Does it looks responsible as woman telling husband you gamble?

[EarnOnVictor]

What is even so secretive about gambling that we can't share with our spouse? Gambling is not criminal, and neither is it a stimulant that can injure one's life, it is just part of the way of life, an activity of betting, it should not be secretive at all, especially if we are wise about it. But if you know that your spouse would frown at it, it is better you quietly it immediately and quietly. That's if you can tell him or her directly. Still, I advise that people tell their spouse so that they know the direct response. Who knows, the whole situation might be surprising to some people as their spouse could accept it, especially if the gambler is living a quality life and is responsible towards gambling to the extent that people may not even know that such a person is gambling.

This is the kind of gambling lifestyle we want, everyone can be proud of this, unlike the way most people go about gambling which makes people view it as irresponsible. Lastly, good family members, especially couples should be able to know everything about themselves, so letting the spouse know about this is the best way out. Unfortunately, keeping it till the spouse detects by his or herself may lead to more issues/damage than telling him/her yourself.

Maybe for some people gambling is okay to be share to their spouse but for some people, that is a secret that no one needs to knows. As long as that person can be wise using gambling and can be a responsible gambler, she will not have a problem when playing gambling or after she finish playing gambling. But there are a chance for her to gets deeper in gambling, especially if she lose control while playing gambling. She will not gets a help from anyone when she gets a problem from gambling and that's why she must tells to her spouse about her gambling activity. If her spouse knows about her gambling activity and he is not agree with that, he can asks her to stops his gambling activity for her own good. Our spouse will suggest the best thing for us so we will not makes a problem for our family.

If someone used gambling as his lifestyle, he will not be able to follows because playing gambling needs money while we have many things to be filled. It's better we can used as an activity like the other activities and not playing gambling too often to avoids many problems or impacts that can occurs while we interact with gambling. If we wants to playing gambling, we must have self control and responsible in gambling so we don't have to lose much money and can still enjoy gambling as an entertainment.

I am not judging anyone but what you just mentioned in the first line is one of the issues with marriages these days, why end up with someone you can't share everything with in the first place? That's what the person will have to live with for the rest of his/her life which I don't think is cool. I understand that relationships are not the same and we have to "dance to the music as the beat sounds," nevertheless, if such a little matter can be hidden, much worse would be hidden/pretended as well which will not make the spouses to be plain with each other and I do not see that as a good relationship. This is sad. I do not want to sound like a relationship expert but a concerned fellow.

I won't ignore the fact that I love peace in every relationship, which will always make me advocate one mind in relationships, or quit if that is not possible to avoid future issues. Gambling matters is the easiest thing I believe any free spouse can discuss, and for the good of the family, the resolve of both of them should be the final. After all, gambling is not a must, you guys may resolve into better things that will even be more beneficial to the family than gambling. Thankfully, you mentioned the spouse possibly helping in case of addiction or gambling challenges. However, if the spouse does not share the gambling issue but rather wastes money which affects the family both directly and directly, that can't be cool.

[LUCKMCFLY]

Honesty is the best policy
One lie ruins a thousand truths.
A half truth is a whole lie

These are the things that i do believe about honestly on which we know that once trust is broken then it cant never be that goes back to normal
on which it would really be that something that common sense that you shouldnt really that make yourself that involved into those secrets
because once its been find out then trust is something that could be broken and its not really that something good to a relationship.

This is quite an impressive statement, honesty is everything because lies will only bring destruction and add new problems that are much more difficult than before.
Maybe lying can hide what happened for while, but you have to understand that no lie can continue for long time, there will come time in the future when all these lies can be exposed.
When everything is known, that where new problems start to emerge that can destroy anything, including trust in wife, clearly this is something that must be avoided because it is related to family integrity and harmony.
Moreover, saying everything about what happened earlier would be much better and more acceptable than hiding it and letting husband find out directly what he did.
Obviously emotional, and also feelings of not being appreciated arise and trigger bad things to happen if the lies that have been carried out can be found out directly by the husband, of course the consequences could be much worse.
Maintaining trust is not easy because once trust is destroyed it will be difficult to get it back.

I agree, sincerity between two people who are friends is essential, we would not be doing anything if this is lost, that is why many people appeal to continue in a relationship where both deceive each other, or where one of them deceives the other. . On the other hand, I also start from something, between heaven and earth there is nothing hidden and in a couple when it is discovered that one of the two hid something from them, the other person will feel offended because they will say: what am I doing here? What to do with a person who is supposedly on your side and hiding things? It is something that should not be done, things tend to be clear in the couple, that is why there are so many Divorces in the world , because people do not know each other at Least a little better, when they have secrets , Some people don't let them know that they don't like them and they don't forgive them. If you have a partner, I think you Should always trust that partner.

[Quidat]

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I agree, sincerity between two people who are friends is essential, we would not be doing anything if this is lost, that is why many people appeal to continue in a relationship where both deceive each other, or where one of them deceives the other. . On the other hand, I also start from something, between heaven and earth there is nothing hidden and in a couple when it is discovered that one of the two hid something from them, the other person will feel offended because they will say: what am I doing here? What to do with a person who is supposedly on your side and hiding things? It is something that should not be done, things tend to be clear in the couple, that is why there are so many Divorces in the world , because people do not know each other at Least a little better, when they have secrets , Some people don't let them know that they don't like them and they don't forgive them. If you have a partner, I think you Should always trust that partner.

This is where it is really that important when you are still dating someone, whether you would really be going for wife-material girl or would really be still that for the sake of fling or non serious relationship but since dating could really give out that kind of chance on knowing him/her even more. Its true that when hiding something on a relationship which does shows up
that you dont have that kind of respect towards your partner. Once you do caught up your partner to be having that behavior or kind of trait then expect that when you do go to marriage
then it is most likely that would really be committing out on the same mistake on which this is something that would really be happen. This is why it would really be best that you should
really be that honest as much as possible because this would really be leaving out with that kind of worry free if you arent that hiding something.

[Crypt0Gore]

Honesty is the best policy
One lie ruins a thousand truths.
A half truth is a whole lie

These are the things that i do believe about honestly on which we know that once trust is broken then it cant never be that goes back to normal
on which it would really be that something that common sense that you shouldnt really that make yourself that involved into those secrets
because once its been find out then trust is something that could be broken and its not really that something good to a relationship.

This is quite an impressive statement, honesty is everything because lies will only bring destruction and add new problems that are much more difficult than before.
Maybe lying can hide what happened for while, but you have to understand that no lie can continue for long time, there will come time in the future when all these lies can be exposed.
When everything is known, that where new problems start to emerge that can destroy anything, including trust in wife, clearly this is something that must be avoided because it is related to family integrity and harmony.
Moreover, saying everything about what happened earlier would be much better and more acceptable than hiding it and letting husband find out directly what he did.
Obviously emotional, and also feelings of not being appreciated arise and trigger bad things to happen if the lies that have been carried out can be found out directly by the husband, of course the consequences could be much worse.
Maintaining trust is not easy because once trust is destroyed it will be difficult to get it back.

I agree, sincerity between two people who are friends is essential, we would not be doing anything if this is lost, that is why many people appeal to continue in a relationship where both deceive each other, or where one of them deceives the other. . On the other hand, I also start from something, between heaven and earth there is nothing hidden and in a couple when it is discovered that one of the two hid something from them, the other person will feel offended because they will say: what am I doing here? What to do with a person who is supposedly on your side and hiding things? It is something that should not be done, things tend to be clear in the couple, that is why there are so many Divorces in the world , because people do not know each other at Least a little better, when they have secrets , Some people don't let them know that they don't like them and they don't forgive them. If you have a partner, I think you Should always trust that partner.

Agreed, I fear lack of solid foundation, in whatever you plan to do, the beginning is the most important part, how you start is what will define the end result, and so is relationships too.

Before you start a relationship with anyone you must have claimed to like them, even if you are a natural liar, you should understand that becoming someone's life partner is different, don't ever start using lies to build your foundation, it's not going to end well.

You could end up fighting every day to make them believe that you have changed, because in today's world, once someone finds out that you lied to them it means you can't be trusted, and they won't see you the same way they used to.

Solid foundations are always built on trust, especially between spouses, give no room to lies.

[TopTort777]

Isnt it depends on a gambling results ? We had topic here, when women split with boyfriends after winning a hefty amount in a lottery. So if you are a good at gambling, win regularly and your relationships arent healthy, then keep it in secret. And win a tag of "greedy toad" I would not keep anything in secret with my second half, but it is all up to you. Weigh all pros and cons, but I bet there will be no pros at all.

[LUCKMCFLY]

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I agree, sincerity between two people who are friends is essential, we would not be doing anything if this is lost, that is why many people appeal to continue in a relationship where both deceive each other, or where one of them deceives the other. . On the other hand, I also start from something, between heaven and earth there is nothing hidden and in a couple when it is discovered that one of the two hid something from them, the other person will feel offended because they will say: what am I doing here? What to do with a person who is supposedly on your side and hiding things? It is something that should not be done, things tend to be clear in the couple, that is why there are so many Divorces in the world , because people do not know each other at Least a little better, when they have secrets , Some people don't let them know that they don't like them and they don't forgive them. If you have a partner, I think you Should always trust that partner.

This is where it is really that important when you are still dating someone, whether you would really be going for wife-material girl or would really be still that for the sake of fling or non serious relationship but since dating could really give out that kind of chance on knowing him/her even more. Its true that when hiding something on a relationship which does shows up
that you dont have that kind of respect towards your partner. Once you do caught up your partner to be having that behavior or kind of trait then expect that when you do go to marriage
then it is most likely that would really be committing out on the same mistake on which this is something that would really be happen. This is why it would really be best that you should
really be that honest as much as possible because this would really be leaving out with that kind of worry free if you arent that hiding something.

It is really difficult to determine when a person is serious or wants to grab something for fun, that's why I say something, you have to find a person and speak to them as clearly as possible, telling them that you want something for a while, for a party or something Serious , I think that in the world there are many people like that and that they are for all those tastes, of course one as a gentleman must do it, there is no other way, of course that also depends a lot on how a person can see it, whether a woman or a man, one As a man proposes it and the woman is willing, there are women who are not looking to get married nor are they going for the same thing, so in these things you have to be very clear, not get too excited and see things really as they are, it is a Shame that in a couple that Probably had a possible good future Because you have to ruin things for money.

[LUCKMCFLY]

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I agree, sincerity between two people who are friends is essential, we would not be doing anything if this is lost, that is why many people appeal to continue in a relationship where both deceive each other, or where one of them deceives the other. . On the other hand, I also start from something, between heaven and earth there is nothing hidden and in a couple when it is discovered that one of the two hid something from them, the other person will feel offended because they will say: what am I doing here? What to do with a person who is supposedly on your side and hiding things? It is something that should not be done, things tend to be clear in the couple, that is why there are so many Divorces in the world , because people do not know each other at Least a little better, when they have secrets , Some people don't let them know that they don't like them and they don't forgive them. If you have a partner, I think you Should always trust that partner.

This is where it is really that important when you are still dating someone, whether you would really be going for wife-material girl or would really be still that for the sake of fling or non serious relationship but since dating could really give out that kind of chance on knowing him/her even more. Its true that when hiding something on a relationship which does shows up
that you dont have that kind of respect towards your partner. Once you do caught up your partner to be having that behavior or kind of trait then expect that when you do go to marriage
then it is most likely that would really be committing out on the same mistake on which this is something that would really be happen. This is why it would really be best that you should
really be that honest as much as possible because this would really be leaving out with that kind of worry free if you arent that hiding something.

It is really difficult to determine when a person is serious or wants to grab something for fun, that's why I say something, you have to find a person and speak to them as clearly as possible, telling them that you want something for a while, for a party or something Serious , I think that in the world there are many people like that and that they are for all those tastes, of course one as a gentleman must do it, there is no other way, of course that also depends a lot on how a person can see it, whether a woman or a man, one As a man proposes it and the woman is willing, there are women who are not looking to get married nor are they going for the same thing, so in these things you have to be very clear, not get too excited and see things really as they are, it is a Shame that in a couple that Probably had a possible good future Because you have to ruin things for money.

[madnessteat]

Isnt it depends on a gambling results ? We had topic here, when women split with boyfriends after winning a hefty amount in a lottery. So if you are a good at gambling, win regularly and your relationships arent healthy, then keep it in secret. And win a tag of "greedy toad" I would not keep anything in secret with my second half, but it is all up to you. Weigh all pros and cons, but I bet there will be no pros at all.

Very often, a family marriage begins to fall apart due to the fact that one of the spouses finds out that the second spouse was hiding something from him. In fact, any of us would not want this kind of thing to happen behind our back. This is why I am of the opinion that SmartGold01 should tell her husband about gambling. In any case, it will be better if he finds out about this from her lips than to check her browser history and discover a lot of new things.

[LUCKMCFLY]

Honesty is the best policy
One lie ruins a thousand truths.
A half truth is a whole lie

These are the things that i do believe about honestly on which we know that once trust is broken then it cant never be that goes back to normal
on which it would really be that something that common sense that you shouldnt really that make yourself that involved into those secrets
because once its been find out then trust is something that could be broken and its not really that something good to a relationship.

This is quite an impressive statement, honesty is everything because lies will only bring destruction and add new problems that are much more difficult than before.
Maybe lying can hide what happened for while, but you have to understand that no lie can continue for long time, there will come time in the future when all these lies can be exposed.
When everything is known, that where new problems start to emerge that can destroy anything, including trust in wife, clearly this is something that must be avoided because it is related to family integrity and harmony.
Moreover, saying everything about what happened earlier would be much better and more acceptable than hiding it and letting husband find out directly what he did.
Obviously emotional, and also feelings of not being appreciated arise and trigger bad things to happen if the lies that have been carried out can be found out directly by the husband, of course the consequences could be much worse.
Maintaining trust is not easy because once trust is destroyed it will be difficult to get it back.

I agree, sincerity between two people who are friends is essential, we would not be doing anything if this is lost, that is why many people appeal to continue in a relationship where both deceive each other, or where one of them deceives the other. . On the other hand, I also start from something, between heaven and earth there is nothing hidden and in a couple when it is discovered that one of the two hid something from them, the other person will feel offended because they will say: what am I doing here? What to do with a person who is supposedly on your side and hiding things? It is something that should not be done, things tend to be clear in the couple, that is why there are so many Divorces in the world , because people do not know each other at Least a little better, when they have secrets , Some people don't let them know that they don't like them and they don't forgive them. If you have a partner, I think you Should always trust that partner.

Agreed, I fear lack of solid foundation, in whatever you plan to do, the beginning is the most important part, how you start is what will define the end result, and so is relationships too.

Before you start a relationship with anyone you must have claimed to like them, even if you are a natural liar, you should understand that becoming someone's life partner is different, don't ever start using lies to build your foundation, it's not going to end well.

You could end up fighting every day to make them believe that you have changed, because in today's world, once someone finds out that you lied to them it means you can't be trusted, and they won't see you the same way they used to.

Solid foundations are always built on trust, especially between spouses, give no room to lies.

That is very true what you say, whenever a relationship or anything else that involves two people, if it is based on lies, then things will never work well, because a person who is used to cheating or something like that, it is difficult for another person to do it. will take it in a good way, no one likes to be deceived, sometimes we as human beings are used to the hypocrisy of hearing what we want to hear and that is full of the world, even in the forum, only those who are authentic and say what What is or the truth because others consider him rebellious or irreverent, but since he is who he is, he is not afraid of anything, so this is what we must see, in a relationship whether we like or not the tastes of the other person, the couple. You must agree with what they do, with what they feel, otherwise everything will be a deception, there can be no deception, especially when it comes to money.

[Oilacris]

That is very true what you say, whenever a relationship or anything else that involves two people, if it is based on lies, then things will never work well, because a person who is used to cheating or something like that, it is difficult for another person to do it. will take it in a good way, no one likes to be deceived, sometimes we as human beings are used to the hypocrisy of hearing what we want to hear and that is full of the world, even in the forum, only those who are authentic and say what What is or the truth because others consider him rebellious or irreverent, but since he is who he is, he is not afraid of anything, so this is what we must see, in a relationship whether we like or not the tastes of the other person, the couple. You must agree with what they do, with what they feel, otherwise everything will be a deception, there can be no deception, especially when it comes to money.

We do know that there's no secret that cant really be hidden up forever on which it would really be better that you should really be that open as much as possible with your partners specially when you are already that married because we know that once trust is broken then it would really be so hard on taking it back to its original. Also, it is really that too stressful on hiding up something away from your partner or on which having that sense on having no freedom because you are really that trying to hide something and since you dont like on getting caught then you would really be having that kind of
hiding and keeping it as a secret not until on the time that you would really be getting caught. Its always better to tell up the truth and it would be always better that you should be telling everything as much as you could or being that transparent.

[Dewi Aries]

That is very true what you say, whenever a relationship or anything else that involves two people, if it is based on lies, then things will never work well, because a person who is used to cheating or something like that, it is difficult for another person to do it. will take it in a good way, no one likes to be deceived, sometimes we as human beings are used to the hypocrisy of hearing what we want to hear and that is full of the world, even in the forum, only those who are authentic and say what What is or the truth because others consider him rebellious or irreverent, but since he is who he is, he is not afraid of anything, so this is what we must see, in a relationship whether we like or not the tastes of the other person, the couple. You must agree with what they do, with what they feel, otherwise everything will be a deception, there can be no deception, especially when it comes to money.

We do know that there's no secret that cant really be hidden up forever on which it would really be better that you should really be that open as much as possible with your partners specially when you are already that married because we know that once trust is broken then it would really be so hard on taking it back to its original. Also, it is really that too stressful on hiding up something away from your partner or on which having that sense on having no freedom because you are really that trying to hide something and since you dont like on getting caught then you would really be having that kind of
hiding and keeping it as a secret not until on the time that you would really be getting caught. Its always better to tell up the truth and it would be always better that you should be telling everything as much as you could or being that transparent.

Family relationships will be more harmonious when everything runs with full openness, in any case between the two parties, between you and your husband, and of course keeping things a secret from your partner is something that is not recommended because after all, they are our life partners who will always be accompany us until death do us part, and in addition I am sure that if you hide something from your partner then one day this will only trigger problems between you and your partner which, as you mentioned above, most likely your partner will not trust you again.

Even though basically, maybe you are a typical responsible gambler who can manage and control your gambling activities well and safely, but still the problem is keeping something secret from your partner, which can reduce the level of trust and possibly disrupt harmonious relationships in your relationship. family. So don't think that if you are a responsible gambler then you don't tell your husband, because maybe your husband has a different point of view towards gambling, maybe he will assume that even though you can maintain your involvement in gambling well, it's still a thing. The risk of losing money is a definite thing, and in fact this will only result in a number of unnecessary losses, however there are still quite a lot of other entertainments that you can do without any possible risk of loss.

[carlfebz2]

Family relationships will be more harmonious when everything runs with full openness, in any case between the two parties, between you and your husband, and of course keeping things a secret from your partner is something that is not recommended because after all, they are our life partners who will always be accompany us until death do us part, and in addition I am sure that if you hide something from your partner then one day this will only trigger problems between you and your partner which, as you mentioned above, most likely your partner will not trust you again.

Even though basically, maybe you are a typical responsible gambler who can manage and control your gambling activities well and safely, but still the problem is keeping something secret from your partner, which can reduce the level of trust and possibly disrupt harmonious relationships in your relationship. family. So don't think that if you are a responsible gambler then you don't tell your husband, because maybe your husband has a different point of view towards gambling, maybe he will assume that even though you can maintain your involvement in gambling well, it's still a thing. The risk of losing money is a definite thing, and in fact this will only result in a number of unnecessary losses, however there are still quite a lot of other entertainments that you can do without any possible risk of loss.

Some are saying that each one of us does have a secret that even our husband or wives doesnt know about, if this one pertains into those things that happened before marriage or on the time that you created your own family then i dont see any issues with it but its true that nothing beats out on living in a family on which you arent that hiding on something. Just like on what been mentioned that having that kind of openess would really be bringing out that kind of happiness on which we know that telling everything nothing but the truth would be always that something which crucial on any relationship in between.

We do know on how important it is when it comes to trust and really that tell everything you do and everything you do have in mind. This is where you would really be able to see and say that your partner does really give out that kind of importance and respect towards their partners on which this is something commendable and recommendable of course.

[Dewi Aries]

Family relationships will be more harmonious when everything runs with full openness, in any case between the two parties, between you and your husband, and of course keeping things a secret from your partner is something that is not recommended because after all, they are our life partners who will always be accompany us until death do us part, and in addition I am sure that if you hide something from your partner then one day this will only trigger problems between you and your partner which, as you mentioned above, most likely your partner will not trust you again.

Even though basically, maybe you are a typical responsible gambler who can manage and control your gambling activities well and safely, but still the problem is keeping something secret from your partner, which can reduce the level of trust and possibly disrupt harmonious relationships in your relationship. family. So don't think that if you are a responsible gambler then you don't tell your husband, because maybe your husband has a different point of view towards gambling, maybe he will assume that even though you can maintain your involvement in gambling well, it's still a thing. The risk of losing money is a definite thing, and in fact this will only result in a number of unnecessary losses, however there are still quite a lot of other entertainments that you can do without any possible risk of loss.

Some are saying that each one of us does have a secret that even our husband or wives doesnt know about, if this one pertains into those things that happened before marriage or on the time that you created your own family then i dont see any issues with it but its true that nothing beats out on living in a family on which you arent that hiding on something. Just like on what been mentioned that having that kind of openess would really be bringing out that kind of happiness on which we know that telling everything nothing but the truth would be always that something which crucial on any relationship in between.

We do know on how important it is when it comes to trust and really that tell everything you do and everything you do have in mind. This is where you would really be able to see and say that your partner does really give out that kind of importance and respect towards their partners on which this is something commendable and recommendable of course.

Yes but the main problem here is that they have a habit that involves the use of money, no matter if for example you are a responsible gambler even still in the end the possibility of losing money is a sure thing, and simply put if for example you are not involved in gambling then there will be no amount of money lost even if the amount is not large, so even if the habit you have before you get married still when you get married then you should tell your partner about you having this habit.

As we know that when we have entered the household phase, the responsibility will be even greater because usually there will be a lot of money allocated to meet many needs where it is better for us to use the money to meet family needs than to gamble. Actually this will not be a problem if for example you have other habits that do not involve the risk of losing money even if for example you keep it a secret from your partner, but if for example the habit is gambling then in my opinion it is better to tell your partner, lest it causes problems in the end when you unconsciously turn into an impulsive gambler which is clear your partner will also scold you. What we have to look at here is "having a gambling habit" which involves the risk of losing money, it is this context that should be of concern.

[Wakate]

Isnt it depends on a gambling results ? We had topic here, when women split with boyfriends after winning a hefty amount in a lottery. So if you are a good at gambling, win regularly and your relationships arent healthy, then keep it in secret. And win a tag of "greedy toad" I would not keep anything in secret with my second half, but it is all up to you. Weigh all pros and cons, but I bet there will be no pros at all.

Very often, a family marriage begins to fall apart due to the fact that one of the spouses finds out that the second spouse was hiding something from him. In fact, any of us would not want this kind of thing to happen behind our back. This is why I am of the opinion that SmartGold01 should tell her husband about gambling. In any case, it will be better if he finds out about this from her lips than to check her browser history and discover a lot of new things.

Marriage does not supposed to have any hidden words or behavior in-between. The husband need to be honest to his wife while she also have to do the same. It is obvious that nothing is hidden from the sun and any thing hidden will surely be unveiled soon. It is better for she to tell her husband that she is into gambling so that the man can look for ways to help her to reduce the gambling pressure or interest in her. A man can gamble which might not be tolerated by the wildlife but a woman which is meant to keep the family and take care of the children are not meant to be seen gambling, what will the children learn from her?

[Oilacris]

Isnt it depends on a gambling results ? We had topic here, when women split with boyfriends after winning a hefty amount in a lottery. So if you are a good at gambling, win regularly and your relationships arent healthy, then keep it in secret. And win a tag of "greedy toad" I would not keep anything in secret with my second half, but it is all up to you. Weigh all pros and cons, but I bet there will be no pros at all.

Very often, a family marriage begins to fall apart due to the fact that one of the spouses finds out that the second spouse was hiding something from him. In fact, any of us would not want this kind of thing to happen behind our back. This is why I am of the opinion that SmartGold01 should tell her husband about gambling. In any case, it will be better if he finds out about this from her lips than to check her browser history and discover a lot of new things.

Marriage does not supposed to have any hidden words or behavior in-between. The husband need to be honest to his wife while she also have to do the same. It is obvious that nothing is hidden from the sun and any thing hidden will surely be unveiled soon. It is better for she to tell her husband that she is into gambling so that the man can look for ways to help her to reduce the gambling pressure or interest in her. A man can gamble which might not be tolerated by the wildlife but a woman which is meant to keep the family and take care of the children are not meant to be seen gambling, what will the children learn from her?

Neither man or a woman in family or marriage then there's should really be that kind of transparency or being that honest to each other because this is one of the most important component or
thing that could make that marriage bond to be way more stronger and tougher and cant really be just that easily be taking down but on the time that there would really be those conditions on which trust has been broken then this is something that cant really be easily be taking back into original state on which it would really be that so hard on doing such thing. This is something that you would really
be needing to protect no matter what because once false or mistake you would be able to hit up then it wont be forgotten forever, or something that would really be creating that kind of doubt
and thinking.

[Nwada001]

Isnt it depends on a gambling results ? We had topic here, when women split with boyfriends after winning a hefty amount in a lottery. So if you are a good at gambling, win regularly and your relationships arent healthy, then keep it in secret. And win a tag of "greedy toad" I would not keep anything in secret with my second half, but it is all up to you. Weigh all pros and cons, but I bet there will be no pros at all.

Very often, a family marriage begins to fall apart due to the fact that one of the spouses finds out that the second spouse was hiding something from him. In fact, any of us would not want this kind of thing to happen behind our back. This is why I am of the opinion that SmartGold01 should tell her husband about gambling. In any case, it will be better if he finds out about this from her lips than to check her browser history and discover a lot of new things.

Exactly. There is nothing as bad and painful as hiding something from your better half, according to how it's being called. Keeping something a secret from him or her alone shows that the person has or might have a hidden motive for why they choose to keep it a secret.
 
No matter how you try to explain it, when the next person finds out, it will be hard to rebuild and regain that trust back, so even if it will hurt, the best is to tell the next person first, then try to explain the reason why you do it, prove that it won't have any negative consequences for the family, and all will be well.

[Obi-Ejike Banito]

Starting off, he's your husband and should be aware of everything you do except the marriage was forced, thinking  or concluding about the discussion being unnecessary should be his to decide.

[angrybirdy]

Starting off, he's your husband and should be aware of everything you do except the marriage was forced, thinking  or concluding about the discussion being unnecessary should be his to decide.

and when it comes to marriage, we should all inform them especially if there is money involved because it can even start or cause a fight and misunderstanding, maybe in the end it will even be reprimanded. Others say that our partners don't need to know all the moves, but for me, when you enter the world of marriage, what you have will automatically become his too, so they should really know everything and if you have respect your partner, you won't keep secrets because at the end of the day, you two will be on your side and will help each other especially if there is a problem.

[Silberman]

and when it comes to marriage, we should all inform them especially if there is money involved because it can even start or cause a fight and misunderstanding, maybe in the end it will even be reprimanded. Others say that our partners don't need to know all the moves, but for me, when you enter the world of marriage, what you have will automatically become his too, so they should really know everything and if you have respect your partner, you won't keep secrets because at the end of the day, you two will be on your side and will help each other especially if there is a problem.

To me it depends, while being honest in your marriage is key, at the same time you do not really need to tell your partner everything you do if it is not that significant, so assuming a person is earning thousands of dollars per month and they gamble a few bucks each week, that is not enough for me to raise some kind of alarm for being dishonest or anything, as each person within the marriage should have some freedom to spend some money in whatever they want, and only once the amount of money you spend reaches a certain point, then you must tell your significant other about what you are doing.

[LUCKMCFLY]

We do know that there's no secret that cant really be hidden up forever on which it would really be better that you should really be that open as much as possible with your partners specially when you are already that married because we know that once trust is broken then it would really be so hard on taking it back to its original. Also, it is really that too stressful on hiding up something away from your partner or on which having that sense on having no freedom because you are really that trying to hide something and since you dont like on getting caught then you would really be having that kind of
hiding and keeping it as a secret not until on the time that you would really be getting caught. Its always better to tell up the truth and it would be always better that you should be telling everything as much as you could or being that transparent.

From my own experience, sometimes some wives don't like the surprises that are there for her, of course pleasant surprises, sometimes I have had some arguments with my wife because of that, she says that I don't tell her anything and that she feels that I have secrets with her and all these things, the truth is I am very relaxed and if she fights then sometimes I don't even stop her and thanks to that, when they are surprises or something like that for her benefit, I try not to do it to avoid problems or arguments because it is very annoying , but if something like a jaguar is hidden from her in a casino, it is something that she will not like at all and I am sure that she will reproach it all her life, but things must be very equitable, if a woman hides something like that from a man , it will cause some anger, but the duty is that the woman also tells her husband, because what you are risking is money and if you lose control and try to fall into addiction you will have the support of your husband, These things must be seen from the point of view that each person's tastes must be accepted and respected.