One of the reasons why a trader is always required and advised to have a plan and put limits on his trading activity is to limit excessive activity, because it is a sure thing that when you are too long in front of the monitor analyzing the market then over time you will lose focus in yourself which will make you make careless decisions. Limits in trading are to limit the time of running sessions and limit the amount of budget allocated and of course the benefit of these limits is to keep our brains and minds awake and avoid some careless decisions due to too long analyzing the market that can make us lose focus.

On the other hand as you said that good traders are those who can organize and manage their trading activities which means knowing and having the ability and planning about when to row and when to pull over. Trading involves money where in trading the possibility of risk will always lurk a trader, and the fear is that when a trader is too long in front of the monitor then there is a possibility that they will lose focus in themselves due to being too tired in analyzing the market which ultimately makes them make the wrong decision.

That's right, and as we know that lately there are a lot of influencers who broadcast these promotions and besides that they also sometimes become one of the figures filling out an advertisement for several types of trading brokers by saying things that at first glance look and sound very tempting and of course as a result many people are interested in getting involved in the world of trading with high hopes of getting a lot of benefits to change financially in life, when in fact when you have entered a market then that's where you will start to get confused especially in response to the many losses that make your money disappear significantly.

However it is a correct and realistic statement that trading is not an intermediary for getting rich quickly, in any case success does not come by itself but success must be picked up or pursued with dedication or sacrifice and unusual hard work and this is the reason why not everyone can be successful in any field including trading, so I hope you or whoever it is not easily attracted by everything that looks tantalizing that comes in a short way, of course the solution is always to use common sense and rational point of view so as not to regret it in the end.

That's right, the main ailment of most gamblers is the inability to accept the fact of losing which eventually leads to many impulsive decisions such as continuing gambling with the intention and purpose of recovering something that has been lost. And I can already conclude that they are irresponsible gamblers or maybe I will also call them losers who only want to win but are not ready to lose. However, gambling is always about winning and losing, only those two and you will always end the session with one of the two possibilities between winning or losing but most gamblers experience losing more often than winning which is the reason because the percentage of winning is much smaller than losing.

The truth is not to be too ambitious in terms of dealing with winning and there is no need to put too high expectations on winning because it will only make you experience significant disappointment when it turns out that the session ends in defeat, after all, if for example you are lucky enough then you will also be able to get a win like other gamblers get, so it is better to focus on being able to accept the fact of losing rather than putting excessive expectations on winning which in the end will only make you even more disappointed.

Honestly, I am not sure that there is a gambler who is really able to accept a large amount of defeat, and we should be able to find out about what their intention is actually gambling from the amount of budget they allocate, if for example they allocate an amount that tends to be large or even close to 80% of the total amount of their income per month from their main job then I think I can conclude that their intention and purpose of gambling is to multiply the money they bring in with the hope of getting a big win.

With the goal of multiplying the money they bring with them then I think it is obvious that if they end up losing then they will not have the ability to accept the fact of losing, I am sure that they will be emotional and unable to calm their emotions which in turn the situation encourages them to do some out of control actions such as chasing the winnings to restore something that has been lost which will actually only lead them to a lot of stress, In the end, as you said, it is best to gamble by putting the amount of budget that we can afford especially for losing, that approach is useful to minimize emotions and out of control actions that lead you to a lot of impulsive decisions.

Yes but the main problem here is that they have a habit that involves the use of money, no matter if for example you are a responsible gambler even still in the end the possibility of losing money is a sure thing, and simply put if for example you are not involved in gambling then there will be no amount of money lost even if the amount is not large, so even if the habit you have before you get married still when you get married then you should tell your partner about you having this habit.

As we know that when we have entered the household phase, the responsibility will be even greater because usually there will be a lot of money allocated to meet many needs where it is better for us to use the money to meet family needs than to gamble. Actually this will not be a problem if for example you have other habits that do not involve the risk of losing money even if for example you keep it a secret from your partner, but if for example the habit is gambling then in my opinion it is better to tell your partner, lest it causes problems in the end when you unconsciously turn into an impulsive gambler which is clear your partner will also scold you. What we have to look at here is "having a gambling habit" which involves the risk of losing money, it is this context that should be of concern.

Yes if we go back to examine gambling as a whole, especially in terms of generating winnings where most of the winnings occur only because of luck then from here we can already conclude that most likely someone who is called an expert only "admits" that he is an expert in prediction but his recognition will not be "recognized" by people who have become their victims, meaning they do not have a 100% accurate strategy in terms of predicting but they have a smart strategy to deceive many people about their claims of expertise.

I think if we think using common sense and rational thinking then I think at first glance we should be able to conclude that no one can predict the outcome of gambling 100% accurately, I will believe it if you are basically someone who owns a casino or if you are the owner of the casino who really knows all the secret keys to winning gambling but if you are nothing more than an ordinary person and do not have any personal relationship with the casino then I think the idea of "experts" cannot be trusted.

And if we are talking about sports betting then yes of course I think it is still difficult to really predict accurately even if you have pretty good skills and knowledge, one of the reasons is because there are still many possibilities that can happen on the field unexpectedly such as the team you bet on having a red card that makes the opposing team superior in terms of the number of players which obviously there is a big possibility of the opposing team to win and the team you bet on losing, so of course the conclusion is that it is better to bet your own way because maybe you have better luck than the experts.

Well true, I understand that all typical gamblers would never turn down a win including those responsible gamblers who come just for entertainment but on the other hand it is a fact that gambling is always about the chances of winning and the possibility of losing which means that winning is nothing more than a "possibility" and losing is a certainty, and yes I think you can draw a conclusion from this idea which means that we should be more prepared to accept the possibility of losing because it is a sure thing when luck is not on your side.

Overall winning always refers to luck while on the other hand one can never know when they are lucky and luck cannot come continuously which means there will be more losses in between than wins and this is the reason why we should focus more on preparing ourselves to accept the fact of losing, and one of the other benefits of having the ability to accept defeat is that you will not experience emotions that are too significant which is usually the emotion that makes gamblers deepen the amount of loss with the act of chasing victory to restore something that has been lost due to the inability to accept defeat, and another thing is of course not to put too much hope in winning because it will only make you feel more disappointed when you finally lose.

In fact, I think addiction will start when someone manages to get a win in one of the sessions they do, which is the reason is money is something that everyone always needs and wants and when they manage to get a lot of money just by gambling (without having to sweat a lot) then there will be a sense of addiction and they want to continue to get a win so that the mindset and expectations lead them to excessive gambling actions.

Usually the addiction starts from the first win where they feel very happy and excited about the win which in turn leads to excessive action, but on the other hand as Ana said that defeat is part of the game which means that the results at the end of the session will not always be about winning but defeat is a definite result that in the end when the results do not match expectations then usually they do not have the ability to accept the fact of defeat which makes them emotional and take actions that will only harm themselves more, namely chasing victory to restore something that has been lost, and simply put is that when someone has entered the addiction phase then they will always be addicted when they succeed in winning which makes them apply greed and they will be more curious when experiencing defeat.

In my opinion and from a fairly reasonable point of view about the reasons why someone prefers to hide their gambling activities from the public eye is quite simple which you have also said the right thing that one of the reasons they hide it is because they are afraid or worried that people in their environment will view them as someone who has a bad personality because they are involved in gambling, and obviously this negative viewpoint can cause other problems in their life and one of them may reduce the level of socialization between them and others around them.

There is a high probability that the people around them will stay away from them and also maybe by throwing some criticism for fear of being exposed to the bad effects of gambling by the gambler, and also obviously I think there is a high probability that other people will reduce their trust in the gambler and when people no longer have trust in you then most likely you will have difficulty in life when you need help from them in any case, and this is quite a reasonable reason why people prefer to hide their gambling activities.

True, it is always recommended to have a main job when you are involved in trading, which when you have a main job and do not make trading your main income then you will not have problems in terms of making ends meet that cannot be tolerated because you have a definite income from the main job. And as we know that trading has risks where the worst thing and what is feared is that maybe you will experience problems in terms of making ends meet when making trading as the main income, the reason is because as I said above that basic needs can never be tolerated while trading will not always be able to give you profits because of the possible risks that can occur at any time.

The right approach and the right mindset is to make trading a part-time job that is useful to supplement your income from the main job, and even if for example you manage to become a fairly professional trader by always being able to make a profit or when you are already in a situation where your profits are greater than losses then I think at that time you can think of a new plan, you can quit your main job but on the other hand you also have to build another place that can provide you with income such as maybe a business or other things that can provide a fairly certain profit.

Yes, especially if it involves money or that means especially if something you do involves your money, plus as we know, gambling has risks where the level of risk can sometimes be very large when someone cannot control themselves in gambling. On the other hand, of course, as you said, discipline must really be applied to gambling involvement, apart from that we also must not ignore other aspects which are no less important, such as control and placing limits on two things, namely time and budget.

Because there are only a few things that can keep us from avoiding the bad possibilities that exist in gambling such as losing larger amounts, and the other thing is that we really have to be able to maintain our awareness of understanding the concept of gambling, or that means we have to always remember that gambling can lose everything we have when we try to do something that is too careless and risky, and by having a good level of awareness then I am sure you will not be careless in making every decision, such as always keeping a small amount or always limiting the time for gamble. Gambling is not a place to make money because there is absolutely nothing that can guarantee you will always win, therefore it is better for us to prioritize things that can prevent us from worse possibilities.

Family relationships will be more harmonious when everything runs with full openness, in any case between the two parties, between you and your husband, and of course keeping things a secret from your partner is something that is not recommended because after all, they are our life partners who will always be accompany us until death do us part, and in addition I am sure that if you hide something from your partner then one day this will only trigger problems between you and your partner which, as you mentioned above, most likely your partner will not trust you again.

Even though basically, maybe you are a typical responsible gambler who can manage and control your gambling activities well and safely, but still the problem is keeping something secret from your partner, which can reduce the level of trust and possibly disrupt harmonious relationships in your relationship. family. So don't think that if you are a responsible gambler then you don't tell your husband, because maybe your husband has a different point of view towards gambling, maybe he will assume that even though you can maintain your involvement in gambling well, it's still a thing. The risk of losing money is a definite thing, and in fact this will only result in a number of unnecessary losses, however there are still quite a lot of other entertainments that you can do without any possible risk of loss.

To be honest, overall and by using a healthy mindset along with a rational way of thinking, I really don't trust experts when it comes to predictions, there is no reason I can trust them if we talk about betting activities, because it is clear what betting is. meaning that the result at the end of the session is always about the possibility of two things, namely the chance of winning or losing, winning is nothing more than a chance and losing is a certainty while on the other hand there is absolutely no certainty or guarantee whatsoever for anyone to be able to win in that session.

Logically, if for example those who are called experts can really win then why don't they do it themselves? why should you sell your predictions to other people by asking for payment? while on the other hand they have a lot of time to follow a lot of bets and then get a lot of wins with the accurate skills and strategies they have, of course with this alone I think we can get the answer that in gambling there is no such thing as an expert who can lead us to a sure win, I wouldn't believe that for example they could really give you a sure win, and maybe I would say that no matter how good your or the experts' skills are, it can only increase your chances of winning and not ensure or guarantee that you will be right. - really can win.

It's true that it could be, but in my opinion the gambler will not be able to know in detail about the development of their strategy or what it means to change their strategy, and maybe they only use the results of winning as a reference that yes their strategy is now starting to get better, but this is gambling that This means that maybe the victory came because they were in a lucky situation or luck came at the right time and not because their strategy was getting better.

You have also said above that in fact strategy has nothing to do with the results of gambling, but only luck that comes at the right time, I can believe this if in fact as long as I have known gambling to be honest I have never seen or heard that there is There is no particular strategy that can lead you to victory consistently. However, gambling is always about winning or losing, simply put, if you don't win it means you lose. But the strange thing is that there are always gamblers who put their trust in certain methods such as strategies or patterns, I'm very tired of hearing about it because in the end, if it's time to lose, you lose.

Yes, that is a basic fact about gambling regarding the percentage chance of winning being smaller than the chance of losing, and this is also the reason why every gambler is advised not to overdo it in their gambling activities, none other than because it is clear that it is very likely that you will only wasting more money than you can afford to lose when you try to treat gambling excessively or in the wrong way.

Someone who thinks they will be able to win is someone who comes with a low level of understanding about gambling, they think achieving victory is as easy as turning the palm of their hand, even though it is clear that possibility is something that is uncertain and what's more, as you said above above that the winning percentage is much smaller than the possible losses, and that is natural because gambling is a business for casinos that will benefit them especially when more gamblers are excessive.

So far I still believe and believe that gambling depends on luck regarding the results, and the reason is because of course as I said above that winning is nothing more than a "possibility" which means there is no certainty and there is no guarantee whatsoever of being able to win so of course this is why we say the results of gambling always refer to luck, and if we talk about skill then I'm sure it's sports betting where you can combine skill and luck to get the results you expect, but of course getting luck is not it's easy and you never know when luck will come.

Yes, this is carelessness that should be avoided because after all trading is an activity that can be very risky when you treat it in the wrong way, understanding and knowledge are always very important because this will be the basis for the decisions we will make later, and if for example, you come with the intention and purpose of making a profit while on the other hand you don't know at all how to trade and what things have to be done, then yes, it's clear as you say, which is the same as driving a car without knowing how to drive it, which in turn In the end, you will most likely get hurt.

In any case, if it concerns or involves money, there will always be risks that may arise, such as in trading where all traders have the same opportunity in terms of profit opportunities but on the other hand they also have the same possibility of experiencing losses, and it is clear when you don't have any knowledge or insight at all because you don't want to first dedicate yourself to lots of lessons, so obviously in the end you will just waste your money. Moreover, you can get a lot of information from several sources about what steps beginner traders should take, you can get it on the internet and it's free as long as you want and my advice is don't put too much hope in profits if for example you don't have any knowledge at all.

The point is that gambling must always be done based on common sense, a rational attitude and maintaining awareness, everything will most likely remain fine if for example we are able to manage and control gambling or whatever activity we do, and of course you have thoughts. a good one where you always message or remind other people, especially your friends, about the bad phase of addiction in gambling, where everyone has the same chance of ending up in that situation. Because on the other hand, gambling can be very entertaining and can also be very exciting and there are quite a few gamblers who end up getting carried away because of the many things that look tempting or tempting so that in the end they fall into it and gamble on the following path in the wrong way, all of that is very possible to happen when you start not being able to maintain consciousness while you are running a session and I think all gamblers have the same chance of experiencing this. Therefore, we are always advised to exercise full caution and vigilance and always maintain a level of awareness so that we are not easily trapped and carried away by the current.

It's true, maybe it's because of the bad effects that most people prefer to hide their gambling activities, they are afraid that other people will have a bad view of them, because yes, as we know, the bad effects of gambling, such as addiction, can have a very bad impact and can sometimes involve many people, because of these bad impacts, people will definitely stay away from people who are involved in gambling and this is a problem that causes estrangement with other people, even though for example they are people who are quite close to us. Someone who is involved in gambling will most likely be looked at badly by the people around him, even though, for example, you are actually a fairly responsible gambler who can manage and control your gambling activities well, but still people will only see things at a glance from the outside. So for myself, to be honest, I prefer to hide my gambling involvement from other people, including family, but maybe the risk is that when we experience problems as a result of gambling, maybe we will have quite a hard time seeking help because if we seek help from other people it's the same. we tell them we are gamblers.

Yes and I think in common sense trading is not an activity or is not recommended to be used as a lifelong job activity which means you depend for all your living needs on the results of trading, one of the reasons is because we cannot ignore the aspect of possible risks that are not can never be tolerated in trading, plus on the other hand in trading there is absolutely no strategy that is 100% accurate to be able to generate profits, maybe the highest is only 85% which means the rest is the possibility of losses, and this is why most people will not make trading a lifelong job because it is too risky.

On the other hand, as you said, as traders we are obliged to learn many things which can take a lot of time which is very draining in the learning stage, not only sacrificing time but we also have the possibility of losing an amount of money which could be quite large, so of course The reason is because trading is too risky to be used as a job that provides main income to meet life's needs, and as you said, this profession can only be used as additional income.

The point is that the category of poor is when someone is in a low financial level, no matter what their occupation is and regardless of their background, whether they are a farmer or a laborer or who works in any field, the point is that poor is when you are in a low financial level that makes it difficult for you to meet your needs and also when you have difficulty keeping up with the times, this is not a solution but a condition in various categories.

And if we talk about solutions to get out of poverty then of course there are many things that can be done that they can reach and that they can take advantage of, everyone has the opportunity but not everyone can take advantage of it well and it is also not uncommon that there are always people who are stuck in the comfort zone and that is because they do not want to step up or are too afraid to take action because they may have a high level of worry.