this than I'm most sure that the issues with gambling Will to a good extent reduce., Knowing the effects of gambling too much alone should be a reason why we most likely should avoid over gambling and always know when to stop and not continue. Looking at other people's gambling pattern and wanting to use their strategy is a pitfall that will be detrimental to us but sometimes we pay deaf ears to it until we are hurt by these practice.

Tailoring our gambling habits to our abilities will actually go a long way to helping us be better gamblers because it helps us gamble within our means and not to go beyond what we can afford to lose as everyone's financial capabilities are not on equal level so they definitely can't be doing exactly what we are doing.

It's true, this is the start of a new problem for him when he sees other people's wins and he doesn't have good self-control, so that person is easily influenced by things like that.
Yes, by trying to adapt to the gambling habits that we already have, of course this will prevent us from carrying out excessive gambling activities and will also prevent us from becoming addicted to gambling.