Yes, because at first I was also a beginner who did misunderstand how gambling actually was so that in the end I experienced addiction, but thank God I managed to recover by using the methods I created myself, in conclusion, more or less I know enough about the various things experienced and felt by gamblers who have entered the addiction cycle, And one thing I will always advise all gamblers, especially those beginners, to first have the right understanding of how gambling is actually, because understanding is the main key to being able to stay safe in gambling, in the sense that by having the right understanding, it is less likely for a gambler to take various actions that are beyond his ability.

On the other hand, as you said, the initial mistake of beginners is thinking that they will be able to get a lot of money, or think that gambling can make them a rich man, when obviously it is nothing more than a delusion, because the reality is quite the opposite, simply put, instead of earning but what happens is that they lose money in the long run. In essence, there is nothing else I would say and suggest to beginners other than to first understand what gambling is really about, in the sense of understanding that gambling provides a winning opportunity to multiply their money but along with realizing that gambling can lose them even greater amounts of money. This is a neutral point of view that can prevent them from making impulsive actions and decisions.

Everything you mentioned OP is true, which is where some of the points you mentioned are indeed one of the triggers for more significant losses, and maybe I will add that greed can also certainly be a trigger for losses, no matter how much profit you managed to get in the session you did but if you do not have the ability to control or restrain greed in yourself then usually in the end the results will be disappointing again.

But on the other hand I will also say that in the world of trading risk will always be a part that can never be fully tolerated, meaning that knowledge, strategy and risk management are only useful for increasing opportunities and minimizing the possibility of loss but does not mean that it can completely prevent yourself from losing, meaning that losses are something that is natural or natural for traders and all traders experience it including those who are professionals or who are successful, but when you continue to improve your knowledge and risk management as a shield then the amount of your losses will not be too significant.

Exactly, the point is not only to promote or show something that looks tempting but also to tell about the downside of the activity, in the simple sense of showing that gambling can multiply your money but also by telling that anyone can lose any amount of money in an instant, and this information can form a neutral mindset to the viewing audience in the sense of understanding the opportunities but also realizing the risks.

It is basically a fact that even if the activity you are promoting has a significant downside or risk but when you tell all your audience about the dangers and adverse effects that the activity can cause then ultimately it is less likely for people to blame you when they experience the adverse effects of the activity, because from the beginning you have told them about the downside of gambling if done in the wrong way, but from most of the promotions of gambling sites that are promoted especially on some social media usually stremers really only show everything that looks tempting.

Overall gambling has a bad stigma in the eyes of society, but I would also say that depending on how the situation is, if indeed gambling can be made as an activity to distract from worries about the possibility of death when in a war situation then I think it is not a problem to be made as an option. I am sure that the situation in war must be very stressful because lives are at stake, but if gambling can be used as an alternative to relieve anxiety and restore a sense of enthusiasm, it is not wrong to do so, but I would also say that using gambling as an alternative to relieve stress will only be felt by responsible gamblers.

Because since in most cases gambling is very likely to be a trigger for stress especially when done with the wrong mindset and goals, meaning when you are in a war situation and for example you gamble with the wrong mindset and goals then obviously it is the perfect combination to trigger more significant tension or stress.

It's not a problem to put high hopes on anything we do, but before putting high hopes and beliefs it is very important to first see and understand what we are doing, such as understanding what and how gambling activities are actually from the positive and negative sides, gambling provides opportunities for everyone to multiply their money but we also have to realize that gambling provides the possibility for all of us to lose all the money we bet without a remainder.

I will explain simply that winning in gambling is not influenced by any action taken by the gambler, or that means whatever action or method or method you do it will not be able to be used as a benchmark or guarantee to produce victory at the end of the session, and that is why victory always comes unexpectedly by chance. This means that the key to a gambler's safety is to know, understand and realize how gambling really is, because if not then obviously you will be played by your own expectations indefinitely.

I think your biggest mistake in your gambling activities is very clear that you have too high expectations of gambling, and of course it is the wrong mindset if applied to a place that does not have any certainty and guarantee in the matter of results such as gambling. And another mistake is that you can't take responsibility for all the decisions you've made which when you lose you can't accept the facts of the situation.

On the other hand, I am sure that you will still end up in a situation of concern in your gambling activities, and I am also sure that you will always feel the tension in every gambling session due to the fear of losing money. Therefore the first thing you have to correct in yourself is the understanding of how gambling really is, I would suggest understanding the whole about gambling, don't just look at the chances of winning but also look at the risks, because when a gambler realizes that gambling is a risky activity then most likely they will always calculate according to their abilities every decision they make such as in terms of allocating the amount of budget, fix it as soon as possible friends.

Yes it's possible, but I don't think it's always because someone didn't take the time to get to know their partner's personality thoroughly, because after all there is always a partner who tries to hide all his bad habits while in the dating period which ultimately makes his partner not know about his bad habits and these habits are known when they are both married, meaning that not all divorces are caused by a partner not taking the time to find out about his partner's habits thoroughly.

Traditionally couples take time to date in order to bond and adapt to each other and their respective families over a period of time that is usually quite long, meaning that I also recognize that when a couple plans a wedding right away it can be a pretty strong reason as to why many of them end up divorcing. On the other hand, I am sure that no one wants to have a partner who is a gambling addict because I think the bad stigma about gambling is widespread in the sense that the majority of people already know the bad effects, meaning that in this case, the male partner really hides his bad habits from the female partner.

Yups, what you said could indeed be one of the reasons why the population of addicted gamblers is increasing or could be one of the triggers for the increase in interest in gambling, which as you said it is reasonable to say that the convenience of online casinos could really be the initial trigger for this change, And even if a gambler does have a plan for some of the precautions that they have prepared, it does not mean that they will be able to fully do this, because when gambling is more accessible and they have equipment that can really help them to start their gambling sessions such as smartphones or PCs connected to the internet, it is certainly easier for them to fall into the whispers that always tempt their minds to try gambling. And when compared to physical casinos, then of course there is a significant comparison, not everyone has a lot of time to dedicate himself to going to the betting shop, while in online casinos even if for example you only have a little time but still you can bet with the money you have.

True, when someone finds it hard or difficult to accept the reality of their losses then it means they are risking money that they are not able to account for, it is very simple to identify and I think at first glance we can conclude that they are irresponsible gamblers, in general in this situation they can usually become increasingly crazy or aggressive in making decisions, because the inability to accept the fact of losing is usually always the initial trigger for the idea of chasing losses in an impulsive way.

On the other hand maybe what you mean by don't think about ourselves when we are gambling is in the sense that we don't put too much ego in ourselves regarding the results that will occur at the end of the session, or what it means is that we have to be neutral and prepare ourselves for any possibilities that will occur at the end of the session, that's true but maybe I would say that in order to have that ability a gambler must first bet an amount that they can afford to be responsible for along with being aware of the risks that can occur at any time.

Yes, the sad thing is that not many gamblers understand the true concept of gambling, or that means they don't understand what exactly the purpose of the casino is to create a game, and all they know is "the chance to win", that's what they always remember, so over time indirectly when someone is too focused on one thing then they will create various illusions and beauties related to it, as you say that they think or assume that they will be able to become a big man by engaging in gambling, even though it is clear that overall only casinos have the advantage to gain more profits from gamblers.

Therefore, this is why we always advise anyone, especially beginners, to first understand what they are actually doing. Because only by having the right understanding will they be able to make various decisions that are in accordance with their abilities, while when someone only sees from one side such as "chances of winning" then obviously they will not have any preparation to minimize other possibilities that can never be tolerated such as risk.

Yes that's the point, don't ever try to take actions that are beyond your means, everyone has different limits, especially when it comes to spending money, and it's a fact that everyone doesn't like to lose, especially not by a significant amount. That's why we always recommend that you never try to make decisions that are beyond your means. I understand that gambling provides opportunities, but we must also be aware of the possibility of risks that cannot be tolerated, meaning that the opportunities and risks are 50 - 50.

On the other hand, I firmly believe that gamblers who can feel entertainment and enjoyment in gambling are those who understand the opportunities but also realize the risks where their minds are not too focused on winning because they realize the risks that cannot be tolerated, so the point is that by realizing and knowing about what you are doing, you will most likely have no difficulty in applying various precautions such as caution or being wise and others.

in living life, of course we need money to survive, therefore money is one of the important things in life, especially now that money is everyone's transaction tool and with the development of increasingly sophisticated technology, money can be made online, not just pieces of paper. just. To be able to make money, of course we have to work hard because by working hard we can make money. Apart from that, I'm sure everyone has desires and to be able to realize these desires, of course you need money, such as wanting to have a vehicle or gadget, house or something else, of course you need money. a certain amount of money to be able to own it.

Indeed, even basic needs require money to fulfill them. It is not surprising that many people get into debt when they are in a difficult economic situation, but doing this is certainly not something to make a habit of, as much as possible we should be able to make money with what we can as long as The things you do do not harm other people, such as working or trading. also with the current technological developments that must be put to good use, there are many people who trade online and there are also those who have been successful by doing this, things like this must be used as an example, no matter what their situation is, but what is clear is that surviving is something that has been done. Of course you have to work hard.

It's true, it's best not to live in debt because debt usually makes us feel uneasy. If you only borrow money once for an emergency, maybe it won't be a problem, but don't make it a habit to borrow money when you're in an emergency, when The situation is better, we must be able to try to make more money and be able to set aside some money for savings because by having money saved, one of the goals is to handle emergencies that occur. although there are people who are still not used to saving because they only think about temporary styles. and I think this happens a lot with young people who are carried away by their social environment which demands everything that is luxurious.

It's true what you said, if we don't learn or can't manage our finances well then it's likely that we will only experience a financial crisis and that can apply in the long term, which can also involve us borrowing money when we are in a state of financial crisis. Therefore, it is very important to be able to manage finances well to prevent things from happening that could make us experience undesirable situations.

Yes that's right and maybe I will simplify your idea above about gamblers who cannot ignore greed in themselves, in the sense that when they are in a lucky situation that makes them win big usually they will think that by continuing then they will be able to get a much bigger amount of winnings, in the sense that they feel that luck will last longer, even though however it can never be known, because after all the name of luck is something that will come without being invited and leave without saying goodbye.P

And in the end as you said that often gamblers who apply greed end up in a worrying situation, in the sense that all the winnings they have managed to get back to the casino due to intolerable losses. It is clear that this is the reason why applying greed is always prohibited in gambling, because there is absolutely no certainty for you to get a bigger amount, so it is better to avoid such actions if you do not want to end up with regrets.

Well that's the point, in the sense that in order to make the idea of emptying the wallet work a gambler must really be aware of the possibilities that can occur, meaning that before you run the session then you must first prepare for the idea which is what I did by emptying all the contents of my digital wallet before I started entering the gambling session. But if you think or suggest the idea when a gambler is already overcome by emotion then I think it's very unlikely that they will be able to do that, it's too late.

On the other hand, what you said is very true that we not only need to limit the amount of budget but also of course it must be followed by limiting the emotional self, because it is useless if you only put limits on the budget because in the end your emotions can really push you to do various impulsive actions like what gambling addicts do, and the point is that self-awareness needs to be really prioritized.

True, the incident indirectly tells the female partner that the man she is going to marry is someone who does not have a good responsibility in him, and of course what you say is a possibility that is really very likely to happen, in the sense that if the two of them continue their marriage then yes there is a possibility for the man to do more crazy things which can damage the harmony in their household relationship or even threaten their lives. On the other hand, a man is the head of the household in the family, meaning that they have a very big responsibility to maintain the lives of all their small families at all costs, while on the other hand gambling is an activity that requires someone to always allocate money, and if the gambler is already addicted then of course it is likely that they will not hesitate to do or take various crazy actions that can have a very negative impact on their family life. So this incident indirectly tells the female partner to reconsider her decision before regretting it.

Yes, that is something that might happen, meaning that it cannot be denied that a gambler can experience a change in his interest in gambling activities, even though initially as you said, where they gambled with the intention and purpose of entertainment, but that does not mean it is impossible for them to eventually gamble with the intention and purpose of earning income, where one of the factors causing it might be because they feel tempted by the victory in gambling, whether it is achieved by others or by themselves.

One of the causes of this is most likely because they experience a decline in awareness in themselves so that over time they fall into the wrong belief in gambling which indirectly changes their gambling intentions to seek income. The other thing is actually like I suggested earlier that even if for example you gamble for income but if you realize that gambling is a risky activity then of course you have to keep everything within your means, or I mean it's okay to put the intention to earn as long as you gamble without exceeding your limits, and that's the point.

True, one of the keys to being able to stop at the right time is to have the ability to accept the risks experienced such as losing, and this ability will only be possessed if someone has the right understanding of how gambling really is, as you said by understanding that there is a chance of winning but also realizing the risk of losing, and this understanding can support someone in terms of applying responsibility in every decision they make.

This means that I agree with you that having a proper understanding of how gambling actually works can help one avoid the possibility of losing significant amounts of money, and yes of course saying will always be easier than practicing, but it doesn't hurt to have that plan early on because I'm sure over time if a gambler really cares about their own safety they will continue to train themselves to be responsible gamblers.

True, and one thing I will say that if only the majority of gamblers knew about this fact then in my opinion it would be unlikely for them to maintain their intentions and goals of earning in gambling, because after all it is clear that the name of the business certainly has the intention and purpose to get a lot of profit, and if we talk about the gambling business then yes of course the casino benefits from the majority of losing gamblers, or simply put the more gamblers who lose (due to acting impulsively) the greater the casino's profits.

Basically, yes, as you said, it is true that gambling is also the same as other businesses that we know,  there is no significant difference with business in general, and maybe the difference is in terms of the product being marketed, they don't have a product to sell, they just  make a game as an intermediary to get profit from their  business.

One of the reasons why addiction is called a very bad situation is because it is a phase where a person continues to do various actions that tend to be excessive which all lead them to a much worse impact, which in addition yes as you said that another problem is that addiction is a disease that is really difficult to cure, even if for example a gambler can recover from addiction but surely they have experienced some bad effects.

I think that choosing gambling as an activity that is done with the aim of finding entertainment when you have boring free time is indeed nothing wrong, or any activity, even more dangerous, everything will still be fine if basically a gambler knows and understands the level of risk and makes various decisions that do not exceed his limits.