Do you blame someone for your gambling losses?

[Doan9269]

Exactly, there is no one to blame even the bookies. In gambling, we put our hope for luck, not something that is certain to get. If someone loses and blames other people, maybe he needs to change his mind in gambling. Because gambling is not someone else's will, but his own will. When he made a deposit, it was his decision. Even if there are people who ask him to gamble, the decision is made from his decision and not from the one who invited him. When we lose and lose everything, that needs to be a reason to stop if we can. But if not, make it time to rest and change our gambling style. Maybe we are doing wrong while betting.

Gamblers should think about responsible gambling so that every win and loss is an outcome that cannot be blamed on someone else. Losing and winning are certain things, but it is true that there are some problems that may arise at casinos because the network or system may not fully respond properly when the bettor throws his bet. I don't remember if there was such a case, but maybe you have heard of it in the past.

As a reasonable gambler, why should you even think about giving your loss blame on someone when you're the one gambling and incharge, you make use of your money to gamble and yet some cannot be independent i thinking and reasonings than depending on their friends for supports in making decisions, also in gambling, once a bet is been made, it's not possible to reverse or cancel the slip anymore than embracing the fate, therefore it's not that we should limit our learning scope to our fellow gamblers but the final decision to take must always come from us.

[virasisog]

with the help of the technology, it's not hard to trace where the transactions came from and even you'll try to hide those important information, it will gonna reveal itself since there's a trace from the receiving ends and processors.

You can't hide that fact and it's not a wise thing to do, trying to blame someone with your mistake, you are the one who are in charge with such actions that you made, it's a sad fact but nothing to be blame but those persons itself who made these actions.

Well, the mother and her son probably understand this and that is the reason why they claimed that someone moved the funds from their account to a sports betting platform and gambled them away, this way, even if the transaction was initiated from their end, they claim they didn't do it themselves and are blaming someone else for it.

They probably tried to get their money back with such a tactic but as long as they can't prove it, their claims are useless since there will probably be no signs of their account getting compromised or hacked.

They could even be accused of falsifying their claims and in the end, if the court doesn't justify that, they can even get a sentence from the court. Blaming other people for our crimes is not a good idea because we will get punished for what we did to them. This should be a valuable lesson for all of us. We always try to take care of ourselves to avoid what the mother and son have done. If it has been reported to the court, all corroborating evidence will not be able to help him and in the end, we will get the sentence.

To accuse someone of gambling losses is such a nasty diversion from the fact that there is a significant chance of losing money when, in reality, this should be the gambler's perception from the start. They may have believed that if they placed the blame elsewhere, they would be able to recover their significant losses, not realizing that it would ultimately work against them. I think that they should be held accountable for what they did and that they may be accused of falsifying documents for carrying out such an act.
When we lose at gambling, we should remember that we are accountable for our actions and decisions, and we cannot place the blame for the outcomes or effects on other people. When we lose at gambling, we should remember that we are accountable for our actions and decisions, and we cannot place the blame for the outcomes or effects on other people.

[Kelvinid]

Exactly, there is no one to blame even the bookies. In gambling, we put our hope for luck, not something that is certain to get. If someone loses and blames other people, maybe he needs to change his mind in gambling. Because gambling is not someone else's will, but his own will. When he made a deposit, it was his decision. Even if there are people who ask him to gamble, the decision is made from his decision and not from the one who invited him. When we lose and lose everything, that needs to be a reason to stop if we can. But if not, make it time to rest and change our gambling style. Maybe we are doing wrong while betting.

Gamblers should think about responsible gambling so that every win and loss is an outcome that cannot be blamed on someone else. Losing and winning are certain things, but it is true that there are some problems that may arise at casinos because the network or system may not fully respond properly when the bettor throws his bet. I don't remember if there was such a case, but maybe you have heard of it in the past.

As a reasonable gambler, why should you even think about giving your loss blame on someone when you're the one gambling and incharge, you make use of your money to gamble and yet some cannot be independent i thinking and reasonings than depending on their friends for supports in making decisions, also in gambling, once a bet is been made, it's not possible to reverse or cancel the slip anymore than embracing the fate, therefore it's not that we should limit our learning scope to our fellow gamblers but the final decision to take must always come from us.

We can blame someone if they cheat on us but in the situation that we decide to put a bet or at the time we gamble, it was our decision either.
Most likely, blaming is not reasonable, it should not happen otherwise, we just make ourselves a fool, a big shame on us. In fact, in gambling we only have to possible results whether we lose or win - the thing that we should understand and must keep in mind before deciding to gamble.

[Mr. Magkaisa]

    -  When the greed for money really exists, the destination is really disaster. Because if you gamble, you should only gamble, not the one that will lead to something like that.

That's why others say that you should gamble responsibly so that you don't end up regretting it later. Does the sentence have bail for them? How much is it? It's just that other gamblers in the crypto space shouldn't follow suit.

[Eureka_07]

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The topic title differs slightly from the article you shared.
Anyway, I don't blame anyone whenever I lose a session from playing at casinos.
From that news, the convicts do not literally blame other people. Instead of accepting their misfortune, they resorted to deceiving the authorities. They seem to have believed they could obtain all the money if the court ruled in their favor. I don't know them; however, from everything I've read, I can tell that they are greedy.

[ultrloa]

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I don't blame anyone whenever I lose a session from playing at casinos.
From that news, the convicts do not literally blame other people. Instead of accepting their misfortune, they resorted to deceiving the authorities. They seem to have believed they could obtain all the money if the court ruled in their favor. I don't know them; however, from everything I've read, I can tell that they are greedy.

This traits should need to bring by a gambler since in the first place they are the one who execute all the things they want to do in a casino. If they just play with proper planning maybe they will not go on situation where its so stressful to them. Also they should not blame the casino if they are having a bad day so much better to move on and try to come up next time. Blaming cannot result to anything good but rather it add up additional stress.

[Fredomago]

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I don't blame anyone whenever I lose a session from playing at casinos.
From that news, the convicts do not literally blame other people. Instead of accepting their misfortune, they resorted to deceiving the authorities. They seem to have believed they could obtain all the money if the court ruled in their favor. I don't know them; however, from everything I've read, I can tell that they are greedy.

This traits should need to bring by a gambler since in the first place they are the one who execute all the things they want to do in a casino. If they just play with proper planning maybe they will not go on situation where its so stressful to them. Also they should not blame the casino if they are having a bad day so much better to move on and try to come up next time. Blaming cannot result to anything good but rather it add up additional stress.

No one is to blame as it was your will to play and your responsibilities whatever the outcome might be, the problem with those people after losing heavy inside gambling, they are trying to trick the authorities by blaming someone who for them takeover with their accounts, but that lies cannot escape the reality and authorities are not stupid not to find out the real things that happened.

Nothing can be done but to accept the fact that they lose all the money and not they will go to face it by serving the sentences that they've got.

[YinShuiSiYuan]

You cannot blame anyone for your gambling losses except yourself  or  your foolishness or your luck never it whatever you want but it's all you .
If you don't waste your money on gambling you can do many things with your life and with that money.

[ethereumhunter]

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They could even be accused of falsifying their claims and in the end, if the court doesn't justify that, they can even get a sentence from the court. Blaming other people for our crimes is not a good idea because we will get punished for what we did to them. This should be a valuable lesson for all of us. We always try to take care of ourselves to avoid what the mother and son have done. If it has been reported to the court, all corroborating evidence will not be able to help him and in the end, we will get the sentence.

To accuse someone of gambling losses is such a nasty diversion from the fact that there is a significant chance of losing money when, in reality, this should be the gambler's perception from the start. They may have believed that if they placed the blame elsewhere, they would be able to recover their significant losses, not realizing that it would ultimately work against them. I think that they should be held accountable for what they did and that they may be accused of falsifying documents for carrying out such an act.
When we lose at gambling, we should remember that we are accountable for our actions and decisions, and we cannot place the blame for the outcomes or effects on other people. When we lose at gambling, we should remember that we are accountable for our actions and decisions, and we cannot place the blame for the outcomes or effects on other people.

Well, it's true what you say. But the problem is that some still blame others for the losses they experience at gambling. It would be like they are immature or not wise because losing in gambling is something they can get while winning is uncertain because they really need luck.

The effect they will receive from gambling is defeat, but they don't want to know about it. And there are still people who cannot be responsible for what they have done and instead delegate it to others as if they had not made a mistake.

[Slow death]

Exactly, there is no one to blame even the bookies. In gambling, we put our hope for luck, not something that is certain to get. If someone loses and blames other people, maybe he needs to change his mind in gambling. Because gambling is not someone else's will, but his own will. When he made a deposit, it was his decision. Even if there are people who ask him to gamble, the decision is made from his decision and not from the one who invited him. When we lose and lose everything, that needs to be a reason to stop if we can. But if not, make it time to rest and change our gambling style. Maybe we are doing wrong while betting.

Gamblers should think about responsible gambling so that every win and loss is an outcome that cannot be blamed on someone else. Losing and winning are certain things, but it is true that there are some problems that may arise at casinos because the network or system may not fully respond properly when the bettor throws his bet. I don't remember if there was such a case, but maybe you have heard of it in the past.

As a reasonable gambler, why should you even think about giving your loss blame on someone when you're the one gambling and incharge, you make use of your money to gamble and yet some cannot be independent i thinking and reasonings than depending on their friends for supports in making decisions, also in gambling, once a bet is been made, it's not possible to reverse or cancel the slip anymore than embracing the fate, therefore it's not that we should limit our learning scope to our fellow gamblers but the final decision to take must always come from us.

in normal cases it should be like this, but what has happened is that people do not do analyzes personally, they take predictions that other people make on the internet and sometimes even take predictions made by other members of the casino and make bets based on that, but do not blame these people they listened, the problem comes when people start winning and the casino does not allow them to withdraw their money, the casino uses all arguments like: doing KYC, many accounts, cheating, now in these days ago I read another argument than the casinos, it was in a case where the person started betting with low odds and constantly won, so the casino also accused him of cheating

by that I mean that in most cases people complain about the casinos and not about anyone in particular who gave them tips, the center of the problems in recent times has been the bad behavior of some casinos that use all the dirty means at their disposal not to pay, and worst of all is that the casino goes unpunished and people keep using such casinos, and as if people didn't have the notion that today it could be a problem with person Z but tomorrow it could be a problem with anyone else , people just think it won't happen to them. anyway people blame themselves (when they lose everything and are already depressed) and blame the casino and most of the time they are right

[klidex]

You cannot blame anyone for your gambling losses except yourself  or  your foolishness or your luck never it whatever you want but it's all you .
If you don't waste your money on gambling you can do many things with your life and with that money.

Have you never had the experience of gambling with your friends after losing all the money and for a moment the emotion of wanting to get angry after that blamed your friend.
I personally find the story Op shared to be fair and you don't have to blame anyone because it's just a matter of a state of mind in a losing state.

[Tumanggor]

You cannot blame anyone for your gambling losses except yourself  or  your foolishness or your luck never it whatever you want but it's all you .
If you don't waste your money on gambling you can do many things with your life and with that money.

did you not read in full what happened at the OP, the two (mother and son) slandered the gambling site even though it was very clear that they were the ones who made the deposit consciously

this proves that there are still many people out there who play gambling just for the sake of winning and also money but in fact, it is just a trap in their minds

[STT]

One good reason not to blame others for your decision to gamble is that it will continue the losses, in a way thats repeated for hundreds of years it has to be recognized that the weight of your actions and bets are in your hands.  If you dont fully weigh up and take responsibility for your own gambling win or loss then your own estimations for gambling in any game will become off-set and inaccurate, you will tend to lose more is something that should be realized.

Some risks we cannot avoid in life and must be undertaken to prosper but gambling for a game is personal choice; reduce your bets if you are not especially involved & in a bad mood in this way, until you fix your feeling etc. it will put off your game easily imo.

[temple]

Sometimes some people are jumping the gun to quickly. I agree with most of the things that have been said here. Take responsibility for your actions, don't blame someone else.

But often times we don't know the context in which someone decided to do something. Sometimes we will never get full information and yet lots of people make a judgment after reading a few lines of a certain case.

The story that OP posted here is sad. They have made an enormous mistake and even now we don't know what really happened. We only know they lost N5.6 million in gambling and made false allegations. But sending them to prison for 7 years, how does that relate to the harm they caused? Like, how is 7 years in prison better than 2 years when the goal is to punish and resocialize someone who hurt themselves financially and admitted they've made false allegations?

[Silberman]

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The topic title differs slightly from the article you shared.
Anyway, I don't blame anyone whenever I lose a session from playing at casinos.
From that news, the convicts do not literally blame other people. Instead of accepting their misfortune, they resorted to deceiving the authorities. They seem to have believed they could obtain all the money if the court ruled in their favor. I don't know them; however, from everything I've read, I can tell that they are greedy.

What is difficult to understand is how they thought this would work at all? I mean this kind of childish attitude may work with something of little importance that no one is going to research too deeply, but if you accuse someone of a crime and that person or institution has the means to investigate the whole thing then that is precisely what they are going to do, and when they found out those people were lying, it is natural they took legal measures against them.

[noormcs5]

Exactly, there is no one to blame even the bookies. In gambling, we put our hope for luck, not something that is certain to get. If someone loses and blames other people, maybe he needs to change his mind in gambling. Because gambling is not someone else's will, but his own will. When he made a deposit, it was his decision. Even if there are people who ask him to gamble, the decision is made from his decision and not from the one who invited him. When we lose and lose everything, that needs to be a reason to stop if we can. But if not, make it time to rest and change our gambling style. Maybe we are doing wrong while betting.

Gamblers should think about responsible gambling so that every win and loss is an outcome that cannot be blamed on someone else. Losing and winning are certain things, but it is true that there are some problems that may arise at casinos because the network or system may not fully respond properly when the bettor throws his bet. I don't remember if there was such a case, but maybe you have heard of it in the past.

As a reasonable gambler, why should you even think about giving your loss blame on someone when you're the one gambling and incharge, you make use of your money to gamble and yet some cannot be independent i thinking and reasonings than depending on their friends for supports in making decisions, also in gambling, once a bet is been made, it's not possible to reverse or cancel the slip anymore than embracing the fate, therefore it's not that we should limit our learning scope to our fellow gamblers but the final decision to take must always come from us.

It's silly if anyone blames his losses on gambling on anyone else. Even if they blame someone, will they get their money back? No 
Those who do that live in a fool's paradise and also they are only satisfied and justify these losses by blaming others.

Also, i have one question for everyone who wants to blame others for losses, were you forced to do gambling by anyone? If not, then how can you say that another person is responsible for your loss? And more importantly, in case you win, will you also make responsible another person for this?

[Reatim]

Exactly, there is no one to blame even the bookies. In gambling, we put our hope for luck, not something that is certain to get. If someone loses and blames other people, maybe he needs to change his mind in gambling. Because gambling is not someone else's will, but his own will. When he made a deposit, it was his decision. Even if there are people who ask him to gamble, the decision is made from his decision and not from the one who invited him. When we lose and lose everything, that needs to be a reason to stop if we can. But if not, make it time to rest and change our gambling style. Maybe we are doing wrong while betting.

Gamblers should think about responsible gambling so that every win and loss is an outcome that cannot be blamed on someone else. Losing and winning are certain things, but it is true that there are some problems that may arise at casinos because the network or system may not fully respond properly when the bettor throws his bet. I don't remember if there was such a case, but maybe you have heard of it in the past.

As a reasonable gambler, why should you even think about giving your loss blame on someone when you're the one gambling and incharge, you make use of your money to gamble and yet some cannot be independent i thinking and reasonings than depending on their friends for supports in making decisions, also in gambling, once a bet is been made, it's not possible to reverse or cancel the slip anymore than embracing the fate, therefore it's not that we should limit our learning scope to our fellow gamblers but the final decision to take must always come from us.

It's silly if anyone blames his losses on gambling on anyone else. Even if they blame someone, will they get their money back? No 
Those who do that live in a fool's paradise and also they are only satisfied and justify these losses by blaming others.

It is about the ego mate, most gamblers maintain their EGO in winning so meaning one they lose at least blaming others will bring them better feelings as they plans once again to try their luck.

because check their attitude ,are they even thanking others when they won? of course not means this is one way to boost their Ego.

Also, i have one question for everyone who wants to blame others for losses, were you forced to do gambling by anyone? If not, then how can you say that another person is responsible for your loss? And more importantly, in case you win, will you also make responsible another person for this?

you don't have to ask them because they even know nothing about how they lose because they are being blocked by the promises of wining things that istead them forever until they finally realized their mistakes .

[len01]

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Also, i have one question for everyone who wants to blame others for losses, were you forced to do gambling by anyone? If not, then how can you say that another person is responsible for your loss? And more importantly, in case you win, will you also make responsible another person for this?

you don't have to ask them because they even know nothing about how they lose because they are being blocked by the promises of wining things that istead them forever until they finally realized their mistakes .

someone who gambles with his friends and suddenly may feel hesitant not to continue betting and sometimes friends can be a factor in losing or losing in gambling. for example I bet at a gambling place with $ 100 and after that I hesitated to stop for a moment with the remaining $ 50 but my friend said come on, you will definitely win and subconsciously my mind was influenced and tried again to bet after that, I lost again and ran out of all the money.
from incidents like this blaming a friend in the right circumstances or circumstances is fine because indeed a friend sometimes gives motivation or bad words when gambling persuades to bet again and lose. maybe blaming a friend is just a form of rebound.

[maydna]

Also, i have one question for everyone who wants to blame others for losses, were you forced to do gambling by anyone? If not, then how can you say that another person is responsible for your loss? And more importantly, in case you win, will you also make responsible another person for this?

you don't have to ask them because they even know nothing about how they lose because they are being blocked by the promises of wining things that istead them forever until they finally realized their mistakes .

Those who blame others will say that it was because of solicitations from others that they could say so easily. But they also have to realize that no one can force them not to gamble, and if they do end up gambling, it will be because of their own fault. But the average person won't say that and will still blame others because blaming others is easy to do. And actions like that are not a form of responsibility because they can do that again in other ways. So you should never invite people like that because they can blame us.

[FanEagle]

Only if there is actually a technical problem where I gamble. DO not go around and say that gambling is your fault and losing is your fault all the time. Obviously if you gamble properly and nothing is wrong and you lose that means there is nobody else to blame and I agree to that.

However, I have been gambling in crypto world ever since first satoshi dice that was on-chain happened, so I have been here for 10 years and I have seen technical issues before as well. There are situations where you are not going to end up with anything decent if you keep gambling that way. I know that not a lot of people ended up with anything decent on the long run, but that doesn't mean that I have to actually trust the systems neither, just make sure all technical aspects are correct.