The madness of gambling addicts.

[Dewi Aries]

If will of gambler is not present in leaving gambling then no matter how hard his family treat him or set restrictions for him he will not decide to leave it because addiction is the thing which is hard to leave even your family and friends tell you all pros and cons of gambling. If individuals involved in gambling think himself that he is doing wrong activity then there is a possibility that he will shortly leave gambling. If a person is gambling but not for whole day then he can easily get rid of it otherwise a person once start selling of materials for getting money for gambling then such case become a cause of depression for both gambler and his family.

In terms of leaving the gambling habit, it has no influence on the person who tells us to stop gambling, because to stop gambling will really depend on ourselves, if we don't want to stop then whoever tells us to stop gambling will not have any impact. for ourselves and the worst thing is for those who have experienced gambling addiction. People who experience this addiction disturb the comfort of those closest to them and this is very bad.

Indeed, even how hard those people will going to try helping an addicted gambler, if the person itself is not willing to surrender or not willing to cooperate to resolve the issue then there's no impact that will take place, addicted gambler can extend to the point that you are unexpected them to do so, things that not usual from what they usually doing.

It's unfortunate that addiction dominated inside them and they are unable to control whatever their desire push them, the only matter is to continue playing no matter what is the cost of their gambling sessions.

Because gambling addiction is very different from some other addictions such as drugs that can be treated medically or maybe rehabilitation, but for the problem of gambling addiction I think it is still quite difficult to find a cure, because this disease is in the human mindset which means that if they really don't want or don't have the intention to stop then obviously some suggestions that even though they seem reasonable will not fully help them, maybe only a few percent. Gamblers who are already addicted will not be able to accept such advice because they have their own beliefs and mindset even though their mindset is generally unreasonable.

They feel like they are fine with their bad habits when in reality the changes are very visible and significant especially in terms of their finances. Basically, addiction can come from anywhere consciously and unconsciously, but I think lately more of them are entering the addiction phase unconsciously which starts from the scenario of not being able to accept all the risks of losing which ultimately makes them continue to chase defeat until they enter the cycle of "winning addiction and losing curiosity". Honestly, I can't give any advice that might be quite effective, because the problem of belief and mindset and also habits is difficult to change, maybe they just need time to answer it.

[Quidat]

If will of gambler is not present in leaving gambling then no matter how hard his family treat him or set restrictions for him he will not decide to leave it because addiction is the thing which is hard to leave even your family and friends tell you all pros and cons of gambling. If individuals involved in gambling think himself that he is doing wrong activity then there is a possibility that he will shortly leave gambling. If a person is gambling but not for whole day then he can easily get rid of it otherwise a person once start selling of materials for getting money for gambling then such case become a cause of depression for both gambler and his family.

In terms of leaving the gambling habit, it has no influence on the person who tells us to stop gambling, because to stop gambling will really depend on ourselves, if we don't want to stop then whoever tells us to stop gambling will not have any impact. for ourselves and the worst thing is for those who have experienced gambling addiction. People who experience this addiction disturb the comfort of those closest to them and this is very bad.

Some person are open minded and does accept advises but most of us wont really be putting up much care into those people who are around. They wont really be listening into those advises
and they would really be sticking into the things on which they do really believe that it would really be followed no matter what. On the time that you are already addicted with gambling
then it would really be already hard to resist on not to play and this is why it would really be that so common that gamblers will really be playing until the last drop of their funds on which
it is really just that a  common approach on which you would really be playing until your dead. Realization would be always coming at the end of the line on which it is really just that
normal that you would really be having those kind of regrets.

[dansus021]

That is crazy I mean the news said he is the grandpa's same blood right, after this happened I don't know what happened with this family I think its gonna fall apart. In my opinion gambling is just for fun that evolve money not gonna explode like this one.

I hope case like this wont happen again.

[l3pox]

That is crazy I mean the news said he is the grandpa's same blood right, after this happened I don't know what happened with this family I think its gonna fall apart. In my opinion gambling is just for fun that evolve money not gonna explode like this one.

I hope case like this wont happen again.

yes, there are many of such cases in gambling and these are definitely not good
playing with money is only good if you're playing with money you can afford to lose and if it doesn't affect your life in a really negative way.
what are the things people can try to learn and practice that will believe they not to fall victim of these kind of situations?

[yazher]

yes, there are many of such cases in gambling and these are definitely not good
playing with money is only good if you're playing with money you can afford to lose and if it doesn't affect your life in a really negative way.
what are the things people can try to learn and practice that will believe they not to fall victim of these kind of situations?

They should just simply look at the result of their actions both good sides and bad sides, if they see that there is more harm than benefits, they should just leave it and look for other good activities or hobbies that could help them progress safely. This is not the case for most people because they want some risk and they are rushing things without reflecting on the consequences. The result often leads to broken families and misery because of what they failed to understand before engaging in such actions.

[Rabata]

It is an eternal truth that the more time a gambler spends on gambling, the more he becomes addicted to gambling. In this case the gambler has to keep his own control and no one else can help the gambler in this perspective. Reckless gambling not only worsens the gambler's financial condition but can also make his personal life miserable. We often hear of gamblers committing suicide due to gambling losses. What is worth noting for such work is that the gambler often manages to bet beyond his ability. Some bet with borrowed money and others with their wealth. As a gambler, such gambling must be avoided.

[piebeyb]

That is crazy I mean the news said he is the grandpa's same blood right, after this happened I don't know what happened with this family I think its gonna fall apart. In my opinion gambling is just for fun that evolve money not gonna explode like this one.

I hope case like this wont happen again.

Anyone who has ever experienced an addiction will definitely feel like they have forgotten everything, they will do whatever it takes to be able to finance their gambling, no matter what their grandchildren or other people close to them are, the addict will definitely ignore that, if they do that, it means they are a very serious addict, because if a lower level addict wouldn't do something stupid like that, because they could still make money in other ways.

Addicts are getting weirder every day, but sometimes it's quite difficult for older people to get money when they're old unless they do that, crimes that don't actually have to be done to satisfy their addiction, it's really beyond reason, even a grandfather still doesn't understand that Gambling is just entertainment. 

[Z_MBFM]

That is crazy I mean the news said he is the grandpa's same blood right, after this happened I don't know what happened with this family I think its gonna fall apart. In my opinion gambling is just for fun that evolve money not gonna explode like this one.

I hope case like this wont happen again.

yes, there are many of such cases in gambling and these are definitely not good
playing with money is only good if you're playing with money you can afford to lose and if it doesn't affect your life in a really negative way.
what are the things people can try to learn and practice that will believe they not to fall victim of these kind of situations?

When someone gets addicted to gambling they lose control of themselves due to which they forget how much they can afford to invest and overinvest because of this if they can win at gambling they become rich quickly. And if he loses then it becomes very dangerous for him. Therefore, before starting gambling one should maintain control and invest a normal amount that can afford to lose. Because it is normal to lose and gain in gambling and no one can always win here. So one should be able to enjoy the win as well as accept the loss. Otherwise one should not go gambling

[Fredomago]

It is an eternal truth that the more time a gambler spends on gambling, the more he becomes addicted to gambling. In this case the gambler has to keep his own control and no one else can help the gambler in this perspective. Reckless gambling not only worsens the gambler's financial condition but can also make his personal life miserable. We often hear of gamblers committing suicide due to gambling losses. What is worth noting for such work is that the gambler often manages to bet beyond his ability. Some bet with borrowed money and others with their wealth. As a gambler, such gambling must be avoided.

The worse side of gambling is the after-effect of addiction, to the point that gambler can take his own life if he loses a lot, though the blame is not for anyone, it's the system that keep that gambler engage, if you have that chance to talk or if you are in that situation better to find someone who can guide you and who can understand your situation.

It's a long-term process of healing, but with proper guidance and self-will you can cure it and you can avoid doing crazy things that gambling addicted person can extent doing it.

[danherbias07]

~snip~
do you think some people can get to gambling too because they have too much disposable income and don't think they deserve all the money they got?
could be a thing too imo.

having a support network definitely helps a lot.

I really think that most actual rich people never or very rarely gamble. It's usually the poorest people the ones that are gambling.

If you think about it, the rich already have money, so there's no incentive to gamble.

For the working class though, that's a different story, they are buying a hope to become rich. That's gambling.

Very rare, that's true. It's those who are trying to make money in a faster way which is the target of the gambling industry. Rich people stay rich because they know how to manage their money. Another case is, that poor people who suddenly get rich. They are the most prone to gambling addiction cases. Simply because they have never experienced betting high in gambling and when they have the money they can test it out like there's no tomorrow.
There are cases of popular boxers who ruined all their profits from boxing to gambling. One day millionaires as we call them. They will keep on wasting all their money because they know they can make more in just one fight in the boxing ring and that cycle continues until they retire without anything in their pockets.
As I said, those who suddenly make more money, are not good at financial budgeting. Unlike those who started rich and were taught how to manage the business and the money, they will not gamble for their urge, they may be seen in physical casinos just for meetings or other profitable reasons but not to gamble. If an individual knows how low the chance of winning against the house is and is good at math, he will definitely not risk his capital to gamble.

[n00ber]

It is an eternal truth that the more time a gambler spends on gambling, the more he becomes addicted to gambling. In this case the gambler has to keep his own control and no one else can help the gambler in this perspective. Reckless gambling not only worsens the gambler's financial condition but can also make his personal life miserable. We often hear of gamblers committing suicide due to gambling losses. What is worth noting for such work is that the gambler often manages to bet beyond his ability. Some bet with borrowed money and others with their wealth. As a gambler, such gambling must be avoided.

The worse side of gambling is the after-effect of addiction, to the point that gambler can take his own life if he loses a lot, though the blame is not for anyone, it's the system that keep that gambler engage, if you have that chance to talk or if you are in that situation better to find someone who can guide you and who can understand your situation.

It's a long-term process of healing, but with proper guidance and self-will you can cure it and you can avoid doing crazy things that gambling addicted person can extent doing it.

I don't think it's that serious. Gamblers can become addicted and dependent on gambling, and this can cause psychological problems such as depression, anxiety, and suicide. They may feel lonely and isolated and not want to participate in social activities. They live a closed life, and gradually, their thinking becomes distorted, and they intend to commit suicide.
Therefore, it is necessary to have measures to control and monitor gambling activities to protect health and avoid negative consequences for the family. At the same time, there needs to be support and help for family members affected by gambling problems so that they can overcome difficulties and abandon the idea of taking their own lives.

[Nerdy doctor]

The worse side of gambling is the after-effect of addiction, to the point that gambler can take his own life if he loses a lot, though the blame is not for anyone, it's the system that keep that gambler engage, if you have that chance to talk or if you are in that situation better to find someone who can guide you and who can understand your situation.

It's a long-term process of healing, but with proper guidance and self-will you can cure it and you can avoid doing crazy things that gambling addicted person can extent doing it.

Addiction is not necessarily a side or a part of gambling. It only pops up in those who have overtime, become irresponsible and careless in their gambling habits.
While the system has a role to play in creating addicts out of people, we have the bulk of the problem at our feet. We’re the cause of our own fortunes or misfortunes and the sooner we come to terms with it and accept responsibility for our actions, the better for everyone. Finding fault with the system and not with the player is wrong on so many levels.

[kamvreto]

It is an eternal truth that the more time a gambler spends on gambling, the more he becomes addicted to gambling. In this case the gambler has to keep his own control and no one else can help the gambler in this perspective. Reckless gambling not only worsens the gambler's financial condition but can also make his personal life miserable. We often hear of gamblers committing suicide due to gambling losses. What is worth noting for such work is that the gambler often manages to bet beyond his ability. Some bet with borrowed money and others with their wealth. As a gambler, such gambling must be avoided.

The worse side of gambling is the after-effect of addiction, to the point that gambler can take his own life if he loses a lot, though the blame is not for anyone, it's the system that keep that gambler engage, if you have that chance to talk or if you are in that situation better to find someone who can guide you and who can understand your situation.

It's a long-term process of healing, but with proper guidance and self-will you can cure it and you can avoid doing crazy things that gambling addicted person can extent doing it.

I don't think it's that serious. Gamblers can become addicted and dependent on gambling, and this can cause psychological problems such as depression, anxiety, and suicide. They may feel lonely and isolated and not want to participate in social activities. They live a closed life, and gradually, their thinking becomes distorted, and they intend to commit suicide.
Therefore, it is necessary to have measures to control and monitor gambling activities to protect health and avoid negative consequences for the family. At the same time, there needs to be support and help for family members affected by gambling problems so that they can overcome difficulties and abandon the idea of taking their own lives.

Gamblers who are addicted will never be open about their gambling. This will be difficult because when the environment he lives in does not care about what he is doing, negative actions will be taken. Family is the main hope so that gambling addicts do not seek dangerous paths. The madness of gambling addicts will become more visible when they do not have money to gamble, because their emotions are not controlled and they try to get money from anywhere even by stealing and other criminal acts.

[n0ne]

The worse side of gambling is the after-effect of addiction, to the point that gambler can take his own life if he loses a lot, though the blame is not for anyone, it's the system that keep that gambler engage, if you have that chance to talk or if you are in that situation better to find someone who can guide you and who can understand your situation.

It's a long-term process of healing, but with proper guidance and self-will you can cure it and you can avoid doing crazy things that gambling addicted person can extent doing it.

Addiction is not necessarily a side or a part of gambling. It only pops up in those who have overtime, become irresponsible and careless in their gambling habits.
While the system has a role to play in creating addicts out of people, we have the bulk of the problem at our feet. We’re the cause of our own fortunes or misfortunes and the sooner we come to terms with it and accept responsibility for our actions, the better for everyone. Finding fault with the system and not with the player is wrong on so many levels.

Agreed, we're responsible for what we get out of gambling. We don't have the mind to take a break from gambling, even when we have doubled the bet. Further looking for more and more makes us end up losing everything. This further makes us keep thinking of recovering what we've lost. So, everything is completely dependent upon our activities. If we're good enough and have the proper control it is quite easy to stay away from addiction as well as avoid losses.

[Renampun]

That is crazy I mean the news said he is the grandpa's same blood right, after this happened I don't know what happened with this family I think its gonna fall apart. In my opinion gambling is just for fun that evolve money not gonna explode like this one.

I hope case like this wont happen again.

That grandfather is a devil in a human body, he no longer cares about his daughter or granddaughter, people who dare to hurt their family members just for gambling are people who are no longer worthy of being in the family, they should be exiled in prison, I can't imagine how scared the mother was when she heard about the kidnapping and she was even more shocked when she found out that the perpetrator was her own father, gambling addicts are people who must be cured but if they go too far, they must be in prison.

[nullama]

~snip~
That grandfather is a devil in a human body, he no longer cares about his daughter or granddaughter, people who dare to hurt their family members just for gambling are people who are no longer worthy of being in the family, they should be exiled in prison, I can't imagine how scared the mother was when she heard about the kidnapping and she was even more shocked when she found out that the perpetrator was her own father, gambling addicts are people who must be cured but if they go too far, they must be in prison.

There is no 100% evil person, we all have good and evil inside us, and our every day decisions show that.

This didn't happen overnight. This person was slowly, day after day, walking a dangerous path, and then this happened.

Yes, the event itself happened in one day, but the build up to that takes time.

And the most scary part is that pretty much almost anyone in the world can do something as evil as that given the circumstances.

Of course you might think you won't do it, while comfortably sitting at home, and having a great life. But if you were to experience the same things other people do, then you would probably behave in a similar way.

There was an experiment done long time ago that proved this, that people could actually send lethal electric shocks to someone far away because they were told to do so. Scary stuff.

[Sanugarid]

That is crazy I mean the news said he is the grandpa's same blood right, after this happened I don't know what happened with this family I think its gonna fall apart. In my opinion gambling is just for fun that evolve money not gonna explode like this one.

I hope case like this wont happen again.

That grandfather is a devil in a human body, he no longer cares about his daughter or granddaughter, people who dare to hurt their family members just for gambling are people who are no longer worthy of being in the family, they should be exiled in prison, I can't imagine how scared the mother was when she heard about the kidnapping and she was even more shocked when she found out that the perpetrator was her own father, gambling addicts are people who must be cured but if they go too far, they must be in prison.

There are really bad people in the world who can do this to their family, and the reason for that is money. Like what happened to them, the grandfather had no heart because he could do that to his family just to be able to gamble. OMG. His grandfather is really a demon. Too addicted to gambling and unable to think properly, I hope the child can recover from what happened because it must be painful for them because they don't think their loved ones can do that.

[klidex]

That is crazy I mean the news said he is the grandpa's same blood right, after this happened I don't know what happened with this family I think its gonna fall apart. In my opinion gambling is just for fun that evolve money not gonna explode like this one.

I hope case like this wont happen again.

Anyone who has ever experienced an addiction will definitely feel like they have forgotten everything, they will do whatever it takes to be able to finance their gambling, no matter what their grandchildren or other people close to them are, the addict will definitely ignore that, if they do that, it means they are a very serious addict, because if a lower level addict wouldn't do something stupid like that, because they could still make money in other ways.

Addicts are getting weirder every day, but sometimes it's quite difficult for older people to get money when they're old unless they do that, crimes that don't actually have to be done to satisfy their addiction, it's really beyond reason, even a grandfather still doesn't understand that Gambling is just entertainment. 

In my opinion, this is no longer about gambling addiction but rather a crime, how could a grandfather kidnap his grandson just to be used as collateral? I think the grandfather was in a psychological state disturbed by his gambling, indeed sometimes gambling addiction has a bad impact on our lives, especially for the future, for example, like this grandfather who is still actively gambling and his age is no longer possible, but age is not an obstacle to taking actions that are out of control and finally did this stupid act, I think this grandfather's gambling is at the stage of a chronic gambler and is very worrying.

It is true that there are stupid acts committed by addicts, even in my local media news, there are people who commit stupid acts of breaking into ATM machines just because he was addicted to slot gambling and wanted to continue his activities but his money had run, so he ended up doing a rash act like that but in the end he didn't succeed but ended up in prison.
A ridiculous act, isn't it??

[Fredomago]

That is crazy I mean the news said he is the grandpa's same blood right, after this happened I don't know what happened with this family I think its gonna fall apart. In my opinion gambling is just for fun that evolve money not gonna explode like this one.

I hope case like this wont happen again.

That grandfather is a devil in a human body, he no longer cares about his daughter or granddaughter, people who dare to hurt their family members just for gambling are people who are no longer worthy of being in the family, they should be exiled in prison, I can't imagine how scared the mother was when she heard about the kidnapping and she was even more shocked when she found out that the perpetrator was her own father, gambling addicts are people who must be cured but if they go too far, they must be in prison.

Shocking news but this is how addicted can go, when they are really aiming to have the money to use they can go up to this far just to please the lust inside them, that kind of a person who can hurt their love just for the sake money should be in-prison and I hope the daughter will think first of her daughters sake and not because of that fatherhood instinct as her father can just repeat that again and again if she just let him go after doing such kind of a crime to his own blood.

[passwordnow]

In my opinion gambling is just for fun that evolve money not gonna explode like this one.

It is for fun like what everyone is saying but we don't know to what extent gamblers can do not just to themselves, to their properties but for most things that they have in their possession and even relationships can be affected a lot by them. Because when money talks, the emotions become high and you'll never know what you can do for it especially if you're out of your mind and high on it.

I hope case like this wont happen again.

You don't say and we'll never know but yeah, I agree that hopefully that there won't be the same case that shall ever happen again because this is so crazy that some people can attain to do this because of their madness that seems no one to stop them and they'll only realize the bad doing at the end for which is what happens usually.