Many people gamble by forcing it without looking at their limited financial situation. With their limited financial situation but they are already addicted to gambling so they will do anything to make money, but what they do is mostly wrong, because they are not working. They do anything to make money so they can gamble again but harming others also invites problems that have a big risk. such as, Borrowing money, there are some people who make loans to their friends or family members by force and there can even be violence because of borrowing money, and making online loans where this will bring problems in the future that can involve more than 1 person.
It would be nice to gamble with our own money and if there is no money it is better to just hold it, or vent it on other things that can avoid gambling activities.

If we discuss something in terms of hopes and desires then obviously it will always have no end, as happens in real life, usually we have difficulty in choosing about what is actually needed and what is wanted, often we are fooled because of these two things that usually unconsciously we prefer desires that basically do not really have a positive role / impact on our lives. It's the same with gambling, when people have high hopes following the desire to get something bigger then obviously they will prefer to increase the risk when in reality they can't accept all the consequences if they end up losing.

So in my opinion there are only two things that have the possibility to stop it, namely awareness and regret, realizing that everything they do including the mindset they carry is wrong and only makes them worse and with that incident there is some potential that makes them feel regret. If you gamble with high hopes and desires then obviously it is not entertainment that you get but a lot of pressure and new problems that arise because you are wrong in understanding the real gambling.

When you are still gambling or still frequently involved in the activity then losing will continue to be you for you, that means self-control and some limits will not completely make you avoid the potential of losing because losing and winning cannot be eliminated in the concept of gambling, but it will be very useful for a preventive measure so that the risk that will befall you is not too great and you do not suffer too much with the negative impact that befalls you.

Of course, once you've got a big win, that's when it all starts, some limits can easily be alienated as your expectations become higher as a result of the previous big win, in fact, if you manage to get a big amount like that then in the next session you will also hope for a much bigger amount of winnings. That's what makes most gamblers experience a big defeat, not that they can't win but the way and mindset they carry makes them lose again, isn't it? and the wrong mindset makes them unable to make proper considerations about what exactly is really good to make a choice, so it's not strange anymore if they run out of money then they will not hesitate to borrow because their confidence in winning is very high.

Of course there are several or even many reasons that make them finally leave, one of which does not have a qualified understanding and knowledge and also does not have management on planning and cannot manage good self-control in terms of approach to their trading engagement, if one of the things I have mentioned above is in yourself then obviously you will experience a lot of unusual pressure in your trading engagement, not only losing money but also mentally and psychologically you will be disturbed, and that's what makes you or them finally give up and leave.

Telling people that your losses are much higher than your gains is like you are exposing yourself especially to some other traders who are involved in the same field as you and that is why I agree with your statement that it is quite difficult for a trader to be able to show the results of their trading transparently. For the problem of experiencing losses that dominate more than profits I think it's still reasonable and usually that condition happens more to those who are just starting the approach because the level of knowledge they have is still low, it doesn't matter because over time you will be able to develop more with the experience you have while you are there, but if in the long run there is no change then that's another thing.

Do we have to say that this result refers more to luck for the Dortmund camp? yes it is possible, it is very difficult to be able to break the consistency possessed by Leverkusen with their current performance position, statistics have shown that in that match Leverkusen was far superior to Dortmund, especially in terms of shots on target. This result reminds me of some previous matches when Leverkusen were able to hold Bayern Munich to a draw, I consider it natural because the performance of the two teams is currently almost equal, but on the other hand I cannot compare between Bayern Munich and Dortmund because in the past few seasons Bayern Munich has proven to be stronger than them by always being able to secure the trophy at the end of the season.

I honestly don't know what the problem was that Leverkusen were only able to hold a draw, and if they were late in equalizing then obviously it was a very surprising (bad) result for Leverkusen who played at home. In conclusion, in my opinion, it is not only luck that Dortmund has but they also have a very strong defense. On the other hand this is a pretty tough task for Xabi Alonso because after all their position is now getting closer to Bayern Munich in the standings, so there is no reason for Leverkusen not to perform optimally in the next match to secure three points.

This is not a matter of pity but rather refers to "the money was not returned at the right time", no matter how close you are to your friend but if indeed their behavior makes you quite upset by not keeping their promise then obviously it is quite natural I think if you feel upset and disappointed, plus on the other hand there is a push from other things such as "if I put the amount I have loaned to my friend I will definitely get that big win".

That fact will really disturb your mind so that the OP really feels upset because it turns out that his friend cannot keep his promise. Although you suggest to OP to remind his friend but on the other hand I think this is not a matter of money or the amount of money but more on "opportunities that do not come twice", that's what makes OP very upset. Time has passed, the opportunity has been lost and the rice has become porridge, that's what's on the OP's mind, I think it's natural and hopefully it will get better soon.

It is a normal feeling that all humans have and in terms of emotions there will be two impacts that you can feel, if you can manage the emotions that are in yourself well then of course you remain fine even though you are experiencing problems, and if you cannot control the emotions in yourself then obviously bad impacts must come, so this really depends on themselves whether they can or not manage / control emotions in themselves.

Honestly, I'm not going to say too much about this but the main point is that if you go overboard in any way and put sky-high expectations on something that basically has no guarantee, certainty or even just an indication then obviously everything will end up worse than what you imagine. So you shouldn't get your hopes up on this activity, it's not a real opportunity but nothing but a trap for you, you must understand that casinos are very good at brainwashing you.

That makes sense, whether or not a game is a waste of time really comes down to each person's perspective on it. You're only really entertained when you play the games you like, like I do, out of thousands of games I only pick 1/2 that I visit every session, and that's fine with me and I wouldn't say it's a waste of money because I have an engagement plan that keeps me safe in terms of my budget.

I suspect that if you're trying out all the games that are out there it's likely that your goals are different to some people who are still fully conscious, I think it's likely that you want something beyond the fun of it, so you're trying out all the games with the aim and hope of "hopefully finding a bit or even a lot of luck (winning)".

As you said above I agree that gambling is a complete waste of money when you get involved with the wrong approach and the wrong way and also driven by the wrong understanding of gambling itself, that's clear. If you gamble on games like slots then it's entirely up to you how lucky you are at the time, some methods/strategies really don't work, I've tried it and now it's your turn if you don't believe me.

Basically there is no other way that we can do as a preventive measure other than some boundaries and good self-control, don't stop there because you have to be really firm in implementing it because not infrequently it can also be just empty talk, one of the the cause is when you are unconsciously carried away by a situation that seems fun and tempting when in reality it is nothing more than a temptation so that you have no choice to stop and rest.

In my opinion, the point of the problem is that your hopes are too big for good enough results, even though there is no guarantee or certainty that you will succeed in getting them. Moreover, the final results always depend on your luck, so you have to be really realistic in considering the details before you end up regretting it. , just that.

That's a positive point that we can take from this case, although Op failed to get a much bigger win but on the other hand I think he is still lucky to go home still able to bring victory even though the amount is not too large, but on the other hand we must not forget to be grateful for still being given a win, it's better than you go home empty-handed and crying.

Simply maybe I will say that it is luck for OP or that means OP's luck is only with that amount. On the other hand, it's true that it's a little annoying, I'm sure with this incident it looks like OP will have a little trouble with his friend or means a little tenuous in their friendship, but I think it's natural as a form of annoyance that comes out of humans who have common sense. Well exactly, don't think about it too much and just accept what you should get, because basically it's simple if indeed the big win is for you then there will be no possibility of problems like this between you and your friend which makes the big win blocked for you, so I'm not saying you're unlucky but maybe it's not time for that much luck.

Someone who wants to start a business must certainly learn every aspect related to the business he will run. Because the business he runs must have its own risks, so they have to learn what he wants to do to deal with the risks that exist later, most people fail to run their business because when they experience problems but they cannot handle it properly, so they end the business they run. Well this should not happen with new people who want to start a business. So learn every thing related to the business so that it can run well.
If they open a business but don't know what's what, I think they are just wasting money, because it's like fighting but not knowing what they are fighting for. After all, in a business of course there will be many obstacles that must be faced, so the business that he runs should be managed properly so that it can generate profits.

Yes you are right, before they were rich they must have had a business that made them rich. Also with shopping it may be true that you said they are still careful about the price of an item. But shameless children who have parents with abundant wealth do not think about the price when buying things, they tend to just want to enjoy their parents' wealth as they please, the worst of which is that they admit that they have a lot of money when it is only their parents' money.
There is nothing wrong with them enjoying their parents' wealth, but if they continue to use it casually it needs to be advised because the wealth that is obtained must be an effort that must be done, so if they want to enjoy wealth they should want to work or start a business to feel the process of achieving wealth.

If we really have a dream, of course we must have a strong determination to go through the process, by facing all the things that might sound difficult but if we ourselves are sure it can be overcome. But keep in mind also HOLDING is not an easy thing, so I don't think everyone can do it especially in the long run. Humans tend to change quickly at any time, maybe at the beginning they were sure they would be able to hold for a long time, but they could change their minds halfway through holding because the economy is currently difficult. So don't trivialize things so easily.
Many things must be understood so that we can hold for a long time, so not with a little knowledge, learn many things to be able to do long-term HOLDING. Long-term HOLDING is more profitable but not easy to do.

With the current situation, it's difficult for everyone to earn money, even if they have a job but sometimes they are still lacking economically. Also money is a common problem for everyone nowadays, because it's not as easy as plucking a leaf off a tree. You are right, knowledge can be sought anywhere, especially now that technology is developing, making it easier for us to access everything with the internet. But if it's about money that plays a role for capital it is very difficult, it is not easy to get money to make capital at the beginning.
So it is indeed money that has an important role in this problem. Because if there is no money we can't do it, investment also involves money as its main role, how to make a profit without money? Of course, everything that will generate profits must begin with capital where this capital is mostly money.

Something if done by force will certainly not go well, although there is a chance it will go well but the end might be guessed,  with a bad end. they do what they want and expect something they can get according to their expectations, but the possibility of their expectations will only be a dream that is difficult to happen especially with gambling where it is unlikely that expectations will match reality. Many things must be considered to avoid the risk of gambling, not rash in deciding on choices, not expecting more from gambling, just accept what has been obtained and leave. Do not force yourself to be able to continue gambling by pursuing a victory that is difficult to get. Instead of spending a lot of money on gambling, they should spend it on other things that are more positive. That's better.
Even if you have gotten a victory it is better to immediately cash it in, not with the words "one more bet", it can trigger the loss of the winnings that have been obtained,  the winnings that have been obtained are better secured first than continuing the game where it can make them lose control as well as the loss of profits earned.

It is unfortunate that they follow their ego and greed that plunges them deeper into gambling and it may also be difficult to get out of the trap they have felt. It can't be imagined that they have spent a lot of money on gambling if from the beginning they saved the money used for gambling maybe they could start a business that could clearly generate profits for themselves.
It's not wrong that they gamble, it's just that they can't limit their gambling nor do they have good responsibility, the mindset they have does not make them good but makes them addicted to gambling which will clearly harm them. If only they could limit their gambling activities maybe they wouldn't lose a lot of money gambling, but unfortunately it's the opposite.

There are many ways to avoid gambling addiction, such as, not borrowing money, avoiding friends who are addicted to gambling, not gambling beyond the limit and others, actually many things can be done to avoid addiction. But if they consider gambling as a source of money income it will be difficult because they already have confidence in gambling that will provide income for them, even though it can be sure that the wins and losses they get must be greater than the losses they get.
They should be able to gamble with common sense so as not to get addicted to gambling. Because if you are addicted to gambling, it seems difficult to recover from this gambling addiction. There will also be many harmful effects if they are addicted to gambling, one of which is the relationship in the family as you said that gambling can also trigger depression, anxiety disorders and even worse suicide, increase the risk of children to gamble when they grow up, also the family will experience tremendous stress, because financial problems are the main problems faced by every family if one of the family members is involved in gambling addiction then their finances will be difficult because just one person who is addicted to gambling can cause many problems in his family. Not to mention that they may commit crimes as you said in the beginning.

They take out a loan to go back to gambling just for the stupid purpose of recovering the losses they've incurred. That's not a good reason to take out a loan, it's a nonsense reason. Maybe they're doing it because they've lost their minds, so they believe borrowing will help them recover their losses. But they don't think about what will happen if they can't repay the debt, not only maybe but there will also be many problems that they will feel and have to face, there is no way they can avoid the problems they invited at the beginning.
also will invite high risk, instead of spending hours to gamble it is better to call family or friends to fill spare time. to avoid high risk situations they can do various techniques, such as.

1.Stay away from online casinos and gambling sites
2.Turn off your credit cards
3.Don't take out loans
4.Never carry large amounts of cash
5.Delete gambling apps from your phone
6.Don't socialize with friends who gamble
7.Avoid people, places and activities that you associate with gambling.

Gambling is not wrong if they can interpret it as entertainment, but most people misinterpret gambling to make them addicted to gambling.

Maybe rich people will bet without hesitation because they have a lot of capital to gamble so they don't think about the chances of losing or winning where they bet just to get a sensation that can make them satisfied. Also rich people do have a greater chance of winning because they have a lot of capital as well as the bets they make with not small amounts, there is no doubt about the bets they make, while their money is there they will do it without the slightest doubt.

In contrast to poor people where they gamble with the aim of wanting to win so that they can bring it to meet their needs that are completely lacking, and also they gamble with anxiety fear of losing the money they have, gambling carefully does not guarantee they can win. There is still a big chance of losing and there is no avoiding that.

There is an extraordinary feeling of joy when they can finally get victory after sacrificing several or even dozens of defeats, as you said about getting a bottle of water that falls from the sky when you are in the middle of the desert, it makes sense to describe that feeling. the joy they got was  extraordinary. It is a good condition if your victory can restore everything you have lost, but the question is, will they be able to stop their activities in that condition? can they hold back everything that comes out of their minds as a result of curiosity? I'm not sure about this.

As proof, now more and more people are experiencing an increase in their level of addiction, meaning they always want to get something bigger because they think that luck is still not finished but there is no indication whatsoever that tells them that they are still in a lucky position. On the other hand, it is quite rare for me to see quite good recoveries, usually  their winnings will only cover half the money they have spent, meaning the amount of losses is still large. Simply put, if the wins they get are big enough then the number of losses they have experienced is much bigger. So I think only responsibility and recognizing something that has been lost can make them realize and stop.