It's a game of chance that we can't predict accurately and in detail what will happen in our gambling sessions, for example in sports betting we do have the opportunity to apply knowledge and skills to achieve a satisfactory result, but still this is nothing more than a hope based on knowledge applied through analysis of a team, overall everyone will definitely choose a team that is much stronger and favored but not everyone will fully get the results that they think from the beginning.

As you said, everything is unexpected and it is not uncommon for us to see some strong teams that lose when dealing with teams that are far below them, because some things that happen on the field will really be very influential for the results at the end of the match such as for example what our friend said above about one of the teams experiencing a red card and obviously this will cause the match to run unbalanced which means the chances are getting smaller and the possibility of defeat becomes greater. So the point is that gambling is always synonymous with something that is completely unpredictable and often happens unexpectedly.

Yes that's right, I also understand that everyone has different experiences in their gambling activities and all the impact they feel comes from the approach they take which is based on the understanding of each individual, of course it's true that understanding the risks in gambling is very important and should be the first point to pay attention to, as I said earlier that gambling is nothing more than a playground that involves money as capital and there is a prize object at the end of the session if you are lucky enough.

And this means that there is absolutely no certainty for the final result because after all this is gambling which means nothing more than a game of chance and this is also the reason why gambling should absolutely not be used as a place to earn. On the other hand, it is the mindset that really must be correct in this matter, understanding that gambling is a playground that does not have any element to produce because everything there is random, and this must be a concern and emphasized in consciousness so that we can become healthy and safe gamblers in the approach we take.

It's a really concerning situation when gambling is getting more and more popular and rampant and it's obvious that it's the young people or the younger generation that will play the role of potential players, players along with being victims in the end, after all gambling is an activity that has great risks and should not be taken seriously, otherwise it's clear as the OP said that this will involve many other problems coming up and one of the most dangerous is when young people are no longer interested in doing other activities such as school or work for their own interests and only want to win from their gambling dedication. On the other hand parents or teachers do have quite an influential role in this or maybe some other close people, but I think it would be easier to overcome this if the government gets involved by implementing any policy that aims to limit them, because what is worried and what is guaranteed is that the future of young people will be destroyed because of this problem.

Exactly, this is the main point, you can reach a conclusion from some advice that often comes to you, I understand that maybe not everyone will think like you when getting some advice or input from other people or people closest to them, because there are also those who really think that all this is a nuisance for them, but if we try to reconsider it again with common sense and rationally the fact is that their advice is the best thing to do.

Especially if it is the advice of a relative or family member because obviously they must be very concerned about your safety and have concerns that maybe if they don't advise you then you will become one of the addicted gamblers along with experiencing the bad effects of addiction. So the point is that we should really be able to consider first about any advice that comes before finally deciding, and also to minimize regret at the end when we feel that what they said before was right.

We are in line, what you said is in line with the understanding I have about gambling, I really can't think and question why people think that gambling can be made into a profession or a job to earn, I would rather support the idea that you said that indeed gambling is nothing more than an activity to fill spare time when we are bored and nothing more than that, the reason? obviously because there is absolutely no certainty there and everything there is running randomly to determine the outcome, doesn't that mean the final result cannot be known? obviously, then what is their reason why they can think that this activity is productive? unknown because they are the ones who have the reason and I am sure that people who have this assumption are those who have entered the addiction phase so that they make something that makes no sense like a natural thing.

Another question is, if gambling can make money then why do so many people suffer huge losses until they lose everything? This is one of the reasons and the main point why I never thought that gambling could be made into an income, no matter where you gamble but still everything called gambling is always unpredictable about the results because everything there is random and there is no consistent victory at the end of each session.

A very good question my friend, I think the first thing you should prepare before entering gambling is to prepare money that you are able to account for any results, meaning that it is more advisable for you to put a small amount such as 1% - 5% of the amount of your salary income, besides that what is more important is that you really have the right and correct understanding of what gambling actually is along with the basic concepts, One of them is that you must understand that gambling is a probability activity that has absolutely no certainty whatsoever for the final result that can make you smile, therefore never put any hope in winning because everything there is random and what is worried is that you are very likely to act carelessly when you feel emotional because the final result does not match what you want, and this is also the reason why you should put the amount that you can be responsible for.

In gambling winning or losing really can't be known in advance and you will only find the answer when your session is over, my advice is when you win then don't overreact to it, maintain your awareness of the understanding that gambling is a game of chance and with this then the best decision is to cash out as soon as possible and enjoy it, Think of it as a reward for your dedication to gambling, don't take victory too seriously because this will make you act greedy, and also if you do lose then just consider the money lost as a form of game fees that you have played there, that's all.

It makes sense what you said, as you said and it makes sense that most gamblers come with the reason of wanting to multiply something that they bring, and when they see something like an opportunity then there will be absolutely no patience that plays a role there because it is a good opportunity according to them to take in order to achieve the goal of winning that they want from the beginning, And also on the other hand if the gamblers have good patience then I think it's less likely for them to end up with addiction, but the fact is that the number of gamblers who enter the addiction phase is increasing, it's because they can't hold their emotions and can't control themselves so that means patience is one of the things that is always ignored.

I'm pretty skeptical that they can really be patient if the initial goal is to win, even if you have pretty good patience in terms of waiting for the final result but honestly like I said above I doubt if you can be patient when the final result is not what you want, because it's clear that their goal of gambling is to win which means there are expectations that they carry that will make them feel disappointed if it doesn't match what you want, I think this idea of applying patience would make more sense if you gamble without the goal of winning.

But in my opinion, the negative point of view of the community on gambling will still persist and most likely this negative point of view will continue to persist until an unspecified time, because obviously the risk of gambling will still be there and this is what the couple is afraid of, namely when the gambling committed by one of their partners is no longer helped over time or in the sense that it has entered the phase of chronic addiction, the impact will be felt by all family members there.

On the other hand, I agree that communication is indeed one of the good approaches in terms of maintaining good family relationships, having good communication along with being able to balance a good mindset between the two parties will be useful for solving any problems that occur in the relationship, and on the other hand I really hope that they will be able to consider gambling activities from various sides, especially in terms of adverse effects and discuss rationally to find the best decision.

It's all a choice and I hope that whoever it is will be able to choose a decision that is really based on a good consideration of common sense, because most of the time I see gamblers they take a large level of risk but without any consideration at the beginning before making a decision so that there is absolutely no responsibility in their involvement until the final result is actually answered, and usually this is what makes gamblers act out of control because they cannot be responsible for whatever will happen at the end of the session.

No matter how big and how small the risk you want to take is basically all up to you and depends on yourself whether you are able or not to accept the reality at the end of the session, if indeed you are able to even go ahead and do not let you create decisions that will only trap yourself, in the sense of making decisions that are not considered with common sense which in the end makes yourself emotional and act out of control. Emotion is one of the driving forces that usually leads to disappointment, and yes it is true that this activity is basically just for leisure to get some entertainment when you are bored, and should not be taken seriously.

Of course it is true, because indeed responsibility has a big influence in gambling activities, one of which is by putting a small amount that does not matter if in the end it is lost, we will never know whether at the end of the session we will win or lose again, and the other thing is that if we do not have good responsibility in gambling then obviously usually this is the starting point for someone to fall into the addiction phase with the initial scenario of not being able to accept defeat at the end of the session after which they put a larger budget amount which in fact this action will only make the situation worse with the amount of your loss which will be even greater.

On the other hand I'm sure all gamblers don't want to end up with addiction because this is the highest point gamblers experience in their lives due to the impact of wrong gambling, one of the impacts as we know that financial balance will be lost even to make you run out of all the valuable assets you have and end up with a person who has absolutely nothing. Therefore, being a responsible gambler is more advisable because this is a healthy approach that can keep us safe.

Yes it is a ridiculous thing that most gamblers do when they are new to gambling in the sense that they are still very ambitious to get the big win that they always hope and dream about, but for myself honestly I never if I spend  the entire salary that I get for working a month at the expense of full sweat just to get the money, it feels too much and  like risking my own  life because by doing so it is the same as telling myself not to eat for a whole month.

But yes I understand that all  gamblers have different experiences as a result of the approach they take to their gambling activities and maybe you are one of those gamblers who are very excessive and aggressive in pursuit of a big win at the end of the session, but it doesn't matter because every incident will always have a lesson if you are willing to learn it and you have really felt the regret. For one thing, I hope you've felt the regret and agreed with yourself that you won't make the same mistake, after all gambling is nothing more than a playground that involves risk and there is an object in the end result that acts as a prize.

Your statement is very good and I am one of those people who share your point of view about gambling, to be honest I don't care what kind of gambling you are involved in whether it's pure luck or some sports betting which does require some skill and knowledge to be able to increase the percentage of winning chances to be closer, but that's not the point. One thing and as you said that self-control along with some other limitations are very important in gambling and I think all gamblers should not ignore this point.

I understand all of them want a winning situation to increase the amount of wealth possible, but doesn't everything have to be balanced? What I mean is that you are not advised to only focus on one side in gambling such as the chances of winning because the possibility of losing is also something that should not be ignored, you must have a formula to minimize the risk of losing in addition to the goal of getting a win because the risk of addiction cannot be completely avoided. Yes, it is true that it is not easy to do so but I think that if they have a proper understanding of gambling, it should not be difficult for them to implement many precautions because all of this is also for their own safety, of course, responsible gamblers are healthy gamblers who can keep themselves away from potential addiction.

Yes I agree with your idea, basically putting hope in a win at the end of the session will only make you feel excessive disappointment, why? obviously the reason is because in gambling there is absolutely no certainty and any guarantee for gamblers to get a win, putting hope is also one of the starting points or causes of someone ending up with addiction, I can already confirm that you have the wrong approach to gambling just by looking at the way you do it.

Believe me that this idea will only make the situation worse, you really have to change your mindset and point of view on gambling by getting back to understanding everything correctly, first you have to understand that gambling runs randomly in determining who will win in one of the sessions and this is also quite dependent on the luck you have, and the second is that it means absolutely no certainty and guarantee of anything to earn. The fear is that eventually you will not be able to accept the final result that does not match your expectations and after that you will usually act out of control based on emotions such as putting a larger amount to catch up with the loss, and this is one of the approaches taken by gamblers who will end up with addiction.

Yes, this is intended to emphasize preventive measures, I am sure that all gamblers will never want to lose or suffer losses, but unfortunately most gamblers cannot pay more attention to preventive measures so how can they possibly minimize the risk of losing if basically they always ignore some precautions. Of course that's true, and I think in gambling there is nothing more important than precautions.

In fact, you can win at any time in a certain amount if you are lucky enough, but what is more certain is that you are very likely to experience consecutive losses if you cannot control everything and also apply good limits and self-control. However, being a healthy gambler in gambling activities is better than those who are too aggressive and end up addicted, all of this is for your own interests and safety too, because since we don't do it then who will? This means that other people will never care about what we experience in the gambling activities that we do, and maybe they will only come when we are lucky by getting a winning amount.

I think one of the more definite reasons why they find it difficult to stop is because they pin their hopes on winning at the end of the session so they will never stop before getting the win they want, but the fact is more than this, namely even if the gambler manages to get the win they want. they  want but there are still other possibilities that they can do and one of them is applying greed to situations like that, which means they want to win a much larger amount, and this is a gambler who is addicted, whatever the situation they really don't will never be able to be grateful for what they get.

Simply put, when they win they will be greedy and when they lose they will become more curious  because they are unable to accept reality, and in most cases usually the people who are unable to accept defeat are those who end up gambling based on emotions by chasing something. which has been lost. This is why we are always advised to be responsible gamblers by only placing an amount of money that we can afford, because this is what can minimize all possible risks that are much greater, this method does not always work but I hope we remain consistent and firm. because with this you will get used to implementing many restrictions for your own good.

Yes, as many people say, it is not easy to stop gambling activities, even if for example you have stopped and managed not to touch gambling for some time, there are still memories and feelings of curiosity that can be an encouragement for you to try your luck again. and finally everything returns to the initial situation where you will start to have difficulty again stopping or ignoring the activity even though your goal is only for recreation.

Online gambling gives all gamblers the freedom and convenience to get involved whenever and wherever they are and of course I can confirm the statement you made that housewives usually have more time at home because their work is not too heavy and does not require a lot of time to complete. homework, therefore it is possible that when they are already in a boring situation without any activities they have the possibility to try their luck, I think this is a possibility that has quite big potential.

Your statements and ideas advise gamblers to take much bigger risks in order to win big, I would ask if that will really pay off? we have to agree that gambling is about the chance of winning and the risk of losing where there is never any certainty about the final result, and if you put a large amount of money with the aim of getting a big win then what if it turns out that at the end of the session you lose, isn't the amount of the loss much higher? bigger than you put in a small amount? Obviously this is a possibility that could happen at any time.

Therefore there is absolutely no other best advice apart from always using a small budget amount or essentially an amount that you can afford to be responsible for losing at the end of the session, gambling is not a place to make money because there is absolutely no certainty or guarantee of being able to win, even if you Having good enough skills and knowledge, there is still an element of loss in gambling if luck doesn't come at the same time, therefore prevention is always the best thing than cure.

And luck is something that is beyond human control, no one will ever know when they will be lucky enough to win and this is why more people experience defeats than wins because it is very difficult to be lucky in a row. That is why it is better for us to focus on applying boundaries and self-control because basically it is useless if you focus too much on winning but luck is always difficult for you, but in the end you will lose.

If you are involved in sports gambling then yes I understand that your knowledge and skills are needed there because it can increase your chances of winning closer, but still you should not be too confident and raise your expectations because after all the luck factor is still in play. need there, it's like a combination of skill and luck to produce victory, but as I said above, what is always the problem is that we never know when we will be lucky. Of course, as you said, gamblers must have a good mindset by understanding the concept of gambling, with this, I think they will not dare to act recklessly, such as chasing victory for something that basically has no certainty.

Honestly, I have experienced a situation like this when I could still be said to be quite new to the world of gambling and didn't really understand what gambling actually was, especially about the chances of winning and possible risks. At that time I worked at a goods delivery place and I had the task of being someone who was responsible for delivering goods to consumers. Every day I sent ordered goods to the people who ordered them and in short there were several people who paid by making transfers via account because they do not have fiat money. Long story short, some money went into my personal account which was basically company money that I received from people who ordered goods, after that one of my friends bragged about the big win he got from gambling on a type of slot machine and in the end I was really tempted and gambled with that money with the same belief expressed by the OP that I could win from a large multiplier.

But in the end, maybe you already know what happened to me, all the company's money disappeared in an instant and that really made me unable to say anything and just contemplating in the corner. This is one of the incidents that traumatized me in my gambling involvement which also ultimately made me not dare to use other people's money to gamble just based on beliefs that may not necessarily be in accordance with reality, however this is a good lesson and I hope we can be more careful - Be careful in every decision you make.

Yes, of course, and this is also one of the reasons why it is very difficult to cure gamblers from addiction. If people say that they have difficulty curing someone who is addicted, whether it is someone else or one of their friends, then that means it is a gambling addict who wants to they cure are people  who absolutely do not want to stop their gambling activities, as I said before that basically this is a good action and leads to much better changes but in terms of achieving success it will not be as easy as turning the palm of your hand.

And also yes, I think it is a logical idea that if we push too hard on advice or assistance like this, even though it leads to good things, it is possible that in the end the gambling addict will feel uncomfortable and they will say that we are interfering too much with their freedom. they are choices, and this means that sometimes even though we care too much about other people there are still some people who don't want to accept help from other people because as I said, gambling addicts are those who have the wrong mindset in gambling but they think that what they doing it is not wrong, all this happens because they  have not been able to reach the level of awareness in their common sense. Maybe we  can only wait for their awareness to emerge, usually it will appear if they have experienced adversity that really makes them feel traumatized.