Keeping your gambling habit a secret.

[Vaskiy]

Well, I gamble online, and almost nobody knows that I gamble except for some of my internet friends whom I have never met. People in my country see gambling as bad because gambling addiction leads to doing wrong things. At least, this is what they think because we have seen many people sell their assets to gamble, and they end up losing them.

I gamble online, and I never share this with people in real life. The only exception is my brother who gambles as well, and he is unlikely to share it with anyone else. So, nobody knows that I gamble.

It's not the wrong one,you just want to keep the secret of gambling is your opinion for the privacy.But you should be careful with the money you are using for the gambling,because you should not use the black money to keep them secret.Because the black money in the gambling is never accepted one,it's strongly against many of the gambling sites.Not all the people get addicted to the gambling,only few people try to get money return from the gambling and once they get some loss.Loss and profit from the gambling is common in the gambling.But people get worry on loss and get over excited on the small profit.But being neutral at all the situation is the most important one.

Personally I think keeping ones gambling habbit a secret has advantageous effect and disadvantageous effect as well and I will elaborate a little on it.
The good thing about keeping ones gambling habbit a secret is that whenever the said gambler happens to win big winnings, no body would know about it thereby reducing the chances of being attacked or forced to make ones winning with people. But the bad side of it is that if the person happens to be gambling addict who tends not to control himself about gambling, he'll rarely stop the addict because of the fact that closed friends and relatives who were supposed to call him to order are ignorant of the fact that the said person is a gambler

Agreed, when he doesn't feel good it is a must for him to share with his close ones. Such act will help the gambler to limit himself as well as doesn't let him think of taking unwanted decisions on major loss. Most of the time a gambler tend to keep it secret when the gambler had lost big. If he had won, surely he'll share it atleast with his family members. In specific atleast with his wife, when it is a loss the person will somehow manages to arrange for the lost amount and never reveals. This is where the problem arises and could lead to massive debts, because I personally did it in the past.

[stomachgrowls]

Well, I gamble online, and almost nobody knows that I gamble except for some of my internet friends whom I have never met. People in my country see gambling as bad because gambling addiction leads to doing wrong things. At least, this is what they think because we have seen many people sell their assets to gamble, and they end up losing them.

I gamble online, and I never share this with people in real life. The only exception is my brother who gambles as well, and he is unlikely to share it with anyone else. So, nobody knows that I gamble.

It's not the wrong one,you just want to keep the secret of gambling is your opinion for the privacy.But you should be careful with the money you are using for the gambling,because you should not use the black money to keep them secret.Because the black money in the gambling is never accepted one,it's strongly against many of the gambling sites.Not all the people get addicted to the gambling,only few people try to get money return from the gambling and once they get some loss.Loss and profit from the gambling is common in the gambling.But people get worry on loss and get over excited on the small profit.But being neutral at all the situation is the most important one.

Personally I think keeping ones gambling habbit a secret has advantageous effect and disadvantageous effect as well and I will elaborate a little on it.
The good thing about keeping ones gambling habbit a secret is that whenever the said gambler happens to win big winnings, no body would know about it thereby reducing the chances of being attacked or forced to make ones winning with people. But the bad side of it is that if the person happens to be gambling addict who tends not to control himself about gambling, he'll rarely stop the addict because of the fact that closed friends and relatives who were supposed to call him to order are ignorant of the fact that the said person is a gambler

Agreed, when he doesn't feel good it is a must for him to share with his close ones. Such act will help the gambler to limit himself as well as doesn't let him think of taking unwanted decisions on major loss. Most of the time a gambler tend to keep it secret when the gambler had lost big. If he had won, surely he'll share it atleast with his family members. In specific atleast with his wife, when it is a loss the person will somehow manages to arrange for the lost amount and never reveals. This is where the problem arises and could lead to massive debts, because I personally did it in the past.

Just like on my situation on which i do keep secret on playing gambling games online on which i dont really like for my wife to catch me that im gambling because she would definitely be having that kind of reaction on which she would really be minding about the money and finances that you are really that spending on which it is really that supposed to be spent on important needs without even knowing that those funds are just extras
and this is what the reason i would really be that keeping secret my gambling activities which i dont really see any problems because if ever i got caught then i do just simply tell that this is just my first time on playing. 
Also when it comes to relatives or people around then i dont really like on having that kind of impression on which you would really be making yourself that look like a bad man just because you do gamble.
We know that the community would be always be having that kind of impression which is really that too negative in the time that you are talking about gambling which this is the main reason
on why people would be keeping it secret unless if its religious reasons or beliefs it is one of the reasons too.

[TelolettOm]

The good thing about keeping ones gambling habbit a secret is that whenever the said gambler happens to win big winnings, no body would know about it

Indeed. No one knows when we won a big prize or we lose a big money.
If people know it, sometimes they may take a loans with us suddenly. Or be obsessed to do the same thing. If they don't have good knowledge about gambling, it may trigger him to addiction or losing huge money. They may blame us because they are inspired by our winnings.  

But the bad side of it is that if the person happens to be gambling addict who tends not to control himself about gambling, he'll rarely stop the addict because of the fact that closed friends and relatives who were supposed to call him to order are ignorant of the fact that the said person is a gambler

I think we don't need to keep a secret about gambling to our family (especially to the wife). We only don't need to tell our gambling habits to other people such as neighborhood and friends. Sure, our family need to know it because they can help us if there is something bad to happen with us. For example, if we looks to be addicted in gambling. Our family can remind us to stop it if they see somethings badly with our gambling habits.

[n0ne]

But the bad side of it is that if the person happens to be gambling addict who tends not to control himself about gambling, he'll rarely stop the addict because of the fact that closed friends and relatives who were supposed to call him to order are ignorant of the fact that the said person is a gambler

I think we don't need to keep a secret about gambling to our family (especially to the wife). We only don't need to tell our gambling habits to other people such as neighborhood and friends. Sure, our family need to know it because they can help us if there is something bad to happen with us. For example, if we looks to be addicted in gambling. Our family can remind us to stop it if they see somethings badly with our gambling habits.

Thats true, whatever the scenario we should keep things informed with wife. None is sure of what happens the next minute and we all are dependents. When we're sad and if someone is there to hear our difficulty, it'll be so good and makes us come out of the difficulty at the earliest. Same is with gambling, whenever we loss our mind used to think badly and sometimes even to end life. At such situation sharing with wife or the close ones will give the solution and consolation. This could change our mind and stay positive and lets us to have control.

[ethereumhunter]

Am very sure that part of the causes of addiction is when living a quite and private lifestyle of a gambler, but Immediately the gambler sees that things have gone out of hands, they tends to voice out for help towards their addiction, there must also be a good and expected perfect gambling experience we should live as gamblers we shouldn't take the advantage of privacy to our own negative influence which may affect us because we abused the privilege in privacy to get us addicted, we must play with caution.

It will be a good time to heal their addiction if they are aware enough to ask for help to overcome their addiction. But sadly, we have seen what happens to gambling addicts where they keep hiding their addiction and don't ask for help even if they find it difficult to get out of their room. Every gambler must have good and bad experiences in his life. If the gambler can have good self-control, he will not experience gambling addiction and will only consider gambling as entertainment. He can also do other things because gambling cannot tempt him to stay in the casino and gamble non-stop. We can hide our gambling activities from others as long as we can control ourselves and not become addicted.

[Learn Bitcoin]

Well, I gamble online, and almost nobody knows that I gamble except for some of my internet friends whom I have never met. People in my country see gambling as bad because gambling addiction leads to doing wrong things. At least, this is what they think because we have seen many people sell their assets to gamble, and they end up losing them.

I gamble online, and I never share this with people in real life. The only exception is my brother who gambles as well, and he is unlikely to share it with anyone else. So, nobody knows that I gamble.

It's not the wrong one,you just want to keep the secret of gambling is your opinion for the privacy.But you should be careful with the money you are using for the gambling,because you should not use the black money to keep them secret.Because the black money in the gambling is never accepted one,it's strongly against many of the gambling sites.Not all the people get addicted to the gambling,only few people try to get money return from the gambling and once they get some loss.Loss and profit from the gambling is common in the gambling.But people get worry on loss and get over excited on the small profit.But being neutral at all the situation is the most important one.

It's not about black money. Only dumb people choose to use their black money on online casinos. If someone deposits a good amount in an online casino, they should be prepared to submit their KYC on that platform. I don't think anyone will submit their KYC online if they have black money. There is no reason to use a casino to make their money white while several better options exist.

They can easily use Bitcoin mixers to mix their money for privacy reasons, and they can use trading platforms to shuffle their money. Then they can use casinos as well. But when w regular gamblers want to keep their gambling habit secret, it's because they care about their privacy.

[Beparanf]

Am very sure that part of the causes of addiction is when living a quite and private lifestyle of a gambler, but Immediately the gambler sees that things have gone out of hands, they tends to voice out for help towards their addiction, there must also be a good and expected perfect gambling experience we should live as gamblers we shouldn't take the advantage of privacy to our own negative influence which may affect us because we abused the privilege in privacy to get us addicted, we must play with caution.

It will be a good time to heal their addiction if they are aware enough to ask for help to overcome their addiction. But sadly, we have seen what happens to gambling addicts where they keep hiding their addiction and don't ask for help even if they find it difficult to get out of their room. Every gambler must have good and bad experiences in his life. If the gambler can have good self-control, he will not experience gambling addiction and will only consider gambling as entertainment. He can also do other things because gambling cannot tempt him to stay in the casino and gamble non-stop.

Most of the gambling that I know show a sign of addiction such as they are keep going to the casino in regular basis and they keep selling things at lower market value price just to have money. It’s easy to spot an addict gambler when he is a player of physical casino compared to online casino but I’m sure he is displaying a sign of addiction to the people he live with if he is really a gambling addict. There’s no such thing as silent gambling addict or else they are not really addicted and just having fun gambling because he will surely losing a lot if he spend a lot of time on gambling that will surely affect his mental state.

We can hide our gambling activities from others as long as we can control ourselves and not become addicted.

Ture. Anyone can hide gambling activities but the sign of addiction can’t be hide because you will be affected financially and emotionally.

[Strongkored]

It will be a good time to heal their addiction if they are aware enough to ask for help to overcome their addiction. But sadly, we have seen what happens to gambling addicts where they keep hiding their addiction and don't ask for help even if they find it difficult to get out of their room. Every gambler must have good and bad experiences in his life. If the gambler can have good self-control, he will not experience gambling addiction and will only consider gambling as entertainment. He can also do other things because gambling cannot tempt him to stay in the casino and gamble non-stop. We can hide our gambling activities from others as long as we can control ourselves and not become addicted.

Rarely is an addict aware that he is addicted and will try to seek help. We can see how drug addicts end up dying in their addiction as well as in gambling, and the judgment of others will also prevent them from telling them that they are addicted so many will choose to keep it a secret unless the people closest to them see or are aware of this and show concern by taking him to a therapist to get proper treatment.
So the closest person has a role to pay attention to when there is a strange thing that appears in relatives or other close people, because addiction will always show changes in attitudes such as preferring to spend time alone and addicts will need relatively longer time to play that's why finally his mind is filled with gambling and he is no longer able to control it very well.

[Yamifoud]

It will be a good time to heal their addiction if they are aware enough to ask for help to overcome their addiction. But sadly, we have seen what happens to gambling addicts where they keep hiding their addiction and don't ask for help even if they find it difficult to get out of their room. Every gambler must have good and bad experiences in his life. If the gambler can have good self-control, he will not experience gambling addiction and will only consider gambling as entertainment. He can also do other things because gambling cannot tempt him to stay in the casino and gamble non-stop. We can hide our gambling activities from others as long as we can control ourselves and not become addicted.

Rarely is an addict aware that he is addicted and will try to seek help. We can see how drug addicts end up dying in their addiction as well as in gambling, and the judgment of others will also prevent them from telling them that they are addicted so many will choose to keep it a secret unless the people closest to them see or are aware of this and show concern by taking him to a therapist to get proper treatment.
So the closest person has a role to pay attention to when there is a strange thing that appears in relatives or other close people, because addiction will always show changes in attitudes such as preferring to spend time alone and addicts will need relatively longer time to play that's why finally his mind is filled with gambling and he is no longer able to control it very well.

That's the problem and we need help but instead, some of our family members will reject and blame us.

But for me, keeping it secret is not the solution to choose. It was better for them (family and closest friends) to be aware of the addiction that we have for at least if they will try to help then they can do it. We better let them know because no matter how hard to keep it secret, there is a time to come when someone will know it. We don't need to be afraid of what they can say to us but it was best for us to save from falling into addiction.

[CarnagexD]

It will be a good time to heal their addiction if they are aware enough to ask for help to overcome their addiction. But sadly, we have seen what happens to gambling addicts where they keep hiding their addiction and don't ask for help even if they find it difficult to get out of their room. Every gambler must have good and bad experiences in his life. If the gambler can have good self-control, he will not experience gambling addiction and will only consider gambling as entertainment. He can also do other things because gambling cannot tempt him to stay in the casino and gamble non-stop. We can hide our gambling activities from others as long as we can control ourselves and not become addicted.

Rarely is an addict aware that he is addicted and will try to seek help. We can see how drug addicts end up dying in their addiction as well as in gambling, and the judgment of others will also prevent them from telling them that they are addicted so many will choose to keep it a secret unless the people closest to them see or are aware of this and show concern by taking him to a therapist to get proper treatment.
So the closest person has a role to pay attention to when there is a strange thing that appears in relatives or other close people, because addiction will always show changes in attitudes such as preferring to spend time alone and addicts will need relatively longer time to play that's why finally his mind is filled with gambling and he is no longer able to control it very well.

I love the idea in here.  most often the real struggle for addicts to even realize they're in too deep. It's heartbreaking right? to see how some folks or some of our friends end up stuck in their addiction without even realizing it. And yeah, the fear of being judged they would keep it all hush-hush on a bush.

I think it would be helpful if we have someone who can help us notice the weird shifts in behavior that might signal trouble. those who offer genuine support instead of judgment is so important. If we can nudge them toward getting help, like seeing a therapist, it could make a huge difference too. But if you think you can't afford it, just reconnect with your family.

[bettercrypto]

I'm not addicted to gambling because I don't gamble often, maybe I only play 3-4 times a month, and when I gamble, my wife knows it, she also knows that the amount I gamble is in the amount of Only 30$ will not exceed that.

When I run out and lose, I stop immediately, and when I experience luck and at the same time I suddenly win what I'm doing, I stop immediately and I withdraw what I won and I only have 30$ left over I'll try again next time I gamble. So I don't hide or keep a secret when I do gamble.

[AicecreaME]

I'm not addicted to gambling because I don't gamble often, maybe I only play 3-4 times a month, and when I gamble, my wife knows it, she also knows that the amount I gamble is in the amount of Only 30$ will not exceed that.

When I run out and lose, I stop immediately, and when I experience luck and at the same time I suddenly win what I'm doing, I stop immediately and I withdraw what I won and I only have 30$ left over I'll try again next time I gamble. So I don't hide or keep a secret when I do gamble.

It's good that you managed to build this gambling habit and attitude. It's important that you hide no secrets from your wife because she's your partner for life after all. It isn't so sweet and nice if there will be a barrier between you two because that's not how marriage works. The moment you purposely didn't disclose something is the time trust can go away in a snap. Of course this excludes a few extra things such as surprise and the likes.

When it comes to finances, couples should have open communication because it is one of the leading causes of misunderstandings and fights. If you won't discuss how you will handle the finances in your household, you are waiting for a ticking bomb of resentment and disappointments from each other. Hence, it's important to discuss it as early as possible and during your entirety of marriage. The fund allocation for necessities and luxuries should be laid out. Pool of funds for the household and kid's need, then own budget for both of your hobbies and luxurious activities as well as for your own pampering for relaxation and stress reliever.

[tusandii]

We can hide our gambling activities from others as long as we can control ourselves and not become addicted.

Ture. Anyone can hide gambling activities but the sign of addiction can’t be hide because you will be affected financially and emotionally.

No, financial and emotional influences will not be able to make someone known by others that he is a gambling addict because not everyone in social life is open about finances and attitudes, many people are quiet so they tend to be more ignorant about everything and will socialize with others other people in the neighborhood.

Whether he is a gambling addict or still a novice gambler, I think they always cover up gambling activities that are carried out because most people think or look bad at gambling.

[Maslate]

We can hide our gambling activities from others as long as we can control ourselves and not become addicted.

Ture. Anyone can hide gambling activities but the sign of addiction can’t be hide because you will be affected financially and emotionally.

No, financial and emotional influences will not be able to make someone known by others that he is a gambling addict because not everyone in social life is open about finances and attitudes, many people are quiet so they tend to be more ignorant about everything and will socialize with others other people in the neighborhood.

Whether he is a gambling addict or still a novice gambler, I think they always cover up gambling activities that are carried out because most people think or look bad at gambling.

There is no need to keep your activities a secret because they aren't supposed to know in the first place as it's your own business and it's not those kind of things where you are vocally open to the public. Whatever we do, we do it for our own benefit and totally not because of them nor what they would think, we should practice that so that we will not be having some certain problems that shouldn't even be a problem for us.

[elevates]

Thats true, whatever the scenario we should keep things informed with wife. None is sure of what happens the next minute and we all are dependents. When we're sad and if someone is there to hear our difficulty, it'll be so good and makes us come out of the difficulty at the earliest. Same is with gambling, whenever we loss our mind used to think badly and sometimes even to end life. At such situation sharing with wife or the close ones will give the solution and consolation. This could change our mind and stay positive and lets us to have control.

It is very easy to say that anyone who is gambling should not hide his habit/addiction from his wife/partner. That is all hypothetical wherein in practice most men would never disclose their activities with their spouse or would be one. The reason is they do not want their relationship getting jeopardized because of such a habit. In general, women want their families to stay together but men are the ones who destroy their families. Those lies when they come out in the open are nothing but deceiving for a woman's faith and trust in his man.

[Negotiation]

Well, I gamble online, and almost nobody knows that I gamble except for some of my internet friends whom I have never met. People in my country see gambling as bad because gambling addiction leads to doing wrong things. At least, this is what they think because we have seen many people sell their assets to gamble, and they end up losing them.

I gamble online, and I never share this with people in real life. The only exception is my brother who gambles as well, and he is unlikely to share it with anyone else. So, nobody knows that I gamble.

It's not the wrong one,you just want to keep the secret of gambling is your opinion for the privacy.But you should be careful with the money you are using for the gambling,because you should not use the black money to keep them secret.Because the black money in the gambling is never accepted one,it's strongly against many of the gambling sites.Not all the people get addicted to the gambling,only few people try to get money return from the gambling and once they get some loss.Loss and profit from the gambling is common in the gambling.But people get worry on loss and get over excited on the small profit.But being neutral at all the situation is the most important one.

Black money for gambling is more risky it can't be kept for long because it is illegal also you are right if gambling can't control itself then it leads to more losses and nothing is hidden. There is more chance of losing than winning gambling addiction or gambling is a psychological tendency towards gambling, in which the sufferer cannot resist the urge to continue playing. It seems easy to profit easily, you lose money and try to earn it with unrealistic optimism destabilization of gambling behavior is depression.

[Issa56]

I'm not addicted to gambling because I don't gamble often, maybe I only play 3-4 times a month, and when I gamble, my wife knows it, she also knows that the amount I gamble is in the amount of Only 30$ will not exceed that.

When I run out and lose, I stop immediately, and when I experience luck and at the same time I suddenly win what I'm doing, I stop immediately and I withdraw what I won and I only have 30$ left over I'll try again next time I gamble. So I don't hide or keep a secret when I do gamble.

The only people that I know will have a problem disclosing their gambling activities with their wives are those who are addicted to gambling and spend a lot of money on gambling. How will your wife feel when she sees you wasting money on gambling? There are relevant things in the house that can be done with the money, but if you gamble responsibly and your wife knows that you are just doing that to have fun, then I don't think she is going to complain if she knows that you are a gambler and that you gamble responsibly. The amount some people gamble with is more than the amount they spend on their family members.

[Sakanwa]

I'm not addicted to gambling because I don't gamble often, maybe I only play 3-4 times a month, and when I gamble, my wife knows it, she also knows that the amount I gamble is in the amount of Only 30$ will not exceed that.

When I run out and lose, I stop immediately, and when I experience luck and at the same time I suddenly win what I'm doing, I stop immediately and I withdraw what I won and I only have 30$ left over I'll try again next time I gamble. So I don't hide or keep a secret when I do gamble.

The only people that I know will have a problem disclosing their gambling activities with their wives are those who are addicted to gambling and spend a lot of money on gambling. How will your wife feel when she sees you wasting money on gambling? There are relevant things in the house that can be done with the money, but if you gamble responsibly and your wife knows that you are just doing that to have fun, then I don't think she is going to complain if she knows that you are a gambler and that you gamble responsibly. The amount some people gamble with is more than the amount they spend on their family members.

Well,you are indeed correct,but I think one can disclose his gambling life to his wife when they solely depend on gambling for survival,in that case,the wife must know about it and either give her support to the husband.But any other reason why a man disclosed his gambling habbit to his wife,then the man should be ready to always be at war with his wife because no reasonable wife will allow her husband to constantly waste money on gambling,money that was supposed to be used for another thing will go for gambling which is very bad.However,some men have so much bond with their wife and won't want to do anything without their wife knowing,in this case,they can simply tell their wife when they win and when they lose because the wife knows about it.
Some men suffer depression due to a loss they had and won't tell their wife,rather they transfer aggression on there innocent wife at home,such men only want to break their home and nothing else.

[Dzwaafu11]

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Some people from the Muslim religion will not play the gambling because for their religious discipline.We should respect other religion for the mutual respect.But I had some friends from Muslim religion who was experienced gamblers.They say gambling doesn't affect  their religion,So everyone had their opinion about the gambling.I am a gambler since from my ten years and use to bet with my friends for the little thing and like this my gambling was begin.Gambling give me relaxation most of the time because of it's thrill output.

The truth is that gambling is prohibited in Islam, but as you know, we have individual differences, and it depends on how disciplined you are in your religion. We have people who, whatever money gambling can generate, will never gamble in there because it is prohibited and their religion does not support that, whereas there are people who gamble every day and still their religion makes it prohibited. Some people are after the money, while some people don't want to engage in such things because of what their religion says. Some people gamble because that is where they derive their happiness from. They have made gambling a way that will give them happiness, which some of their religions do not support, but because of their environment, they gamble since they are exposed to an environment with many gamblers.

[GigaBit]

I'm not addicted to gambling because I don't gamble often, maybe I only play 3-4 times a month, and when I gamble, my wife knows it, she also knows that the amount I gamble is in the amount of Only 30$ will not exceed that.

When I run out and lose, I stop immediately, and when I experience luck and at the same time I suddenly win what I'm doing, I stop immediately and I withdraw what I won and I only have 30$ left over I'll try again next time I gamble. So I don't hide or keep a secret when I do gamble.

The only people that I know will have a problem disclosing their gambling activities with their wives are those who are addicted to gambling and spend a lot of money on gambling. How will your wife feel when she sees you wasting money on gambling? There are relevant things in the house that can be done with the money, but if you gamble responsibly and your wife knows that you are just doing that to have fun, then I don't think she is going to complain if she knows that you are a gambler and that you gamble responsibly. The amount some people gamble with is more than the amount they spend on their family members.

There will be no peace in any family if the main earner is addicted to gambling. If a wife observe her husband's gambling ratio is so high and he loss more in gambling she may feel unhappy like her husband and usually the wife does not want her husband to focus more on gambling. I have never seen a wife who encouraged her husband to gamble. No matter what a gambler does throughout the day, no one will accept it if the results of his day's activities come home and affect the family. A gambler should devote enough time to the family as well as fully support the family financially.