Yes I understand about that buddy, I have read the statement that indeed the woman has some restrictions and mindsets that are quite advisable and that can at least make her safe in her involvement in gambling activities, but what I mean is that she is worried that she may experience changes over time and of course this is something that should not be ignored, considering that it is not uncommon for some gamblers who, although initially had a pretty good preparation, it turned out that over time they experienced a change in mindset because maybe the tantalizing things in gambling affected their mindset slowly, and yes, the point is that I hope whoever is experiencing a situation like this to still really maintain firmness in himself regarding some of the boundaries he has built, not only that because the strong awareness factor must also really be applied and maintained. For the initial problem about her with her husband I think it is better to tell her husband that she is involved in gambling, family relationships will be stronger if we are able to be open to each other, and in addition this is a gambling activity that always cannot be completely avoided from the name of risk.

Yes that's the point and indeed that's the best thing to do, as I said before that having good communication and being able to be open with each other is something that can further strengthen the relationship because this is related to trust and if it's like you said that her husband found out about this from other people then I'm sure at least this will be a problem in the relationship and trust might fade a little, by telling our partner about anything then on the other hand this will also make them feel appreciated by you for his presence.

Of course, as you said that the impact of gambling always depends on how gamblers approach their gambling activities, I agree with this idea because indeed the name of a good or bad impact always comes at the end and indeed depends on how they treat and respond to the gambling activities they do, sometimes someone who from the beginning has set up many restrictions will not always be able to avoid the possibility of addiction, not infrequently I see them in the end enter the addiction phase, the reason? obviously because in gambling there are a lot of things that look like tempting which can indirectly change the perspective and mindset of gamblers, that's why we have to apply strong self-awareness about the real understanding of gambling because the fear is that you may experience changes and ultimately fall into the wrong path and understanding of gambling without you realizing it.

So in my opinion in this issue the right understanding of what gambling really is needs to be considered and emphasized, after that you must apply strong self-awareness so as not to be easily tempted by anything that looks tempting which of course can make you forget some restrictions or other precautions that you have prepared from the start.

Do you gamble every day? Do you always get victory in every gambling you do every day? and if you lose, do you learn something that creates an opportunity to win easily?
If you think gambling every day is good, you should do that. As you said, "Yep, gambling is getting better day by day", that means you do it yourself, right? and I'm curious if you gamble every day, does it make a profit? and if you think gambling every day is good with increasing experience and understanding gambling strategies, can it lead to consistent winnings?

Do you think gambling will provide consistent profitable wins? Therefore, you gamble every day so you consider the gambling you do every day to be good. I think it's actually the opposite, with the fact that gambling is just a game of chance, so it's impossible to always win, even though gambling every day in my opinion will not increase your chances of winning, nor will it increase your understanding of gambling. The chance of losing at gambling cannot be corrected or fixed, because it has become a certain thing. You should think again about this, because you will feel bad if you gamble every day.

I think so too, someone who is addicted to gambling will certainly not admit that he is addicted to gambling, but by looking at his behavior towards excessive gambling it indicates that he is addicted to gambling. it's true that you say that maybe many gamblers are gambling because of such goals, but in my own opinion it will not happen, maybe it can happen but it is almost impossible, with them chasing victory or wanting to get money back in gambling it will only drain their own money.

You are right, they must be prepared with the money they bet, they must be able to accept the fact that the money they bet can be lost in a moment of time, and with them already addicted to gambling in my opinion it is not a good thing, because with them addicted to gambling of course it will make them continue to gamble, and if they take actions like borrowing I think they have gone too far, because in my opinion it is the same path to destruction of life. so I conclude that if they have done excessive gambling, it means that they are addicted to gambling in other words gambling addiction.

In my opinion, this often happens, because I myself feel that way, when gambling and the gambling that is done is going well and well, so I also occasionally have thoughts about increasing the amount of the bet, but my experience is that when I increase the amount of the bet but the game doesn't change. became bad and spent the money I had on that gambling. but with that I realized that not everything we do in gambling will produce something good. So I think we still have to gamble carefully, don't forget ourselves or lose self-control.

because what I know is that if we lose self-control when gambling then the consequence is addiction and being addicted to gambling is not a good thing, because it will destroy our lives in the future. When placing a bet, of course we want to win, and that is the hope and goal of all gamblers, but I suggest you don't expect too much from gambling, because that will only get us into big trouble. So if you have lost then stop, and when you win immediately cash it out, even though there is still a chance to win but it is just possible, not guaranteed!

In my opinion, the first thing you should pay attention to is your finances. You have to be able to see how much money you can spend, in other words, the money you are ready to lose, because not only beginners, but all gamblers experience this, they tend to gamble without the money they are willing to bet, so when they lose they cannot accept the defeat that has occurred, and gambles again by depositing money back into gambling.

what you should hope for is fun, gambling with the aim of having fun, not with the aim of getting a big win, because many gamblers have goals like this, but that goal actually kills themselves which makes them addicted to gambling, and of course this is this is not a good thing. and with your first gambling, you have to be able to do it well, win or lose, just accept it, because usually winning or losing will be a disaster if we don't have good self-control, win and lose, stop there, come back another day. maybe there is luck. because many gamblers do not have good self-control, when they win or lose they continue to gamble with their emotions overwhelming, and this needs to be avoided.

It's clear, I myself would scold behavior like that, because it's not good treatment, stealing is not a good thing and I think everyone knows this. If their children dare to steal, chances are they are already addicted to gambling, but it would be a shame if they are still easily addicted to gambling because that is not a commendable thing. In my opinion, people who are addicted to gambling will only think about gambling, and when the money they have runs out, they will do other things, such as stealing, on this topic.

If a child is addicted to gambling then I will advise him well, and if he dares to steal then I will scold him, because what they are doing is wrong, especially stealing to gamble, I don't think they are the only mistake they have made. What I'm afraid of is that they will get used to it and then become bolder, like committing robbery or other things like what you said.
Therefore we have to educate our children well,  because we have a role in educating children to be good and useful children. If there are children who do that, in my opinion it is because their friend environment is not good or lack of parental supervision.

It's a game of chance that we can't predict accurately and in detail what will happen in our gambling sessions, for example in sports betting we do have the opportunity to apply knowledge and skills to achieve a satisfactory result, but still this is nothing more than a hope based on knowledge applied through analysis of a team, overall everyone will definitely choose a team that is much stronger and favored but not everyone will fully get the results that they think from the beginning.

As you said, everything is unexpected and it is not uncommon for us to see some strong teams that lose when dealing with teams that are far below them, because some things that happen on the field will really be very influential for the results at the end of the match such as for example what our friend said above about one of the teams experiencing a red card and obviously this will cause the match to run unbalanced which means the chances are getting smaller and the possibility of defeat becomes greater. So the point is that gambling is always synonymous with something that is completely unpredictable and often happens unexpectedly.

Yes that's right, I also understand that everyone has different experiences in their gambling activities and all the impact they feel comes from the approach they take which is based on the understanding of each individual, of course it's true that understanding the risks in gambling is very important and should be the first point to pay attention to, as I said earlier that gambling is nothing more than a playground that involves money as capital and there is a prize object at the end of the session if you are lucky enough.

And this means that there is absolutely no certainty for the final result because after all this is gambling which means nothing more than a game of chance and this is also the reason why gambling should absolutely not be used as a place to earn. On the other hand, it is the mindset that really must be correct in this matter, understanding that gambling is a playground that does not have any element to produce because everything there is random, and this must be a concern and emphasized in consciousness so that we can become healthy and safe gamblers in the approach we take.

It's a really concerning situation when gambling is getting more and more popular and rampant and it's obvious that it's the young people or the younger generation that will play the role of potential players, players along with being victims in the end, after all gambling is an activity that has great risks and should not be taken seriously, otherwise it's clear as the OP said that this will involve many other problems coming up and one of the most dangerous is when young people are no longer interested in doing other activities such as school or work for their own interests and only want to win from their gambling dedication. On the other hand parents or teachers do have quite an influential role in this or maybe some other close people, but I think it would be easier to overcome this if the government gets involved by implementing any policy that aims to limit them, because what is worried and what is guaranteed is that the future of young people will be destroyed because of this problem.

Exactly, this is the main point, you can reach a conclusion from some advice that often comes to you, I understand that maybe not everyone will think like you when getting some advice or input from other people or people closest to them, because there are also those who really think that all this is a nuisance for them, but if we try to reconsider it again with common sense and rationally the fact is that their advice is the best thing to do.

Especially if it is the advice of a relative or family member because obviously they must be very concerned about your safety and have concerns that maybe if they don't advise you then you will become one of the addicted gamblers along with experiencing the bad effects of addiction. So the point is that we should really be able to consider first about any advice that comes before finally deciding, and also to minimize regret at the end when we feel that what they said before was right.

We are in line, what you said is in line with the understanding I have about gambling, I really can't think and question why people think that gambling can be made into a profession or a job to earn, I would rather support the idea that you said that indeed gambling is nothing more than an activity to fill spare time when we are bored and nothing more than that, the reason? obviously because there is absolutely no certainty there and everything there is running randomly to determine the outcome, doesn't that mean the final result cannot be known? obviously, then what is their reason why they can think that this activity is productive? unknown because they are the ones who have the reason and I am sure that people who have this assumption are those who have entered the addiction phase so that they make something that makes no sense like a natural thing.

Another question is, if gambling can make money then why do so many people suffer huge losses until they lose everything? This is one of the reasons and the main point why I never thought that gambling could be made into an income, no matter where you gamble but still everything called gambling is always unpredictable about the results because everything there is random and there is no consistent victory at the end of each session.

A very good question my friend, I think the first thing you should prepare before entering gambling is to prepare money that you are able to account for any results, meaning that it is more advisable for you to put a small amount such as 1% - 5% of the amount of your salary income, besides that what is more important is that you really have the right and correct understanding of what gambling actually is along with the basic concepts, One of them is that you must understand that gambling is a probability activity that has absolutely no certainty whatsoever for the final result that can make you smile, therefore never put any hope in winning because everything there is random and what is worried is that you are very likely to act carelessly when you feel emotional because the final result does not match what you want, and this is also the reason why you should put the amount that you can be responsible for.

In gambling winning or losing really can't be known in advance and you will only find the answer when your session is over, my advice is when you win then don't overreact to it, maintain your awareness of the understanding that gambling is a game of chance and with this then the best decision is to cash out as soon as possible and enjoy it, Think of it as a reward for your dedication to gambling, don't take victory too seriously because this will make you act greedy, and also if you do lose then just consider the money lost as a form of game fees that you have played there, that's all.

It makes sense what you said, as you said and it makes sense that most gamblers come with the reason of wanting to multiply something that they bring, and when they see something like an opportunity then there will be absolutely no patience that plays a role there because it is a good opportunity according to them to take in order to achieve the goal of winning that they want from the beginning, And also on the other hand if the gamblers have good patience then I think it's less likely for them to end up with addiction, but the fact is that the number of gamblers who enter the addiction phase is increasing, it's because they can't hold their emotions and can't control themselves so that means patience is one of the things that is always ignored.

I'm pretty skeptical that they can really be patient if the initial goal is to win, even if you have pretty good patience in terms of waiting for the final result but honestly like I said above I doubt if you can be patient when the final result is not what you want, because it's clear that their goal of gambling is to win which means there are expectations that they carry that will make them feel disappointed if it doesn't match what you want, I think this idea of applying patience would make more sense if you gamble without the goal of winning.

But in my opinion, the negative point of view of the community on gambling will still persist and most likely this negative point of view will continue to persist until an unspecified time, because obviously the risk of gambling will still be there and this is what the couple is afraid of, namely when the gambling committed by one of their partners is no longer helped over time or in the sense that it has entered the phase of chronic addiction, the impact will be felt by all family members there.

On the other hand, I agree that communication is indeed one of the good approaches in terms of maintaining good family relationships, having good communication along with being able to balance a good mindset between the two parties will be useful for solving any problems that occur in the relationship, and on the other hand I really hope that they will be able to consider gambling activities from various sides, especially in terms of adverse effects and discuss rationally to find the best decision.

It's all a choice and I hope that whoever it is will be able to choose a decision that is really based on a good consideration of common sense, because most of the time I see gamblers they take a large level of risk but without any consideration at the beginning before making a decision so that there is absolutely no responsibility in their involvement until the final result is actually answered, and usually this is what makes gamblers act out of control because they cannot be responsible for whatever will happen at the end of the session.

No matter how big and how small the risk you want to take is basically all up to you and depends on yourself whether you are able or not to accept the reality at the end of the session, if indeed you are able to even go ahead and do not let you create decisions that will only trap yourself, in the sense of making decisions that are not considered with common sense which in the end makes yourself emotional and act out of control. Emotion is one of the driving forces that usually leads to disappointment, and yes it is true that this activity is basically just for leisure to get some entertainment when you are bored, and should not be taken seriously.

Of course it is true, because indeed responsibility has a big influence in gambling activities, one of which is by putting a small amount that does not matter if in the end it is lost, we will never know whether at the end of the session we will win or lose again, and the other thing is that if we do not have good responsibility in gambling then obviously usually this is the starting point for someone to fall into the addiction phase with the initial scenario of not being able to accept defeat at the end of the session after which they put a larger budget amount which in fact this action will only make the situation worse with the amount of your loss which will be even greater.

On the other hand I'm sure all gamblers don't want to end up with addiction because this is the highest point gamblers experience in their lives due to the impact of wrong gambling, one of the impacts as we know that financial balance will be lost even to make you run out of all the valuable assets you have and end up with a person who has absolutely nothing. Therefore, being a responsible gambler is more advisable because this is a healthy approach that can keep us safe.

Yes it is a ridiculous thing that most gamblers do when they are new to gambling in the sense that they are still very ambitious to get the big win that they always hope and dream about, but for myself honestly I never if I spend  the entire salary that I get for working a month at the expense of full sweat just to get the money, it feels too much and  like risking my own  life because by doing so it is the same as telling myself not to eat for a whole month.

But yes I understand that all  gamblers have different experiences as a result of the approach they take to their gambling activities and maybe you are one of those gamblers who are very excessive and aggressive in pursuit of a big win at the end of the session, but it doesn't matter because every incident will always have a lesson if you are willing to learn it and you have really felt the regret. For one thing, I hope you've felt the regret and agreed with yourself that you won't make the same mistake, after all gambling is nothing more than a playground that involves risk and there is an object in the end result that acts as a prize.

Your statement is very good and I am one of those people who share your point of view about gambling, to be honest I don't care what kind of gambling you are involved in whether it's pure luck or some sports betting which does require some skill and knowledge to be able to increase the percentage of winning chances to be closer, but that's not the point. One thing and as you said that self-control along with some other limitations are very important in gambling and I think all gamblers should not ignore this point.

I understand all of them want a winning situation to increase the amount of wealth possible, but doesn't everything have to be balanced? What I mean is that you are not advised to only focus on one side in gambling such as the chances of winning because the possibility of losing is also something that should not be ignored, you must have a formula to minimize the risk of losing in addition to the goal of getting a win because the risk of addiction cannot be completely avoided. Yes, it is true that it is not easy to do so but I think that if they have a proper understanding of gambling, it should not be difficult for them to implement many precautions because all of this is also for their own safety, of course, responsible gamblers are healthy gamblers who can keep themselves away from potential addiction.

Yes I agree with your idea, basically putting hope in a win at the end of the session will only make you feel excessive disappointment, why? obviously the reason is because in gambling there is absolutely no certainty and any guarantee for gamblers to get a win, putting hope is also one of the starting points or causes of someone ending up with addiction, I can already confirm that you have the wrong approach to gambling just by looking at the way you do it.

Believe me that this idea will only make the situation worse, you really have to change your mindset and point of view on gambling by getting back to understanding everything correctly, first you have to understand that gambling runs randomly in determining who will win in one of the sessions and this is also quite dependent on the luck you have, and the second is that it means absolutely no certainty and guarantee of anything to earn. The fear is that eventually you will not be able to accept the final result that does not match your expectations and after that you will usually act out of control based on emotions such as putting a larger amount to catch up with the loss, and this is one of the approaches taken by gamblers who will end up with addiction.