Do you blame someone for your gambling losses?

[Victorybit1]

It is not right to blame someone for a game that he loses, because losing is not intentional,no one wants to lose,and as such,If one loses it is something that will cause pain and not happiness.
But sometimes,greed can make someone lose too, because if you have played and won,there is no need of you playing again more to get everything in just a day, anything that makes you play more,there is every tendency that you must lose.Therefore,if one has gambled a day,and he wins,he should try as much as hold himself to avoid playing more,else,losing awaits him.

Most person and gambler tend to lash out their loses on someone else and for me that's a sign of irresponsibility because before ever you are going into gambling you would have known that the game isn't a game that guarantees only winning infact losing is one of the core results in Gambling so that should be at the back of every gamblers head and not passing blame out on other persons.

[bettercrypto]

If we know for ourselves that we are the ones who made the gambling bet, and obviously we are the ones to blame for why we lost, it is not right to blame others for our gambling
loss when we ourselves played and bet on gambling.

So for me, it was right that they were sentenced; they were really lucky because they were allowed to get bail, but what they did was not really right.

[angrybirdy]

If we know for ourselves that we are the ones who made the gambling bet, and obviously we are the ones to blame for why we lost, it is not right to blame others for our gambling
loss when we ourselves played and bet on gambling.

So for me, it was right that they were sentenced; they were really lucky because they were allowed to get bail, but what they did was not really right.

That's right, we have to admit our own mistakes, it's not right to find someone else to criticize or blame because from the beginning no one pushed you to do that thing, not unless someone else forced you to gamble and against your will , but no, the actions you did are your choice, so we should know how to hold accountability for our own actions because the process of acceptance will only be accelerated if you know for yourself that you made a mistake and not someone else.

[Pandu Geddon]

If we know for ourselves that we are the ones who made the gambling bet, and obviously we are the ones to blame for why we lost, it is not right to blame others for our gambling
loss when we ourselves played and bet on gambling.

So for me, it was right that they were sentenced; they were really lucky because they were allowed to get bail, but what they did was not really right.

That's right, we have to admit our own mistakes, it's not right to find someone else to criticize or blame because from the beginning no one pushed you to do that thing, not unless someone else forced you to gamble and against your will , but no, the actions you did are your choice, so we should know how to hold accountability for our own actions because the process of acceptance will only be accelerated if you know for yourself that you made a mistake and not someone else.

We really have to realize that, but sometimes we also feel regret when we bet based on a friend's direction, and result in defeat.
Gambling activities are indeed very good for us to do alone. although some people used to gamble in the company of their colleagues. I also sometimes do that, and suggestions from friends sometimes make us follow them.
Even though it's like that, we must remain aware that we are the ones playing and everything is our will. So whatever risk we take, we accept it.

[Hirose UK]

It is not right to blame someone for a game that he loses, because losing is not intentional,no one wants to lose,and as such,If one loses it is something that will cause pain and not happiness.
But sometimes,greed can make someone lose too, because if you have played and won,there is no need of you playing again more to get everything in just a day, anything that makes you play more,there is every tendency that you must lose.Therefore,if one has gambled a day,and he wins,he should try as much as hold himself to avoid playing more,else,losing awaits him.

If we start because our money is our money and it is not anyone else's, then things are going to change and they are going to be seen from another point of view, therefore if we are playing and taking risks, it is up to us if we listen to someone's advice. , nobody forces us to play like them, others can tell us what they want, but others are others, if I don't Want to follow the advice of others but rather what I think, my intuition then I do it, then that prevents Blame others, you cannot avoid blame if our destiny decision is wrong, that had to happen because it was like that, that is the Way I see this.

Yes, because gambling has many risks that must be faced and the use of money in gambling will have an impact on the risk of loss, from this it is clear that every gambler should accept defeat and accept that his money must be lost if he decides to gamble.
We as gamblers have different rights and mindsets, we can determine what we should do and what we should avoid because everything will come back to us regarding the final result.
Many people may provide suggestions, some even try to influence us by providing predictions or ways of playing that are considered good, but we ourselves determine whether it is appropriate or not.
So when something bad happens, such as losing, it is at our own risk as gamblers, even though we follow other people gambling methods.
Blaming other people is the same as not being responsible for our own decisions and of course it is pointless because it will never change whatever has happened.

[junder]

What you say is true, no matter how we try, even if it is based on instructions from experienced gamblers, if we don't have luck in gambling then there will be no winnings to be had. because in any gambling game, in my opinion, winning is based on luck, including gambling that is based on skill to be able to play it.

In fact, not everyone believes in what luck is because they will definitely think that their winnings are purely due to their own skills and learning from their own experience, even though it is actually luck that gives them victory, many do not understand the concept of Luck and Bad Luck in gamblers, as For example, if a person gambles and wins, it is luck for him and for someone who loses at gambling, it is bad luck for him, but that is just an expression and proverb in my view because we cannot define in detail what true luck is, but we know that all wins cannot be separated from the luck I mentioned earlier.

All gambling requires a lot of experience and skill because it is only a starting point to strengthen the bet and in order to win because basically the result is still luck too, maybe we can just take an example, for example, or say when we bet on sports betting where the team is the strongest. losing to a bottom team can be said to be luck for the winner and betting on an underdog or bottom team, in contrast to when you bet on a top team or favorite team you may experience bad luck and defeat.

Well, there are also some people who gamble without believing in luck which will give them a win, they have their own strategy to be able to win, but in my opinion all gambling has the role of luck which will help them win. I have a friend who may have been brainwashed by gambling so that he thinks that the gambling he does ends up losing, it means saving money, and one day he can get a win that might even exceed the money he lost in the gambling he did. , in my opinion that is not entirely true, each person has their own rights, but we must be able to have limits so as not to get too much hope from gambling completely.
Indeed, in gambling, everything can change, I myself have experienced where I had a remaining balance that I didn't know was left over when I was gambling, and what is unique is also interesting, in my opinion, the remaining balance that I have is only enough for one round with the same number of bets. It's indeed the lowest, I clicked on it on a whim but instead I got a multiplier which could make me win far more than the remaining balance I had. From here I believe that luck does have a big role in slot gambling, but I think it's the same with other types of gambling.

and some people really can't accept their losses, sometimes they are gambling with their friends and other friends give advice but instead the existing balance runs out, sometimes because the person with the balance can't accept the loss he can blame his friend. , but I don't think it's ethical for him to blame other people or his friends. because as I said, luck plays a big role in gambling, because losing is something that is certain to happen when gambling is done.

[zuzie]

That's right, the key is in yourself, namely the gambler must be responsible for himself for what he has done, whether the results are profitable or not. Gamblers must be wise in accepting and responding to it.
Agree with you that gambling is irregular or there is no certainty in it, the safest thing is to bet according to our abilities, imitating other people is the wrong decision, especially if the results are often losing and we cannot accept it. the point where we blame others. then it is a stupid action because we should not do something in such a way, you could say we are not wise and responsible gamblers.

Not all gamblers think the same, and the behavior of gamblers varies from person to person. Both addicted and non-addicted gamblers can lose, but blaming someone for it is entirely preposterous. Just as it would not be acceptable if I were to blame someone else for one's crime, blaming another person for a loss due to one's own fault is also an act which is never acceptable. But as far as I know professional gamblers or those who have good idea about gambling never bother about blaming others. Because there is no benefit to oneself by blaming others. Rather, bad relations will be formed with the one who will be imposed. People who do such things definitely do not have proper knowledge about gambling.

Of course, every gambler has different characters and thoughts regarding gambling and some people will accept and some will not accept the losses they have experienced. and for people who are addicted to gambling, it is true that what you said is the majority of them who have not been able to accept this incident because what they hope to never get is winning, so many addicts chase this victory by gambling continuously.
And for professional gamblers, they definitely have a good mindset and understanding that losing is part of the risk in gambling, so they assume it will definitely happen and they don't play too much.

[topbitcoin]

Of course, every gambler has different characters and thoughts regarding gambling and some people will accept and some will not accept the losses they have experienced. and for people who are addicted to gambling, it is true that what you said is the majority of them who have not been able to accept this incident because what they hope to never get is winning, so many addicts chase this victory by gambling continuously.
And for professional gamblers, they definitely have a good mindset and understanding that losing is part of the risk in gambling, so they assume it will definitely happen and they don't play too much.

Even though what you said is true in that we can definitely know that there will be a lot of traits that a gambler has but in the end we also have to know that when blaming someone or something when losing in gambling is a silly thing and it's childish because they can't make a more decent thought for their age that is legal to gamble.
If that's the case why would they gamble because it's not a question of addiction or not but whether or not they are able to cope with the attitude we have when we are in a gambling situation.

We must be aware that when someone is prepared to gamble in the end they must accept the risk when they lose and whatever the outcome in gambling they must accept it with readiness because it would be very silly when someone is gambling but not ready to lose considering that in the end when we are in a gambling, we should be aware that losing is the most likely to happen.

[Dr.Bitcoin_Strange]

It is not right to blame someone for a game that he loses, because losing is not intentional,no one wants to lose,and as such,If one loses it is something that will cause pain and not happiness.
But sometimes,greed can make someone lose too, because if you have played and won,there is no need of you playing again more to get everything in just a day, anything that makes you play more,there is every tendency that you must lose.Therefore,if one has gambled a day,and he wins,he should try as much as hold himself to avoid playing more,else,losing awaits him.

Obviously, there are people who blame others for their losses, but all those kinds of blame are born from a lack of understanding of what gambling totally entails. 

Take, for example, that I am your friend and you are a very old and experienced gambler, while I was just a new gambler, and you decided to give me some of your predictions and asked me to stake on the game with $200, stating that you are very sure that the game will be successful but unfortunately the game got busted. What do you think will happen? Of course, you know I will put all the blame on you for advising me to even stake such a huge amount on one game. 

So, there are reasons why some people blame others for their gambling losses. experience gambling, don't do that. 

[Zanab247]

It is not right to blame someone for a game that he loses, because losing is not intentional,no one wants to lose,and as such,If one loses it is something that will cause pain and not happiness.
But sometimes,greed can make someone lose too, because if you have played and won,there is no need of you playing again more to get everything in just a day, anything that makes you play more,there is every tendency that you must lose.Therefore,if one has gambled a day,and he wins,he should try as much as hold himself to avoid playing more,else,losing awaits him.

If you win, you will not blame someone that help you, so you don't need to blame the person that help you for your loss because is a game of luck and nobody is perfect in the gambling, which you don't allow anybody to deceive you that they are perfect to help you winning all the time in gambling.

That is why we use to encourage some gamblers to make gambling fun so that when you lose, you will not be sad for people to know that you have loss some thing special to you because if you lose today, you can win tomorrow, when you make gambling a fun and you will not blame anybody for your loss.

Winning and continue gambling is the fault of the gambler, when he later lose all in the gambling because you need to take a break from the day when you win, and it will allow you to know some of the games that make you win .

[Slow death]

It is not right to blame someone for a game that he loses, because losing is not intentional,no one wants to lose,and as such,If one loses it is something that will cause pain and not happiness.
But sometimes,greed can make someone lose too, because if you have played and won,there is no need of you playing again more to get everything in just a day, anything that makes you play more,there is every tendency that you must lose.Therefore,if one has gambled a day,and he wins,he should try as much as hold himself to avoid playing more,else,losing awaits him.

What happens is that most people hate losing and when they lose they always look for a justification for the defeat but always in the justification they don't blame themselves for the defeats, they will blame the person who involved them in gambling, that's why talking about gambling with friends and relatives there is a great risk that one day they will hate you and blame you for getting them involved in gambling. I've seen this, because this type of thing has happened to me. I told my friend about gambling, particularly sports betting. that day I had been right on my sports bets so I told him that I won on the sports betting site, I also told him the name of the site and the amount I won

So he was very interested in starting to make sports bets, I told him everything, I explained to him how I analyzed the games. I don't know if he followed exactly what I told him about analyzing games and watching videos about bankroll management and more about sports betting, so I didn't talk to him for a while. I didn't know that the reason he didn't talk to me for a long time was because the guy was angry because he lost money in sports betting and I was very shocked when one day I meet him and he tells me that he lost a lot in sports betting, the tone of the his voice, it was clear to me that he is blaming me for his losses

[Doan9269]

It is not right to blame someone for a game that he loses, because losing is not intentional,no one wants to lose,and as such,If one loses it is something that will cause pain and not happiness.

Well said, we don't have to put the whole blame on anyone for being responsible for our losses while gambling, its our own responsibility to take charge of every of our games played, we should stake base on the capacity of how we can afford, we cannot prevent loosing neither can we make winning by all means, so also is our right to determine on who influences on our gambling and not

[AnonBitCoiner]

We really have to realize that, but sometimes we also feel regret when we bet based on a friend's direction, and result in defeat.
Gambling activities are indeed very good for us to do alone. although some people used to gamble in the company of their colleagues. I also sometimes do that, and suggestions from friends sometimes make us follow them.
Even though it's like that, we must remain aware that we are the ones playing and everything is our will. So whatever risk we take, we accept it.

If loss is in your fate then you will lose whether you follow the suggestion of your friend or decide by yourself to bet. Gambling is not about your strategies and knowledge but it's about your good or bad luck so don't feel regret after losing money through putting bets on your friends suggestion.

If you gamble alone then it is also a good idea because neither you will feel regret nor you will blame others and one of the benefits of gambling alone is that you will not quarrel with your friend for money which is done by most of the gamblers.

[Fortify]

Court sentences mother, son to 7 years imprisonment and what did they do? Court sentences mother, son to 7 years imprisonment

The mother and the son after gambling away 5.6 million naira, that is about $8,000. When the reality dawned on them, they gave false information in petition, accusing someone of fraudulently transferring the fund from their Opay account to the sport betting account without their authorization.

Could this be a case of making someone pay for what they didn't eat or a case of double standard.

Bet as you can sustain and not allow your emotions have a better part of you.

This is just basic fraud and not a particularly clever performance either. These online financial companies are very sophisticated in what they can track and most users won't have a clue about what they're really monitoring with every single transaction. What's strange about this story however is that a judge was so harsh on them, when presumably the bank never paid out the claimed loss and it was just a lie that lead to them not benefiting at all, unless there is more to the story that we are unable to see. In many countries these people would get a much shorter sentence but presumably get their credit score ruined for up to 6 years, which can be a much worse penalty as it makes it much harder to survive and pay basic bills.

[irhact]

 Some individuals, out of frustration would always want to blame someone for their own mistakes. However, this is a case of greed and wickedness, and I blame the mother more, she's failed as a mother for allowing her son to get to the point of betting with the sum of $8000. Parents are supposed to be their children's guidance, they're supposed to help them make the right decisions, but out of greed such mother had the guts to support her son the gamble with a whopping sum of $8000.

 Sometimes people don't think of the consequences of their actions, first they made the wrong choice of gambling with a huge sum of money they'll end up regretting and after they lost, they tried to play smart and defraud another person to pay for their foolishness. Well serves them right and if I were the accused I'll even sue them for defamation, so next time they won't even think of such fraudulent act.

[Zigabel]

I completely agree with you. Gambling is an individual choice and with it comes individual responsibility for the outcomes. Its all too common for people to seek someone else to blame when things don't go their way. While shifting blame might offer temporary relief it doesn't change the reality of the situation. Recognizing and accepting the results of one's actions is not only part of gambling but a fundamental aspect of mature behavior.

Taking responsibility of your gambling habit is something that every gambler should so without having to be told because gambling is personal and a choice for your own way of entertainment or earnings depending on what you wish to do with your gambling habit but then making sure to take responsibility is very paramount. Blaming anyone at any point for your losses in gamble is sounding irresponsible to me because you took the decision regardless of any influence such person whom you are blaming had on you as at the time of gambling, gamble for fun and not to have to push blames around, how about when it goes your way would you remember to appreciate the person who introduced you if not then always making sure to take responsibility is important.

Just like you did mentioned it actually changes nothing if you push blames around because that wouldn't stop the money from been lost or neither is the casino going to make refunds so it's to accept take responsibility and moved on probably hope to win some other day and recover.

[rachael9385]

Even someone took them to play on the game and they finally loss the game with the amount showcase here, they don't have to nlame anyone but o themselves. Because there were two options for them to select. Either they say no or accept the influence. And they accept the influence and luck gone out from them. And I don't think in the amount would just leave the opay without their permission. That their part of the story is like a blasphemy because Opay is one of the best online banking apps in the country.
And we don't have to blame anyone foe our downfall and mistakes we do in life. Gambling is purely for luck and if you don't have the luck to win and anyhow you try there would be no win. So they should not blame the App.

Some times even when they don't want to gamble, but the influence of others gambling will make them to gambe. The reason why I don't like to put my self in pressures is because when am doing things on pressure I make most mistakes because I am not well concentrated, so am saying this because those that's gambling they might have enough money more that you and the amount they can risk might be bigger than what you can afford to lose if you have it. Trying to gamble because you see others gambling is not a good idea. It's easy to lose all the money a gambler have because Gamble is about luck not skills.

[zuzie]

Of course, every gambler has different characters and thoughts regarding gambling and some people will accept and some will not accept the losses they have experienced. and for people who are addicted to gambling, it is true that what you said is the majority of them who have not been able to accept this incident because what they hope to never get is winning, so many addicts chase this victory by gambling continuously.
And for professional gamblers, they definitely have a good mindset and understanding that losing is part of the risk in gambling, so they assume it will definitely happen and they don't play too much.

Even though what you said is true in that we can definitely know that there will be a lot of traits that a gambler has but in the end we also have to know that when blaming someone or something when losing in gambling is a silly thing and it's childish because they can't make a more decent thought for their age that is legal to gamble.
If that's the case why would they gamble because it's not a question of addiction or not but whether or not they are able to cope with the attitude we have when we are in a gambling situation.

We must be aware that when someone is prepared to gamble in the end they must accept the risk when they lose and whatever the outcome in gambling they must accept it with readiness because it would be very silly when someone is gambling but not ready to lose considering that in the end when we are in a gambling, we should be aware that losing is the most likely to happen.

Yes, with a change in behavior in a gambler when he often loses and he takes out his anger on other people then he is also an unprofessional gambler because he easily gets angry with anyone in order to reduce his feelings of annoyance but this will actually cause him to add to a lot of problems. because it could be that the person being scolded does not accept it and there could be a misunderstanding.
Yes, you are right, we have to be properly aware that gambling has a very high level of risk and we have to accept all the good and bad experiences willingly, even though sometimes it is painful for us.

[Jody.Drummer]

In my opinion we absolutely cannot blame other people for the defeat we experience at the end of the session, because after all the session runs on your own decision, even though for example there are people who give you advice to bet on something with a certain bet amount but however you still You can reject it for whatever reason you have and if you agree with something suggested by other people, especially some of your friends, and then in the end you lose, then it is clearly your own fault because you followed other people's directions while in gambling it is clear that this is absolutely not the case at all. You can never find out about the results at the end of the session, especially wins.

This is the reason why we are always advised to gamble better in our own way and with our own feelings because it is clear that whatever the result, you will not blame other people, especially when you lose and if at that time it turns out you win then other people will not ask or claim a share of the winnings. This is because you gamble in your own way and with your own feelings. And one thing, if it turns out that they advise you to use force in making decisions or that means other people force you to follow their advice with various things, especially with threats, for example, then it clearly makes sense if when you lose you blame them.

[Fredomago]

Some individuals, out of frustration would always want to blame someone for their own mistakes. However, this is a case of greed and wickedness, and I blame the mother more, she's failed as a mother for allowing her son to get to the point of betting with the sum of $8000. Parents are supposed to be their children's guidance, they're supposed to help them make the right decisions, but out of greed such mother had the guts to support her son the gamble with a whopping sum of $8000.

And also with addiction between the two of them, the guidance that supposely a parent should provide was already been dominated by that addicitons inside them, and without any other ways they pretend and did try to point fingers to other people trying to escape with the mistake that they've done, but no escape as evidences shows up the crime that they've made.

Sometimes people don't think of the consequences of their actions, first they made the wrong choice of gambling with a huge sum of money they'll end up regretting and after they lost, they tried to play smart and defraud another person to pay for their foolishness. Well serves them right and if I were the accused I'll even sue them for defamation, so next time they won't even think of such fraudulent act.

Ending it up with regret and with the outcome of the crime that they've made, they will need to suffer for this which if they just treat it correctly they'll not go up to this far and lose all those huge amount of money.