Do you blame someone for your gambling losses?

[BobK71]

That's so wrong. Well, they will be investigated if what they say is true. But I doubt they are. Not taking responsibilities for her own mistake, that's not a good lesson for the kid and he might do this kind of trick too when he grows up, worse this will be like his job.
Gambling advertisements always tells us to gamble responsibly, and this is not how it is. It was said for a reason because we will end up like this case of the mother and son if we don't control out gambling habit. I don't blame anyone with all my losses, better, I actually keep it to myself because I am shy to let others find out that I lost my bet.

I really don't understand people who are blaming others in loses , i mean in the first place before you bet its your choice to do it and if you lose then you shouldn't blaming others as they are not the one who bet it. Those kind of people should be avoided as for sure it will lead to altercation or even a fight.  Even my self no matter what fault or loses that I've been through i wont be blaming others.

There is a kind of bet I would make and I would blame the person that ask me to make that particular bet especially when I am forced or compelled with the assurance of winning the bet. I had made multiple bets on boxing and other friend sport bets that gave me bad luck and I never bother to accuse anyone of my loses because I knew that sometimes, luck might not fall on your side that's why I would never blame anyone of my gambling loses depending on whether they are the one that initial the gaming or gambling activity or not.

No one should be blamed others for gambling. First you have to gamble by your own research. But you can take other people's thought and find what is the difference from your research and them. If your criteria and the criteria of a gambling expert match, you can accept it. Gambling should never be blindly influenced by other people's decisions. Also, one thing that is often observed is that many gamblers blame themselves when they lose bets based on someone else's suggestion and do not blame when they win. It is inconsistent. So it is best to manage gambling based on your own experience.

[adzino]

Sad to hear what happened here. But yeah, there are people that would blame others if they lose their money when gambling. And then there are people that would claim that lost they money "by mistake' or someone stole their money (which actually happened in this story that you posted), but it was actually them. When they lost, they realized what has happened, and now they somehow wants to get their money back. Happens more at online casino where players claim that they account was hacked, the game was bugged or straight blaming the casino saying their games are rigged. Not something very unsual.

[ethereumhunter]

Although I believe that someone can change for better but it should start with them. And it can only happen if these mistakes they've made will be admitted by them.

They have to recognize that their actions were wrong and it's not going to do any better if they'll repeat it.

Only they can change themselves for the better. I also believe that if they want to change for the better, they have to be strong-willed, not complain, and always try because the temptation to go back to gambling will be even more intense at that time. This is why they have to take it seriously and realize that what they did was wrong. And maybe there's nothing wrong with asking for help from other people, including our family members, because they know us better.

And before they do that, take the accountability first and pay for the penalty that's given to them whether it's jail time or fine that they need to pay.

That's the start that they're about to do better by doing those things. But with those and they still negate to their mistake, they're hard headed and that's not a good sign that they'll change for better.

Betterment will only come to them by doing the right thing of what should be done after they've been caught and admit they've lost and no one's to blame but them.

Well, they shouldn't deny their mistakes and instead, turn around to make amends by changing for the better. That's what they have to do so that the punishment they will receive will not be too severe.

And after they have served their sentence and are free, they must try to prevent all the mistakes they have made before. That way, people will see if they really want to change for the better.

[tusandii]

No one should be blamed others for gambling. First you have to gamble by your own research. But you can take other people's thought and find what is the difference from your research and them. If your criteria and the criteria of a gambling expert match, you can accept it. Gambling should never be blindly influenced by other people's decisions. Also, one thing that is often observed is that many gamblers blame themselves when they lose bets based on someone else's suggestion and do not blame when they win. It is inconsistent. So it is best to manage gambling based on your own experience.

That's right, friends, because blaming other people for losing at gambling will only make us covered in emotional upset and also disappointment. After all, blaming other people will only cause hostility so that in the future it can have a negative impact on ourselves.
It's better to really blame yourself and always introspect which ones must be corrected so that when gambling can minimize the number of losses.
Seeing that matches other people's predictions with your own is good because it can provide learning and more ways to be able to make more accurate predictions.
I see a lot of people selling their predictions but this group of people are just stupid people who can harm other gamblers by selling fake predictions that have no guarantees.

[rojan]

That's so wrong. Well, they will be investigated if what they say is true. But I doubt they are. Not taking responsibilities for her own mistake, that's not a good lesson for the kid and he might do this kind of trick too when he grows up, worse this will be like his job.
Gambling advertisements always tells us to gamble responsibly, and this is not how it is. It was said for a reason because we will end up like this case of the mother and son if we don't control out gambling habit. I don't blame anyone with all my losses, better, I actually keep it to myself because I am shy to let others find out that I lost my bet.

I really don't understand people who are blaming others in loses , i mean in the first place before you bet its your choice to do it and if you lose then you shouldn't blaming others as they are not the one who bet it. Those kind of people should be avoided as for sure it will lead to altercation or even a fight.  Even my self no matter what fault or loses that I've been through i wont be blaming others.

There is a kind of bet I would make and I would blame the person that ask me to make that particular bet especially when I am forced or compelled with the assurance of winning the bet. I had made multiple bets on boxing and other friend sport bets that gave me bad luck and I never bother to accuse anyone of my loses because I knew that sometimes, luck might not fall on your side that's why I would never blame anyone of my gambling loses depending on whether they are the one that initial the gaming or gambling activity or not.

No one should be blamed others for gambling. First you have to gamble by your own research. But you can take other people's thought and find what is the difference from your research and them. If your criteria and the criteria of a gambling expert match, you can accept it. Gambling should never be blindly influenced by other people's decisions. Also, one thing that is often observed is that many gamblers blame themselves when they lose bets based on someone else's suggestion and do not blame when they win. It is inconsistent. So it is best to manage gambling based on your own experience.

I have seen several people who gamble on the advice of others and are very happy when they win. If suddenly they lose, they blame the person whose advice they gambled on. Never get hot while gambling if you lose your head.  If you make a rash decision then you will lose all your money. If you can gamble with your thoughts then it will be very good for you. But I think those who are totally involved with Joya have no peace in their life and are always depressed.

[Mr.suevie]

That's so wrong. Well, they will be investigated if what they say is true. But I doubt they are. Not taking responsibilities for her own mistake, that's not a good lesson for the kid and he might do this kind of trick too when he grows up, worse this will be like his job.
Gambling advertisements always tells us to gamble responsibly, and this is not how it is. It was said for a reason because we will end up like this case of the mother and son if we don't control out gambling habit. I don't blame anyone with all my losses, better, I actually keep it to myself because I am shy to let others find out that I lost my bet.

I really don't understand people who are blaming others in loses , i mean in the first place before you bet its your choice to do it and if you lose then you shouldn't blaming others as they are not the one who bet it. Those kind of people should be avoided as for sure it will lead to altercation or even a fight.  Even my self no matter what fault or loses that I've been through i wont be blaming others.

There is a kind of bet I would make and I would blame the person that ask me to make that particular bet especially when I am forced or compelled with the assurance of winning the bet. I had made multiple bets on boxing and other friend sport bets that gave me bad luck and I never bother to accuse anyone of my loses because I knew that sometimes, luck might not fall on your side that's why I would never blame anyone of my gambling loses depending on whether they are the one that initial the gaming or gambling activity or not.

No one should be blamed others for gambling. First you have to gamble by your own research. But you can take other people's thought and find what is the difference from your research and them. If your criteria and the criteria of a gambling expert match, you can accept it. Gambling should never be blindly influenced by other people's decisions. Also, one thing that is often observed is that many gamblers blame themselves when they lose bets based on someone else's suggestion and do not blame when they win. It is inconsistent. So it is best to manage gambling based on your own experience.

I have seen several people who gamble on the advice of others and are very happy when they win. If suddenly they lose, they blame the person whose advice they gambled on. Never get hot while gambling if you lose your head.  If you make a rash decision then you will lose all your money. If you can gamble with your thoughts then it will be very good for you. But I think those who are totally involved with Joya have no peace in their life and are always depressed.

First of all, it is very improper to take someone advice while gambling because the person advising you is also a human like you and is likely to predict wrongly even more than yours. I personal believe that gambling on online casino should be done at your own convenient at your own quite time because you definitely need a quite and clear to focus your energy to predict or the correct game while gambling any distraction during this time can lead to series of loss and then you may likely blame another person for this while in the first place you caused everything.

[Strongkored]

I have seen several people who gamble on the advice of others and are very happy when they win. If suddenly they lose, they blame the person whose advice they gambled on. Never get hot while gambling if you lose your head.  If you make a rash decision then you will lose all your money. If you can gamble with your thoughts then it will be very good for you. But I think those who are totally involved with Joya have no peace in their life and are always depressed.

That person can be said to be stupid and maybe his stupidity is the result of thinking that gambling is an activity that will always be able to benefit, that person does not understand how gambling works in any type of game there is no certainty of profit because when we start betting it is the same as taking the risk of losing , in gambling that we think is the safest, we can still lose, betting at the smallest odds because we will definitely win, it turns out to be the other way around, using the martinagle strategy, you can still lose all your balance. So when we start gambling, don't ever think about winning and always do what we believe in so we won't blame other people when it turns out to be wrong.

[piebeyb]

Sad to hear what happened here. But yeah, there are people that would blame others if they lose their money when gambling. And then there are people that would claim that lost they money "by mistake' or someone stole their money (which actually happened in this story that you posted), but it was actually them. When they lost, they realized what has happened, and now they somehow wants to get their money back. Happens more at online casino where players claim that they account was hacked, the game was bugged or straight blaming the casino saying their games are rigged. Not something very unsual.

Yes, usually people who don't want to experience big losses will usually do the same thing, even though he consciously knows that playing gambling is full of risks, but people like this always underestimate the risk. It's clear that whenever playing gambling, there will definitely be risks that must be accepted. whether it's losing money or losing assets, so you better not play gambling if you don't want to play risk it's better to work or become an entrepreneur to earn money.

I also see it strange and funny why people can do and say that casinos are committing fraud even though there have been many warnings that playing gambling cannot make people rich, so play wisely don't play greedy so that when you lose you don't make it as told by OP in this thread. 

[ChuckBuck]

I have seen several people who gamble on the advice of others and are very happy when they win. If suddenly they lose, they blame the person whose advice they gambled on. Never get hot while gambling if you lose your head.  If you make a rash decision then you will lose all your money. If you can gamble with your thoughts then it will be very good for you. But I think those who are totally involved with Joya have no peace in their life and are always depressed.

We can totally understand it. When everything goes well, no one feels sad or angry, no one hates good things. But once they encounter difficulties, losses, they lose money, they start to feel regret and regret. But in the meantime, that regret is too bad and they can't accept that they themselves were wrong, they need someone to blame, right? And if you are there, or you join them, you will be a target, a trash can for them to vent their emotions.

It's best not to work with people like that, they're bad 

[Jody.Drummer]

Sad to hear what happened here. But yeah, there are people that would blame others if they lose their money when gambling. And then there are people that would claim that lost they money "by mistake' or someone stole their money (which actually happened in this story that you posted), but it was actually them. When they lost, they realized what has happened, and now they somehow wants to get their money back. Happens more at online casino where players claim that they account was hacked, the game was bugged or straight blaming the casino saying their games are rigged. Not something very unsual.

Actually this kind of thing is something that we find very often, as you say they realize they have lost money and they make scenarios as if they are victims of irresponsible people or the casino itself. One of their goals is to hope the story they're telling will make their money back, or they want a particular casino to become defamed. The second reason doesn't make much more sense to me, and therefore the reason they want their money back is the most compelling reason. This kind of thing is what desperate fools do. lol

[QueenVera]

As far as gambling is concern nobody is to be blamed in losses of an individual bettor take for instance if you play sports bet you know when choosing an odd nobody directs you on what to do first of all you consider to choose the team that is in their peak at the moment, when the fail to deliver are you to blame anybody when you know that you personally make your selection.

I get your point mate and the truth  be told that most times as a person,  there have been some cases that at some point, we tend to regret our losses and which we made another option rather than the very own that was chosen.
Whatever the case might be, mkst gamblers if not all already know that we are solely  responsible  for all our actions but there are cases when we wish we can blame anyone  for our losses.

[maydna]

I have seen several people who gamble on the advice of others and are very happy when they win. If suddenly they lose, they blame the person whose advice they gambled on. Never get hot while gambling if you lose your head.  If you make a rash decision then you will lose all your money. If you can gamble with your thoughts then it will be very good for you. But I think those who are totally involved with Joya have no peace in their life and are always depressed.

We can totally understand it. When everything goes well, no one feels sad or angry, no one hates good things. But once they encounter difficulties, losses, they lose money, they start to feel regret and regret. But in the meantime, that regret is too bad and they can't accept that they themselves were wrong, they need someone to blame, right? And if you are there, or you join them, you will be a target, a trash can for them to vent their emotions.

It's best not to work with people like that, they're bad 

Therefore, we don't need to invite other people to gamble following us because we can have fun. Sometimes we will not be able to accept other people's annoyance and tend to blame us for asking them to gamble. Those who have lost money because of an invitation to play gambling will certainly feel sorry, but maybe they don't blame us if we have told them that gambling has a risk of loss and we always remind them not to bet in large amounts. And we also need to remind you that gambling is only for fun, and you don't intend to win money at the gambling table because we have the opportunity to lose. So just have fun and nothing to lose.

[livingfree]

And before they do that, take the accountability first and pay for the penalty that's given to them whether it's jail time or fine that they need to pay.

That's the start that they're about to do better by doing those things. But with those and they still negate to their mistake, they're hard headed and that's not a good sign that they'll change for better.

Betterment will only come to them by doing the right thing of what should be done after they've been caught and admit they've lost and no one's to blame but them.

Well, they shouldn't deny their mistakes and instead, turn around to make amends by changing for the better. That's what they have to do so that the punishment they will receive will not be too severe.

With that reasoning out, they've already denied it that it's not their fault. But even if they will deny it, they've already been sentenced and that's more than enough for them.

And after they have served their sentence and are free, they must try to prevent all the mistakes they have made before. That way, people will see if they really want to change for the better.

That should how it must be but, there's now that doubt that it won't be as exact as what we're thinking because they might just go back and again, blame it again to the others and anything if they've been caught and got a losing streak.

[Vaskiy]

As far as gambling is concern nobody is to be blamed in losses of an individual bettor take for instance if you play sports bet you know when choosing an odd nobody directs you on what to do first of all you consider to choose the team that is in their peak at the moment, when the fail to deliver are you to blame anybody when you know that you personally make your selection.

I get your point mate and the truth  be told that most times as a person,  there have been some cases that at some point, we tend to regret our losses and which we made another option rather than the very own that was chosen.
Whatever the case might be, mkst gamblers if not all already know that we are solely  responsible  for all our actions but there are cases when we wish we can blame anyone  for our losses.

Ofc nobody directs us or uses gun to make deposit on online casino but since everything especially online banking is one click away we can make quick decisions to chase big wins for entertainment. Some gamblers love to blame other people mostly close circle around him for losing big amount on online slots, I have seen such debats on live streaming platforms. We have to understand risks on casinos and never play with the amount we can't afford to lose as responsible gamblers.

It is common with gambling that we need to spend what we can afford to loss. When we gamble based on someone's suggestion and loss it hurts, in particular when the lost bet amount is high. I never exceed a bet amount of $10 when placing based on someone's suggestion. In specific those used to be just for fun with friends (going with their prediction).

[Docnaster]

Court sentences mother, son to 7 years imprisonment and what did they do? Court sentences mother, son to 7 years imprisonment


The mother and the son after gambling away 5.6 million naira, that is about $8,000. When the reality dawned on them, they gave false information in petition, accusing someone of fraudulently transferring the fund from their Opay account to the sport betting account without their authorization.

Could this be a case of making someone pay for what they didn't eat or a case of double standard.

Bet as you can sustain and not allow your emotions have a better part of you.

Gambling is real and the addiction is real but the case of mother and son is surprising to me
 It used to be son and the mother or the parents act as check on their son by threatening to report to the agencies. I mean in the countries like the one described by Op. Some times Father and son works and conivr together but I am surprised of the case of mother and son.
It could be that the son misled the mother and I can say that the judge was just lenient on them for the reduced cost to order.

[Twentyonepaylots]

Sad to hear what happened here. But yeah, there are people that would blame others if they lose their money when gambling. And then there are people that would claim that lost they money "by mistake' or someone stole their money (which actually happened in this story that you posted), but it was actually them. When they lost, they realized what has happened, and now they somehow wants to get their money back. Happens more at online casino where players claim that they account was hacked, the game was bugged or straight blaming the casino saying their games are rigged. Not something very unsual.

Yes, usually people who don't want to experience big losses will usually do the same thing, even though he consciously knows that playing gambling is full of risks, but people like this always underestimate the risk. It's clear that whenever playing gambling, there will definitely be risks that must be accepted. whether it's losing money or losing assets, so you better not play gambling if you don't want to play risk it's better to work or become an entrepreneur to earn money.

I also see it strange and funny why people can do and say that casinos are committing fraud even though there have been many warnings that playing gambling cannot make people rich, so play wisely don't play greedy so that when you lose you don't make it as told by OP in this thread. 

I agree since those people only blame other others so that they can hide from the fact that they make a wrong decision. They ignore the fact that gambling is a game of luck and although they know that luck isn't always on your side, they still go for their gambling activity and always believe that their next game would be a win ending up for them to lose big time. So, indeed that in gambling world, one should not be greedy to the extent that they can risk everything without taking into consideration their life. We should not be drown to the idea that if someone get rich in this way, you can be too since this is still a game of uncertainty and you can end up in the wrong side. So, always be wise in your decisions and always take the risks that we can really afford.

[STT]

Blame your maths teacher if you want to blame anyone external to your own decisions.  If you learn maths and various dynamics like statistics and probability theory then you have a far better chance of comprehending risk vs reward on any game.  If you know when its a good pay off vs a risk not worth taking you are better off already and can steer to avoid losses not that there is ever any guarantee but I feel people better able to gauge their progress will do better in appreciating a good sequence of wins and when to quit with those gains.  Ultimately a person can or should only ever consider themselves as the captain of their own destiny but opinions vary.

[AicecreaME]

Sad to hear what happened here. But yeah, there are people that would blame others if they lose their money when gambling. And then there are people that would claim that lost they money "by mistake' or someone stole their money (which actually happened in this story that you posted), but it was actually them. When they lost, they realized what has happened, and now they somehow wants to get their money back. Happens more at online casino where players claim that they account was hacked, the game was bugged or straight blaming the casino saying their games are rigged. Not something very unsual.

These people that you mentioned are in denial. They can't seem to accept the fact that they have lost the game and they have lost the funds they bet on especially if the amount is a huge one. Sometimes people tend to blame others for their own doing because they don't want to carry all the burden such as the regrets and losses that came from the miscalculated or impulsive decision they have made. If you are close with someone that possess this kind of mindset, you should give them a heads up about their actions. But if they won't do something about it or if ever they lash out on you because of your concern about them, it's time to cut them off before you also fall victim into their dirty tactics.

[Silberman]

Blame your maths teacher if you want to blame anyone external to your own decisions.  If you learn maths and various dynamics like statistics and probability theory then you have a far better chance of comprehending risk vs reward on any game.  If you know when its a good pay off vs a risk not worth taking you are better off already and can steer to avoid losses not that there is ever any guarantee but I feel people better able to gauge their progress will do better in appreciating a good sequence of wins and when to quit with those gains.  Ultimately a person can or should only ever consider themselves as the captain of their own destiny but opinions vary.

You are not wrong but at the same time people hate math, so even if they had the best possible teacher they could get, there is no guarantee they will learn anything out of them, and that is because they do not really realize that math is everywhere and that it can be applied to a great variety of problems that have a very direct effect on their lives, so they try to avoid the responsibility for their actions by pointing their finger at someone else, but even if they deceived everyone else they cannot deceive themselves, since they know they are responsible for the losses they suffered when they gamble.

[BobK71]

Sad to hear what happened here. But yeah, there are people that would blame others if they lose their money when gambling. And then there are people that would claim that lost they money "by mistake' or someone stole their money (which actually happened in this story that you posted), but it was actually them. When they lost, they realized what has happened, and now they somehow wants to get their money back. Happens more at online casino where players claim that they account was hacked, the game was bugged or straight blaming the casino saying their games are rigged. Not something very unsual.

These people that you mentioned are in denial. They can't seem to accept the fact that they have lost the game and they have lost the funds they bet on especially if the amount is a huge one. Sometimes people tend to blame others for their own doing because they don't want to carry all the burden such as the regrets and losses that came from the miscalculated or impulsive decision they have made. If you are close with someone that possess this kind of mindset, you should give them a heads up about their actions. But if they won't do something about it or if ever they lash out on you because of your concern about them, it's time to cut them off before you also fall victim into their dirty tactics.

Just deserve all the people are not equal in behavior or actions, there are also differences among gamblers. Some blame others to hide their own failures. But you must be careful when dealing with such gamblers otherwise you too can be found guilty anytime. There are many gamblers who do not blame others when they lose at the wits of others. They know very well that since he will not give anyone the loss or profit share of gambling, he will not blame anyone. A gambler conducts gambling with his own money so should not be influenced by the words of others.