Exactly, meaning that no matter how much you think of ways such as looking for a strategy that you think can increase your chances of winning still in the end the results of the session sometimes still more disappointing than what you expected, and as you say here that maybe more precisely it will just waste your time. On the other hand for me honestly I always believe that gambling is always about luck or simply means that you will win when you are really lucky and nothing more than that.

With this mindset I don't have to be busy thinking about various ways such as looking for strategies to win bets, honestly I used to be a gambler like that but in the end I thought that it was an action that would only waste time, and finally I gambled according to my instincts and feelings. One thing that makes me not too serious in gambling because I understand that gambling is completely not a place to earn, so with this kind of thinking I don't have to think of all the ways just to win because if I'm lucky then the victory will come by itself. For me a good and smart strategy is when you are able to manage the money for your gambling allocation which leads to preventive measures so that you don't lose your balance due to the wrong approach to gambling.

Yes and I would say that the problem point is "hope", meaning that they still have hope in winning from gambling so that it makes it difficult for them to quit their gambling activities, usually they always assume and think "one more time" or "it looks like this time I will be lucky", such ideas always lead to new experimental actions that can be even more excessive. Which means that if for example the thing I said above can happen or means that they are able to achieve awareness due to often being dominated by defeat in some experimental sessions then thinking towards change is likely to happen.

So the key in this case is to prioritize and maintain caution along with self-awareness, especially when you are still in the regular gambler stage or meaning that you have not entered the addiction phase in the sense that you don't really feel excessive interest in gambling activities, all of this is for your safety in the long run, because after all gambling always involves things that look tempting which are sometimes very difficult to ignore, which means that if you don't apply caution and maintain full awareness within yourself then it is obviously very easy for you to fall into and get carried away which ultimately causes a lot of problems.

I think all things apply to everyone, one of which is about the world of trading, but the problem is that not everyone is able to go through all the processes that exist in this trading, because there are so many things that must be prepared and owned by traders, for me trading is like you build a company within yourself where you are the boss who has rules and capital and you are also the employee who works to make profits along with other things such as prohibitions that must be avoided, and in various cases usually what is always a problem is when they are unable to keep the rules along with the prohibitions that they have previously made.

Like not complying with risk management such as stop loss and take profit, usually greed and inability to control themselves are always a problem in general for most traders, this is what I always find that ultimately makes a trader end up with a lot of losses. So when you want to become a successful trader then you need to have a few things in yourself, first the most important thing is to control yourself in various situations, especially when you experience losses and secondly want to learn or learn many new things to increase your knowledge and insight.

This is what makes someone ask about "is there an indirect impact on others due to the behavior of someone who is addicted to gambling", of course because it is a fact that loans like this are often done or even used as an alternative by addicted gamblers when they do not have money to gamble. As you said, the scenario is that they put on a sad face and say that the purpose of the loan is for other very important and urgent things that are actually for gambling.

This scenario makes the people closest to them or the borrower can feel sorry for them who in the end lend money and after that the problem occurs, because someone who is addicted to gambling that is in his mind is to continue gambling and sometimes even though they win but not long after that all the winning money is again used up in gambling because they have difficulty ignoring the greed aspect in themselves so that the situation and situation always ends in losing. Someone who is addicted to gambling is those who when they win apply greed because they cannot be grateful for the amount they get which in the end makes them lose again, and when they lose it is usually difficult for them to control their emotions and look for other alternatives such as borrowing to return to gambling with the intention of returning something that was lost before. On the other hand, I agree with your suggestion that if you do have a friend who is quite active in gambling or even who is addicted to it, then don't get too close to him, put limits on socialization because after all this is for your own good too.

Yes it means gambling for everyone, and it is true that everyone can gamble as long as they have the money to bet on two possibilities at the end of the session between winning or losing, simply put gambling never looks at whether you are male or female all have the freedom to gamble. But if you are asking something else then yes obviously I would say that gambling is recommended only for those or people who do not have any problems in life especially financial, because honestly lately I see quite a lot of people who come with the aim of overcoming their personal problems such as gambling to pay off debts or gambling to improve their financial situation, that is very wrong because gambling is not a solution because there is absolutely no certainty in terms of the results at the end of the session about winning or losing.

You said that you feel bad or uncomfortable when you lose in gambling but on the other hand you also said that you don't want to stop gambling because this can make you relieved and happy, so maybe I would say that you are not one of the responsible gamblers because you feel bad when you lose, and my suggestion is that if you want to continue gambling and don't want to stop then you have to re-justify your understanding of gambling, you must understand that gambling is always about winning and losing, and losing can never be avoided completely, so the choice may be between you stopping or being able to accept the consequences of losing.

Exactly, because nowadays there is no free lunch, everything is paid and even when you want to urinate in a public place you have to spend some money, and especially if we talk about services that provide predictions, they do provide predictions but they also provide conditions to everyone who wants to use their predictions to pay some money. On the other hand, I do not forbid you or anyone from following the directions from the predictions of the services provided, there is no harm in trying, but before that you have to think and consider it first, try to allocate money that really will not be used for other needs because even though the service predictions provide something that looks tempting but that doesn't mean you can actually win at the end of the session.

Do at least 3 attempts, and if you win all three in a row then that means that the predictions from the service are good enough to be used as an alternative or intermediary to get a win even though basically you have to pay a certain amount of money to join, but I think the problem with the results is that you still have to is suspected, and if it turns out that in 3 attempts you lose more then it is clear that the decision is that it is better for you to gamble your own way, because sometimes your own luck is more tempting than following someone else's way.

Maybe what you mean here is applying management to the budget that you want to allocate to gambling activities, or it means only putting a small budget amount that will not be a problem if in the end you lose and lose money, and of course that is a good idea and advice for approaching gambling, because what is certain is that this is a high-risk activity that can even eliminate all valuables, especially the money you have in an instant.

On the other hand if for example you managed to get a win in one of the sessions that you did then yes of course the recommended action is to cash out as soon as possible and if you still want to play then you can play with the amount of pure money that you won before then secure your capital, it's better because even if in the end you lose it doesn't matter and I don't think it will be too draining on your emotions because the money you allocate is the money from your previous winnings, on the other hand yes I understand what you mean here that sometimes even though we have implemented a good plan but in the end we lose everything, and maybe I will give advice that you need to put firmness on the plan along with maintaining your self-awareness, because with this I think it is less likely for you to fall into greed that can end up losing all your money.

But on the other hand gambling is an activity that can stimulate the nerves in the brain while humans have a forgetful nature that can make them fall into it without realizing and obviously as I said it means that identifying gambling activities about whether you are experiencing problems, especially in terms of finances, is an action that I think is not wrong to do because after all it leads to good also so that when they realize that they have financial problems even if only a little they are able to make decisions to change their approach to gambling.

So even if for example you have a good approach to gambling and are advised to gamble responsibly then that does not mean you are free from bad possibilities such as falling into an impulsive approach to gambling, and I think it is not uncommon for gamblers who initially have a good approach but end up becoming impulsive gamblers, all of that happens because they are carried away unconsciously. On the other hand you have a good approach to gambling, and my advice would probably be for you to maintain awareness along with a firm grasp on planning and awareness, as this can prevent you from falling into the wrong approach to gambling over time.

Yes, it is actually difficult to get out of gambling addiction when someone still really wants to gamble based on the obsession to get a lot of winnings, because it is very clear that with that you will never be able to reach the level of consciousness to admit that what you are doing is wrong. So actually the conclusion is that it is difficult to overcome gambling addiction when you still really want to gamble or that means you still really like gambling activities, even though on the other hand you may experience financial problems due to excessive gambling but you will never think of changing or recovering or even you don't feel that you are actually addicted, this is because you still haven't reached awareness or haven't realized that the way you gamble is wrong so there is no thought that leads to changes to recover.

And obviously it means that if someone has been able to reach the level of awareness in themselves as well as realizing that the many problems they feel in life such as in terms of finances are due to treating gambling in the wrong way then obviously from there in my opinion you will start thinking about correcting your mistakes regarding the wrong approach to gambling or even you think about stopping completely.

Yes, it is true and the problem and the reason why someone who has a goal of earning in gambling even experiences a greater number of defeats is because in terms of "trials", it is certain that someone who has a goal of earning in gambling they will definitely experiment more and that is where the casino will spend their money little by little slowly in the many sessions they do, on the other hand as we know that the percentage of wins is much lower than losses which means that if you experiment too often in gambling then obviously you will experience more losses than wins, because all wins will usually only come when you are really lucky.

This is the reason why gambling should not be taken too seriously if you do not want to experience a negative impact on your finances, and as experienced by someone who comes with the aim of earning, because in fact what happens is that they will only suffer an increasing number of defeats over time, and on the other hand for the problem of luck, yes I agree with you and you have explained it above in detail, and everything we discussed here I think it is clear that it can be used as a reason why we are better off making gambling a pleasure activity without putting any expectations and seriousness.

Depending or following other people's predictions in gambling will actually only make you disappointed at the end of the session, no matter if they basically say and claim that they are very experienced so they can get more wins, you should be suspicious of such ideas because after all in gambling no one is great at predicting if they are nothing more than the same player as you, but if they are a croupier or casino owner themselves then yes maybe their advice can be trusted if they are honest people.

On the other hand you can't say that there is success or a way to achieve success in gambling, logically if there was wouldn't everyone turn to gambling? Or if that were true then obviously people who have jobs would quit and turn to gambling to be able to achieve success in gambling, but the fact is that no one can succeed in gambling by getting a lot of wins that make them rich, We must understand that gambling is still gambling which is an activity that bets your money based on "ignorance" for the results at the end of the session, and also gambling is not an activity that can be learned, this is the reason why someone can lose and win in different sessions because there is nothing to learn to achieve improvement in winning and also there is no consistency in terms of winning. So in essence, play with personal instincts and don't rely on others, and also understand that gambling is not a learnable activity, this is the reason that gambling is always about "uncertainty" about winning and losing, so just play by applying a lot of risk management and if you win it means you are lucky.

However, keeping gambling habits a secret is indeed more advisable because overall gambling has a negative point of view in the eyes of society but that does not mean you have to keep it a secret from everyone including those closest to you, one of the reasons is as you said above that sometimes we really need someone to help advise us especially when we are dominated by emotions due to defeat, and in my opinion there is nothing wrong if you tell one of your closest friends about your gambling habits.

There are also benefits like what you mean here where we sometimes need advice from them to keep us from doing some out of control actions when the situation is hot due to defeat, so keeping your gambling habits a secret is good but the point is that I don't think you need to keep it a secret to everyone and as I suggested above that there is nothing wrong with you telling one of your closest friends who play or spend time with you more often in your daily life, And as for the issue of whether you gamble too much or not, I still think telling one of your real friends is advisable because after all there is a possibility for someone to go further in gambling over time even if they were previously a moderate gambler.

You say that they have a great instinct to predict the game that will end up with a higher probability of winning, or predict the game that leads to victory at the end of the session, then why should they not trust their own ability in terms of prediction? Isn't it by using the way they have that will be able to make them end up with a lot of wins compared to following predictions from other parties that are not certain? for the problem of losing everyone will not like the name of losing but you have to realize that this is gambling where losing is always a definite result at the end of the session and maybe I will call them losers who want to win but don't want to lose.

On the other hand for me gambling is still gambling which means an activity that risks your money for two possibilities at the end of the session which is between winning and losing, you will end up in one of those possibilities and also I always believe that gambling is not an activity that can be predicted accurately to know the results at the end of the session. I'm not a professional or a skilled gambler, and I don't believe anyone or any service that says they are an expert in gambling that has good predictions for winning, I'm sure you will say that the ideas of experts are absurd if you are able to look at gambling from a rational point of view, so with this I always prefer to gamble in my own way, because after all, other people will not be responsible for your loss if it turns out to be a loss.

Exactly, that's the strategy I always think about, or I mean I think about the same thing as you when it comes to financial strategy. In any case, smart management is more advisable when it comes to money, especially when we're talking about gambling where there are possible risks that can never be tolerated, and it's obvious that choosing to cash out as soon as you get a win is a good idea that leads to preventive measures.

Cashing out as soon as possible and securing your initial stake and going back to play with the winnings is a smart and healthy way to gamble, this way you can slightly avoid the possibility of losing more. But unfortunately most gamblers can't do it, one of the reasons is obviously they find it difficult to ignore the greed that is in them, it all happens because they have excessive expectations of winning so that all they think about is "getting a bigger amount", they think that it is a good situation to act more aggressively, but unfortunately they don't know that luck will not always be able to last for a long time, which ultimately makes them lose all their initial capital along with the amount of winnings they managed to get.

In my opinion only a small percentage of gamblers are able to control everything properly and in accordance with the suggested directions, while most others are controlled by gambling and not those who control gambling or in the sense that they gamble on the wrong path, and for the problem of impact, yes it is clear that the impact of mistakes in treating gambling can destroy all aspects of life, losing balance in terms of finance is the main target as a result of wrong gambling and after that problems can spread to many other things, and one of them causes problems in family relationships.

On the other hand, I am not sure that a spouse can accept gracefully about the problems experienced in the family due to activities or habits carried out by their partner that have an impact on family finances, after all, money is the most important thing in life, especially when you are married where there are so many needs that continue to grow and cannot be tolerated. If for example you have a partner who is involved in gambling no matter if they are a fairly responsible gambler then my advice is to try to get your partner to stop from this activity in any way that you think is effective enough, not least because the impact of gambling can get worse over time when your interest is getting higher.

For me gambling is not a necessity, or not an activity that should be prioritized, I only gamble when I want to and also when I have a certain amount of money that I can afford to lose, if you count maybe I only gamble once a month or twice a month, even then it is quite rare and there is no consistent involvement, so with this habit I think I am in the situation of a casual gambler who has no tendency to lead to addiction because I also do not experience any problems at all especially in terms of finances.

But I think it's a pretty good suggestion, I mean it's fine and it's quite advisable to examine your gambling habits in particular identifying how far you're involved in this activity and also identifying whether or not you're experiencing financial problems after you've been involved in gambling. But I think it's quite unlikely for a gambler to think in this direction, especially if they're basically the type of gambler who comes in with the wrong goals such as to earn, the problem is that it's difficult to achieve awareness so yes as you say they'll most likely feel that they're still okay even though they're not.

Yes and that means the difference is in "managing and controlling", basically anything done in excess always results in something bad and especially if we are talking about gambling which is an activity that has an even higher risk than we imagine when you treat gambling in the wrong way.  Talking about healing or recovering someone from the addiction phase is a really difficult problem to overcome and we all recognize that.

But actually it all depends on the person, I say that gambling addiction is difficult to cure when you really don't realize that you have entered the addiction phase, because sometimes experiencing financial problems does not always make someone realize that all of that is due to wrong gambling, because gambling addiction lies in a person's wrong mindset which means that gambling addiction will not be too difficult to overcome if for example they want and have a strong determination to change, and after that we can help them with some support even if it's just a suggestion, and in my opinion what should be prioritized is to emphasize awareness, not to let them experience interest in gambling again, meaning that if possible, the healing must be supervised by several closest people, especially family.

Simply put, addiction is a disease that exists in the human brain system where he is obsessed with a certain activity, if for example the activity he likes does not contain any risk then maybe yes there will be no serious impact as happens in gambling, but if the addiction they experience in gambling or in the sense that they really like gambling for some reason then obviously for the problem the impact is definitely significant. On the other hand, one of the things that makes it difficult for someone to get out of gambling addiction is that they usually do not have the right understanding of gambling.

Most of them usually have the intention and goal to make money in gambling so when your goal is like that then obviously it is very difficult for you to get out of this activity because your hopes and beliefs are very high towards winning but in the end the facts keep slapping yourself that most sessions always end in defeat. And yes I agree with you that the impact of gambling involves social relationships with the community, there are many people who are affected indirectly, such as when scenarios where you hang out or have friends who are already addicted to gambling which in the end it is possible for you to experience some problems such as your friend borrowing money to gamble which in the end does not pay and becomes a problem.

Yes overall and from the number of gamblers who suffer financial problems after they engage in gambling activities then maybe I would also conclude that most of the gamblers come for income and not entertainment or fun. On the other hand I'm not saying you or anyone else won't be able to win because obviously all gamblers have the same chances of winning but maybe the difference is in terms of the amount and time to get the winnings, but what is certain is that seeking income or chasing gambling winnings as a way to recover is a waste of your money and time, in fact various cases have proven that it will only lead you to a much worse situation with a bigger amount of losses.

True, I agree with you that we can only play without knowing the outcome, because gambling is always about two "possibilities" at the end of the session which is between winning or losing, simply put if you win then it means you are lucky or vice versa. However winning is really only for the house and the percentage of losing is much greater than winning and that is the reason why we are better off making gambling a place to have fun by only putting a small budget amount, because we never know what the outcome will be, and realizing that gambling is a risky activity is the recommended mindset, with this then you will only focus on various measures for prevention, do not need to think about winning because if you are lucky you will also win like everyone else.

Yes and this is the reason why gambling should not be done excessively, none other than because as we know that the impact in gambling is very bad and can destroy all aspects of your life especially when you have entered the addiction phase which basically you will find it difficult to control everything especially will experience many problems in terms of finance. On the other hand, in my opinion, no matter how experienced you are, too much gambling is not recommended as you said.

This is because gambling is basically an activity that can never be predicted with 100% accuracy, which means that even if you have experience, losing in the end is a definite result. I think we no longer have to explain in detail about the dangers of the impact of gambling when someone has entered the addiction phase, which I even saw information on another page that someone committed suicide and that they were unable to withstand all the pressure of the many problems they experienced due to the wrong gambling, so obviously of course caution and vigilance are always recommended, never take trivial things in gambling because in the end it will trigger many major problems when your interest is getting higher.