Ibian
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June 18, 2018, 01:49:46 AM |
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This discussion is lame. I have ALL of what you are suggesting men can’t have. I’ve had it all.
Virgins, models, women richer than me, women poorer than me, marriage, beautiful long term monogamous relationships, threesomes, and variations of the above. Out of over 100 women exactly 2 broke up with me and only 1 because she was trying to climb some stability ladder.
You guys that don’t get this, you need more charisma, confidence, self knowledge and personal responsibility.
I'm not seeing a stable life on your list. What the fuck is a stable life? I’ve lived a full rich meaningful life full of love. And I’m not even half way through with it. Stable? I don’t even know what that’s supposed to mean. Right. A hard r-type. Good for you, but the problem is that the more people like you we have the closer we get to a large percentage of the population dying. What the fuck is your problem? The point I was trying to make that was completely LOST on you, is stop complaining about your life and lack of female resources available to you and stop making excuses blaming women or blaming the internet or blaming whatever and MAN THE FUCK UP. Thats why I love decentralized crypto. It forces people to take responsibility for themselves. To be totally self accountable. Its the same with every other aspect of life. When you stop seeing yourself as a VICTIM and start realizing that you are responsible for 99.9% of the shit that happens to you, then you make the first step to actually having the life you want. Do you have kids? My fiancee is due literally any day now. Are you going to keep fucking a hundred other women now that you have finally managed to make one pregnant? Nice try twisting my words around to make it seem like you actually have a question to ask. But you don't know anything about the when, where and how. How about you asking yourself some questions. Your the one that's unhappy and unfulfilled inside. Look there. That's a yes. Which means you are actively hurting not only your country, but, probably, your kids as well. No, its miserable people like yourself with no joy in your life that hurt society. The woman I "knocked up" got knocked up during IVF. Lol. Yeah, totally by accident. If you only knew how stupid you were. Why would you do it like that? Is she old? How old are you? Do you have a girlfriend? A wife? Are you gay? Were you sexually molested as a child? How many women have you been with? Are you a virgin? What do you want in life? You answer those questions first. Otherwise, you aren't worthy of any more information from me. Emotional outbursts usually means something hit the mark. But very well, let's just end it here then.
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windjc
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June 18, 2018, 01:50:47 AM |
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This discussion is lame. I have ALL of what you are suggesting men can’t have. I’ve had it all.
Virgins, models, women richer than me, women poorer than me, marriage, beautiful long term monogamous relationships, threesomes, and variations of the above. Out of over 100 women exactly 2 broke up with me and only 1 because she was trying to climb some stability ladder.
You guys that don’t get this, you need more charisma, confidence, self knowledge and personal responsibility.
I'm not seeing a stable life on your list. What the fuck is a stable life? I’ve lived a full rich meaningful life full of love. And I’m not even half way through with it. Stable? I don’t even know what that’s supposed to mean. Right. A hard r-type. Good for you, but the problem is that the more people like you we have the closer we get to a large percentage of the population dying. What the fuck is your problem? The point I was trying to make that was completely LOST on you, is stop complaining about your life and lack of female resources available to you and stop making excuses blaming women or blaming the internet or blaming whatever and MAN THE FUCK UP. Thats why I love decentralized crypto. It forces people to take responsibility for themselves. To be totally self accountable. Its the same with every other aspect of life. When you stop seeing yourself as a VICTIM and start realizing that you are responsible for 99.9% of the shit that happens to you, then you make the first step to actually having the life you want. Do you have kids? My fiancee is due literally any day now. Are you going to keep fucking a hundred other women now that you have finally managed to make one pregnant? Nice try twisting my words around to make it seem like you actually have a question to ask. But you don't know anything about the when, where and how. How about you asking yourself some questions. Your the one that's unhappy and unfulfilled inside. Look there. That's a yes. Which means you are actively hurting not only your country, but, probably, your kids as well. No, its miserable people like yourself with no joy in your life that hurt society. The woman I "knocked up" got knocked up during IVF. Lol. Yeah, totally by accident. If you only knew how stupid you were. Why would you do it like that? Is she old? How old are you? Do you have a girlfriend? A wife? Are you gay? Were you sexually molested as a child? How many women have you been with? Are you a virgin? What do you want in life? You answer those questions first. Otherwise, you aren't worthy of any more information from me. Emotional outbursts usually means something hit the mark. But very well, let's just end it here then. Lol. I didnt think you'd have the balls to answer those.
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Ibian
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June 18, 2018, 01:52:55 AM |
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It's literally the first rule of life. Doesn't change that a hundred women is hard r-type behavior, that women lose the ability to pair-bond the more sexual partners they have Men too - even more, perhaps. This is speculation mostly from observation, but it seems like men are actually hurt by too little sex while women are from too much of it. Comes back to evolution, in tribal times the men who could get the most and the youngest women were on top of the social hierarchy. Women meanwhile wanted said top men, and not the other twenty losers in the tribe. Needs more research for anything definite tho. and that it is how people in a declining culture behave.
I'd like it if we all declined some more. We will.
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windjc
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June 18, 2018, 01:54:37 AM |
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It's literally the first rule of life. Doesn't change that a hundred women is hard r-type behavior, that women lose the ability to pair-bond the more sexual partners they have Men too - even more, perhaps. This is speculation mostly from observation, but it seems like men are actually hurt by too little sex while women are from too much of it. Comes back to evolution, in tribal times the men who could get the most and the youngest women were on top of the social hierarchy. Women meanwhile wanted said top men, and not the other twenty losers in the tribe. Needs more research for anything definite tho. and that it is how people in a declining culture behave.
I'd like it if we all declined some more. We will. Sounds like a Muslim radical. Or a Christian radical. Need more research for anything definite tho. 
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d_eddie
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June 18, 2018, 01:54:52 AM |
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and that it is how people in a declining culture behave.
I'd like it if we all declined some more. We will. In my useful lifetime, I mean.
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windjc
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June 18, 2018, 01:57:25 AM |
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and that it is how people in a declining culture behave.
I'd like it if we all declined some more. We will. In my useful lifetime, I mean. Ah, you got plenty of time I imagine. Btw, this Ibian guy. There was a reason I had him on ignore until today. Is it a common thing, for young boys to sit around on the interwebs talking about how civilization is declining by assuming that all humanity is driven by it most animal natures? Kind of a narrow view to be stuck in.
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Ibian
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June 18, 2018, 01:59:20 AM |
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and that it is how people in a declining culture behave.
I'd like it if we all declined some more. We will. In my useful lifetime, I mean. Yes. Again, inaccurate projections as this is about the future, but the cultural cycle should theoretically culminate somewhere around 2015-2035.
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windjc
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June 18, 2018, 02:00:14 AM |
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and that it is how people in a declining culture behave.
I'd like it if we all declined some more. We will. In my useful lifetime, I mean. Yes. Again, inaccurate projections as this is about the future, but the cultural cycle should theoretically culminate somewhere around 2015-2035. Lol. And when this cultural cycle culminates what happens then? Want to make sure Im prepared, with my bomb shelter or whatever.
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d_eddie
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June 18, 2018, 02:00:39 AM |
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and that it is how people in a declining culture behave.
I'd like it if we all declined some more. We will. In my useful lifetime, I mean. Ah, you got plenty of time I imagine. I've got a long wishlist too.
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d_eddie
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June 18, 2018, 02:02:53 AM |
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Idle, bickering conversation ensues only because the corn is sleeping. DO NOT PROD NOW.
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Toxic2040
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June 18, 2018, 02:09:19 AM |
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Most divorces don't end on friendly terms. Out of curiosity, what did you end up being forced to pay to her and how old were your kids when the divorce happened?
No pre-nup but I gave her the house we lived in at the time. Zero fault state so no alimony...but I payed substantial support for the kids. Worked out to about 50k for each kid..pretty cheap imo. This does not count the cars, clothes, college fund and endless trips to the mall typical of young girls. Kids were pre-teen at the time..just spent a great day with them actually..was real nice.
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windjc
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June 18, 2018, 02:11:48 AM |
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Most divorces don't end on friendly terms. Out of curiosity, what did you end up being forced to pay to her and how old were your kids when the divorce happened?
No pre-nup but I gave her the house we lived in at the time. Zero fault state so no alimony...but I payed substantial support for the kids. Worked out to about 50k for each kid..pretty cheap imo. This does not count the cars, clothes, college fund and endless trips to the mall typical of young girls. Kids were pre-teen at the time..just spent a great day with them actually..was real nice. Happy father's day.
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jojo69
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June 18, 2018, 02:13:58 AM |
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I'd like it if we all declined some more.
take - me - to - the - sluts
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Torque
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June 18, 2018, 02:17:04 AM |
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Meh..I disagree completely. I have been divorced now for 10 years after 17 years of a mostly wonderful marriage, I have 3 beautiful children and a solid relationship with my ex that I would not trade for the world. Marriage and life are what you make of it. If you put a negative connotation on something it will most likely be that in reality. Just a thought.
Yeah, but you have to realize that your relationship with your ex is the exception and not the rule. Most men get royally screwed over by the ex-wives, both during the whole rotten, depressing marriage and then afterward. Sounds like you didn't. Also sounds like you had substantial disposable income to spend on your teenage daughters, and a willingness to do it. Very antithesis to what most men have post-divorce.
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Ibian
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June 18, 2018, 02:17:52 AM |
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Most divorces don't end on friendly terms. Out of curiosity, what did you end up being forced to pay to her and how old were your kids when the divorce happened?
No pre-nup but I gave her the house we lived in at the time. Zero fault state so no alimony...but I payed substantial support for the kids. Worked out to about 50k for each kid..pretty cheap imo. This does not count the cars, clothes, college fund and endless trips to the mall typical of young girls. Kids were pre-teen at the time..just spent a great day with them actually..was real nice. So a house, cars and a small fortune in essentially cash. And what did she give you? What does she keep giving you, other than letting you stay out of jail? Honestly doesn't sound like a great deal to me. And my understanding is that this is a relatively good case by american standards?
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windjc
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June 18, 2018, 02:20:49 AM |
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Most divorces don't end on friendly terms. Out of curiosity, what did you end up being forced to pay to her and how old were your kids when the divorce happened?
No pre-nup but I gave her the house we lived in at the time. Zero fault state so no alimony...but I payed substantial support for the kids. Worked out to about 50k for each kid..pretty cheap imo. This does not count the cars, clothes, college fund and endless trips to the mall typical of young girls. Kids were pre-teen at the time..just spent a great day with them actually..was real nice. So a house, cars and a small fortune in essentially cash. And what did she give you? What does she keep giving you, other than letting you stay out of jail? Honestly doesn't sound like a great deal to me. And my understanding is that this is a relatively good case by american standards? It is cowardice to only ask questions of others and to share no information about yourself. How did you come to be such a coward?
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windjc
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June 18, 2018, 02:22:56 AM |
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Meh..I disagree completely. I have been divorced now for 10 years after 17 years of a mostly wonderful marriage, I have 3 beautiful children and a solid relationship with my ex that I would not trade for the world. Marriage and life are what you make of it. If you put a negative connotation on something it will most likely be that in reality. Just a thought.
Yeah, but you have to realize that your relationship with your ex is the exception and not the rule. Most men get royally screwed over by the ex-wives, both during the whole rotten, depressing marriage and then afterward. Sounds like you didn't. Also sounds like you had substantial disposable income to spend on your teenage daughters, and a willingness to do it. Very antithesis to what most men have post-divorce. Who cares? If he is the exception to the rule he is not the exception to rule because of luck, but because of a series of choices he made throughout his life most likely. Even if your initial premise is true it doesn't mean anything to someone in his shoes. He doesn't need to realize his exception. Exceptional people have no need to realize their exceptional nature. They can of course, but they don't need unexceptional people preaching it to them.
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Torque
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June 18, 2018, 02:24:57 AM |
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Meh..I disagree completely. I have been divorced now for 10 years after 17 years of a mostly wonderful marriage, I have 3 beautiful children and a solid relationship with my ex that I would not trade for the world. Marriage and life are what you make of it. If you put a negative connotation on something it will most likely be that in reality. Just a thought.
Yeah, but you have to realize that your relationship with your ex is the exception and not the rule. Most men get royally screwed over by the ex-wives, both during the whole rotten, depressing marriage and then afterward. Sounds like you didn't. Also sounds like you had substantial disposable income to spend on your teenage daughters, and a willingness to do it. Very antithesis to what most men have post-divorce. Who cares? If he is the exception to the rule he is not the exception to rule because of luck, but because of a series of choices he made throughout his life most likely. Even if your initial premise is true it doesn't mean anything to someone in his shoes. He doesn't need to realize his exception. Exceptional people have no need to realize their exceptional nature. They can of course, but they don't need unexceptional people preaching it to them. A: Was I talking to you? B: Why are you trying to be a dick?
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windjc
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June 18, 2018, 02:25:53 AM |
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Meh..I disagree completely. I have been divorced now for 10 years after 17 years of a mostly wonderful marriage, I have 3 beautiful children and a solid relationship with my ex that I would not trade for the world. Marriage and life are what you make of it. If you put a negative connotation on something it will most likely be that in reality. Just a thought.
Yeah, but you have to realize that your relationship with your ex is the exception and not the rule. Most men get royally screwed over by the ex-wives, both during the whole rotten, depressing marriage and then afterward. Sounds like you didn't. Also sounds like you had substantial disposable income to spend on your teenage daughters, and a willingness to do it. Very antithesis to what most men have post-divorce. Who cares? If he is the exception to the rule he is not the exception to rule because of luck, but because of a series of choices he made throughout his life most likely. Even if your initial premise is true it doesn't mean anything to someone in his shoes. He doesn't need to realize his exception. Exceptional people have no need to realize their exceptional nature. They can of course, but they don't need unexceptional people preaching it to them. A: Was I talking to you? B: Why are you trying to be a dick? You were talking to all of us who read this thread. I am not being a dick. Just being intellectually honest.
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