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Hi guys and girls! After making quite a lot of money then losing it and crying about it half the afternoon I have decided to give up gambling for good. Its not for me in have a much too addictive personality. So now I jlpeust plan to work for casinos but not gamble. The thing is you know you should cash out but you always want just that little bit more and then u lose the whole lot. I'm stupid and greedy. Right after I lost i put more in and doubled it then I went all in and lost it. So yes u can make a killing gambling with such a small about like a few dollars but then u lose all u make and waste a lot of time and energy and end up getting upset. Also i shake like mad when I gamble and I hate that. I tremble. When I lose I can't believe what the screen is telling me. So any thoughts ? Ways to stop ? Ways to gamble with play money ? Maybe there are dust gambling casinoes I can use? U know just for fun and for the fix. If you are quitting gambling or giving it up that's a good news in your part. I think much better for you to change your daily habit or hobby in gambling. If you like online gaming, why not try that one,. I think that might gonna helped you anyway. I think for those people who also find it difficult to quit gambling, they can also change their gambling strategy and planing, and though this way they can minimize the risk of losing money and through this way they all do mimic the gambling habit and at last they will become able to quit it for ever. But I think it still need too much hard work and struggle.
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bhadz
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May 03, 2017, 08:09:01 PM |
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You just need to clearly allocate the amount that you are ready to lose for gambling. With the right approach from this process, you can enjoy, not an uneasy state.
But if you will going to continue this type of allocation you are saying that will end up into addiction. And there's no use for it to give up gambling, you are just giving yourself another problem and headache. That will result for having another difficulty to quit in gambling because you will think about the amount you are ready to lose.
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May 04, 2017, 07:40:10 AM |
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Prevention of gambling is a difficult decision, especially if large amount that he lost in gambling. But if he could have discipline to his himself is maybe not coming back to gambling. Addiction to gambling is a difficult thing to go back for it and they know that its hard to stay away from it.
correct, that is a very hard to do. Because its not really easy due to the gambler was already an addicted, even they lose big amount of money. So I think the better way to do with it is self control must be implement unto it, even for a little by little application of giving up. I guess it is not too hard to give up. It only depends on the will power. If a person is committed to stop it anymore and don’t want to gamble he will leave it but only in the circumstances that he seriously want to do so. There is nothing impossible but a little tough time will lead anyone to the achievement of the goal set.
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poplolnman
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May 04, 2017, 07:28:11 PM |
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that's right, gambling is not easy. This is a big risk, but when you can take risks, it will not be a problem. as long as you can benefit, I think it's still better than you always lose and it does really have to give up, it means that you don't have a good strategy on gambling
There's no risk when you are going to give up gambling. But the risk of losing everything you've got will be gone, that's how gambling works, it will just make you addicted and if there's a benefit on it that is only very few. It really depends on how you are going to deal with it. Of course keep on trying to help yourself about it. the problem are not on how you can take a risk or not . but on how you handle the hard situation in case you get a very bad result and causing your financial status in danger . should you to take a break and continue later or just quit gambling forever to avoid the same thing happened in the future? it's up to you , but when you decide to quit forever just prepare yourself as the proccess feel like when you want to stop on drugs addiction. Once you decided to stop gambling don't think again to come back. Don't give a small break and come back again. How many times you play and whenever you play the result is same in gambling. So once you met any bad experience in gambling stop gambling and never come back. Yes, it is not easy to stop gambling so you must addict to another thing to stop this gambling then only it is possible. any addiction never have a good result. so i disagree with your opinion about you have to become an addict to another thing. you should treat anything as normal as possible , don't get exceed the limit. just go for a professional help when you think it's more than just addiction , but it's has been a dangerous disease. that's actually makes everyone hard to giving up.
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May 04, 2017, 07:50:35 PM Last edit: May 04, 2017, 08:16:42 PM by Monnt |
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The reality is it is really difficult to give up but it should not be an excuse for someone not to quit in gambling. Because it is difficult, it is then required to exert more effort to ensure success, I know entering gambling is very easy but whatever happen to us like when we are addicted, let's admit that it is our fault therefore we have to correct our mistakes.
Yes that is really not such an easy task. You need to be good decision taker and fully determinant person and only then you can quit gambling for ever, but still you can quit gambling at once first you have to minimize the gambling habit and after that you can stop it. Because I personally know so many people who stop playing gambling but after some time they start playing it again. So, I can conclude that gambling cannot be quit at once.
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LuanX3
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May 05, 2017, 11:14:20 AM |
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The reality is it is really difficult to give up but it should not be an excuse for someone not to quit in gambling. Because it is difficult, it is then required to exert more effort to ensure success, I know entering gambling is very easy but whatever happen to us like when we are addicted, let's admit that it is our fault therefore we have to correct our mistakes.
Yes that is really not such an easy task. You need to be good decision taker and fully determinant person and only then you can quit gambling for ever, but still you can quit gambling at once first you have to minimize the gambling habit and after that you can stop it. Because I personally know so many people who stop playing gambling but after some time they start playing it again. So, I can conclude that gambling cannot be quit at once. It just depends on the person if he truly wants to quit gambling. If he is determined then he can stop it. I did it too, back then I had a small addiction to gambling. I always think that I can get back all my losses but in reality I didn't. I lost more than $2,000. It's not that big, but at the time probably that is all I had back then.
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May 05, 2017, 03:17:28 PM |
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The reality is it is really difficult to give up but it should not be an excuse for someone not to quit in gambling. Because it is difficult, it is then required to exert more effort to ensure success, I know entering gambling is very easy but whatever happen to us like when we are addicted, let's admit that it is our fault therefore we have to correct our mistakes.
Yes that is really not such an easy task. You need to be good decision taker and fully determinant person and only then you can quit gambling for ever, but still you can quit gambling at once first you have to minimize the gambling habit and after that you can stop it. Because I personally know so many people who stop playing gambling but after some time they start playing it again. So, I can conclude that gambling cannot be quit at once. It just depends on the person if he truly wants to quit gambling. If he is determined then he can stop it. I did it too, back then I had a small addiction to gambling. I always think that I can get back all my losses but in reality I didn't. I lost more than $2,000. It's not that big, but at the time probably that is all I had back then. That's definitely true,we should put our mind and heart on things we really wanted, Determination is the key and allowing ourselves to grow more being worthy. If we really think gambling is not worth doing for so we should give it up. And stay to our word to really give up.
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May 05, 2017, 04:58:53 PM |
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It's really difficult to give up gambling at a sudden. But if you are determined to quit then you have to take proper planning. You can take a alternative task to replace gambling, then you have to create new routine to maintain yourself strongly. If we can follow properly then it would not be easy to quit gambling.
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May 05, 2017, 10:47:25 PM |
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that's right, gambling is not easy. This is a big risk, but when you can take risks, it will not be a problem. as long as you can benefit, I think it's still better than you always lose and it does really have to give up, it means that you don't have a good strategy on gambling
What a pile of goo. Gambling is actually very easy you just have to place bet and see the result. Strategy won't help you to win, it wont help you with anything. It is gambling omg. although it is too much easy to play gambling but still not easy make money in gambling. in fact in gambling our luck play an important role and if we are lucky then we will certainly make money but if we are not luck then we will even lose your own money, in sports games we can use our skill and experience but still luck is too much important in gambling.
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May 05, 2017, 10:57:44 PM |
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It's really difficult to give up gambling at a sudden. But if you are determined to quit then you have to take proper planning. You can take a alternative task to replace gambling, then you have to create new routine to maintain yourself strongly. If we can follow properly then it would not be easy to quit gambling.
You just to be willing and determined in able to quit gambling. Even you will do proper planning but there's no proper execution of it, still that plan will be worthless. It's better not to plan but you are doing something just to give up gambling, if you are entertaining yourself with other things like sports playing, that's better.
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May 13, 2017, 03:22:53 PM |
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It's really difficult to give up gambling at a sudden. But if you are determined to quit then you have to take proper planning. You can take a alternative task to replace gambling, then you have to create new routine to maintain yourself strongly. If we can follow properly then it would not be easy to quit gambling.
You are right, giving up gambling won't be that easy but if you know for yourself that playing gambling is doing nothing any good to you then it is much better to quit. It will not be easy and the temptation of playing again will be high but as long as you have the determination of quitting, you will do good and will be able to fight the temptation when it kicks. Hobbies (sports, writing, outdoor activities and etc. ) and engaging yourself to do other things will help to keep you off in playing gambling again.
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Urban Crypto
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May 16, 2017, 01:11:32 PM |
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Hi guys and girls! After making quite a lot of money then losing it and crying about it half the afternoon I have decided to give up gambling for good. Its not for me in have a much too addictive personality. So now I jlpeust plan to work for casinos but not gamble. The thing is you know you should cash out but you always want just that little bit more and then u lose the whole lot. I'm stupid and greedy. Right after I lost i put more in and doubled it then I went all in and lost it. So yes u can make a killing gambling with such a small about like a few dollars but then u lose all u make and waste a lot of time and energy and end up getting upset. Also i shake like mad when I gamble and I hate that. I tremble. When I lose I can't believe what the screen is telling me. So any thoughts ? Ways to stop ? Ways to gamble with play money ? Maybe there are dust gambling casinoes I can use? U know just for fun and for the fix. If you are quitting gambling or giving it up that's a good news in your part. I think much better for you to change your daily habit or hobby in gambling. If you like online gaming, why not try that one,. I think that might gonna helped you anyway. I think for those people who also find it difficult to quit gambling, they can also change their gambling strategy and planing, and though this way they can minimize the risk of losing money and through this way they all do mimic the gambling habit and at last they will become able to quit it for ever. But I think it still need too much hard work and struggle. I don't believe there is a middle ground. If someone has a gambling problem then there is no way to "budget" or gamble responsible. It is inevitable that they will return to the misery of an addicted gambler.
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crazycatwoman03
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May 16, 2017, 07:58:36 PM |
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I don't believe there is a middle ground. If someone has a gambling problem then there is no way to "budget" or gamble responsible. It is inevitable that they will return to the misery of an addicted gambler.
I disagree with you, there is way to gamble responsible. Many gamblers might have gambling addiction but there are still gamblers who are able to control themselves and know when to quit the game if the luck is running out or not working out. Everyone has their second chances and the choice to change. Even a gambler with addiction problem can turn away from gambling, it is just a matter of determination and perseverance.
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PhilPrime
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May 16, 2017, 08:43:50 PM |
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I don't believe there is a middle ground. If someone has a gambling problem then there is no way to "budget" or gamble responsible. It is inevitable that they will return to the misery of an addicted gambler.
I disagree with you, there is way to gamble responsible. Many gamblers might have gambling addiction but there are still gamblers who are able to control themselves and know when to quit the game if the luck is running out or not working out. Everyone has their second chances and the choice to change. Even a gambler with addiction problem can turn away from gambling, it is just a matter of determination and perseverance. They can really turn away if they really want too. No matter what happen they'll be able to find a way out there. But mostly of the gamblers ,those gamblers who make gambling as a living find it hard to leave it behind it maybe because they just find it best for them to make a living or due to some circumstances.
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serjent05
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May 16, 2017, 10:01:45 PM |
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I don't believe there is a middle ground. If someone has a gambling problem then there is no way to "budget" or gamble responsible. It is inevitable that they will return to the misery of an addicted gambler.
I disagree with you, there is way to gamble responsible. Many gamblers might have gambling addiction but there are still gamblers who are able to control themselves and know when to quit the game if the luck is running out or not working out. I agree with Urban Crypto. A normal person can gamble responsibly but the person that have gambling problem ( gambling addiction) will have a hard time to gamble responsibly. They already lose their control so how can they gamble responsibly. Everyone has their second chances and the choice to change. Even a gambler with addiction problem can turn away from gambling, it is just a matter of determination and perseverance.
I do agree that every one deserve a second chance and you are right, no matter how addicted to gambling the player is, if his determination is bigger than his addiction then he can definitely turn away from gambling. Turning away from gambling is like quitting gambling. And when you quit gambling, you cannot gamble responsibly since you won't be playing gambling games anyway.
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May 17, 2017, 02:08:21 AM |
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Everyone has a choice to change. The main reason to give up gamble is because you lose your money then absolutely you have a big problem about financial maybe you're depress or stress. But then giving up is not totally easy maybe you said "I already change and will not going to play gambling anymore" but that word can be prove if you actually not craving to gamble. It is so hard. Become addicted is so hard.
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May 17, 2017, 02:18:53 AM |
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Everyone has a choice to change. The main reason to give up gamble is because you lose your money then absolutely you have a big problem about financial maybe you're depress or stress. But then giving up is not totally easy maybe you said "I already change and will not going to play gambling anymore" but that word can be prove if you actually not craving to gamble. It is so hard. Become addicted is so hard.
Everyone has their choices, but even so, no one can stop the urge, the drive, the greed of someone. And that is big problem, whats bigger problem is that the family or your loved ones are being affected of how the way you are behaving. You might want to stop gambling, but if you are really addicted, it is hard to get out of that box, you need someone's help.
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May 17, 2017, 02:50:56 AM |
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Everyone has a choice to change. The main reason to give up gamble is because you lose your money then absolutely you have a big problem about financial maybe you're depress or stress. But then giving up is not totally easy maybe you said "I already change and will not going to play gambling anymore" but that word can be prove if you actually not craving to gamble. It is so hard. Become addicted is so hard.
Everyone has their choices, but even so, no one can stop the urge, the drive, the greed of someone. And that is big problem, whats bigger problem is that the family or your loved ones are being affected of how the way you are behaving. You might want to stop gambling, but if you are really addicted, it is hard to get out of that box, you need someone's help. Family first before anything else, we strive hard for them and losing them is very sad, let us be more realistic and put away our desperation to make easy money because chances of happening it in gambling is very low. Let's do it slowly but surely, you can find a job and when you have enough savings that is the time that you will start to invest, opportunities are everywhere especially in crypto.
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May 17, 2017, 03:27:55 AM |
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Everyone has a choice to change. The main reason to give up gamble is because you lose your money then absolutely you have a big problem about financial maybe you're depress or stress. But then giving up is not totally easy maybe you said "I already change and will not going to play gambling anymore" but that word can be prove if you actually not craving to gamble. It is so hard. Become addicted is so hard.
Everyone has their choices, but even so, no one can stop the urge, the drive, the greed of someone. And that is big problem, whats bigger problem is that the family or your loved ones are being affected of how the way you are behaving. You might want to stop gambling, but if you are really addicted, it is hard to get out of that box, you need someone's help. Family first before anything else, we strive hard for them and losing them is very sad, let us be more realistic and put away our desperation to make easy money because chances of happening it in gambling is very low. Let's do it slowly but surely, you can find a job and when you have enough savings that is the time that you will start to invest, opportunities are everywhere especially in crypto. What's been quoted is true. When a user has a stable income to look after the needs of him as well his family he doesn't need to be anxious towards gambling. Once after fulfilling the requirements and with the excess spending on gambling to know about the luck he has is the right move than just spending on gambling and ruin living.
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May 17, 2017, 06:38:21 AM |
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I don't believe there is a middle ground. If someone has a gambling problem then there is no way to "budget" or gamble responsible. It is inevitable that they will return to the misery of an addicted gambler.
Some people said that you could do it. Actually everything depends on yourself, if you choose to overcome your gambling habit with some determination then you will do it however when there is no determination at all then you cant. All it matters is not the method of how to do it but rather if you want it or not
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