I think they will only be able to control everything, especially their emotions when they experience defeat, if they come without having a goal to produce, or what we usually call coming only to look for fun and entertainment, because if someone is more focused on winning than Concerned  about the possibility of greater risks, it will clearly be very difficult to be able to take such preventive measures, expectations and hope are one of the main problems.

I think you can't just say that "they can make money if they can control themselves or without putting expectations" you have to understand that self-control and avoiding greed is only something that is useful for minimizing risk and does not mean increasing the winning percentage  to bigger or more frequent, however, victory is always impossible to know when it will come because only luck can bring you results like that.

Yes, that's what they should do if they manage to get a win or that means being in a situation of pretty good luck, but unfortunately most of the gamblers can't do that, the urge out of hope for something bigger always appears when gamblers are in a winning situation, instead of withdrawing or cashing out to enjoy but what they choose is to apply greed by making previous wins as capital for a much bigger win, but the question is not that it is still uncertain? Or does that mean you don't know what the next session will be like? Obviously, it's nothing more than a hallucination that comes out of the excitement of being in a winning situation.

Usually in any case if you apply greed then usually the final result will always be disappointing, it's a fact that often happens if you choose to act greedy instead of cashing out and going to enjoy it. Therefore, if you have already won then I think the best option is to cash out rather than losing all your previous winnings because of applying greed and regretting it.

In my opinion, slot games are purely about luck, or I mean whoever it is, they will only be able to win when luck comes at the same time when you are in the session, that's why many people experience losses more often than wins in that type of game, and Also in my opinion overall, this slot game is more addictive than some other types of gambling, winning looks like it's easy even though in fact it is very difficult, therefore this type of gambling really should be used as a place of entertainment only when you really have free time, not only that but I think what is better is that you put the right mindset and understanding on all types of gambling.

Nothing more because all final results always depend on how lucky you are at that time, so of course you have to understand that gambling is nothing more than a game of probability which always cannot be predicted, especially for the final result, therefore I think gamblers cannot force their choices. , because it is clear that all gamblers definitely want to win no matter what, even though they come for the purpose of enjoyment, so you cannot say that gamblers can choose or force their choices because all expectations will not always match the facts.

Of course from the actual choice alone we can already conclude that they have a very bad approach and it is not recommended when making loans as an alternative when they run out of money, honestly I never thought why there are gamblers who are desperate to make loans just to gamble, as we know that gambling is recommended only for entertainment when you have free time, and if they are willing to borrow just to gamble then I think it's gone too far which means that their goal is not for entertainment but seems to be looking for victory or income.

That's right, it's not only the risk of paying interest on the loan that they're taking that they're going to get if they use borrowed money to gamble but also the very high level of mental and psychological stress if you do end up losing. Honestly, even though they basically have the money to pay all the loans, I think this is a dangerous action because obviously I think if you have tried to gamble with borrowed money then obviously in the future you will also do the same thing when you run out of money, on the other hand this is the point from which many new problems will come, so anyway this should be avoided.

I think it's quite rare for people to have an understanding like yours.
But on the other hand it's a good idea mate, humbling yourself in gambling does have the possibility or potential to eventually enter into a more logical consideration to choose something better. This idea of "I'm a loser, I never win and luck is so far away from me" is a good one, because usually people will continue to gamble because they seem to have a motivation that can encourage themselves to continue gambling and achieve all these great things that are basically nothing more than their hallucinations as a result of having too high expectations. I think that some of them, especially those who find it difficult to win, should try this idea of yours, my friend.

True, to be honest I think most people including me also do the same thing as you do but maybe it is done only by people who are familiar with some of the sites they have tried, because after all usually the ToS that is displayed is not much different, a list of accepted cryptocurrencies and also with a minimum/maximum amount of withdrawal as you mentioned, of course they only read a few things they need which of course can facilitate them during their involvement. But on the other hand I think for new people who have certainly never been involved in any kind of online gambling before I should advise them to read all the ToS that are displayed, after all an understanding of some knowledge related to the casino they just entered is important for the initial stages of involvement.

But unfortunately most of them are influenced by influencers or YouTubers who broadcast something that looks like very tempting and since the number of shows like that clearly makes people more interested in gambling because they see the winnings of the stremer as very easy, even though on the other hand as you said that their role is nothing more than a partner who helps casinos to promote gambling sites with the aim of finding more audience. On the other hand, in my opinion if they (who have never known about gambling) in common sense they should be able to put suspicions about what exactly is behind everything they see, logically if indeed the stremers or influencers can really make large amounts of money very easily then why do they have to broadcast or show it in the public eye? of course in my opinion from that alone we can already put suspicion, unfortunately most people do not think that way, especially for those ordinary people who are finally tempted and involved for the sake of a big win that they think is really easy to get.

I think most people today spend more time playing social media, not recognizing the age factor, and what is worried is that those who are still underage, of course, this activity can threaten their future.

But on the other hand to be honest I personally quite agree with the idea that the attraction to engage in gambling activities usually likes to come when we are in a boring situation, I have experienced something like that even though basically as you said that there are still other possibilities, yes I agree because there is something out of control that always cannot be predicted regarding several possibilities.

But I think having a lot of busyness is one of the effective ways to avoid addiction, because as we know that the desire to gamble always comes from our minds so that when we have free time, our brains and minds will look for some activities that are quite interesting and one of them allows gambling to be an activity to fill time when the situation is like that. Although you think this method cannot fully minimize unwanted things such as addiction, for me this is one of the most effective ways because honestly I was able to recover from gambling addiction by adding several other activities in my life which certainly made my mind distracted from the attraction to gambling and slowly out of the addiction zone.

Of course, I think this is more of a question that is looking for a more factual statement. I think gambling would really be a problem in a relationship if you are using the budget for the benefit of both of you, like for example you use money for wedding expenses and then you use the money for your gambling habit then obviously it would be a problem in your relationship with your loved one.

The important point is of course as you said that all the problems started from them putting an amount of budget that they could not afford, if only they initially understood about the risks involved in gambling I think they would not be desperate to put money that they could not afford which certainly has the potential for problems. I think you have mentioned a list that is quite appropriate to the facts and possibilities that can occur. Therefore, understanding the risks in any case must be prioritized, do not take it all lightly.

Honestly for the issue of whether they have been cheated or not by the casino I think it is beyond our control and on the other hand for me personally honestly I have never found or even just heard about some casinos that cheat gamblers which certainly makes it difficult for them to be able to win so I think if there is indeed one of them who has difficulty getting a win then I would call that they are very far from luck, I just think it's as simple as that for this issue.

Yes, the inability to accept reality is the main problem that ultimately makes them act out of control usually, which is why we should prioritize understanding the field especially at the beginning of our involvement, I think it's very common that gambling is always about winning and losing. With the right level of understanding especially regarding the possible risks then I think it is less likely for them to make unreal claims of winning, they will be more aware that there is no point in doing so, after all I think winning in gambling is not something that should be bragged about because after all it is natural to lose even if it happens often, you have to go back to the initial understanding that this activity is only about winning and losing.

Absolutely not, in my opinion there is no addiction that is against the law because it is not harming the country but harming ourselves, one of the reasons why countries do not legalize gambling for their people because what they focus on is the dangers of addiction which of course can make people experience many problems in their lives. Anything can happen if you  have entered the addiction phase, things out of control are very possible when your common sense has begun to not work due to the addiction you suffer. On the other hand, it will not only result in the destruction of family relationships but will also harm others when you think of committing crimes such as theft or robbery.

That's right, I think the right understanding is something that every gambler especially those  who just want to get involved, no matter where you gamble because of course the name of the bet always has a level of risk that is usually much higher than the chances of winning. So with that I hope you always listen to some advice from others, especially as you said from those who are experienced, don't close yourself because there will always be regrets when you understand it too late.

Therefore, it is quite difficult to overcome the problem of addiction, especially if it is at a high level, which means that there are no precautions and restrictions on what they do in their gambling involvement, I have also often said in previous posts that those who are already addicted will be able to stop or at least reach a realization when they have experienced the worst thing they feel as a result of their gambling activities that have gone too far in the sense that it is too excessive as you said whether it is losing a very large amount of money or mental damage or also the destruction of the family, of course things that are likely to traumatize them then I believe they will be able to realize and really have the intention to change.

Exactly and of course your idea is correct that gambling is not a place to earn, it is nothing more than a place of entertainment to fill the empty time when you are bored during work holidays, but strangely they always override this fact by saying various reasons that refer to gambling as a place to earn, such as exchanging the pleasure of the thrill you get for a sum of money that you are able to account for. You really have to have a logical point of view and understanding if you don't want to end up like the suffering people who are already addicted.

I will never get tired of saying and suggesting that you should never get your hopes up, especially not with excessive levels of victory, something that you see as tempting is basically nothing more than a temptation that will trap you to be carried away further. You need to be strict in applying some self-control and boundaries as well as being fully aware when the session is already underway, because sometimes even though you have prepared in advance it is always inevitable that you will forget all your precautions when something that looks tempting you find there so you try to take advantage of the situation and end up regretting that it turned out to be a trap.

Awareness and understanding of the possible risks plays a very important role in safety because it prevents you from taking some out-of-control actions that can certainly make you disappointed at the end of the session such as greed for something much bigger.

Yes that makes sense buddy, to be honest I really don't think that the purpose of the city to make more than one casino so that they can increase the number of games that can provide new interest to every gambler who comes, because the logic is of course as you say that with just one casino they  can actually provide as many games as possible, after all, from several casinos that I have visited they already have thousands or even tens of thousands of games while usually gamblers will only enter a few favorite games, and simply I don't think it's possible for them to feel a lack of games with the many games that have been provided from just one casino.

So in my opinion, what makes more sense is the purpose of the bookie to make more casinos, which is obviously one of them that looks striking is that they want  to reach more audiences which of course can increase their income, no more than ordinary business when we have many branches then obviously our profits will also multiply at the same time. The other thing of course is that it makes sense that if a lot of gamblers get a win then indirectly the casino's income will decrease or even go bankrupt, but I think it is unlikely that the casino  will go bankrupt if there are a lot of visitors who come because after all all their algorithm system is regulating  and that is why there are still more losers than winners because the system makes the percentage of winning much smaller than the chances of winning..

Of course, I think you are not the only one who is so surprised by the speed of change experienced by Leverkusen that you say that this difference is like night and day if we compare them now and last season, I agree with that  idea because clearly I think it is the same There was absolutely no previous indication shown by Leverkusen at the end of last season about changes this season.

Truly unexpectedly, Leverkusen management was not wrong in choosing a new coach to replace Gerardo Seoane, since the arrival of Their competitors are top  class teams and are always favored by most people. On the other hand, to be honest, I just hope they can maintain their  consistency until the end of the season because it will definitely be very interesting when we see a new, very strong team involved in hot competition to break Bayern Munich's dominance.

The problem is that awareness will not be easy to achieve when basically in their little hearts they still hope for a victory, maybe you also know that in every session there will always be things that look like tempting when it is nothing but a trap to keep them there, and if basically they still have hope then it is obviously very difficult to think realistically to encourage awareness even though they already know that losing situations always occur at the end of the session or that means disappointing results always dominate.

It is obvious that all gamblers will say "this time I will definitely be able to be one of the lucky ones among the 10 playing on the table" but the fact that happens at the end of the session always slaps them, and I say it is a cycle because of course the next time they will also motivate themselves by putting new confidence in the next session, as I said above that the problem is that they are too excessive in hope and come with the wrong understanding. Exactly, for the situation of people who are already addicted they will recover from dozens of defeats when they manage to get one victory, when in reality the number is not balanced and the number of losses is still far greater. So it is right to say that this is a cycle that will continue to repeat itself based on excessive expectations that of course make them always curious.

Right, and the point is that whatever impact you will experience someday will always depend on how you treat the activity, if indeed you do it in the wrong way and approach then obviously don't be strange if someday you will experience bad impacts as a result, but sometimes it's like there are people who don't realize their mistakes and don't evaluate that the way they do it is really not recommended so they have to experience bad impacts like that. So of course everything really depends on how they treat and address gambling itself, if indeed they come with the right understanding and also with a good level of awareness then I think actually this activity will not really affect the finances in your relationship later, but however overall obviously I would prefer anyone to stop if possible.

Basically the risk of gambling is not only going to have a financial impact but obviously you also agree that this activity has an impact on a relationship which can certainly make them lose trust with their partner, because after all gambling activities are always synonymous with a very negative point of view in the eyes of society, so of course there is nothing better than stopping, there is no other reason because they can do it slowly.

Our goal, especially those in this forum, is nothing more than to remind each other and be able to get a lot of valuable knowledge from the events that have been experienced by others which also certainly has the potential to change ourselves for the better, especially in terms of gambling activities that are very vulnerable to being done excessively, especially by those newbies who have just been involved who of course usually come without the right understanding. Reckless actions or approaches are usually done by beginners due to ignorance of the dangers that are lurking, so of course I am happy to be here at least to share and look for some good references from other people's experiences.

So anyway we should be able to prevent some of the potential bad things like you mentioned from happening to us by always applying the right understanding and the right perspective on gambling, because only then can we encourage awareness to stay in our minds when we are in a gambling session which can certainly prevent some out of control things from happening. On the other hand, this forum is very helpful for me because I as I said above that we can exchange ideas with others and learn from other people's experiences so that the bad things they experience do not happen to us, isn't that beneficial?

Of course, such people do not take into consideration from various sides from the start, I think they are too focused on their lusts so desperate to carry out a marriage that is not based on careful preparation in any case, especially financially.

Honestly, I see that it is not uncommon for some young people to get married at an age that is too early and below the average in general, seeing from that alone we can actually see and judge that in terms of personal and mental readiness, it is actually still not qualified for people who are still around 20 years old because their mindset is still fairly immature, And also clearly in terms of finance if they are born from ordinary people (not one of the rich families) then I think it is unlikely for them to have enough finances to support their small family later, so it is not uncommon and even very often some couples who end up failing or divorcing at the age of marriage that is not too long due to finances that do not meet all needs. Love is important for a strong bond but money is equally important for a decent life.

Yes, your statement is very possible and makes sense to be used as a reason why there are some gamblers who blame others for their gambling involvement, losing is one of the factors that makes them feel frustrated and upset, of course something out of control is very likely to be done when gamblers are in such situations, one of which is of course blaming others is one of the things that can happen.

Yes in gambling it should be the risk that should be more understood than the chances of winning, because after all if we are lucky then we will also be able to get the same winnings as others get, but unfortunately they don't think about this, in my opinion it's because they are too ambitious for a win, like you said that they think they will be able to get the number of wins like others they see, when in fact such results will not always happen for you. So basically I think it's the misunderstanding of the concept of gambling and how luck works that's at the heart of the problem if you're involved in a purely luck type of gambling. I think that's good advice, if you or they are more focused on winning then it's better to be involved in sports betting only because the percentage of losses will not be too high and you can get closer to winning if you have good enough skills.